Jingles for Irish Ei's

[2hsmommy]

Our dear friend Irish Ei's needs our jingles. Her family suffered a tragic loss, the passing of her daughter Nicki.
Please pray and jingle for our Irish, she'll need our collective strength.....

jingle jingle jingle :cry:

Rest in peace Nicki :cry:

[Heineken]

Jingling!

[Countryhawk]

Hugs Irish. With you in our thoughts and prayers.

You got the phone call that no parent wants to get.

[ponymom64]

Hugs to you dearest Irish. You are in our thoughts and prayers

Godspeed Nickie

[squeezix]

Oh my, that is terrible news indeed.
My prayers go out to this lovely-cyber-horsewoman and her family.

[mroades]

Jingles from SC

[gillenwaterfarm]

My prayers are with your family Irish.

[Limerick]

{{{{Hugs}}}} to Irish. Good bye Nicki. :( :(

[Renn/aissance]

Godspeed, Nicki.

{{{{{{{{{{{{Irish}}}}}}}}}}}}

[Kerrysmom818]

Jingles from IL.

Godspeed Nickie

[pony4me]

Deepest condolences for Irish.

[MyGiantPony]

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that!

Jingles.

[Oldenburg Mom]

Dearest Irish ...

Saw this and all I can say is huge big warm hugs. I wish there was something I could do to comfort you at this time.

Hang on to the good memories... and lean on Bob for courage.

Hugs hugs hugs and a ton of jingles to you, dear.

C.

[Nauset]

Irish, you are in my thoughts and prayers, dear. Big ((((hugs)))) and jingles to you at this difficult time. Please know you're not alone. May Nicki rest peacefully.

[just_me]

Irish - I'm thinking about you and your family. Godspeed Nicki.

[tangerine_sky]

RIP Nicki

hugs and jingles Irish

[Duffy]

Irish - you have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Godspeed, Nicki.

{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}

[DraftHorsePower]

Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs from ID!

[Irish Ei's]

To say thank you is not nearly enuf.....

[BAC]

I am so sorry, my sincere condolences to you and your family.

[shmeg<33]

:cry: Im so sorry...((((((hugs)))))):cry:

[Patch]

I am so sorry. :cry:

[ESG]

Oh, no. I'm so very sorry.

{{{{{hugs}}}}} and jingles, Irish. We miss you. :(

[Quinn]

Sending healing jingles and wishes. So terribly sorry.

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[BeastieSlave]

There are no words....
I can't even begin to imagine the pain. {{{{HUGS}}}}

[lunatic fringe]

:( :cry: Jingling for you and your's. May God give you strength and grace in dealing with such a horrible loss. :no:

[Equit8tor]

Dearest Irish, you are in my thoughts and my prayers. God give you strength and courage. Please know we are all here for you in any way that you may need us. I am so sorry.

[War Admiral]

Oh Irish, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so terribly sorry.

[onelanerode]

I am so sorry, Irish. :cry:

[M. O'Connor]

Oh no.....I am so sorry!

[witherbee]

Deepest condolences toyou and your family. I cannot imagine what you are going through and I will keep you in my thoughts. Hang in there!

[Riggs]

Dear Irish's lovely daughter Nickie was a horseperson in her own right, living in Florida and about to return home to L.I. last evening.

A tragedy that just seems to know no words for our Irish.

God bless Nickie, and Irish and family.

[2Dogs]

I am so very sorry. Many <<<<hugs>>>>> and jingles.

[circusponydreams]

So sorry, Irish. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

[monstrpony]

So very sorry for your loss. :no: :( :cry:

[mumof2]

I am so sorry! Many hugs sent to the whole family

[llsc]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[Ride'emCO]

Oh, Irish, I'm so sorry. Godspeed, Nicki.

[sspry]

Jingles from KY. Hugs to you and your family.

[zedcadjna]

Irish, From my family to yours, will will be thinking of you, so sorry to hear of your dtr, Nicki, god bless you...

[VirginiaBred]

Irish, for your daughter............



May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face. May the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again, May the Lord hold you in the palm of His hand.



:( :cry:

[Duffy]

I've always loved that one, vb. :(

[relocatedTXjumpr]

Godspeed.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Irish.

[Riggs]

Beautiful VB.

[Skip's Rider]

So sorry about your daughter Irish. Jingles to you and your family.

VB, you said it perfectly.

[jetsmom]

I'm so very sorry for your loss IE.

