I am pregnant! Just found out...

[fake name]

I am a regular here on the COTH (under another name) but I need to keep this a secret for a little while. I just found out I am pregnant. /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif I am scared, but so happy! I already have it planned ... pony, leadline, the whole works. This will be perfect. I just wanted to share. Need to keep my identity hush hush, I have several friends here on the board and I have to tell my husband first; so we can spring it on my un-expecting friends next!!

How should I tell the un-expecting father? I was thinking about making it a big treasure hunt. Maybe a candlelight dinner. What do you think???

I am so shocked! By the way, moderators I know you can tell who I am, but keep my little secret just for a day or two. Thanks! It means so much to me. I will reveal myself soon I promise. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[fake name]

I am a regular here on the COTH (under another name) but I need to keep this a secret for a little while. I just found out I am pregnant. /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif I am scared, but so happy! I already have it planned ... pony, leadline, the whole works. This will be perfect. I just wanted to share. Need to keep my identity hush hush, I have several friends here on the board and I have to tell my husband first; so we can spring it on my un-expecting friends next!!

How should I tell the un-expecting father? I was thinking about making it a big treasure hunt. Maybe a candlelight dinner. What do you think???

I am so shocked! By the way, moderators I know you can tell who I am, but keep my little secret just for a day or two. Thanks! It means so much to me. I will reveal myself soon I promise. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[Colin]

Any guesses?

[Louise]

Shhh! I won't even check!

Congratulations and good luck. Have fun telling unsuspecting papa the good news!

I can't wait to find out who this is!!!!!!!

[Heidi]

Fess up Colin, it's you! /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Congratulations! Get plenty of rest in your first trimester, keep crackers by your bed for morning sickness, treat yourself well.

Non-smoking incentive: I must, I must, I must, I must increase my butt!

[Colin]

Well, if she has a husband, that knocks out quite a few spinsters....I mean, posters.... /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[Colin]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Sea Urchin:
OMG - VTRider!!! I'm so happy for you. That's why you were eating all that ice cream at Lexington!<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

VTRider isn't married, SU.....you weenie!

Forget it, Heidi.....It's been MONTHS since I've....well......there just isn't a snowball's chance in hell, that's for sure!!! LOL!
/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[VTrider]

and you will NEVER guess who the father is!

[fake name]

Poor Colin and Vtrider. I am neither. This also is no hoax. Colin is right, since I am married it defintly decreases the odds for some people. Like Jair and Darker Horse... But you won't guess me anyway. I am not THAT popular here on the COTH (though I think I should be /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif )

Thanks Louise! I appreciate it.

So...How should I tell the hubby?????

Ps/ I almost signed my name... oops

[VTrider]

When Becky was telling Jesse she was pregnant - she cooked him a dinner of Baby back ribs; Baby Peas and Baby carrots....Jesse had to guess what the theme of the dinner was...well, that backfired, so Becky and Jesse went and played Win, Lose or Draw downstairs with the Tanners. Becky drew the title to She's Having a Baby.

I know all about 90's TV Trivia!

[Everythingbutwings]

A virtual baby shower! I have been wanting to buy those adorable teensy jods /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif Kennett Square, keep an eye out for the perfect pony!

[Colin]

Well, you will probably be VERY POPULAR by the time we find out who you really are! hehehehe!

Spinster posters who are eliminated:

VTRider
Moesha
Jair
Duffy
Sea Urchin
Rumours Follow
Kennett Square
Slugger
Erin
AHC

humm....there are many more, I'm sure. Just can't possibly think of all of them!

[Lucassb]

I like the treasure hunt idea. You can hide various pony-stuff around the house... little hunt cap, baby chaps, maybe a stuffed pony... box of diapers if he is REALLY unsuspecting...

Would suggest wine (for HIM) or beer in case he needs to steady himself with that candlelight dinner!!!

Which, IMO, should be your last stint of cooking for the duration... he should be taking you out, or buying you ice cream (and pickles, right? Isn't that what you eat when pregnant?) and basically catering to you for the next year at least!!!

[fake name]

By the way: This was completely unplanned. So maybe I should tell him gently. I was also thinking of getting a daddy picture frame and putting his picture in it. This is helping a lot. I am glad I am talking about it, It is helping me actually accept this. Get out of the denial.

Pony, pony, pony I feel it getting closer....

[Colin]

You can't put it in a stall or paddock.... or turn it out in the back yard. That's a tough one. I could never figure that one out, which is why I'm not EVEN going there! LOL

However, I need to stay friendly with young people, so I have SOMEONE to take care of me when I get old!!!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[VTrider]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by fake name:
I was also thinking of getting a daddy picture frame and putting his picture in it. ..<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Awesome idea...have it sitting on the dinner table when he gets home!!!!! Or even place it somewhere randomly in the house!

Are you a newlywed? RolexH - is it you?

[heelsdown]

Make him a cocktail and use the pregnancy test thingie as a swizel stick!

Sorry, I just couldn't resist. Congrats!

[fake name]

VTrider!!! ROTFLMAO!! I know that episode by heart!! too crazy. Maybe that gives my age range away. But no good guessing, I don't want to spoil it... Colin you are too good, I know you are probably sitting there hitting search button on your computer trying to eliminate people. hahaha

I like the baby hunt cap idea. Even the Full House idea it good. maybe we should have a vote after I get more ideas.

My child will be darling. Nothing but the best!! Next year I am ging to the Pony Finals auction. Going to get her the perfect pony. haha

[DebS]

and posted pictures?

guess #1

[Heidi]

DebS, you thinking HN73 thoughts?

Non-smoking incentive: I must, I must, I must, I must increase my butt!

[fake name]

Stop you are not aloud to guess. Just be patient...though I know that is not possible.

He comes home in a 2 hours from work. I need a plan.....

No more guessing!!! I know you are going to get it..You are like spies!!!!!! FBI!!!! CIA!!

[Elghund2]

I had an email from Inverness that said she had passed on going out drinking last night. Could it be?

[DMK]

ooooh Elghund... that one has potential!!!

[CAH]

All I can say is that it is definitely not me! /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[HN73]

GOOD LORD!!!! IT IS NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT ME!!!!!

[Heidi]

If you examine closely the use of punctation marks and the writing style, and despite the denial, there are certain similarities between fake name and our favourite sh*t-disturber, Colin...

Non-smoking incentive: I must, I must, I must, I must increase my butt!

[FirstCry]

ME NEITHER. THATS ALL I WOULD NEED. /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif I think Inverness is a good guess. or RolexH, havent heard any denials from that corner?? /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

Member of the Baby Greenie Support Group of North America

[Alex Trebek]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by heidi-ugh:
If you examine closely the use of punctation marks and the writing style, and despite the denial, there are certain similarities between fake name and our favourite sh*t-disturber, Colin...<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


Can you say "the Immaculate Conception"?!

