View Full Version : Willow Has Foaled!!!!!!
Robby Johnson
Jun. 8, 2002, 04:19 AM
I got the gleeful call from the human Fred (Gail) last night, around 11:15. She foaled about 10:00 their time.
Very healthy colt, almost black, small white star like Fred (the horse).
Mother and colt were doing beautifully. No bruising/tearing, placenta passed after 45 minutes, and she hadn't stopped licking him when Gail came to the house to call me!!
Willow's first filly (that I didn't breed) was very well-attended too. Willow loves her babies, and it takes her a few weeks to let them out of her protective site.
Robert and I were just on cloud nine and both are itching to hope a plane today to fly up to see the little Mr.
So, the results were:
Dark bay/black colt
June 7, 2002
10:00 p.m.
Can't wait to see photos, and so relieved and thankful that my mare and the foal are OK.
I dreamed, after the call, that I went up and Willow was very proud to see me and to show me her new baby.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Robby Johnson
Jun. 8, 2002, 04:19 AM
I got the gleeful call from the human Fred (Gail) last night, around 11:15. She foaled about 10:00 their time.
Very healthy colt, almost black, small white star like Fred (the horse).
Mother and colt were doing beautifully. No bruising/tearing, placenta passed after 45 minutes, and she hadn't stopped licking him when Gail came to the house to call me!!
Willow's first filly (that I didn't breed) was very well-attended too. Willow loves her babies, and it takes her a few weeks to let them out of her protective site.
Robert and I were just on cloud nine and both are itching to hope a plane today to fly up to see the little Mr.
So, the results were:
Dark bay/black colt
June 7, 2002
10:00 p.m.
Can't wait to see photos, and so relieved and thankful that my mare and the foal are OK.
I dreamed, after the call, that I went up and Willow was very proud to see me and to show me her new baby.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
stegall
Jun. 8, 2002, 04:27 AM
YAY! congratulations! now where are the cigars??? /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Robby Johnson
Jun. 8, 2002, 04:45 AM
I'm attaching one of my favorite photos ever of Willow. This was taken in June, 1999, at a clinic with Ralph Hill. It was one of those wonderful days when she performed like a made horse, even though she was green.
I like this photo because I think it's a good illustration of height not always necessarily meaning "small."
Willow, on her tallest day, is 16hh even. As you can see in this photo I, at 5'11.75" and 165 lbs (in this photo) look very suited to her and she really takes up my leg (she wore a size 52" girth).
As I gained 20 pounds, I did start to look top heavy on her, but in this photo I thought we looked really great together.
Gail says the colt "isn't huge, but is a nice size." I wonder if mare size will stamp his adult frame? Willow's other foal is the same size as her (although she's 1/2 WB so is something of an Apple Dumpling).
If this colt were to mature to 16hh, and moves like Fred and Willow (and jumps like them) it won't matter - he'll have junior hunter written all over him!!! And if that doesn't work, I will Martin Lawrence myself into thin-ness to look good on him! LOL! (Oh, wait, this isn't my foal is it? /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif I can't help it, I love him so much because he came out of my Willow.)
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Silly Mommy
Jun. 8, 2002, 05:05 AM
We want pictures!!! At least Willow didn't keep Fred up until the wee hours of the night.
I cant wait to officially become a "Human Mom Of Fred's Get". Alas (sigh), I must wait until next April...
Congrats again! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
drifting cloud
Jun. 8, 2002, 05:05 AM
What wonderful news!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif It's obvious that you are a very proud poppa. I'm so glad that the birth went smoothly and that Willow & the new colt are fine. It was very polite of Willow to have the foal on Friday night so you wouldn't have to be a nervous wreck all weekend.
Post some pictures as soon as you can!
Again, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you lend someone $20 and you never see them again, it was probably worth it.
fernie fox
Jun. 8, 2002, 05:14 AM
Congratulations,it is always such a relief to me after they foal.What a lovely mare,please take Lots of piccies at 3days,3 months.I bet the foal will be a handsome little lad. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
fernie fox
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Bethe Mounce
Jun. 8, 2002, 05:49 AM
and I am so pleased Willow had a safe foaling experience. This baby is loaded with talent which I daresay will become quite apparent quickly. In fact, I was chatting about Willow yesterday to jcotton.......
Now I can sleep thru the night without waking up and wondering if tonight was the night! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Spot
Jun. 8, 2002, 06:51 AM
Excellent news that all are well, and you have a healthy colt and the human "Fred" can now get some sleep!
"Spot"
LaurieB
Jun. 8, 2002, 08:11 AM
I'm so glad everything went well. I can't wait to see pictures! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Tin
Jun. 8, 2002, 08:38 AM
oh wow! Congrats you guys! What wonderful news! Ya know I was just about to log off when a little voice in my head said "why don't you check out the Sport Horse Breeding forum" and I'm glad I did!
I can't wait for pictures, I bet little man and his beautiful mommy are completly drool worthy!
So what's him name?
Congrats again!
"If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then give up. No use being a damned fool about it" -W.C. Fields
deltawave
Jun. 8, 2002, 08:52 AM
Congratulations...you are going to have SO much fun! Let us know what you decide to name him, and POST PICTURES! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
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fleur
Jun. 8, 2002, 08:53 AM
Does baby have a name yet? Can't wait to see pics! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif <~~Fred, Robby, and Robert
*EMMA*
Robby Johnson
Jun. 8, 2002, 09:08 AM
and I probably won't see him in person for a few months.
Lynn - you're actually MUCH closer to him than me! What don't you take a jaunt over and check him out for me? LOL! I think Fred is about 3 hours driving from Detroit.
Thanks all! I'm so relieved and so happy for Fred!
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Goodyfourshoes!
Jun. 8, 2002, 09:10 AM
...and what a lovely mare!!!
Babies are such fun!
aereal
Jun. 8, 2002, 10:19 AM
It is such good news that both mare and foal are doing so well and have such wonderful people to love them!
dublin
Jun. 8, 2002, 11:22 AM
CONGRATULATIONS, ROBBY, FRED, WILLOW, AFR AND BABY!!!!!!!
Such great news to hear about this morning.... /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif
sprite
Jun. 8, 2002, 11:57 AM
YAY!!!
good job, Willow !! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
congrats Robby and Willow and Fred, sound like a lovely baby.
Indecision may or may not be my problem.
Bumpkin
Jun. 8, 2002, 12:10 PM
Waiting for your wonderful photos when you get up there!!
Lita
Jun. 8, 2002, 01:59 PM
Willow is such a beautiful mare, Im sure this colt will be amazing!!!!
Now, we want pictures!!!!!!!!!!
Duffy
Jun. 8, 2002, 02:11 PM
Yippee, Yeah and Congrats!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Fred
Jun. 8, 2002, 05:58 PM
and I just can't stop staring at this colt!
Now, I MAY be biased, but I think he is absolutely gorgeous!! and he is tall - his legs are just about as long as Willow's, with a beautiful head, slightly dished like Willow, and the "Fred Eye". He is beautiful, and very sweet natured. I love him.
It was very polite of Willow to do it on a Friday night, (11pm our time) so that I could get to bed by 3am and be up again at 6am - to stare!
I think he is going to be BLACK! and he has a star just like Fred's, (an upside-down crescent).
I took some pictures, our neighbour took some pictures, and my hay man is coming over in the morning to take some digital pix -which I will email to Robby and he can post (I still can't do it!)
Willow is being a wonderful mum, very attentive without being tooooo.
Got to go now to stare for a bit before a (much needed) bubble bath!!
(3 minutes later)
I'm back - right now the little angel is cantering around his paddock, forcing Mummy Willow to trot behind.
It was great to talk to both Robby and Bethe today in person (Arkansas - Ontario - Texas). It is very touching to have formed these friendships over such great distances.