[Gunnar]

Oh Irish, I am in shock! You are a strong person and I know you will deal with this. We are all here for you and certainly wish there was more we could do! Nicki lived her life to the fullest. From your vivid descriptions of her we all seemed to know her. I am so very sorry!

Just remember my thoughts are with you at this most difficult moment of your life. Please give your family all our prayers and try not to feel alone! As one other poster said lean on Big bob like you never have before!:sadsmile:

Godspeed to you Nicki!:sadsmile:

[The Pie]

I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. I'm so sorry, my deepest condolences.

[Kap]

Hugs and jingles for you, Irish, and prayers for Nickie. :cry:

[sanctuary]

I am so sorry. (((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))

Jingles from NJ

[Seal Harbor]

Irish I'm so very sorry. :cry: Godspeed Nicki

[LSM1212]

Irish.... Hugs, Jingles and Prayers for you and your family in this difficult time. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help. :cry:

[Eventer55]

We're so sorry for your loss. Prayers and good thoughts. . .

From George and Judith

[Moesha]

Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss.

:(

[melliebay Aefvue Farms Chesapeake Bay]

Irish, there are no words strong enough. I am so sorry.

[shade]

Godspeed sweet Nicki, I am so very sorry Irish.

[smokeyhill]

Jingles floating out from AR...hoping that you can find the strenght and perserverance to make it through the rough waters ahead. Lean on the strong souls and spirits of your loved ones, esp. the four-legged variety. Praying for you.

[Leroy Brown]

That is so awful. So terribly sad.

What happened?

[Czar]

So sorry for your loss :cry: My prayers are with you and your's.

[equest]

How heartbreaking. Condolences and many jingles to you, Irish ...

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

I just saw this... I am so so sorry. If there is some sort of donation or memorial, could someone PM me with details?

[Cindeye]

Ei,
You know my thoughts, my prayers and my heart are with you. I leaned on you when I needed the support. Now you lean on me...double and triple weight...because there is simply no comparison to the depth of your loss. I love you and will be here for you any time you need to lean.
Cin

[Louise]

I'm so sorry.

[Showponymom Aefvue Mid Atlantic Division]

Irish, there is no words to say with the loss of a child. You are in my prayers and lots of hugs. Please call me if you need to chat, you know how to get ahold of me. Nicki is now riding in the wind.

Go spend time with Bob, they always make things better in time of need.

[Fred]

dear Irish, you are in my thoughts and prayers during this terrible time. I pray for you to have the strength and courage I know you have.

kick on dear Irish.
love, Gail
xoxox

[CBoylen]

Irish,
I'm so sorry for your loss.

-Chanda

[La Gringa]

I am very sorry for your loss. Jingles for you and your family.

Kindra

[KathyR]

I'm so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[skatepixie]

*hugs*

and

*jingles*

[Kahuna]

Very, very sorry for your loss.:(

[FridayzFortune]

i can't even imagine how hard this must be for you.

endless [[[[[hugs]]]]] and jingles

[AHorseSomeDay]

Irish,

I am so sorry for your lost. :( My deepest condolences. :cry:

[JointVenture]

As a mother, I can imagine the pain but pray to never know it. I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you.

[ParisHillEC]

I was actually on LI at the barn when we got the call...

We are all so sorry, though it dosent seem like enough.

I really want to come back to LI for the funeral

Let us know if there's anything we can do.

[MAD]

Irish, I am sorry for your loss. :(

[MissIndependence]

My family's deepest prayers and thoughts are with you.......we are so heartbroken for your loss.

[ponybreeder]

Oh, Irish, my heart is broken for you. I wish I could do something to ease your pain. I am praying for you and Nicki, and you are in my thoughts constantly. If there is anything that i can do for you, please let me know.

[Rivermeer]

So sorry for your loss!

Heather

[debsinsb]

I am so sorry for your loss. Good thoughts and prayers to you and all those who knew and loved Nicki.

[cartera45]

I am so sorry for you loss. My thoughts are with you.

[copper bay farm]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've just returned from the funeral of a wonderful lady who left us too soon as well. My heart aches for both families tonight.

[Quin]

It saddens us, but we know and accept that our animals are likely to die before we do. But never our children........

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} to your and your family

[Petalstorm]

There are no words that can express the sadness that I'm feeling for what your family is going through, only the knowledge that every mother has for what pain you must be in. I am so sorry for this terrible loss.
Sending you prayers from the Rockies...
God bless.