[marianne]

With my first child, we were not planning at that time to have kids so she was a pleasant surprise. I suspected that I was pregnat and took a pregnancy test at home at 5 in the am. I am an early riser. I looked at the cup and thought it was slightly pink but wasn't sure. Finally I turned on the bedroom lights, woke up my hubby threw it at him and asked him what he thought. That was a shock to him. We still laugh about it.

[Heidi]

Interesting thought Miss Xani, though if there's a turkey baster involved, is it truly immaculate? /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

Non-smoking incentive: I must, I must, I must, I must increase my butt!

[DMK]

You know, I'm all for spreading the Inverness Theory... /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

Is this what happens to women who ride in Gap jeans /infopop/emoticons/icon_confused.gif I've heard about certain chairs in offices, but never even thought about the Gap /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif

[ErinB]

Well, that rules me out. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

~*~
Florida...it's no vacation. Unless of course you like 120 degree weather with 183% humidity that sucks the very slobber from your horse's mouth!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif

[RolexH]

If you will refer to the thread on Hunter Jumper Board "Barns in Metro Atlanta Area" You will see that I have fully committed myself to a weekend of drinking, fun, more drinking, and yes some more fun! Do not fear DMK!! I would not do anythig to jeopordize that. You must not know me very well!!! (But I feel so special to be thought of.) /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Ps/ Go shopping with him, and take him to the baby section. He would get the hint then!!!

~~Lisa~~

[ErinB]

Hey! When is Devildog getting married???

(this topic just reminded me...that's all)

~*~
Florida...it's no vacation. Unless of course you like 120 degree weather with 183% humidity that sucks the very slobber from your horse's mouth!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif

[RolexH]

Aren't you only 14?? I hope you stay ruled out for a while /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif :P

~~Lisa~~

[ErinB]

16 dangit! /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif

~*~
Florida...it's no vacation. Unless of course you like 120 degree weather with 183% humidity that sucks the very slobber from your horse's mouth!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif

[Smart Alec]

"So maybe I should tell him gently."
very good idea
"I was also thinking of getting a daddy picture frame and putting his picture in it."
You know him better than all of us combined but somehow I see shock and horror on his face /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif if you put him in a 'daddy picture frame'.lol! Maybe make the nice dinner and rent a movie (3 men and a baby? /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif) You could tell him at dinner...and something cute and sweet...maybe a baby card of some sort (you could make one?)...or how about a baby bottle in the glass cabinet ('honey can you get 2 glasses out of there?) Congrats to you....best of luck! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Heidi]

Hmm, let's see, as posted by fake name:

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Ps/ I almost signed my name... oops <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


As posted by RolexH:

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Ps/ Go shopping with him, and take him to the baby section. He would get the hint then!!!
~~Lisa~~ <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


Hmmmmmmm.

BTW, venture to the drug store and buy a baby bottle. Ask hubby what he'd like to drink with dinner - hand him the bottle. Must admit I have no experience with mysteriously setting up the news - Hans usually knew before I did that was pregnant.


Non-smoking incentive: I must, I must, I must, I must increase my butt!

[Canter]

Congratulations!!!! Please, please, please sneak just one photo of the look on his face when you tell him please!!!

If anyone is truly CIA on this board, FakeName misspells the word "definately" by omitting the "e" there's a clue in that I'm sure for anyone willing to check the "archives" LOL

Rolex H hmmmmmmmm..... good call Heidi

[Smart Alec]

Rolex does sign her name....Heidi, you are onto something... /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[DebS]

Honey, I'm late.

Not romantic but it does shake them up.
Not that I would know.
/infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

[Tap2Tango]

Break it to him gently!! I like the picture frame idea!~
~Steph

....but the trouble with never is, never, never works........~Tim McGraw

[Everythingbutwings]

Immediately go out and purchase ALL horse related items that you may or may not need for quite some time.

THIS IS IMPORTANT! He will not even notice the expenditure and, if he does, you won't exactly be wearing out the nice new tack for quite some time, will you? That really nice English leather is only getting more expensive, it is sensible to purchase now. Blame it on pregnant hormones.

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[ErinB]

Did a search under "defintly" and RolexH seems to use that spelling QUITE a bit... got over 10 matches. Hon, c'mon, spill the beans and quick!

~*~
Florida...it's no vacation. Unless of course you like 120 degree weather with 183% humidity that sucks the very slobber from your horse's mouth!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif

[ErinB]

And weren't you recently married? /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

~*~
Florida...it's no vacation. Unless of course you like 120 degree weather with 183% humidity that sucks the very slobber from your horse's mouth!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif

[Coreene]

But congrats to you! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[ErinB]

Feeling rather guilty at trying to uncover "Fake Name" here. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif I hope you don't mind, if that's even who you are!

~*~
Florida...it's no vacation. Unless of course you like 120 degree weather with 183% humidity that sucks the very slobber from your horse's mouth!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif

[Blinky]

It's not me.

[AHC]

Maybe TuxWink?

[Robby Johnson]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Colin:
Well, you will probably be VERY POPULAR by the time we find out who you really are! hehehehe!

Spinster posters who are eliminated:

VTRider
Moesha
Jair
Duffy
Sea Urchin
Rumours Follow
Kennett Square
Slugger
Erin
AHC

humm....there are many more, I'm sure. Just can't possibly think of all of them!<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Oh good, I'm still a candidate. /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

How to tell your husband?

Is this your first child? A planned pregnancy? Have you been working on it long? Considering your goal for leadlines, etc., you could clip ads from Practical Horseman (Beval has a cute one of a little s/s class, all girls in pigtails), as well as the leadline saddles clipped from Dover, and put it together in a little book for him.

If he's email compatible, you could do something really fun like send him the link to a maternity company that makes breeches. Tell him you have a little request.

Best luck to you! Babies are wonderful.

Robby

[Everythingbutwings]

Do a search for Terri Kessler! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Duffy has adorable children that are excellent role models in the lead line/short stirrup catagory /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[RumoursFollow]

hehehe!! Maternity breeches. Thats too cute. Congrats, whoever you are! How exciting!!

I LOVE the idea about putting the baby bottle in with the glasses and letting him find that. Thats too precious.

[Hephaistion]

My first thought was Colin!! She would be a fun mom!!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

But now I'm sort of thinking DMK for some reason....I don't know, something about the writing style.... /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

But congrats to you anyways FakeName!!!!! I look forward to hearing how your husband reacts!