Love to all -
bye for now,
Gail
xoxo
Bethe Mounce
Jun. 8, 2002, 06:10 PM
to talk to Fred's mom! I had to call....I called Robby too and left a message on his cell phone. This was just thrilling news. I am certain this colt will turn out to be everything his parents are.
We must start a newsletter for those who already have Fred foals, are expecting Fred foals and who're going to breed Fred foals. What a great way to become all intertwined........
bucksnort
Jun. 8, 2002, 06:35 PM
I can't wait to see the pics! He sounds adorable. I'm just so happy that mom and baby are healthy /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
vineyridge
Jun. 8, 2002, 06:57 PM
Congratulations, Grandpa!
What's in the future for Willow and her foal? Will she come home and event some more? Will she stay with Fred and make more little Fine Romances? Will you be able to start training your foal to jump tall buildings at a single bound and fly like the wind?
Isn't the future an inviting vista?
Silly Mommy
Jun. 8, 2002, 07:20 PM
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You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
Lisamarie8
Jun. 8, 2002, 07:22 PM
I am SOOOOO happy for you! Allie and I brought you up at LEAST twice today and wondered how you and Willow were doing /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Now get some pictures!
Smooches,
Lisa
-- Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society.
rusti
Jun. 9, 2002, 12:57 AM
Congratulations Robby, FRED and of course the proud Papa!
hurry with the pics!
Robby Johnson
Jun. 9, 2002, 05:00 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Fred:
and I just can't stop staring at this colt!
Now, I MAY be biased, but I think he is absolutely gorgeous!! and he is tall - his legs are just about as long as Willow's, with a beautiful head, slightly dished like Willow, and the "Fred Eye". He is beautiful, and very sweet natured. I love him.
It was very polite of Willow to do it on a Friday night, (11pm our time) so that I could get to bed by 3am and be up again at 6am - to stare!
I think he is going to be BLACK! and he has a star just like Fred's, (an upside-down crescent).
I took some pictures, our neighbour took some pictures, and my hay man is coming over in the morning to take some digital pix -which I will email to Robby and he can post (I still can't do it!)
Willow is being a wonderful mum, very attentive without being tooooo.
Got to go now to stare for a bit before a (much needed) bubble bath!!
(3 minutes later)
I'm back - right now the little angel is cantering around his paddock, forcing Mummy Willow to trot behind.
It was great to talk to both Robby and Bethe today in person (Arkansas - Ontario - Texas). It is very touching to have formed these friendships over such great distances.
Love to all -
bye for now,
Gail
xoxo<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Cantering around already at 24 hours old! (Yes, I know they all do it! LOL!)
This whole experience has been almost a bit surreal.
Gail is someone I love dearly (and tell her so!) and we've not even met. It's odd, but that bond is very strong. I had to call for an update yesterday at noon (en route to a pool party - I figured margaritas and my mates could keep me distracted for the afternoon ... it worked - I had no idea Eric was such a bug phobe and he totally freaked when he saw a tarantula) and then I got in the car and saw that Bethe had called, and later that night Fairweather called.
It's just so neat how our little community here has become like family to me!
xoxo
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Heather
Jun. 9, 2002, 05:04 AM
I knew it! I knew she;d foal while I was gone! I'm so, so, so happy and excited for everyone, and very thankful that all is well! I scared my husband half to death this morning screaming SHE HAD IT!
(HEather, posting from a cobbled together internet conection ina cruddy hotel room, because she KNEW this baby would come this weekend!)
Portia
Jun. 9, 2002, 10:30 AM
to Willow, Fred (the horse), and Robby and Fred (the human)!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
******
"I hold it that a little rebellion, now and then, is a good thing..." Thomas Jefferson
Robby Johnson
Jun. 10, 2002, 06:32 AM
Little colt - so cute! What a pretty white star!
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Bensmom
Jun. 10, 2002, 06:49 AM
What a nice way to start a Monday! Congrats to Robby & Willow, and Fred (the human) & Fred (the proud poppa)!
What a stunning baby!
KateDB
Jun. 10, 2002, 07:09 AM
He is adorable and wouldn't he and Skipjack have nice foals in another 10 years or so?!?!?!?
Everythingbutwings
Jun. 10, 2002, 07:19 AM
Willow looks fabulous. Oh, Fred and Robby, congratulations! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world, indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead
rusti
Jun. 10, 2002, 07:23 AM
but, I love Willow, where can I find one just like her???? Winston be in heaven if I bought him such a beautiful wife. And she looks like such a good Mom. Obviously she knows what a good job she's done!
Congratulations!
Bumpkin
Jun. 10, 2002, 07:40 AM
Fred you should enter that in some photo competition.
Mom and baby are gorgeous too!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Congrats again.
Quinn
Jun. 10, 2002, 07:41 AM
What a beautiful boy!!!!! I am so thrilled for you, Willow and Gail. He does look so much like his papa. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif
Chef Jade
Jun. 10, 2002, 09:05 AM
What a beautiful baby. Such a great picture, with them both posing the same way!
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Silly Mommy
Jun. 10, 2002, 10:31 AM
Only one picture???hehehe
You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
Tin
Jun. 10, 2002, 10:42 AM
breath taking! Baby and mom are gorgeous and in great shape /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
I've had an awful day so far so this is just what I needed, thanks Robby /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
"If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then give up. No use being a damned fool about it" -W.C. Fields
L Scott
Jun. 10, 2002, 10:57 AM
Lovely little man.
I might have to find one day on one weekend that is free and go see him in person.
I need a baby, any kind, any colour, any species.
FirstCry
Jun. 10, 2002, 11:01 AM
All I can say is "WOW" absolutely stunning. I want that picture in my 2003 calendar. Hey we should make calendars of all the pictures posted here. What a thought.
Anyway, congratulations to all. Nice job Willow. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
"By the time you've figured out how to make ends meet, they move the ends"
Portia
Jun. 10, 2002, 12:26 PM
And it looks like Willow is already regaining her girlish figure. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
What a handsome boy! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
******
"I hold it that a little rebellion, now and then, is a good thing..." Thomas Jefferson
jparkes
Jun. 10, 2002, 12:31 PM
What a beautiful colt! Congrats Robby and Willow!
reefy!
Jun. 10, 2002, 12:36 PM
Lovely!
Both mom and son are beautiful and look like they are both posing for their debut!
Congratulations!
May I propose the name 'Love Affair' for this guy?
I think everyone, especially Fred and Robby, is in love with him /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
So, a horse walks into a bar, sits down, and the bar tender asks him, "Hey,
Sonny, why the long face?"
dublin
Jun. 10, 2002, 01:16 PM
Awww, what a cute baby and Mom! Love that picture. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Hilary
Jun. 10, 2002, 01:20 PM
he's gorgeous! And Willow is SUCH a proud mama!
I'm so happy for you all.
JER
Jun. 10, 2002, 03:25 PM
The colt is lovely but I'm almost more impressed with Willow -- she looks almost too good for just having foaled. What's her secret?
Congratulations to all involved and Robby, I hope you get to visit the new arrival soon.
Robby Johnson
Jun. 10, 2002, 05:07 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by JER:
The colt is lovely but I'm almost more impressed with Willow -- she looks almost too good for just having foaled. What's her secret?
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
What's her secret?
choo choo chhhhhh choo
"What's new, Toronto?
I'm new, I wanna say I'm just a little stuck on you
You'll be on me too
I get out here, Toronto
Stand back, you oughta know what you're gonna get in me
Just a little touch of star quality"
(That was a tune from Evita!)
Actually, she has lived a year in paradise and her condition reflects it. Go Fred on the feeding program!!!
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Silly Mommy
Jun. 10, 2002, 06:10 PM
and it appears that he will be really black! That little star will definately stand out on his pretty little face.