[Wanderluster]

Oh Irish, my heart is breaking as I send you this note of condolence. It is simply unimaginable to all of us who have children to hear about your loss. I wish you well and will keep you in my prayers.

[RNB]

Condolences and (((((((((hugs)))))))))) from VA!!!:(

[Chef Jade]

I am truly sorry for your loss. :cry:

[oleary157]

Irish,

I'm unbelievably sorry for your loss. Jingling from my neck of the woods!

hugs!

[wesierobb]

Deepest thoughts for the comfort and ease of passing time after this unthinkable agony.

[RockinHorse]

Irish Ei's,

I am so very sorry for your loss.

[crackerjack]

I'm so so sorry for your loss:(

[All points]

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

[JenRose]

So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you tonight.

-Jennifer

[Instant Karma]

I can't find the words to say how sorry I am....

[num1train]

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dana

[farfel]

I am so sorry for your loss.


Heather

[Vandy]

I am so very sorry for your loss - there are no words. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[Sherry]

Irish.....I am so sorry. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

Many hugs,

Sherry

[blton9th]

Please know we are all here for you. So sorry for your loss. You, and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

[laskiblue]

I'm so very sorry. :cry:
Laskiblue

[Mozart]

It is incomprehensible that one would outlive one's child. I am so so sorry.

[HARROLDhasmyheart]

I am so sorry..and I'm jingling as hard as I can.

[Weatherford]

there are no words...

jingling and praying for you from the emerald isle

{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}

[Noctis]

*hugs* Oh Irish, I am so sorry. Godspeed Nicki.

*may the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, may the rain fall soft upon your fields now, may the run shine warm upon your face. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand*

[sporthorsefilly]

Hugs and prayers from this X-Long Islander. So terribly sorry for your loss.

[backinthesaddle]

There are no words. Only prayers - you and your family will be in mine, Irish Ei's. Godspeed Nicki.

[Addison]

My heart aches for you-I am so very sorry for your loss.

Rest in Peace Nicki.

[Trixie]

So sorry for your loss :( :( :(

[Groom to Priceless]

Our thoughts and prayers are with you . . . we are so sorry for your loss.

[van]

Ei,

We are so deeply sorry for your loss, and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Vanessa and Buddy

[cosmos mom]

It is an unimaginable loss- My sincerest condolences

chrissa

[TQ]

All our thoughts and prayers are with you and Nickie.
Treasure the wonderful memories.
Godspeed Nickie.

[~SweetBriar~Lover]

Jingles from Georgia
GodSpeed Nicki
Rest in Peace

[dcm]

Prayers, thoughts, and jingles to family and friends of Nicki. And a special big <HUG> to Irish. My heart cries for you.

[Irish Ei's]

Deeply Grateful.......
A passionate Horsewoman......

Rode like a Gypsy-Indian with her hair on fire.......

Go, Baby, Go.........

[2hsmommy]

We love you Irish :sadsmile:

[RioTex]

Oh Irish, I can't imagine...

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

[Coreene]

:cry:

Oh no. Ei's, I am so very, very sorry. My heart is breaking for you.

[NoGreatMischief]

How terrible. :cry: My sincere condolences.

[OakesBrae]

I'm so very very sorry...

[Sing Mia Song]

Irish, I am so, so sorry. I wish there was something I could do to help ease the pain.

Here is the poem I treasured when my beloved Mystic died. I hope that it brings you some small measure of comfort to read it, and to know that Nicki and Mystic are galloping through a sunny meadow together this morning.


Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds,--and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless falls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eer eagle flew--
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.

[Boston Chicken]

I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

Hugs to you and your loved ones :cry:

[Gunnar]

Irish, I spent a lot of tears yesterday on your Nicki! Poor Mr. Gunnar walked in to find me in tears and it was your Nicki that I was thinking of. I just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts. It is a situation that is so hard to comprehend. You are so strong and I hope you can get past this. Not so much past it but that you will be OK someday! As much a I have cried for you I cannot fathom how you feel!:sadsmile: :no:

Nicki was a free spirit and I reveled in your tales of her! Peace to you my friend, along with many, many cyber hugs. Try to keep your chin up but if it falls we are all here for you!

We all luff you my friend!

[Equinetech]

Oh Irish, I wish there was something I could say to make it all better.