[Beezer]

Ah. Now I understand ... there is nothing quite like calling up the BB and having the first page show a topic as being: I am pregnant! Just found out ... Jair.

Gave me quite a start, it did. For a second there, I thought modern medicine was working overtime to make our boy Jair preggers! /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif

But congrats to Fake Name, whoever you are. The only sure thing is, it ain't Beezer. Unless there's something I haven't told myself. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

****Bulletin Board Goddess****

[Blue Devil]

On the updated "who is Fake User" poll--choices include RolexH, MichelleMc, Iverness, Colin, and Duffy.

**~~Emily~~** proud
member of the junior clique!
Emily@catchride.com

[fake name]

Psychos!!!!! Like I said...CIA!!!!! FBI

OKay, so I did it!! He is lying on the bed in shock (happy shock) and I am coming back to tell all of you what I did.

I did a 5 clue scavenger hunt. The first hint was on my Dog ROLEX's collar. It had a little poem and a clue to go look in the vacuum. Then the sugar bowl, then I lead him to the Freezer. There was clue on the "Baby" corn veggie bag. Under it was the pregnancy test. He read the clue and never saw the test!! I set up a video camera on top of the fridge pointing down. I got all of it on tape!! Finally he nearly fainted and then hugged me. He is thrilled. Defintly shocked though.

He is taking me out to dinner. But ladies in Atlanta, especially Eqchick, I guess I have become your official Designated Driver. Eqchick is one of my best freinds in the world she made a bet that I would get prego B4 a year..she won. You all have spoiled it in your "searching" but that is okay... now she can read it here and be suprised this way. hahaha Thanks guys for all of your good wishes. I have so much to think about. I am so happy, and so excited. Everyone think "Little GIRL!!!!!"

Lisa /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

PS/(Colin when are they going to let you off the hook??????)

[AMom]

/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif How fun Lisa!! Congratulations!! I wish I had thought to do something fun and romantic, but I just did the stick thing and he laid on the couch watching tv waiting for the results /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif Of course, I knew within seconds because the two lines showed up on my test instantly--there wasn't any need to even wait the five minutes!

Time FLIES though! I remember posting the "Riding While Pregnant" thread awhile ago and now I am six months going on seven /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif

Wanna half-lease that leadline pony? /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[Beezer]

Congratulations, again!! How very wonderful news for you ... and congrats, too, to all the supersleuths out there. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

****Bulletin Board Goddess****

[DMK]

congrats Lisa!

Not to worry... we may NEED lots of designated drivers /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Heidi]

Congratulations Lisa! How excited you and hubby must be!

There is nothing as special as the first pregnancy and birth. It's a terrifying, joyful, miraculous, and delirious time; and there is nothing as purely joyful as holding your newborn in your arms.

Take care, get a wonderful and compassionate doc (or better yet midwives), and listen to your body.

Non-smoking incentive: I must, I must, I must, I must increase my butt!

[Everythingbutwings]

And the Inverness Problem was gonna be so much fun! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Congrats, Rolex! We will definately do a virtual baby shower! DMK and Duffy can coordinate!

[Canter]

Congrats, congrats, congrats!! Sending you some little girl vibes!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[TuxWink]

It sounds like he took the news wonderfully! And what a fun way to tell him the news! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

(AHC - Hubby has been gone for close to two months on business so my candidacy would be, uh, problematic? /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif )

[Flash44]

Congrats!!! I hope you have a healthy, happy baby who sleeps a lot!!!! and doesn't mind sitting in the pack n' play for an hour while you ride, and doesn't mind the back pack for an hour while you groom tack and cool out!!!

PS - Jrs in the barn are usually great babysitters and will go to shows with you so you can ride while they watch the little one.

[daytimedrama]

You are totally right about the baby sitting, my friend and I spend more time down at the house babysitting the owner's 2 y.o. than up in the barn, but it is fun so it's worth it!

~Christina~
"Chaos is what killed the dinosaurs, Darling!"
JD;Heathers
*Nothing is foolproof to a talented fool.*

[Hailey's Comet]

~Lisa~
I don't know if you will remember me, but I met you last summer, when I went to camp at Denna's. I had the large grey pony (1/2 arab, 1/2 qh) *Hailey's Comet*. Congrats on the baby and on recently being married. Hope all goes well! ttyl byebye Love yas, Laurien Aponte

[RolexH]

Well I just told my parents and his parents. Obviously they are thrilled. My husband's mother has breast Cancer and things aren'ty to well health wise, I know this was the perfect news to hear for her today.

Vtrider. I can't believe you guessed so soon!!!I just have to say you did guess it first. hahaha

My brother works in the ER, so Joey (my husband) and I went down there and asked hime to get us a RX for pre-natal vitamins. He was Shocked, then freaked, then happy.

I am so scared but excited. I wanted to post a picture of me and my husband. I wonder which one the baby will look like. Maybe SHE will have my husband's eyes..... /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

~~Lisa~~

[RolexH]

Just kidding here is us: a cheesy pic from the night before our wedding. You get the picture though /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Thanks you everybody I really appreciate all of you thoughts!!!!

~~Lisa~~

[Baileybff]

Isn't it the weirdest feeling! I think it took me a good week or so to actually realize I was "really" pregnant. Still I don't think I "really, really, really" believed it 'till I started to show. (Belly that is, lol.) I'm so happy for you!
I rode until I was about 7 months, but I would recommend less. That last time I tried to "HEAVE" my fat butt into the saddle, I pulled a stomach muscle, ugh...not fun! Of course I didn't ride for real, just for fun on a good 'ole guy that wouldn't go even if I stuck him with a cattle prod, lol ~ J/k, ha ha!
My son is now 4...yes I'm a YOUNGIN' with a youngin' *24, soon to be an old fogey on August 31st. Yes, a whole quarter century old, lol! Anyway, I haven't pushed the whole horsie issue with him, but he still insists that Buzzy is his "HORSE" and "why are those people riding my horse?" (All this about a 13.1 hd pony, lol) Anyway, they are great! Have fun, get your sleep now...and don't worry, I didn't crave the ice cream and pickles....I went plain and had to have Plums...in season, out of season, it didn't matter, GET THEM, lol! Congrats again! Natalie /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

You're only as good as the judge thinks you are...

[Finzean]

I just did the new mommy thing (daughter is 7.5 mos. old) and I have 2 words for you: Maryland Saddlery! Huge choice of tiny person and tiny pony stuff. I'm currently doing the shopping for a pony thing and having a blast.

You are in for the best ride of your life - without sounding too sappy, my daughter has totally given me a new view on life.

And ditto Heidi's midwife advice - they are awesome. Wouldn't do it any other way.