You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
mountain girl
Jun. 10, 2002, 06:26 PM
Congratulations on the two beauties! What a thrill this must be for all! I am so glad about this happy ending, or should I say, happy beginning to the Willow=Fred story. You guys have been very inspirational. I hope I will be so blessed next year.
from coastal Maine, where boatlovers rule, and horselovers ride.
Carol Ames
Jun. 10, 2002, 08:27 PM
As the proud "pappa", are you able to tear yourself away from the barn, to do anything? Let's have some pix, please. Are you keeping a journal/diary for the new foal? /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Peggy
Jun. 10, 2002, 09:18 PM
Great looking colt--love the substance combined with elegance. And the shoulder looks fabulous.
Bethe Mounce
Jun. 11, 2002, 05:54 AM
pics at 3 weeks and 3 months! He is simply lovely and Willow looks so very pleased and seems to really like Tamarack Lane Farm.......I love his looks----don't forget about the 3 week and 3 month pics..........like I know what I am talking about! Heck, I only know what I like and this foal speaks volumes to me.
shiloh
Jun. 11, 2002, 06:37 AM
Congratulations, Robby - what an adorable and handsome baby! I love the picture of the two of them - stunning. You are very lucky.
I love the way baby horses smell - especially their little noses. Give him a smooch for me.
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[This message was edited by shiloh on Jun. 11, 2002 at 09:46 AM.]
DMK
Jun. 11, 2002, 06:46 AM
Robby, that is a great picture!
"You can pretend to be serious; you can't pretend to be witty. "
- Sacha Guitry (1885-1957) *
Robby Johnson
Jun. 11, 2002, 07:49 PM
the congratulations should be directed to Fred.
She is the owner of the fantastic colt, she is the one who bred Willow, who cared for her for a year, and who has kept a really vigilant watch over her and the baby these first few critical days of life.
Willow is and always will be my mare. I'm thrilled I was able to put her in a situation to put a quality foal on the ground.
My only hope now is that he will grow up to be something special, reflecting the care and thought that went into his existence in the first place.
At this point, I'm ready to see Willow and possibly to tool her around a Training level XC course again. Who knows what the future holds?
For now, everyone join me in congratulating Fred on the arrival of Ti Amo, which means, in Italian, "I love you," or "my romance" or many other things associated with love. Fred named him that because when she saw him, it was love at first sight.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
FairWeather
Jun. 11, 2002, 08:20 PM
OH my GAWD.
Thats it.
I must have one. He's absolutely LOVELY!
Always,
FairWeather
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milynda milam
Jun. 11, 2002, 09:55 PM
Already a little looker and has that "Yep, I'm here, you may be in awe of me now" air about him.
On top of that, definitely looks black.
Congrats all the way around!
Milynda Milam
Red Fox Farm
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Tin
Jun. 12, 2002, 05:26 AM
Ti Amo... what a beautiful name! I love it and it's very fitting!!!! What's his barn name Fred?
MsRidiculous
Jun. 12, 2002, 06:22 AM
Robby, he's amazing! Congrats. I'm hoping he stays black. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
-Amanda
Just keep kicking
Erin
Jun. 12, 2002, 06:53 AM
Robby and Fred, he's GORGEOUS! Congratulations!
Fred, I hope you will keep us supplied with a steady stream of pictures as the little BB love child grows up! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
monstrpony
Jun. 12, 2002, 07:12 AM
Not paying attention, how did I miss this???
That mare look FABULOUS!! The baby, too, that goes without saying, but that mare looks really great! Well done!!
fleur
Jun. 12, 2002, 12:52 PM
Just saw the picture, what a wonderful colt, Robby! He and Willow are both so lovely... I'm so happy for you!
*EMMA*
ponyperson
Jun. 13, 2002, 05:51 PM
Robby...how about Patrick for a barn name, after your (son?)! Ha, I had to try.
Anyhow, I'll take him off your hands if need be, Fred.
So an Irishman walks out of a bar, oh wait, Irishmen don't walk out of bars!
Paula
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:04 AM
Robby I wanted to offer my sincerest condolances on Willow and hope the foal is doing well. I read about the tragedy on rec.equestrian and can't post there with my server. You don't know me but I've enjoyed reading your posts on various boards about Willow for years. I too went through the same thing when I made the decision to breed my beloved mare and eventing partner. You go into it knowing the risks, but never think it will happen to you... Email me if you want to talk about it. Once again I am very sorry and I hope the foal is doing well to carry on Willow's legacy...
Everythingbutwings
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:10 AM
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Portia
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:26 AM
OK, I don't know if this is my place or not, but obviously the story is out and it needs to be explained, but I don't think Robby or Gail (Fred) should have to repeat it at this point. Maybe there should be a separate thread. Robby and Fred can decide that.
This is the essence of what Robby e-mailed to Erin and some of the moderators yesterday.
Willow was euthanized Wednesday night due to an impaction of the seccum. She had ruptured (discovered in surgery) and there was nothing they could do for her. Gail (Fred) had taken her to Guelph, which is of course one of the best equine veterinary facilities in the world, and Robby and Gail together made the decision over the course of the night as things developed.
Robby said that on Sunday it became obvious that Willow wasn't lactating well, and she was seen by vets at least 2x per day until Wednesday, when Gail decided to take her to Guelph.
Robby and Gail are both devastated, but coping. They need our support, but I believe would like some time to grieve in private.
Gail will raise Ti Amo and he is doing well. While he will, of course, have the best possible care and as much love as he can stand, he will still need jangling curb chains and good wishes, as does any orphan foal.
sprite
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:28 AM
Robby,and Gail, my most heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Keely
Indecision may or may not be my problem.
Everythingbutwings
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:29 AM
I found and read Robby's post on rec.equestrian and my heart goes out to him and to Gail.
It is my greatest hope that Willow's foal thrives as did my Maddie.
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world, indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead
Justbay
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:36 AM
to hear of the loss of Willow. My condolences to you, Robby and Gail. This is very unfortunate and sad news. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif I pray that the foal remains healthy for you.
Bumpkin
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:45 AM
OMG
Fred and Robby I am so sorry to hear this.
I hope that TiAmo will make it like Maddie did.
All points
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:46 AM
How tragic. My heartfelt condolences to Robby and Gail. I am jingling for your foal. I am sure he is going to be ok.
Evalee Hunter
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:46 AM
Breeding is SO SCAREY! All of you know what Ali & Mary & I went through. It is so terrible. I hate it when people tell me "they've been doing this for millions of years without us" when I know that even with the best care foaling is dangerous. At least everyone knows that experienced people were in charge & the best vet advice & care gotten. It is so hard when nothing can be done. Curb chains jingling for baby.
I wish I knew the right thing to say in these circumstances.
www.rougelandfarm.com (http://www.rougelandfarm.com) Home of TB stallion Alae Rouge, sire of our filly Rose, ribbon-winner on the line at Dressage at Devon.
Rouge's quote: "To err is human, to forgive, equine" (from a Pony Club refrigerator magnet)
Beezer
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:56 AM
It does not lessen your pain, I know, for others to say they, too, lost a mare but still raised a healthy, well-adjusted orphan. So I won't relate our story.
But it can be done, and I know that Fred (Gail) and you are up to the task. Willow left her son in very good hands.
Proud member of the "Huh. I thought I'd fixed that" phase of baby green hunter ownership.
NinaL aka Chrissy
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:03 AM
I lurk on rec.equestrian and read Robby's post yesterday. At first, I thought it may be a forged post or a cruel hoax because I had not seen anything on this board.
Robby and Gail, please accept my most sincere and deepest condolences. Losing a horse is never easy and you have lost Willow in one of the most difficult ways I can imagine.
If anyone wishes to read Robby's post you can access the rec.equestrian news group via Google. Here is the link: rec.eq (http://groups.google.com/groups?hl=en&lr=&group=rec.equestrian).
