I'm totally mystified. You think the BO/ the BO's staff sneak around and hide and watch what you do while you're on the BO's property? for what purpose? and one wonders what it is that you do while out in a rather public place that you don't want them to see you doing??? I can't recall ever expecting to have privacy at the barn, and acting accordingly. Well, ok, maybe once or twice I wiped my nose on my sleeve when I thought no one was looking, and we would sometimes change in the tack room and hope for a bit of privacy during that event.
The spying is the BO's staff, and himself. It isn't just me it happens to, but I do resent it bc I see it as meddling in my privacy.