Anyway - best wishes to you and your hubby! Just a thought....take advantage of the whacky hormone excuse and buy, buy, buy...once the baby gets here no one will care about your crazy hormones and you'll once again be accountable for your actions!!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

_______________________

There is no crying in baseball!!!

[Dolce Vita]

Congrats! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

The pony thing is going to be fun!

.:*Chelsea & Kudos*:.
*soon to be SONNET too!*

[Kryswyn]

Motherhood is the toughest job there is, but if you've been a good parent to your JRT, you'll do GREAT with kids (after all, the kids DO speak the same language!)

Seriously, if you want any tips for getting your JR accustomed to a newborn email me. As Robbie Johnson and I (both, ahem, spinsters as Colin put it) can tell you not all JRs are good with small children automatically, but there are things you can do to introduce the 'new pack member' in a positive way.

Hope you have a GREAT pregnancy!!

~Kryswyn~
"Always look on the bright side of life, de doo, de doo de doo de doo"

[Portia]

Congratulations RolexH and Mr. RolexH! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif

[WHOA!]

AWESOME!!!! Yay, babies! Woohoo!

[WindWhistler82]

Congratulations!!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

*~*Katie*~*

~Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and then beat you with experiance.~

[AHC]

Congratulations!

[Smart Alec]

Congrats...that is awesome you got it all on tape! Just think, when the baby is older SHE will be able to look back on that and see how happy you both were to welcome a little one into your lives. How sweet. /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif Congrats again and best of luck!

[Lucassb]

I take it that at Regionals we will now have to make time to go look at the pony ring so you can pick out the baby's leadline prospects... should be fun!!!!

[MGR]

What wonderful news!!!

I wish you a healthy time with much joy and peace.
May the baby be born with a wee smile
and be healthy wanting to ride th pony.

Get the baby a little stuffed horse to be the first toy it clutches.

Good luck and please keep us updated. /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif

Maria

[VTrider]

Who the first person to guess RolexH was...

Thank you very much /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[neighsayer]

What wonderful news!

And what a wonderful sleuth VTrider is! I bet she gets NO hints at all around christmas time!

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[Wicky]

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[Ethan & Ella's Mom]

Congrats Lisa, let me just tell you, being a new Mom has given me so much joy I can't even begin to try and describe it. My little Ethan is the most wonderful baby and I couldn't ask for more. I wake up each morning excited to get to play with him again, I come home from the barn and can't wait to see him. I just sit there at night and stare at him sleeping. I can't get enough of him. When I found out, I immediately called my husband (after I broke a few things in the bathroom), he was shopping at the mall and I had originally decided I was going to ask him to come home and show him the test, but I blurted it out too quickly and he got really light headed and had to go sit down before he could drive home. We just sat in our living room for like an hour and would say it "we are having a baby" and then giggle and of course the tears were there too. Enjoy the next 9 months or so and take care of yourself and take advantage of your alone time with your husband. It will be a long time before you will have that again once the little one comes around. I'm not complaining at all, I would rather be with my little one then my husband sometimes (hopefully he won't read this) /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[AET01]

That's great!

-Amanda-
Watch out Rolex cause I'm not going to be standing at the line of the 'off limits' section!
If horses could pray, carrots would rain from the sky.
Horses are a girl's best friend.....

[RolexH]

It has been a wild three days!! Yesterday morning I broke down and just bawled my eyes out. I was out of control. Not because I wasn't happy but I think it hit me. (hormones too /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif ) After I got it all out, My Mom took me to this adorable boutique for baby stuff, and bought HER a little angel lamb stuffed animal, and darling little clothes. I Had so much fun. Today, I am just tired and emotionally exhuasted. My oldest brother sent me 7 bouquets of roses and flowers! My house look like a garden.

This afternoon I have my first doctor's appointment. I might actually get a sonogram!!! I can't believe it! I really am overjoyed. I am scared still, but I know this is going to be a blessing from God. I will keep updating everyone!! Maybe scan a picture of the sonogram. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Thanks again!!! Little black pony, little blonde girl, Pink ribbons in her little braids, and Devon leadline! Look out for it everyone /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

~~Lisa~~

hehe I know what u did last night!!!! J/K i just watched that movie and i am really hyper now.

C O N G R A T S ! ! ! ! !
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<Catherine>

[vineyridge]

May you have an uncomplicated pregnancy, an easy delivery, and the perfect child for you.

If she needs a "big sister" to show her the ropes, I'll lease you the beast for a minimal fee...

Don't get stuck in the sludge if you're that confident in your ride!

[Lisamarie8]

You sounds over joyed and i send you my best wishes. While I'm not the most maternal person on the face of the planet i have to admit i felt a little spark when you started speaking about shopping for the little one /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

I wrote something for my mother once that ended with:

I know that being my mother hasn't always been the easiest thing
please know, that nothing has been easier or made me prouder than being your daughter.

Motherhood is an amazing thing...good luck and much love /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif


--If trees could scream, would we be so cavalier about cutting them down? We might, if they screamed all the time, for no good reason.

[Finzean]

See you there! I'm off to Maryland Saddlery's website to shop....gotta find one of those wicker saddle baskets now that Sophie can sit up on her own! LOL /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

BTW, prepare yourself - you'll be crying over the silliest things for the next few weeks. The best crying is done during that Mastercard commercial where the Grandfather comes to visit his new grandbaby...ooohh, I'm getting geflempt....

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There is no crying in baseball!!!

[daytimedrama]

so how did the first doctor's visit go? for the next nine months you'll have to update us!

~Christina~
"Chaos is what killed the dinosaurs, Darling!"
JD;Heathers
*Nothing is foolproof to a talented fool.*

[RolexH]

I went to the doctor on friday and they did and ultra sound! I was really excited but it was too soon to see anything. I go back on the 31st of August. I have begun my prenatal vitamins, and they look like someting I would give my horse! Gag!!

It hasn't been that bad. (sickness wise) Joey, my husband, has been so cute. All of the sudden I am fragile to him. haha (5'10" and fragile yeah right). I was planting flowers in our flower bed yesterday while he mowed the lawn. He must have stopped me three or four times to let me know I need to bend at the knee and not to get too hot.
I have been tired though. Exhausted in fact! I feel like I am fighting the flu, just very poopy.

I did in fact go shopping with my mother. WE got the most precious little onesies. I also got a baby blanket that is like silk, just so soft. I know this baby wil be so spoiled. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif I am over the whole "shock" and am loving the idea of having a baby. Soon enough we will have to start throwing out baby names. I am open for suggestions!!

Question: what are the pro and con's to finding out the sex of the baby? I feel like I want to wait, but I am not sure if I can. What would you do? What do you think? Thanks for the input.

