*Update*Husband resents ride time? Post 126
I've been riding for nearly a year now. I started out riding once a week and I rode right after work came home after I rode, didn't dwadle much. I got lax and started hanging out after my lessons and they increased to twice a week. We discussed it when he started getting mad at the time I was gone from home. Issue fixed. I went back to coming home straight after lessons. I've since moved barns and am back to once a week lessons. Today I broached the topic of perhaps taking 2 lessons a week once in a while starting this week. He absolutely had it out with me. Just angry "I'm always stuck with baby and I'm always taking him with me" I was pretty certain that we divided our time equally. The only time he is "stuck" is the one evening a week I ride. This Friday we both went out seperately, I went to dinner then came home and he left to go out with friends. Even split. The only time this ever comes up is when I talk about riding. I'm at a loss of how to tackle this because I thought we were over it. I think it would be easier if he had a hobby too but he doesn't.