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<HUGS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> to both of you.
Nina
"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle, easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we still would live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan."
Irving Townsend.
Miniwelsh
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:03 AM
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know how excited you were about this breeding and how much Willow meant to you. I can't express my sadness reading this post. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
*Behind every good woman lies a trail of men*
Heineken
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:06 AM
Robby and Gail! I'm so so so sorry for your loss of Willow, what a terrible tragedy. Please know my thoughts are with you and Ti Amo. Please update us as to how the little one is doing, he looks like a beautiful colt and will hopefully do his mother proud!
Baby horse has arrived and I already have a vet bill for stitches....
DMK
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:11 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this Robby...
"You can pretend to be serious; you can't pretend to be witty. "
- Sacha Guitry (1885-1957) *
Deb413
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:13 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}
to all-equine and human
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I live in my own little world, but it's ok, they know me here.
Gubgub
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:16 AM
I'm so very sorry to hear about this. Take care, everyone.
N2Jumpers
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:17 AM
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[sniff] Oh Robby/Fred - I am so very very sorry!
Sandbarhorse
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:18 AM
/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif So very sorry to hear about Willow. I don't know you or your horses, but feel like I do from your descriptive posts.
A BB cannot convey how sad I am to hear this news, but know that you have my deepest sympathy.
I'm sure that Ti Amo will be everything you worked so hard for!
Peggy
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:24 AM
{{{{{{{{{{ So, so sorry. }}}}}}}}}
Inverness
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:24 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
"Out of my mind. Back in five minutes."
Dementia 13
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:27 AM
That is heartbreaking, Robby. I am so sorry.
"What lamp has destiny to guide her little children stumbling in the dark?"
artienallie
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:27 AM
I'm so terribly sorry! /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
monstrpony
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:27 AM
Monstrpony was an orphan, tho I didn't own him at the time, but I have an extra special place in my heart for orphans as a result.
And to lose Willow, she was so special to us all.
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TrakHack
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:28 AM
My deepest sympathies to all involved. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)
BoldChance
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:31 AM
Robby and Fred,
My sincerest and deepest condolences.
Willow was well-loved, well-cared for, and judging from the photo of her and Ti Amo - she knew it.
I'm sorry. *hugs*. The foal is in my thoughts.
BC
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Lindsay & Chance
"Plus �a change, plus c'est la m�me chose."
--Samuel Johnson
^^^^Proud member of the DCSC!^^^^
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Catalina
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:32 AM
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dcm
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:33 AM
As I wipe the tears from my eyes, I send my condolences to you, Robby and Gail. Best wishes for your baby to grow to adulthood.
<<hugs>>
****^-^****
Don't ask me, I'm just the mom!
~Proud member of the Thoroughbred Clique~
If Dressage is Symphony, and Eventing is Rock 'n Roll, then Hunters must be R & B
dogchushu
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:34 AM
Oh Robby, I'm so very sorry.
"I always wanted to be somebody, but I should have been more specific." -- Lily Tomlin
JER
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:34 AM
This is so sad. My deepest condolences to Robby and Fred.
Willow truly was special -- I couldn't begin to guess at the number of people who were touched by Robby's accounts of his partnership with Willow and now consider Robby a friend. This is the kind of horse that changes your life.
I miss her already.
dublin
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:37 AM
Robby and Gail,
I was so terribly sad to hear the news about Willow, and I am jingling curb chains for both of you, and for sweet baby Ti Amo as well.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}} from Northern California....
Dee Dee
palindrome
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:39 AM
I am so, so sorry. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif My condolences.
Merlin
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:40 AM
I am so, so sorry for your loss.... My heart breaks for you. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
<<<<<<<Hugs>>>>>>>>
Tin
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:43 AM
No no, I can't beleive it.
I'm so sorry Robby, theres nothing anyone can say right now to lessen your pain but remember the smiles you too had together and your wonderful journey. She left you her precious legacy and many many happy memories, cheerish them always and always. Take care sweetie you have all our love /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
And Gail, after talking to you only a few times I can say that you are one of the most caring people in the world and my heart breaks for you because I know you thought of her as one of your own. My Romance turned out to be a wonderful horse with your care and knowledge and I'm sure little Ti Amo will follow in his foot steps and make his mommy proud /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif Lots of love to you too.
Willow we will miss you
~ Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once ~
Heather
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:48 AM
Robby, you and I have talked, and you know my heart is with you (check your email, BTW).
Gail, if you are reading this, all I can send is a cyber hug, and tell you that it would be AN HONOR to have you care for any mare of mine. You are the kind of horseman and human being there aren't enough of in the world.
I wonder if that little boy can knwo how many people love and are pulling for him?
Thanks, Miss Willow, for giving us Robbie.
FlightCheck
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:51 AM
so very, very sorry...
lmlacross
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:58 AM
Robby,
Seinding lots of love and prayers your way. Condolences on the loss of Willow.
LML
*MidWest/Chicago clique*
SueL
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:00 PM
To both of you on the loss of your beautiful Willow. I am deeply sorry and can imagine the pain you both feel. Please remember that you have the support of all of us on these boards to support you through your grief and we are as close as your computer even though many miles may separate us physically.
You are in my thoughts.
Sue, jingling curb chains for Ti Amo....
kd welden
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:01 PM
My heart is just breaking for you. Willow was a wonderful horse and the pictures in this post alone show that she was happy. I am praying that Ti Amo will prove strong and carry on her legacy.
The post on Rec.com had me in tears. YOu went in with your eyes wide open.
ken
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:01 PM
just a lurker here, so saddened by your loss.
anyone closer to Robby & Fred thinking of setting up a fund to aid with the unexpected vet fees? If so, please post.
Janet
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:02 PM
Oh No!
OnyxThePony
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:04 PM
{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
dran kittenhard to type with kitten pullingo n hoodie strings
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Lisamarie8
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:06 PM
Oh Sweet Robby I am Sooooo Sorry. You loved your Willow so much and I know there is NOTHING i can say to ease your pain. Please know I'm sending you LOTS of hugs.
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-- Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society.
Cinnybren
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:07 PM
{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} to both of you and to little "T".
God Bless.
Daydream Believer
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:07 PM
So sorry for your loss /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
MeanderCreek
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:09 PM
I know there is nothing to ease your pain, but at least the mare and foal were in good hands and well loved.
www.meandercreekstable.com (http://www.meandercreekstable.com)
drifting cloud
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:09 PM
Robby and Gail -- I am stunned and deeply saddened. My stomach dropped to the floor when I read about Willow. I just can't believe it. Both of you and Ti Amo will be in my thoughts. Let us know if we can help. We're here for you. I am so, so sorry. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
fernie fox
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:12 PM
I grieve with you Robby.Even though I don't know you.You are surely in my thoughts and prayers.
X X X X
fernie fox
"I have lived my life-it is nearly done-.I have played the game all round;But I freely admit that the best of my fun I owe it to Horse and Hound".
hitchinmygetalong
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:12 PM
What a shock. Sincerest condolences to you both. I know that anything that could have been done for Willow was done. She had so much love.
I'm going to say a special prayer for Ti Amo tonight.
So sad...
crystalacresponies
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:28 PM
This is among my worst nightmares. So sorry Robby that you had to experience such a wonderful thing as foaling in this way. I know the thought and concern that went into your decision of breeding Willow from other threads. I know you loved her. Best of luck to baby for a long healthy life. Willow, Baby, Robby & Fred are my prayers.
reefy!
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:31 PM
Condolences to Fred and Robby -
Words are so inadequate.
You and Ti Amo are in my prayers.
Jennifer
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So, a horse walks into a bar, sits down, and the bar tender asks him, "Hey,
Sonny, why the long face?"