Finzean, maybe we can do the hand-me-down thing. I want the little wicker basket too! This is so fun!!

Lisamaire: my name is lisa marie too!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

~~Lisa~~

[Heidi]

Get lots of rest RolexH - your body is trying to tell you to cram it in while you still can.

We did find out the sex of our older son but we didn't know with our daughter and Sumo Toddler - mostly because I didn't have ultrasounds during those pregnancies.

For me it didn't diminish the joy of discovery - and in fact, the mere fact that I survived the labour was revelation enough. I'm not certain that it's the sex of the child that's surprising but the overwhelming joy of finally meeting the little person who's shared your body for 9.5 months.

You know, it would be a wonderful idea to make the baby a scrapbook which features this thread.

[VTrider]

How can you go through a pregnancy sans-ultrasound? How did you know it was OK?

[RolexH]

I already have printed the first 4 pages of this thread. I have the 2 pregnacy tests, and the video of my husband's near heart attck for memories; so far.

I know Vtrider understands this, but I have always said I wanted a little girl. It does scare me sometimes that if I had a boy I would not know how to be a good mother. Boys are so...different. I have never understood them; girls I understand. I feel so hateful saying that, but my mom reasures me that when I have the baby it will be the most love I have ever felt. She says I will be full of love for a boy or girl. I hope she is right, I am still crossing my fingers for a little girl, but now I am leaning towards just having a healthy baby. Oh BTW, I checked the Chinese calender, and it predicted that I will have a girl. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Also I wanted to let the women who were reccommended the midwife know, that my doctor shares a practice with a certified nurse midwife. She will be doing the delivery as long as I am a low risk and have no problems. I will see them alternatly every month for my checkups. She is very sweet. (plus she is a mother herself I think that makes a difference)

~~Lisa~~

[Heidi]

If all indications are that a mother and baby are healthy, you don't need an ultrasound; in fact I think North American women are over ultra-sounded.

I underwent a series of ultrasounds with my second child as I had other health concerns which could have affected the baby in utero - goiter, among them.

RolexH - can't fathom a pregnancy and delivery without our midwives. I had Sumo at home and it was the most perfect experience -- well, except for the pain. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

I too shared your fear about birthing little boys. I'd always assumed that I'd be the matriarch of a brood of kick-ass girls - and yes, little boys seemed very alien to me.

Now that the boys outnumber the girls in the family, must confess, little boys love their mommies so unconditionally, so completely and earnestly. Oddly enough, little girls now seem somewhat alien to me - though clothes for little girls are muuuuccch cuter. Ooh yes, there's a wonderful French label called Mini Man which has the cutest baby clothes, much of it featuring ears and little tails.

Boy or girl - as long as the baby is healthy, the joy is overwhelming and pure.

[Katey]

I've been pretty much a lurker on this board since March when I became PG and had to stop riding. Now it seems I may have something to contribute! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif Maybe we need to start our own preggo clique!

As far as finding out the sex I'm all for it. My first we didn't find out and by the time I finished my 3 day labor-a-thon I couldn't care less what "it" was. I was just so relieved to have everything over with and swore I was NEVER going to go through that again! Then with baby number 2 we did find out. I felt so much more involved and able to enjoy the suprise at the ultra sound while I was calm and in no pain. It was great to come up with a name and be able to bond with him before he was born. Now with baby 3 we have found out again and that's the way I like it. Everyone has their own opinions though. I am glad that we didn't know at least once so we could compare the experiences.

I know what you mean about wanting a baby girl and not knowing what to expect from boys. Believe me though, as a mom of 2.5 little boys, if you do have a boy you will wonder why the heck you ever wanted a frilly little girl in the first place. My boys are my life and I wouldn't have it any other way. Just face it, I'll be surrounded by little girls at horse shows when my guys start showing. "Are you -----'s Mom? (giggle giggle)" Then I'll reply " yes, but you'll have to take a number. He'll be making another appearance next weekend." /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Congratulations! It is a very exciting time!

Baby boy number 3 due Nov.22 (Thanksgiving Day)

[Ethan & Ella's Mom]

My Mom has found one for my little one (a loaner). I might take Ethan to Devon next year. My husband keeps whispering "golf" into his ear, my sisters' boyfriend "football". I'm hoping to buy Ethan a pony this year (will be a friend for my horse). My husband doesn't know it yet. I'm probably going to have his clothes made for him, little red hunt coat, white jods...how cute is that going to be /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

I was miserably sick for the first 3 months. I couldn't eat a thing or drink even water. I ended up in the ER one night with an IV stuck in me and then the doc FINALLY gave me something to help the with morning sickness (yeah, more like 24/7 sickness). My husband and I also found out the sex. He didn't want to, but being pregnant was surprise enough. I wanted to plan everything from clothes to his room to his name. Well, Ethan is upstairs talking up a storm right now I better get up there, he must be sick of his Mozart video (hey, the things they have for kids).

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[EqChick]

Okay you guys, I cannot believe no one let it slip to me on any of the other threads!! Lucassb, DMK... you guys are sneaky!

Needless to say, I am overjoyed for RolexH. I was driving home from the barn visits (referenced in Barns in Atlanta- METRO on HJ Forum /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif ) calling my best friend to tell her about this nice trainer, and she tells me I won the bet!! I was driving down GA400, going 80, tears rolling down my face!

Ga girls, be proud, very quickly I came to "But you can't drink at regionals now!" I am amazed that you have adapted to this so quickly Lisa, if I was surprised by this, I think it would take all 9 months for it to sink in, if then! And you will love a boy just as much (you've never heard me say that before /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif ). You have to realize if you keep saying you can't handle a boy, that exactly what the Karma gods are going to give you!

I actually remembered a story about a young mother who didn't get an amnio b/c she was healthy and such, gets a sonogram, two legs- IT'S A GIRL!! Then the baby comes and, woops, there's another limb in there /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif . Turns out the master blaster just didn't feel like introducing himself to the camera.

Alright guys, I have to leave work so I can go shopping for Lisa, and good gifts for Mom and Dad, email me. Take care Lisa, your going to be more than a mammie now!

[RolexH]

Everytime I read this thread I have this huge grin on my face. I am just so happy. Heidi, you have some great advice. I have been praying for a little girl for my whole life, mainly to dress up in adorable little clothes and to get a pony. My husband played baseball, and was a little league coach (just for he heck of it-isn't he great?) so of course he wants a little boy to dress in a little Braves outfit, (although I am a Cubbie fan).

I guess the way I see it is, if I wait to find out the sex, I will here those words: "IT'S A ____!!!!!" Of course that is it. The only major plus that I know so far. The anticaption would probably kill me. I am the kind of person that opens Christmas presents then re-wraps them haha.