I'm sending hugs, and prayers from The Rock ((((Irish and family))))

[SoEasy]

Deepest condolences and {{{hugs}}}



I moved this to O/C so that more of us would see and send their love.

[mp]

I opened this thread, thinking it would be about a sick or injured horse. And found real tragedy.

I can't even imagine your pain. I am so sorry.

[GansMyMan]

So, so sorry for you. Peace and comfort to you and yours. Speed and joy in freedom to Nicki, who will not be forgotten.

[17handtb]

My prayers and wishes are with Irish Eis. Nicki sounds like she was a very special young lady - no doubt her spirit will live on through all those who love her.

I'm so sorry.

[mighty mite]

My very deepest condolences to you Irish. May your wonderful daughter rest in peace.

[Jane]

Eileen,

I am so sorry to hear this. :(

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

[Reynard Ridge]

Godspeed to Irish's red haired girl.

[Irish Ei's]

Deeply Grateful.....
To know I am Loved.......

Go, Baby, Go........

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

Irish, of course you are loved.

I am just hoping our outpouring helps you in this so tragic time.

[horsesourcetexas]

Ei, you are greatly admired and adored on this board. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and for as long as you need them. Many TX sized hugs and jingles are headed your way. I am so sorry for your loss.

[appaloosalady]

I am so, so sorry. No parent should ever have to bury a child. I can't phathom your grief at this time, but please know that you and your loved ones are in my prayers.

[Horsaholic]

I am so very sorry for your loss Irish..... My heart goes out to you truly.. Godspeed sweet Nicki...I will be thinking of you and your family...

[FifteenOne]

Deepest sympathy Irish, and prayers for you & your family.

[Appy48]

I am so very sorry. Big {{{{HUGS}}}} :cry:

[spookhorse]

So very, very sorry for your loss, Irish, I can't even imagine what you are going through... :(

[mintyfresh]

I can't even begin to understand the pain you are going through but I still wish to offer my condolences on your tremendous loss.

My thoughts are with during this time.

[411]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

[TripleRipple]

jingles from Oregon. I am so sorry this happened.

[horse_poor]

Oh my Dear God-I have not talked to Ei in ages-now I feel like a complete piece of shit friend. Damn damn damn damn damn-I am so so sorry, Ei-I cannot imagine what you are going through-you know where I am if you need me-I have meaning to call but kept forgetting to grab my old cell phone with you number in it because you have been on my mind lately-you and Ronnie are in my prayers

[Emryss]

Sorry to hear of your loss. I hope this comforts you:
http://www.lindaslyrics.com/thedashpoem.html

[Bugs-n-Frodo]

I am so sorry. Big hugs and many prayers. :(

[Galloway]

Hugs, and prayers, and jingles, and more hugs. I'm so so sorry.

[JackieBlue]

Irish, my heart aches for you. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers for a long time to come. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

[jilltx]

I can not imagine the loss of a child. I am truly sorry for your loss and hope you find comfort in your memories of her and strength in the company of friends and family.

Thoughts and prayers from Texas...

[FalseImpression]

As a mother, I cannot imagine what you are going through. You and your family are in my thoughts. Be strong!

[J.Way]

I am so sorry for your loss Irish. You are in my thoughts and prayers....

[2DogsFarm]

Irish;
There are no words to make it right
My thoughts and prayers go to you & your family

[BasqueMom]

There is nothing to say to take the pain away. Just know that the folks
on this board care deeply for you and hold you and your family in their
thoughts.

[millwrightmomma]

I am so sorry to hear of your family's tragic loss.
I do not know what words I could say to comfort you.
May God grant you the strength and courage to continue with each day., until you can find peace of mind and an unburdened heart.

[ThreeHorseNight]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[Goodyfourshoes!]

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[snowpony]

I can only imagine what you must be going through... my very deepest condolences.

[stephjm]

to hear of this terrible loss, Irish. :cry: Be assured you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[Noctis]

adding even more prayers and hugs today for you and your family Irish

[RoyalTRider]

I'll lend you for a little while
My grandest foal, He said.
For you to love while she's alive
And morn for when she's dead.
It may be one or twenty years,
Or days or months, you see.
But, will you, till I take her back
Take care of her for me?
She'll bring her charms to gladden you,
And should her stay be brief
You'll have treasured memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise she will stay,
Since all from earth return.
But, there are lessons taught on earth
I want this foal to learn.
I've looked the wide world over
In my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes
With trust I have selected you.
Now will you give her your total love?
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come
To take her back again?
I know you'll give her tenderness
And love will bloom each day.
And for the happiness you've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should I come and call for her
Much sooner than you'd planned
You'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And someday you'll understand.
For though I'll call her home to Me
This promise to you I do make
For all the love and care you gave
She'll wait for you, inside Heaven's Gate.