JB
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:32 PM
Oh Robby, NOTHING I can say can make this any easier. I hope you have found a good nursemare for Ti Amo, or have found other suitable means to keep him strong and healthy so he can carry on Willow's legacy. He is going to be exactly her color, you can tell, and I bet will look so much like her. My most sincere condolences to you... /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
gwen
Jun. 14, 2002, 12:44 PM
/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful mare!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
**BARB***
House hunting on Long Island....we're looking at cardboard boxes..since that's all we can afford in a nice area....:)
MKM
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:06 PM
Robby I'm so sorry! What a gift Willow was to your life for all the time you had her, though!
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Pixie Dust
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:14 PM
This is so shocking. For you to go from elation to this is just horribly sad. I'm so sorry. I look at that beautiful picture and just cry.
Remember we love ya Robby & Fred!
Superheroes of the universe, unite!
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Pirateer
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:22 PM
I am so very sorry for you guys. Give the little guy many hugs and kisses for all of us on the board, as well as all the ones Willow would have bestowed upon him.
Rebecca
http://www.bluffparkfarm.com
http://www.angelfire.com/darkside/smited/index.html
Unfortunate Member of the Stall-Rested Thoroughbred Clique
"Mama says,'Don't use a toaster while standing in the shower.'"
eventer_mi
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:43 PM
Oh, Robby - there's absolutely nothing I can say that everyone hasn't already, but I grieve for your loss.
Take care of the special little one and remember that she will always live in him.
God bless....
"Obstacles are those frightening things we see when we take our eyes off our goals." - Anon
canadian eh?
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:43 PM
OMG Robby I am soooooo sorry to hear this!!! Poor, poor Willow /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif Sending {{{{{ hugs }}}}} for you and jangling curb chains for the sweet little foal.
Canter
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:45 PM
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words fail me.
Bethe Mounce
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:57 PM
My dearest Gail and Robby----nothing I write here expresses my true feelings; I cannot put them into words. My heart aches for the two of you as you grieve. Remember that in a family, we're all here for each other.......take comfort in all the messages that have been posted thus far and those that will come after mine. Willow left behind a super spectacular foal who is in the best of care and will, no doubt, rise to the occaision when called upon. Please know you both remain in my thoughts and heart.
paxton
Jun. 14, 2002, 01:58 PM
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*In Your Dreams*
Jun. 14, 2002, 02:10 PM
I am so sorry. She was and always will be a beautiful horse.
Don't cry for the horses,
That life has set free,
A million white horses,
Forever to be,
Don't cry for the horses,
Now in gods hands,
As they dance and prance,
To a heavenly band,
They were ours as a gift,
But never to keep,
As they close their eyes,
Forever to sleep,
Their spirits unbound,
On silver wings they fly,
A million white horses,
Against the blue sky,
Look up into heaven,
You will see them above,
The horses we lost,
The horses we loved,
Manes and tails flying,
They gallop through time,
They were never yours,
They were never mine,
Don't cry for the horses,
They will be back someday,
When our time has come,
They will show us the way,
Do you hear that soft nicker,
Close to your ear,
Don't cry for the horses,
*Love the ones that are here.*
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Love Always,
Andrea Thomas
Hattie
Jun. 14, 2002, 02:39 PM
I am so sorry for your loss of Willow. I know that the foal is in wonderful hands with Fred.
Tackpud
Jun. 14, 2002, 03:09 PM
My deepest sympathy to all. Best wishes with the beautiful foal. I will be praying for all of you.
{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}
Robby Johnson
Jun. 14, 2002, 04:16 PM
I want to thank you all for your sympathy.
I posted on rec.equestrian, because those people have known me and Willow for five years. I want you all to know I wasn't trying to keep a secret from you, but it's been a really rough 2 days for both me but, probably even more so, Gail. I knew I wouldn't be able to keep up with posting (still can't) on this BB, and I just basically needed some time before I could talk about it.
Gail is the most phenomenal person I know. She came into my life at exactly the right time, and she gave me the sort of gift that only she could've given me. She took my mare, and loved her as if she were her own, and I never felt like it wasn't the perfect thing to do.
I've obviously done much soul-searching these past few days and I've come to believe that Willow had accomplished her Earthly mission. She found me when I needed her more than I ever knew, she gave me what I could never buy, she told me she needed to go be bred, she gave us Ti Amo, and then she left us.
When I think of Willow, I laugh. She was very specific. All conditions had to be just so for her to be happy. I think she was wired so highly because she had much to accomplish in her 11 years with us.
A friend told me, "try to remember the horse that lived, not the horse that died." This is inspirational and it is easier for me. My last memory of Willow was a one hour hack around Kentucky Horse Park (with my friend Dezi) on the most glorious day.
I dropped her at Cathy Weischoff's place, Robert and I took many photgraphs, I told her how much I loved her, and that if I never saw her again that she was the most magnificent, spectacular mare on the planet and I knew she would make me proud.
The horror of the surgery Wednesday night was very real for me. But I never saw her. I never had to endure the horse that died in the capacity that Gail did.
I feel very lousy for that reason, because someone I care about greatly had to basically do my dirty work for me. I'm trying to process that guilt, and I will one day make it right by Gail.
Everyone please keep Gail and Ti Amo in your thoughts and prayers. She is a special woman who needs us all right now.
Also, your suggestion of a fund is greatly appreciated, but not necessary for Willow. She was insured and it should all be covered.
However, milk replacer is expensive and we all need to bond together to help Gail with this task.
For those who have expressed your condolences to me, I greatly appreciate it. But I really feel like I'm second fiddle here and I don't want anyone to forget that it was Gail who loaded a horse trailer with a mare and foal, and had the melancholy task of hauling just a foal home.
My best to you all. Thank you so much.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
shiloh
Jun. 14, 2002, 04:45 PM
Oh, Robby I am so sorry for you and Gail - I am sitting here at work trying not to cry - again I am so sorry. My thoughts are with both of you and the liitle baby.
"People say that we're all mad; yeah, well, we're all crazy but we ain't sad!"
RodeoHunter
Jun. 14, 2002, 04:57 PM
I am so so sorry to hear this. You and Gail are in my prayers. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
bucksnort
Jun. 14, 2002, 05:06 PM
to Gail, Robby, Willow and the little one. Life sends such unexpected blows. You'll all be in my thoughts and prayers. Please remeber that we are all here for you and I mean that from the heart.
Here is a poem for Willow:
God's Foal
I'll lend you for a little while
My grandest foal, He said,
For you to love while she's alive
And mourn for when she's dead.
It may be one or twenty years,
Or days or months, you see.
But, will you, till I take her back,
Take care of her for me?
She'll bring her charms to gladden you,
And should her stay be brief,
You'll have treasured memories
To bring solace in your grief.
I cannot promise she will stay,
Since all from earth return.
But, there are lessons taught on earth
I want this foal to learn.
I've looked the wide world over
In my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes
With trust I have selected you.
Now will you give her your total love,
Nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come
To take her back again?
I know you'll give her tenderness
And love will bloom each day.
And for the happiness you've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should I come and call for her
Much sooner than you'd planned,
You'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And someday understand.
-Author unknown
Tin
Jun. 14, 2002, 05:07 PM
Robby you are truely an inspriation andthe most wonderful person I could know (of?).
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~ Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once ~
Portia
Jun. 14, 2002, 05:24 PM
In Your Dreams and Bucknort, thank you for sharing the lovely and touching poems.
Damn, we need a "smiling through tears" icon.
canadian eh?
Jun. 14, 2002, 06:05 PM
Robby, your eloquence in such a trying time, is an inspiration to us all. Love and prayers to you and Gail and Ti Amo.
elizabeth
Jun. 14, 2002, 06:17 PM
Oh, Robby and Gail, I'm so sorry. How horrible.