I see the whole bonding thing very clearly. What apus to be able to know what is inside of you..get to know their aquaintance sooner. I am still not sure. I would love more personal stories.

AAHunter rider: I am with you. Boy or girl, little wicker basket, Devon Leadline, tiny tailored outfit, and helmet. You can't beat the red coat on a little boy. Awwww..... My nephew is named Ethan too, he is so cute. Here is a pic of him at my wedding.

~~Lisa~~

[Anticipation]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by VTrider:
When Becky was telling Jesse she was pregnant - she cooked him a dinner of Baby back ribs; Baby Peas and Baby carrots....Jesse had to guess what the theme of the dinner was...well, that backfired, so Becky and Jesse went and played Win, Lose or Draw downstairs with the Tanners. Becky drew the title to She's Having a Baby.

I know all about 90's TV Trivia!<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

oh geez! I remember that! You are too funny!

Ericka
*~* ANTICIPATION *~* HIGH HEELS *~* CAMARILLA *~*

[Paddys Mom]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by RolexH:
I have begun my prenatal vitamins, and they look like someting I would give my horse! Gag!!
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I am trying to become in a similar condition /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif and am already taking prenatal vitamins. I complained to my wonderful doctor that they made me burp and they were huge. He tossed them out and gave me chewables that taste like Flintstone vitamins! Much much better!! They are called Natachew, but there are probably other brands and generics as well. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Good luck and best of health to you!

[Ethan & Ella's Mom]

I too like to unwrap my Christmas presents and rewrap them. I hate surprises. My husband has to wait until Christmas morning to put my presents out. I caught so much c#*p from his MOther about wanting to find out the sex. She kept saying well, I didn't know what I was having and I had plenty of clothes etc...I was the one who was sick as a dog and I wanted to know who was causing it and give him a name. Eight months later (when I went into labor 6 weeks early and just thought it was something I ate) we STILL were not ready for this baby. We hadn't even started on the nursery. That finally scared my husband into finishing out house. I was on bedrest for 2 weeks and it drove me nuts. Yes, the pregnancy made me exhausted but I couldn't take sitting on the couch or being in bed all day. As for the lovely prenatal vitamins. I had the same problem. My doc put me on vitamins called prenate (I think) they are like the size of Tylenol and were much easier to stomach (I gag on big pills). I'm still taking them since I'm breast feeding Ethan. Are you planning on using the wonderful drugs they have out there or are you going natural? Drugs are WONDERFUL!!! I did not feel a thing. Up until they started giving me stuff I kicked everyone out of the room. My Mom drove me nuts, she was just too excited. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

that says "MALE" with an arrow pointing to a digit distending between the baby's legs--turns out it was HER thumb!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif

Don't get stuck in the sludge if you're that confident in your ride!

[Finzean]

I don't know how to do pull out passages from other posts but about doing it drugs or no drugs.... I went over 24 hours in labor before I finally "requested" (and I use that term lightly!!!) an epidural. I was so relieved when the anesthesiologist finally showed up 2.5 hours later. But alas, the epidural didn't work and only numbed my left left from the hip down. Not much help..... The nurse called this phenomenon a "hot spot" and said it wasn't all that uncommon. My friend had a perfect epidural that stopped working right about the time she hit transitional labor; another friend had the true perfect epidural and didn't feel a thing. Bottom line - whichever way you go - keep your eye on the prize: holding your baby!

BTW, the following address will take you to a good pregnancy site - they have good message boards and lots of great members to give advice. www.storknet.com (http://www.storknet.com) Check out the polls on the most useful and least useful baby items to own..it'll save you some money that you can put towards that wicker basket and teensie pony!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

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There is no crying in baseball!!!

[Heidi]

Prone as I am to mantras lately, the best message proffered by our midwives was that 'labour is pain with a purpose'.

I've never had an epidural - not that I haven't been known to screech for one during labour; unfortunately, or fortunately, my labours have been very efficient 4-hour affairs and by the time I request major meds, it's been too late. Perhaps the greater wisdom has been offered by my grandmother who once declared, "just when you think you're going to die, the baby is born".

Epidural, no epidural - at the end of the day, it doesn't matter. Do what feels most comfortable for you. Each woman's pregnancy is different and each woman's pain threshold varies. It's such a joyous time - enjoy it all on your own terms.

[RolexH]

What do you think the right time is to quit riding? You won't believe this, but my doctor and midwife discourage me riding at all! I was talking to a friend about that and she said it is probably because they don't ride and when they think horses, they think "oh no falling, danger, etc..." What did you do? what have you seen people do? Are they right?

I just started Prenate. Not too bad! Mine are a little bigger than a Tylenol, but they are not too hard to get down. I just don't understand why they don't cut them in half, and tell you to take two. It is beyond me.

Mr. RolexH and I have been talking about knowing the sex. Now he wants to know. I guess it makes it easier on me to go with him on this, I am still so torn. Honestly though, now I am leaning towards knowing. I just want to be introduced to that little angel inside of me. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif I know it sounds cheesy, but I HATE calling it an "IT" how rude. :P Okay so let me hear some advice about the riding while pregnant question, I am very curious! Thanks!

BTW, I think I am going for the drugs. I am very wimpy. I seriously major endanger my labor if I iam not somewhat sedated or numbed. I faint just thinking about blood. Ask EqChick, it is my trademark. My mom is swearing she is going to leave town for the next 9 months. hahaha I will make it but I think I will need help.

~~Lisa~~

[Tricia Booker]

Congratulations Rolex!! Being a mother is the most wonderful experience in the world. Like you, I hoped and prayed for a little girl. When I had the amnio and found out it was a boy, I was so disappointed. BUT, now I'm so happy I had a boy (he's 16 months now). Maybe I can't dress him in all those adorable clothes, but he's truly a mama's boy in all the best ways--loves giving me hugs and bringing me flowers from the garden. My friends who have boys and girls say that the boys tend to be more devoted to their moms, even as they get older. But never having had a girl, I can't compare. I"m just thrilled to have him in my life.

My midwife was understanding of my riding once I explained that I wasn't doing rodeo! She just advised me to not take any chances. I rode (showed in the amateur-owner jumpers and foxhunted) until five months. Then, I could no longer fit in my riding clothes so I hung up the tack. I felt comfortable on my own horse (I'd had him for many years) but quit riding the really green ones I'd been working with. You just have to listen to your body; it will tell you what to do.

Have a great pregnancy, and as the others suggested, try and get lots of sleep--that's the one thing you'll miss when that bundle of joy does arrive.