[4Martini]

I am so sorry for your loss.

I lost a great friend this spring and had to watch my husband who was with him at the time and his family deal with the loss. And when it was too much to deal with and I didn't know what to say I would go to the barn and see my horse. And his mother did the same thing. And while I'm crying as I write this since the pain is still there, it helped. Because sometimes you want to talk about it and sometimes you don't but you still don't want to be alone. Lean on those who are around you- they want to be there for you and anything they can do to help you out will help them heal as well.

RoyalTRider your poem was beautiful!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

Do you think it would be possible to send a joint donation in Nicki's memory from us here at COTH BB to a charity especially near and dear to Irish's heart?

horse_poor, I feel like a shit friend too.

[Holly'er Than Thou]

Oh, Irish, know that we're holding you and your family in our hearts. This is just heartbreaking to hear. Many, many hugs & jingles for you & all who love and mourn your darling daughter.

[VirginiaBred]

Here is some information about the services for Nicki, and Memorial information as well:
I don't think Irish would mind that I posted this here:

[Irish Ei's]

Thank You VB dearest.....
To remember Veronica.....
Wear purple and bling and Lace...
A pink cowboy hat and more silver rings than you have fingers...
Why walk when you can Skip???
And Be.......Forever Young...in your heart.....

Go, Baby, Go......

[Showponymom Aefvue Mid Atlantic Division]

Irish you forgot to say Grab Mane and Kick On!

I love you Ei, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Eli]

So sorry to hear this. She must have been great to go so young.

[Irish Ei's]

Alternating Grab Mane and

GO, BABY, GO!!!!!!

[Mtn trails]

I'm so sorry for your loss Irish. Jingles and prayers to you and your family.

[2hsmommy]

Thank you VB for posting the services information.

Irish, much more hugs and jingles for you and family.

[SBT]

Ei, having just lost my dear grandmother a few weeks ago, I share some of your pain. I also know the therapeutic value of HUGS, well-wishes, and especially the sharing of fond memories. May you hold those memories close to your heart during this difficult time. :sadsmile:

((((((HUGS)))))) to you!

[hopashore1]

Ei, I am so sorry. As a daughter, I would never want to put my mom through the pain of my funeral, that's just never something a parent should have to do. I am sure Nickie is riding off inside the sunset somewhere and is watching over you in your time of pain.

May God bless and keep you always,
May your wishes all come true,
May you always do for others
And let others do for you.
May you build a ladder to the stars
And climb on every rung,
May you stay forever young.

[42 Spots]

To lose one's child is a parent's worst nightmare. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter, Nicki.

[Parysa]

Deeply Grateful.......
A passionate Horsewoman......

Rode like a Gypsy-Indian with her hair on fire.......

Go, Baby, Go.........

Oh, Irish I am so very sorry. This had me absolutely in tears. I'm squalling every time I read it. As a mother, I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are feeling. You are in my prayers. Big ((((hugs)))) to you. You CAN do this. You CAN survive this. We are ALL here for you and if you ever need a shoulder or a hug, please feel free to PM me.

[tradewind]

I know there are absolutely no words, but know in your heart that all of your friends here keep you in their hearts and in their prayers...may God bless you and keep you during this extremely difficult time..

[AstonMartin]

I cant imagine how horrible this time must be, but everyone is here for you, and all my prayers and strength to you through this hard time.

She'll always be with you, as an angel watching over you...

[S4zeus]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Godspeed and best wishes.

[fruitbat]

What a heartbreaking thread to read. I'm a newbie (long time lurker) but I have now come back to this thread for a few days....sobbing each time.


Irish, I'm so very very sorry for your loss. May your lovely daughter be in a beautiful heaven, galloping through fields of green with the wind in her hair and a smile on her face.


My gelding Pops has a purple saddle pad and purple splint boots...I normally dont use them much, but I will be using them every day now...in honor of your daughter.


I'm so very sorry. :cry:

[Freebird!]