Robby, you really got me with your comment about poor Gail leaving with two and coming home with one. That just breaks my heart. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
mountain girl
Jun. 14, 2002, 06:18 PM
I am so sorry. I can't begin to express my sorrow and sympathy. Gail, I know you are doing everything in your power for Ti Amo and there is no one else in the world whom I would rather have raise this orphan. Try to take care of yourself, too. Robby, I loved your wonderful Willow over the cyberwaves. I know you were the most loving and responsible owner a mare could have. Love from Holly
from coastal Maine, where boatlovers rule, and horselovers ride.
2Dogs
Jun. 14, 2002, 06:33 PM
I don't know how I missed all of this, but after all the great kidness you have shown for my doggie loss, I can tell you, Mr. Robby Johnson, if there is anything I can do, please let me know.
I am without words. That baby is a gift, and if Gail needs help with the replacement, well let me know! Let us all know!
My goodness this has been some year...
LaurieB
Jun. 14, 2002, 07:08 PM
Robby and Gail, I am so sorry for your loss. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Anne
Jun. 14, 2002, 07:10 PM
This is the cap on what has been the worst week of my life. Robby and Gail, there aren't words to express how sorry I am for you.
creseida
Jun. 14, 2002, 07:27 PM
My Condolences.... *HUG*
~<>~ Daedalus built the Labyrinthe, so winding and complicated a structure that no man or beast, once shut inside, could ever find the exit~<>~
Jo
Jun. 14, 2002, 07:45 PM
Robby and Gail, I am so sorry. Jingling curb chains for the baby and Willow, who is waiting at the Rainbow Bridge. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
"Because she's got a tattoo, Hank. I think she could use a home-cooked meal."
Dee
Jun. 14, 2002, 07:46 PM
Oh, Robby, Gail, and Ti Amo, I am so very, very sorry. I am sending you all my love and prayers for strength, and prayers for Willow that she can be at peace knowing her foal is in the best of hands.
Kinsella
Jun. 14, 2002, 08:16 PM
Ditto what everyone else has said. I have not read this thread for a couple of days, never imagining anything bad would be on it. Now as I sit here crying I don't even have the words to say...
Gail, Robby - I am so very sorry for the loss of Willow. My thoughts and prayers are with both you & Ti Amo.
Where can I send my Contribution to the milk replacer fund???
Angela
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Fred
Jun. 14, 2002, 08:21 PM
First of all thank you all so much for your kind words and thoughts.
What Robby said was so - we weren't trying to keep anything from you, I think we were both so preoccupied with day to day survival, and just getting through each day.
I'm not able yet to adequately express the pain, the heartache and deep sadness I feel, for myself, in the loss of the beautiful Willow (for I loved her too) but most of all, for Robby.
When he sent her to me, he sent a letter that began, "you have in your possession my pride and joy..."
Not for a moment did I lose sight of that. What a great honour and act of faith it was for Robby to send Willow thousands of miles away to a person he had never met.
Now this has happened, the unthinkable, the unimaginable. The almost unbearable. And the last days have been filled with tears and numb grief.
But I want to make it clear to Robby and to all - that Robby did not leave me with 'the dirty work' - we were together in this terrible and sad time, linked by a tenuous phone line and by the much stronger bond of our mutual love for this mare and deep affection and respect for each other.
That I was the one with Willow at the end was something I wish had never happened, obviously. But since it did, I know that she left this world in peace, not in pain, and with strength, courage and dignity. And the last thing she saw was her precious baby beside her.
Loading that little baby up into the big empty horse trailer and driving home at 3am through the rainy night, all the while crying and hoping to wake up from this dreadful nightmare, was terrible.
But, it was my honour to have known Willow, to have looked after her for this past year, and my sad and painful honour to have been with her to the end. She has left Robby and me with a wonderful legacy, the little black Ti Amo, who is the image of both his mother and his father.
Throughout all of this terrible time, my respect and love for Robby has grown and grown. His strength, courage and dignity too has been remarkable.
As Robby has said, Willow was insured, and her veterinary bills will be covered. While I greatly appreciate the offer of assistance, I would like to assure everyone that would not be necessary, at all.
I hope that Ti Amo will be able to be a door opening to the future for Robby and a lasting legacy for the beautiful Willow.
Your positive thoughts and prayers for him would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
love, Gail
Portia
Jun. 14, 2002, 08:21 PM
Yes, please let us know if you need anything Gail, and please accept our help in whatever way we can. We all have felt so close to Willow and her baby, and to Robby and you. I think it would make many of us feel better to be able to contribute more than just words and prayers.
******
"I hold it that a little rebellion, now and then, is a good thing..." Thomas Jefferson
Finzean
Jun. 14, 2002, 08:28 PM
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Too sad for words.
Hang in there Robbie and Gail.
We are all so blessed to know these special animals.
Thoughts and prayers with you both.
____________________________
What're you doin' on the ground? I thought you said you could ride?!
Well, I was ridin' when I fell off!!!
onetempies
Jun. 14, 2002, 08:34 PM
I am so sorry to hear this... please PLEASE know that if there is anything we can do for either of you, we're here. You're in my thoughts and prayers while helping that gorgeous boy through this.
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Show goals achieved... and waiting for the floating zygote to attach itself to Sass' uterine wall! June 28th=30 days!
We've got STANLEY! Wings Rock!
ponnies
Jun. 14, 2002, 08:58 PM
Dear Robbie- We feel your pain , this type of loss is just not fair. Please know that your family is all here for you, whenever you need us. Ti-Amo will be a star!
FatLilPony
Jun. 14, 2002, 09:02 PM
All I can say is that you have the blessing of little Ti Amo now, treasure him as much as you treasured dear willow. My deepest condolences to you both.
- WhitPictures (ha!) (http://community.webshots.com/user/fatlilpony)
"Cowards dies a thousand times before their death, the valiant die but once."- Juilas Caesar, Shakespeare
Dunhorse
Jun. 14, 2002, 09:07 PM
Oh no! I am so, so very sorry for everyone who is involved. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif My prayers are with you Robby, Fred, Willow, and Ti Amo.
I don't know what to say.... /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
God forbid that I should go to any Heaven in which there are no horses.
~R. Graham
Bensmom
Jun. 14, 2002, 09:49 PM
Hugs to Robby and Gail both -- I was just opening up my computer tonight and telling my trainer about the baby and pulling up the picture when I saw the thread had changed. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Like everyone else, all I can do is to offer my condolences and to send many virtual hugs. Prayers and good vibes for Ti Amo are on the way . . .
Libby
RRB
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:17 PM
Robby,
I was a lurker on rec.eq when you found Willow, and followed your work with her closely. Your wonderful writing brought out the love you had for her, and through that I came to love her too. When my schedule changed and my ability to access rec.eq disappeared, I was so happy to see you here at COTH so I could continue to follow the Robby saga. And now, I am crying in my office late on a Saturday night after reading this news. Through you, Willow touched more people than you can imagine. Draw strength from us all, and know that you both are loved.
--R
Rack me, I'm out.
Duffy
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:18 PM
I am so very sorry. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif Please do let us know if there is anything we can do. Hugs to you!!
brynnabear
Jun. 14, 2002, 10:58 PM
Hugs, kisses and condolences to Robby and Gail during this tough time. You are both such strong and caring people that I am sure you will pull each other through.
DARKHORSE
Jun. 14, 2002, 11:19 PM
So very sorry and understanding and grieving with you for your loss. Just like all the previous posters, sending my condolences and wishing you and the beautiful colt the best.
I think the words of both Robby and Gail are eloquent. Remember Willow alive and vibrant, remember that perfect day at Ky Horse Park. And look at the baby she produced. She has succeeded in her life. Know we all share, as much as we can, your loss and your grief.