P.S. Maybe I'll see you in the leadline in a few years; we're starting next year!

[VTrider]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by RolexH:
What do you think the right time is to quit riding?
~~Lisa~~<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

My mother was riding the week I was born!

Stopped jumping @ 7mos, and stopped riding when I was too darned cold (8 1/2mos).

PS--Doc told me not to--yeah right! With the flux of overflowing hormones, you'll need it--maybe not to the degree that I did, but horses were my prozac during pregnancy.

You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.

[Miniwelsh]

can't wait for the leadline pics in a few years /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

*Behind every good woman lies a trail of men*

[poltroon]

I am not a doctor, I don't play one on TV, and I'm not playing one now. : /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif I am, however, a mother.

My OB said he didn't want to hear about me riding past 16 weeks, since before that the baby is well protected. He was worried I might fall on a rock or something.

I chose not to tell him that I rode to 20 weeks. /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

Here's the thing: the most common cause of death for pregnant women and their babies is auto accidents. Did he tell you not to drive to the barn? No. Did he ask how far you commuted to work? No. Did he tell you not to handle the horse in the barn or on the ground (way better ways to get a hard blow)? No.

Listen to your body, and do what is comfortable TO YOU. Will you forever blame riding if you happened to miscarry while doing so? (Will you forever give up housecleaning if you miscarry that way?) Then maybe you should stop for now. On the other hand, if you feel good when riding, and you're comfortable, I don't think it's irresponsible to do so. (Mary King rode in the World Championships (eventing!) 5 months pregnant... wow.)

On the other hand, you may find yourself so fatigued that riding isn't really such a good idea. I used to ride in the morning, before work -- but pregnant, I couldn't ride and still have enough energy to work. And as I got more voluminous, it was harder and harder to ride. One saturday ~20 weeks I rode, didn't feel very well, and then came home and slept the rest of the day... and that was the last day I rode. I had planned to ride until very late, but it simply didn't work out for me. So, I spent the last 5 months lunging and hand walking instead of riding.

Good Books: Baby Bargains by Alan and Denise Fields (the stuff you do and don't need) and The Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy, by Vicki Iovine.

By the way, baby poltroon needs some horsey baby reading books. Anyone have any recommendations?

Congratulations and good luck, RolexH!

[AMom]

RolexH--I asked this very question a few months back... (since you weren't pregnant then, you probably skipped the thread /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif ) It was called "Riding while pregnant" and I think I posted it around May? I got some great responses! I stopped at 14 weeks because my husband and OB wanted me to and I was only leasing a horse who was being sold anyway /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif I did show up until then as well.

I'll try to find the thread for you!

26 weeks now!

[Ethan & Ella's Mom]

I rode for all of a week after I found out. My husband wanted me to stop and my OB said ride quiet horses, light hacking and no jumping and nothing after the 2nd trimester. But only if this was an activity that I commonly did (he didn't want me to take up riding if I hadn't done it before, which really wasn't the case). I wanted to at least finish the show season and that horse show was the last time I rode until 6 weeks after Ethan was born. I was so sick that I could not physically do anything for weeks and when I was finally better my OB said no that I hadn't been riding in such a long time not to start back up at all. My husband was completely against it and didn't want me even around horses while I was pregnant. I think if he could've wrapped me in bubble wrap he would have. I have made the decision that if and when we have another baby I will not ride again out of respect for my husband's wishes. It's his baby too, and regardless of what any doctor says he would prefer me not ride just to be safe.

[Ethan & Ella's Mom]

With the vitamins, have you tried taking them at night before you go to bed? That's what I did and it helped somewhat. My OB also told me if I'm only able to take 2-3 a week for a couple weeks then that was fine (I was able to take them regularly after they gave me the morning sickness medicine). Of course you would want to say something to your OB about this first to make sure it's okay. All docs are different.

[RolexH]

I will do a search on that thread CWP; congratulations!! I guess you know very well how I am feeling these days. Poltroon, you might have hit the nail on the head. I am so tired all of the time. When does it end? I am thankful though I have not gotten sick yet. I am cramping a lot, which the doctor says is totally normal, but it scares the crap out of me. Did everyone else cramp?? It feels like the normal cramping when you get your period.

The car accident analogy was perfect. I think my doctor sees riding as bucking broncs, not some light hacking and 3 foot jumps. I am still not positive how far along I am, but my ultrasound next friday will tell me. I think I am 6 weeks this friday. The fact that I haven't paid too much attention to my cycle is what got me into this situation. :P

AAhunterrider, I am taking the Prenate now in the evenings. Just started last night. Had someone else mention that too. It helped last night, I am just not great with taking pills. I just gag on them. gross I know but true. I was okay last night, maybe that reflex was sleeping.

~~Lisa~~

[Ethan & Ella's Mom]

I am the same way. I was SCARED TO DEATH to go through childbirth. Plus I am the biggest wimp in the world. I freaked out during our birthing class when they showed the video of the woman having the baby, when they passed around the diagram that should how large your cervix is going to be, the needle they used to break your water and the needle used for an epideral. My husband thought I was going to hold that baby in as long as I possibly could. I know that millions of women have gone through it and survived but at the time it didn't matter. The 6th time I was in labor (stopped my labor at 36 weeks and then I went into labor Wed-Sat for about 6 hours a day and then it just stopped) was actually "it" and I sat in the whirlpool crying my eyes out to my husband about how I would rather stay pregnant forever and that I was going to need a C-section and they were going to give me Pitocin. As much as I had said that entire week that I wanted this baby out things changed!!!! It hurt but it wasn't what I thought it was going to be like and I've already forgotten the pain. I think the worst part of it all was the following day when they made me get up out of bed to go to the bathroom. That short walk was horrible. My legs were like 5 feet apart and I was hunched over (you back is sore from the epideral but not painful). I sat on a diaper full of ice for as long as the nurses would let me. I felt like I had ridden an elephant for like 24 hours and was still stuck in that position. But every day I felt 100% better the one before and by the end of the week (I had him Monday am) I felt great (but then my milk came in and that's another story). Okay, I kind of got off the topic of the drugs. Believe me IT IS SO WORTH IT!!! When you hold your baby for the first time and he/she looks up at you everything/everyone disappears from the room and it's just the two of you. It is the most amazing thing I have ever experienced and I still get teary eyed when I think about it. My husband wanted me to go natural and I told him I would if I was allowed to stuff my two fists up his penis and slowly bring them out at the sametime I was giving birth and he gave in to my wishes. It's your body and you have to do what you need to do to make this unbelievable event more comfortable for you. I think I'm going to email you a few more stories since I've babbled on forever in this post.