I am so, so sorry. I wish there was more I could offer, besides prayers, but you can count on having lots of those.
Bereaved Parents Wish List (author unknown)

1. I wish you would not be afraid to speak my child's name. They lived and were important and I need to hear their name.

2. If I cry or get emotional if we talk about my child, I wish you knew that it isn"t because you have hurt me; the fact they have died has caused my tears. You have allowed me to cry and I thank you. Crying and emotional outbursts are healing.

3. I wish you wouldn't let my loved one die again by removing from your home her pictures, artwork, or other remembrances.

4. I will have emotional highs and lows, ups and downs. I wish you wouldn't think that if I have a good day my grief is over, or that if I have a bad day I need psychiatric counseling.

5. I wish you knew that the death of a child is different from other losses and must be viewed separately. It is the ultimate tragedy and I with you wouldn't compare it to your loss of a parent, spouse, or a pet. This one is just the worst in my eyes.

6. Being a bereaved person is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't stay away from me.

7. I wish you knew all the crazy grief reactions that I am having are in fact very normal. Depression, anger, frustration and hopelessness and the questioning of values and beliefs are to be expected following a death.

8. I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over in six months. The first few years are going to be exceedingly traumatic for us. As with alcoholics, I will never be cured or a formerly bereaved but forever be recovering from my bereavement.

9. I wish you understood the physical reaction to grief. I may gain weight or lose weight, sleep all the time or not at all, develop a lot of illness and be accident prone, all of which are related to my grief.

10. Our child's birthday, the anniversary of her death, and the holiday are terrible times for us. I wish you would tell us that you are thinking about them on these days and if we get quiet and withdrawn, just know that we are thinking about them and don't try to coerce us into being cheerful.

11. I wish you wouldn't offer to take me out for a drink, or to a party; this is just a temporary crutch and the only way I can get through this grief is to experience it. I have to hurt before I can heal.

12. I wish you understood that grief changes people. I am not the same person I was before my child died and I will never be that person again. If you keep waiting for me to be back to my old self you will stay frustrated. I am a new creature with new thoughts, dreams, aspirations, and values. Please try to get to know the new me; maybe you will still like me.

13. Please don't tell us she is in a better place. As her mommy and daddy there is no better place then in our arms. We know you mean well but....
I did want to share the following:

[claire]

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Bumpkin]

I am so sorry IE. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

Irish....just thinking of you today. Sending hugs.

[VivaBaby]

My deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my prayers.

Peace to your hearts.

[Anne FS]

Irish, I am so very, very sorry. God bless you, Nicki, and all your family. Sounds like Nicki packed so much living in to such a short time.

<<And when you finally fly away
I'll be hoping that I served you well
For all the wisdom of a lifetime
No one can ever tell>>

From Forever Young (Rod Stewart).



May the good lord be with you
Down every road you roam
And may sunshine and happiness
Surround you when you're far from home
And may you grow to be proud
Dignified and true
And do unto others
As you'd have done to you
Be courageous and be brave
And in my heart you'll always stay
Forever young, forever young
Forever young, forever young

May good fortune be with you
May your guiding light be strong
Build a stairway to heaven
With a prince or a vagabond

And may you never love in vain
And in my heart you will remain
Forever young, forever young
Forever young, forever young
Forever young
Forever young

And when you finally fly away
I'll be hoping that I served you well
For all the wisdom of a lifetime
No one can ever tell

But whatever road you choose
I'm right behind you, win or lose
Forever young, forever young
Forever young ,forever young
Forever young, forever young
For, forever young, forever young

[Ghazzu]

I opened this thread, thinking it would be about a sick or injured horse. And found real tragedy.

I can't even imagine your pain. I am so sorry.

Just so.
My condolences, Irish.

[scotchie]

I am so sorry- I am sure your daughter is playing with all our old four legged friends who were at the gate welcoming her. <<hug>>

[hunt_jumpfl]

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

[BelladonnaLily]

I'm so very sorry for your loss, Irish.

Amy

[Sannois]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss! There are no words at this time to ever comfort. God Bless you dear.. :(

[One Star]

May your Irish Eis one day dance again with joy. Until that day when you can laugh and not grieve, draw strength and comfort from those around you who truly love you, and loved Nickie for the beautiful girlchild she was.

You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

With love and affection,

One Star

[Irish Ei's]

Thank You Snowy....I hadn't seen it yet......
Hard day....

[LouLove]

Hi Irish,

I am so sorry that this has happened.