Camille Greer
Darkhorse Farm
stegall
Jun. 15, 2002, 05:34 AM
I think everyone here has expressed how we all felt about Willow, and I wish there was something I could add that would make it better. I was devastated to see this posted on the board, and if it helps at all-even my nonhorsey coworkers and friends know about Willow, and were very sorry to hear what happened. There are hundreds of people grieving with you. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Ninja
Jun. 15, 2002, 07:04 AM
/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif So sorry for your loss /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Lisa Cook
Jun. 15, 2002, 08:02 AM
Just getting back to my computer after a few days away, and I am so sorry to hear the news about Willow. Please know that you have my condolences and sympathy.
M.K.Smith
Jun. 15, 2002, 08:11 AM
I hope the little guy does okay...I'm sure with all the love and support he will do fine!
My condolences to Robbie and Gail.
Right now I'm going to go give all of my girls (I've got a Willow also) a hug.
MKB...
second chance
Jun. 15, 2002, 08:47 AM
Right now, I am bawling my eyes out, I can't express in words how sorry I am Robby and Gail. I'm sure the Ti Amo is in great hands . I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
Duct tape is like the force. It has a light side,a dark side, and it holds the world together.
breezymeadow
Jun. 15, 2002, 08:51 AM
Just found this thread. Am shocked. Do so love reading Robby's threads, adventures, & comments. Obviously not this one though. I can never get over why such terrible things have to happen to such nice people.
I nearly get ill during foaling thinking about all the things that might happen.
My thoughts & prayers are with you. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
My body is a temple - unfortunately, it's a "fixer- upper".
can't re-
Jun. 15, 2002, 09:24 AM
To Robby and Gail:
BIG {{{{{(((HUGS)))}}}}} to both of you.
SO sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
[This message was edited by can't re- on Jun. 15, 2002 at 12:49 PM.]
snapper
Jun. 15, 2002, 09:44 AM
/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
EquiMom
Jun. 15, 2002, 12:54 PM
Dear Robby and Gail...last night I tried to post something--anything--that could express the the sorrow I felt at this untimely news...but words failed.
What I had tried, unsuccessfully, to say was that my heart breaks for your loss. But know that the life essence of your beautiful Willow lives on in the miracle that is TiAmo.
However briefly, Willow knew the joy of nuzzling her baby and breathing in his sweet, new-born scent. She got to experience the poignant magic of a mother's love, knowing that she had fulfilled her part in the creation of this precious creature. The picture of them together captured that glorious moment in time, with the serene pride of motherhood shining through her eyes, as she stood with her gift to the world at her side.
I know that she will surely be with you forever in heart and mind, woven into the fabric of your being, like a golden thread of everlasting beauty.
My thoughts are with you, along with heartfelt prayers, sincerely offered.
Trixie
Jun. 15, 2002, 04:23 PM
/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif:(:(
Silly Mommy
Jun. 15, 2002, 04:25 PM
If there's anything I can do... I'm so sorry--cyberhugs!!! /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
CoolMeadows
Jun. 15, 2002, 04:56 PM
<<<<<<HUGS>>>>> /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
rusti
Jun. 15, 2002, 05:47 PM
Oh my God, I'm so sorry, Robby and Fred for the loss of your friend. What an incredible mare she was. obviously well cared for and loved.
Beck
Jun. 15, 2002, 07:54 PM
I am so so sorry to hear about Willow. Nothing I can say can express how much. All who meet Gail and Fred end up with a sense of 'family', and Willow became as one of our own. Ti Amo has the nicest foster-mom on the planet. Gail, if there is anything at all that I can help with, I'll do it.
UNCeventer
Jun. 15, 2002, 08:35 PM
{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Die hard member of the JESSE fan club!! :-)
Member of the Disgruntled College Student Clique
NoGreatMischief
Jun. 15, 2002, 09:15 PM
Oh, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, Robbie and Gail.
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~Katie~
"The earth shook, the beach grass trembled, he propelled himself forward, and he flew." ~Mark Helprin
BarbB
Jun. 15, 2002, 09:41 PM
Your stories about Willow caught my attention back in all of our younger days on the old USCTA board. I have followed her career with much enjoyment. I will grieve for her as if she were my own. My deepest condolences to you.
BarbB
charter member BEQS Clique & Invisible Poster Clique
TopBritYR
Jun. 15, 2002, 09:47 PM
Robby, Gail, Ti Amo and to the beautiful Willow, still!
my greatest wishes and strengths to the three of you! i'm sitting her balling my eyes out, even though i never new your legendery mare, i believe i had a sense of her in all, from eveything i read about her. I have great admiration in you Robby with the words you talk of her, your pride and joy!
I now wish for Ti Amo to go on and live his life to the fullest, and for him to be the greatest horse he can be! Which i'm sure with a mother like Willow, the sky the limit!
again my greatest Condolences!
Sonesta
Jun. 16, 2002, 05:14 AM
Just found this latest. I came to check on what was up with Willow and the baby -expecting to see Robby gushing and photos! Now, I find I'm adding my heartfelt condolences to others offered here. Oh, Robby, I'm so sorry for both you and Gail. And I wanted to let you know Robby, that you are one of the true gentlemen of the world in the way that you have insisted that Gail needs support the most. You are both equally in my hearts and prayers.
"Find something you love & call it work."
Clive's Mom
Jun. 16, 2002, 06:54 AM
Gail and Robby - my sincerest condolences.
- C
Lord Helpus
Jun. 16, 2002, 01:19 PM
you have to suffer this loss. It is so hard to lose one you love. When a friend told me about Willow today I was speechless. May your memories of a wonderful partner and friend sustain you, and the knowledge that she is not in pain.
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Eat well, stay fit...die anyway.
[This message was edited by Lord Helpus on Jun. 16, 2002 at 04:32 PM.]
Lexus
Jun. 16, 2002, 02:31 PM
I am sitting here crying my eyes out. All I can do is express my deepest sympathies to you both. My heart aches for you.
kmk
Jun. 16, 2002, 06:21 PM
This is such a sad story. but you do get a lovely foal right?
kmk
Rockford
Jun. 16, 2002, 07:52 PM
I am so sorry
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-Megan
Kryswyn
Jun. 16, 2002, 08:50 PM
I canNOT believe this has happened to two of the nicest people on the board, and to a wonderful mare like Willow. I am SO sorry; there really are no words that express the unfairness of it all. Know that you both have my deepest sympathy and the curb chain is violently jingling for both of you and for TiAmo.
Frankly, my dears, sometimes life just sucks....
~Kryswyn~
"Always look on the bright side of life, de doo, de doo de doo de doo"
Helen
Jun. 16, 2002, 10:16 PM
I haven't visited the BB in awhile, & I started out reading this thread feeling so excited & happy, only to read on to the conclusion... I'm so sorry for your loss, Robby & Gail. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.
Quinn
Jun. 17, 2002, 05:34 AM
Dear Robby & Gail:
I am so terribly sorry.
Maria
Jun. 17, 2002, 07:06 AM
Oh Robby and Gail, I am so very sorry.
Jeannette, formerly ponygyrl
Jun. 17, 2002, 07:13 AM
Wah! So sorry Robby and Gail! Going to go kiss my mare hard now, and Robby, I was thinking of you this weekend as I rode for the first time with Jim Graham, steered there largely by your enthusiasm for him. Mentioning that in the theme of remembering the happy times with Willow. Warm wishes to you both, and to all of us who participate in the adventure, tribulations, and joys of breeding.
member, BADASSRIDER clique - pardon the language, but finally, a clique to belong to!
Robby Johnson
Jun. 17, 2002, 07:30 AM
hope you had a good ride!
To everyone: your messages have certainly lifted my spirits and I want you all to know how much I appreciate them.
I will never forget Willow. But I am feeling much better about everything today.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
fleur
Jun. 17, 2002, 07:43 AM
that you are feeling somewhat better, Robby.