[Heidi]

Given that I hate pregnancy, it's amazing what I still recall.

The fatigue typically lasts the first trimester, as does any nausea (which often doesn't strike until the second month). I can say unequivocally that I absolutely hate the first trimester.

The second trimester is wonderful - you've finally regained your energy, the nausea's gone, you can still see your feet, and delight at the first movements of the baby.

By the third trimester, and especially the last couple of weeks, you'd pay the OB or midwife to induce labour - you're achey, anxious, can't sleep cause your belly's too dang big, the fears start creeping in that you'll be the worst mother to ever have walked the face of the planet. The nesting instinct also kicks in at this time and you may find yourself painting the baby's room at 3:00am - because everything has to be in order, damnit! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Reading materials: I love Penelope Leach and the book, "What to Expect When You're Expecting". Also started reading mysteries (Ruth Rendell) when pregnant with my first child.

Diet: Never did take any vitamins. My body seemed to 'tell' me what it needed. Black walnut oil, as I discovered, is a good antidote to electrocution.

Weight gain: Don't listen to anyone's theory of what's appropriate. Every woman's different.

Riding: I was told by my midwives that it was perfectly okay. Though having seen Nicole Shahinian-Simpson's fall in a GP at Spruce (she was 5 months pregnant), don't think I'd be jumping anything bigger than 6 inches.

I love that I can recall the excitement of pregnant expectation, RolexH, without actually having to go through it again. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[RolexH]

That penis thing was perfect. Mr. RolexH said he can tell that HE was in for a long pregancy because I am so wimpy. I was like WHAT!!!!! Try feeling what I feel!! I am loose cannon!!! I will make him pay for that comment. Even when I don't need it, he WILL be rubbing my feet, back, shoulders, etc. Sometimes they just don't think.
PLease email me those stories. I'd love to hear them!

I bought "What to expect when you are expecting" It is a fabulous book. I have read almost everyword! I want more like it. I am excited because mY husband and I have been choosing some of the classes that are offered. Maybe a little insight on some helpful classes that you all took. Or if you though classes were a waste of time...whatever. Some of our classes we are considering:

1) infant CPR
2) The daddy class. (shows how to diaper, bathe, feed, etc)

Hmmmmm... what else is good?

~~Lisa~~

[Duffy]

OOOOH OOOOOH!! A BABY!!!! Congrats, RolexH!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

(And VTrider for guessing so quickly /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif )

Ok,ok...Baby Shower I can do, no problemo!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

I didn't want to know the sex of my first child, but I too hoped for a girl. I had only changed one diaper in my life (my nephew) and he "got" me. I vowed to never change a boy diaper again. HAHAHA My first child was a son. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

We decided we wanted to know the sex of our second child, but I didn't trust the ultrasound saying it was a girl. Of course, I went out and bought those adorable pink/peach, etc. colored outfits, gowns, onesies, etc., but those tags stayed on them until I actually gave birth to my daughter. After she was born, my mother asked if she could then take the tags off and wash said "baby girl" items for me. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

My doctor was adamantly against me riding at all. He was very "old school". Unless I could guarantee that my horse would not trip/spook, etc., he did not want me riding. Of course, he didn't want me doing ANYTHING physical - not even the pre-natal exercise classes at the hospital where I would be giving birth! LOL But, it all worked out. I had two healthy babies and am totally blessed to have them. (ok - sappiness done for now /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif )

I am so very happy for you, RolexH and I think how you told Mr. RolexH was totally adorable too! How wonderful that you will have the video, this thread, and future threads, etc. in your baby's archives!

[RolexH]

Thanks Duffy!

Well my Doctor called and he feels I should come in tomarrow instead of next friday for the ultra sound. I have been cramping a lot, so this will ease my mind. (even though they insist it is normal)

Okay so where do I go for that tiny saddle? what are some web sites that have this stuff on line?
Keep it coming about the riding while pregnant times!! Thanks so much

Lisa

~~Lisa~~

[AMom]

I had some cramping too, Lisa, but it did stop with no problems. As far as the sickness/tired thing in the first trimester, I was really lucky and only felt slightly "seasick" for a couple of weeks and never threw up. I wasn't especially tired either and kept on riding and running as much as I did before.

I have actually found the second trimester to be more of a challenge than the first! I am wayyy tired--none of that famous energy boost my sister and others told me about--and not only had to stop riding (husband/OB/lease horse sold), but finally had to stop running at about 22 weeks. I did a 5 mile run one morning before work and was absolutely crippled the rest of the day and for a week or two after...Not in the legs or back, but my abdomen and pelvis, yikes!! I have switched to swimming laps and walking/hiking for exercise.

I'm rounding (no pun intended /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif ) into the third trimester now and, other than a cold, feel pretty good. I sure miss riding now though...

[AMom]

Oh and one other thing, I watch that A Baby Story program on The Learning Channel in the morning when I am on my treadmill (it's on from 6:00am-7:00am out here) and I don't know if I recommend it or not...They follow a couple from about a month or so before delivery until about three weeks after and there is a fair amount of time spent on the labor and delivery part.

Some of them--usually the ones with epidurals /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif --go really quietly and then there are the others! The one with the wading pool in the living room was the one my husband happened to chance upon when he came over to say goodbye before leaving for work...He turned a bit pale /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif The question they didn't address was how they got the water out of the pool post-birth /infopop/emoticons/icon_confused.gif

And then there was the one where hubby walked over just in time to hear the future father on TV say "We need two regular bowls, and an extra large one for the placenta" (prepping for a home birth) He about fell over.... I don't know what your husband's plans are, Lisa, but I think there is about a 25/75 chance that mine will make it through the delivery without running screaming from the room!

[Smart Alec]

"My husband wanted me to go natural and I told him I would if I was allowed to stuff my two fists up his penis and slowly bring them out at the sametime I was giving birth and he gave in to my wishes."

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[poltroon]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by RolexH:
Poltroon, you might have hit the nail on the head. I am so tired all of the time. When does it end?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Ha ha! I'm not sure it does end! However, you will get used to it.

Seriously, I only started to feel like myself again after about 10 months. But everyone seems to experience it differently.

[Tricia Booker]

I must say, watching that program helped me soooo much. Since I worked at home during my pregnancy, I took my lunch later and watched that show each day (it was on from 2 to 3 p.m. EST back then). They show the gamut of births, from typical hospital to all natural home births and even some difficult birthing situations. It kind of got me prepared for whatever might happen, and, fittingly, I had one of those atypical experiences!

Additionally, I have two JRTs who got used to crying babies, as each episode features the baby squaling at some point. My two terriers never even gave the real baby a second glance when he got home--they had heard six months of babies crying on TV!