I don't know you or Nicki, but from the outpouring here you and your daughter must be very special people.

Your heart and bravery will pull you through. Just when you think that you can't take it anymore, something will happen that will give you the strength to move on. It may be something that someone says to you, or a bird taking a branch to their nest. It might be a sweet breeze that passes over you on a late May day. Life is beautiful and tragic and your daughter will be yours forever, and until you meet again, on horseback over the sky.

Hugs to you and your family during this exhausting time.

[summerhorse]

I'm so sorry to read of your loss.

[maxiford812]

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family now and in the coming months.

[ReSomething]

I am terribly sorry and my thoughts are with you at this sad time.

[Cashela]

I'm so sorry:cry: *HUGS*

[J Swan]

My condolences on the loss of your beloved child.

[mairzeadoats]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. No words suffice...

[equinelaundry]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.:cry:

[Parysa]

Irish, I just wanted to let you know that I have been praying for you today. The moment I woke up this morning I began praying that you would have the strength to face the day. We won't forget you. And should you ever need to remember or grieve with friends, please feel free to come over to the forum in my sig. It's all fellow COTHers and we're more than happy to give you shoulders to lean on. :sadsmile:
AnneFS, your post was beautiful.

[Jewels]

My thoughts and prayers for the family and friends. Godspeed. :(

[SLW]

I am so sorry for the passing of your daughter and I cannot begin to imagine the sharpness you are feeling. Prayers of grace and strength being sent your way as you begin this week. (Hugs))

[Fessy's Mom]

I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter, Irish. :( Peace to you. :cry:

[Rocky]

IE-No words can say enough....

[Irish Ei's]

Sincerely overwhelmed by the Generosity.....Thank You

[MoonBallad]

I'm so, so sorry to hear about this. This is the absolute worst thing you will ever go through, nothing in life is harder or more painful. Just remember to allow yourself your feelings and don't feel that you have to be strong or brave for anyone else. Right now everyone else needs to be strong for you.
Just try to remember that there are so many people here that truely love and care about you and these people will always be right here when you need them.

[TWF]

So deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter. Prayers and jingles for you and your family from Maryland.

[marta]

i'm so sorry for your loss Irish EI's... (((hugs))) to you and your family.

[Sandbarhorse]

So very, very sorry for your loss. :cry: Please let me know if there's anything I can do, I'm not far from you.

[Plumcreek]

So sorry, Irish Eli's.

[fargo]

I read about this only now, what terribly sad news. Know that you are in my and our thoughts. I cannot imagine how you feel. Big hugs and jingles to get you through this sad time. Allow yourself to cry. I hope your horse can give you some support and comfort too. But know that we are here on COTH for you.

(Freebird, how true these statements are, especially the second one. As one to not cry easily I was very grateful when I cried when someone cared and moved me to tears.)

[Scarlet 1]

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

It sounds like your daughter was an extraordinary person and touched so many lives, and I feel for all of the people that loved her and was touched by her enthusiasm for life.

[arabhorse2]

Major jingles and prayers for her family.

I'm so sorry to hear this. :(

[Huntertwo]

My deepest condolences.. A child is not suppose to pass before a parent.
I cannot even imagine your grief. God bless you and your family at this very painful time.

[Gunnar]

Irish, once again I must tell you that you and your family are in my thoughts. As I was out galloping Miss Rosie yesterday your Nicki came to mind! I could just imagine her galloping along beside me! Hope you are OK today and that time will make the pain less acute!

Never fear as we are here!:sadsmile:

[Babs]

Ei - so sorry to hear the news. To someone who has brought me delight on this board, I want to offer you a hand; I am here to lend an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on.

Jingling like crazy as we have jingled before for others we care about ...

[knowonder]

So sorry I am coming to this late--my deepest condolences--you and your family are in my prayers. Godspeed Nicki.

Knowonder

[knowonder]

Irish:

Here are my two very favorite poems dealing with this--I hope this helps if only a little...

Death is nothing at all

I have only slipped away into the next room,
I am I and you are you, Whatever we were to each other, that we are still,
Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way that you always used,
Put no difference into your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow,
laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together,
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me,
let my name be ever the household word that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effort, without the ghost of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was,
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident?
Why should i be out of mind because i am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
just around the corner, All is well.




Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!


Your are in my thoughts and prayers.

Knowonder

[Skeezix]

Dearest Irish,

I have been gone for four days and come back to find out that something unspeakable has happened to a fellow rerider. I am so sorry for your loss. I was gone with my daughter at a horse show, and this post reminds me again just how grateful I am to have her in my life.

Words just don't seem like enough. Lots of hugs and jingles coming your way. Just remember that we are all thinking of you.

[Irish Ei's]

Go, Baby, Go.........

[Twilight]

I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss.

[horse_poor]

Ei, you have been on my mind all weekend and after talking to you and Ronnie last night, you were in my thoughts even more-all day long I have been thinking of you and willing you strength from Minnesota. I know this week is going to be difficult, but please know that you have a whole bunch of people to lean on when you no longer feel you have the strength...

[JumpingPaints]

:cry: I'm so sorry, Irish. I wish Nicki, and you and your family peace.

[Policy of Truth]

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :cry:

[zagafi]

You and your family are in my prayers. My sincerest condolences are with you. :-( Godspeed Nicki.

[Irish Ei's]

Blessings for you all.....


Go, Baby, Go.......

[Gunnar]

Blessings for you all.....


Go, Baby, Go.......

Irish, we luff you!:sadsmile:

[gwenrowdy]

Irish Ei's, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[suz]

words fail me,i wish i could hug you.no,i wish i could turn back time.

[AppJumpr08]

I'm so so sorry... jingling and sending big hugs from new hampshire...

[Tiffany01]

Loffs you.:sadsmile:

[SBT]

Turning the Corner


Her face is but a memory
The sound of her voice, the touch of her hand,
The way her laugh lit up a room.
All is gone, yet seems so close
As if she were just around the bend.

And all she did was turn a corner,
Step through a door, and rise
Higher, faster, amongst the stars,
Delirious and happy to fly.
Soaring high, arms open wide,
To stroke the clouds and touch the sky.

With shining eyes she looks to Heaven,
And the place that awaits within.
She smiles at the sight of angels,
And her voice begins to sing.
Her heart leaps, for she has arrived,
Donned her wings and joined the throng
Of loved ones lost, now forever found.
And if she has a moment, she’ll turn around,
To blow a kiss to me.

A kiss to say that all is well,
That with the Lord she’ll always dwell,
And that, on earth, all come to be
Nothing but a memory.
‘Tis our fallacy.
For surely as the sun does rise,
There is a Heaven where no one dies.

[Hasty]

Ei I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

[amandasnowy]

So sorry to hear about your loss, how awful. Jingling in New England for you.

[Jakeable]

Sincere condolences to you and your family. I'm very sorry for your loss.

[copper bay farm]

Wishing you and your family continued strength.

[jumpforjoy]

I am writing through the tears... my family sends yours its love and support.
---Laurie

[Quinn]

Thinking of you this morning Irish.

After darkness shall come dawn,
After winter shall come spring,
After sorrow shall come gladness,
After death shall come peace.

Not by our own power but by the power of God.

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[June]

Dear Irish,

holding you and those you love, in the Light. I am so very sorry for the heartache

Prayer Continues, always
June

[Irish Ei's]

Please believe how overwhelmed I am by this Very Genuine show of Love....Wear purple and Turquoise, rings and bling.Pink Cowboy hats
Laugh and Dance and Skip

[IndysMom]

We'll certainly wear all our bling today in memory of Nicki.

[RNB]

You're in my thoughts and prayers today! Jingling and sending (((((hugs))))) from VA!

[relocatedTXjumpr]

Irish, you are in my thoughts today.

Hugs from GA. Godspeed.

[hitchinmygetalong]

There is nothing I can say except I am very sorry for your loss.

Peace.

[rtrules]

I wish you enormous strenght and pray that some form of peace comes to you swiftly. You are in my prayers

[Flipper K.]

We're with you, Ei ...

[Instant Karma]

Nothing Gold Can Stay...

Nature's first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf's a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

~Robert Frost

Thinking of you Irish...

[Penthilisea]

My thoughts are with you IE's.

[Black Market Radio]

Ar dheis Dé go raibh a h-anam.

"May she rest in peace"

[fargo]

We're thinking of you, will start wearing bling and purple and turqoise tomorrow. Am wearing rings already. You're in our hearts. Take care, hugs and jingles for you and your family.

[Limerick]

You're in my thoughts and prayers today Irish.

[Showponymom Aefvue Mid Atlantic Division]

Ei, I am thinking of you and your family today. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Talk to you soon.