Of course you should never try to forget Willow - that would be an insult to her legacy, and your beautiful memories of her. If possible, keep us updated on Ti Amo - I don't think anyone could ask for a nicer way to remember Willow.
*EMMA*
rhymeswithfizz
Jun. 17, 2002, 08:58 AM
ugh, what a horrible week. Just got back online after being evacuated by the Hayman fire in Colorado, and find this thread. I am so, so sorry for your loss. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
I lost my mare in a similar way -- even with the best of care by her caretakers, Izzy died of a uteran infection, although thankfully her foal survived. Still, my heart was broken and I dropped out of the horse scene altogether for many years.
I am so glad that you have Rhodey -- and of course the wonderful folks on the BB -- to help you get through this. Wish I'd had that.
{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
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L Scott
Jun. 17, 2002, 09:07 AM
This takes me back to a moment in 1999 and I feel your loss like it is my own.
Robby and Gail, I have no words to descripe how I feel and can only say I am sorry. No one should have to endure such loss.
Seven
Jun. 17, 2002, 09:25 AM
I'm so sorry to read about Willow. I never even got around to congratulating the birth of Ti Amo before I checked back in and find out that Willow has passed.
Words really can't express how sorry I am for you all. Thank you, Gail, for taking such good care of Willow and making sure that she didn't suffer.
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Jupes
Jun. 17, 2002, 09:34 AM
Robby and Gail,
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I'm crying for you, but hope for the best for you and the little foal. My best. /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
diane
Jun. 17, 2002, 09:49 AM
Fred - I missed you at Palgrave this past week and heard through the wall Peter telling someone that you had to rush a mare and foal to Guelph /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif .... when I started to read this thread my heart dropped ...... it couldn't be Willow .... but pages into the thread, I realized it was ......
our deepest sympathies and thoughts are with you and Robby at this time .... there is no drive longer and sadder than the drive home from OVC with just the foal ..... it's been two years and two months since we had to do it .....
Ti Amo will always be a special one, Willow's legacy ... and I'm sure that he will be a constant delight to you, hang in there Gail ....
NCJennifer
Jun. 17, 2002, 10:38 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about Willow.
mountain girl
Jun. 17, 2002, 10:49 AM
Robby, I am glad today is a better day, and dare I ask what I haven't dared to ask until now, is Ti Amo doing well, I hope and pray?
from coastal Maine, where boatlovers rule, and horselovers ride.
Rockford
Jun. 17, 2002, 01:44 PM
I was wondering about little Ti Amo as well /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Robby Johnson
Jun. 17, 2002, 01:51 PM
he is eating the milk replacer with no problems. I will let Fred explain it in detail, if she so chooses.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
BoldChance
Jun. 17, 2002, 02:40 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Robby Johnson:
I will never forget Willow. But I am feeling much better about everything today.
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
It's impossible to ever forget those wonderful animals who lend us their wings.
My wings, a mare I never owned, has been sold at auction within the last couple months and from what info I have gleamed, likely found herself at a slaughterhouse. But she is too much a part of me, and who I am, to ever truly leave my heart or my thoughts.
Your overwhelming love for both Rhodey and Willow has been very evident in all your posts, and I do think that everything you do will be influenced by that love for her, and she will never truly leave you. She can't, because she's become a part of who you are.
I have a very high respect for you, Robby, because of your evident love for your horses. It's uncanny, how it shines through all of your posts. The clarity is heartwarming.
BC
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Lindsay & Chance
"Plus �a change, plus c'est la m�me chose."
--Samuel Johnson
^^^^Proud member of the DCSC!^^^^
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Spot
Jun. 17, 2002, 06:18 PM
and she said that little Ti Amo is a good and happy bucket baby, and that she has set up the Hanoverian mare in the stall next to him so that he can sniff and lick her and the mare tolerates it incredibly well! Plus - he can visually see her all the time, so he seems to take comfort in that as well.
It is so damned disheartening when you do everything so very, very right and things go so horribly wrong ... and when two of the nicest people imaginable are involved in the tragedy - it plain isnt fair at all ...
I guess too - the vets were pretty optimistic about everything, and no one knew how bad it was until they got Willow on the table and saw what they were dealing with.
To Gail's credit too - she said that Willow just didnt look right. They got hold of a previous owner that had her when she was a broodmare and she advised that Willow didnt produce much milk, so basically - not to worry too much. Still - Gail said that while she was eating - she wasnt eating like a broodmare should that had just foaled. While she was pooping - she wasnt pooping like a broodmare should, and even despite what the previous owner said about lack of milk, it just wasnt right, so thats why she got the vets in every day, and sometimes twice and 3 times in one day and kept persisting and insisting that something wasnt right.
I think a lot of us have been through foaling and post foaling tragedies and we can certainly relate to the horrible self doubts and second guessing you are both going through.
Knowing Gail, and learning more and more about the type of person Robby is, as time goes on, I cant think of 2 more responsible and conscientious people that would have gone to the ends of the earth to make sure whatever was humanly possible, was done for Willow, and whatever the right decision was - was done.
We cant ask for anything more from anyone.
"Spot"
Robby Johnson
Jun. 17, 2002, 06:52 PM
you are "spot-on."
I told Gail tonight that, had it been Willow in my backyard, she probably would've just died there. Knowing her, and knowing that odd "new" things could really throw her off her feed, I kept saying, "as long as she's drinking water and bright, and grazing, she'll be fine."
So I definitely credit Gail with knowing her stuff. I would've been torn apart had I just let my mare die with no further prodding by the vets.
Gail did very right by my mare. I will be forever indebted to her for that.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Tin
Jun. 17, 2002, 07:37 PM
gosh this still makes me cry when ever I read or think about it. Funny how a mare I never knew who was directly involved with 2 wonderful people I've never met could affect me so much. Life is wonderful.
Robby, you outlook is stellar and I must commend you for that, your much stronger than I could ever be or even wish to be.
And Gail you are remarkable. My best wishes to you and perfect little Ti Amo who must be the most loved colt in the world right now /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
~ Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once ~
IFG
Jun. 17, 2002, 08:07 PM
Wow, I never come to this forum, but I saw the heading on the opening page. I am so sorry Robby. I know how excited you have been about breeding Willow. I've seen your posts on the various eventing boards and followed your and Willow's stories with a soft spot because my first "favorite" horse was a mare named Willow.
I feel so badly for you. Good luck with Rhodey. May he bring light to you.
Lany
Fred
Jun. 18, 2002, 06:29 AM
Again, thank you to everyone for your kind condolences, messages here, and personal emails and phone calls. Your support and genuine love for Willow and sadness for Robby (and me) has meant a great deal.
Ti Amo is a very determined baby, and a good eater. My husband & I have him on an every-two-hours feeding schedule, and thank God he likes to drink from the bucket, that will make the transition a lot easier.
He tries to eat grass and alfalfa hay - but mostly he just walks around with a gummy wad in his mouth!
The Angel in all this has been Flaire, my old Hannoverian mare. Flaire was Willow's constant companion - they lived out together, and their stalls were side by side. Flaire worshipped Willow and allowed her to be boss all the time. When Willow foaled, Flaire never moved from her position staring into Willow's stall at the baby, with that beautiful soft expression in her eyes, nickering softly to him.
She has kept up the vigil, and the two go in and out together. We have rigged up the space between the baby's paddock and the one where Flaire used to go, and put Flaire in there.
He can see, hear, smell, and touch her at all times. Sometimes he puts his head through the fence (yikes!) to try to nurse, and Flaire just shifts her body away...(she loves him, but enough is enough).
We are guardedly optimistic. Ti Amo is a beautiful colt,with a confident, self assured attitude and he is growing like a weed.
Robby and I have come to a decision, that in addition to his Auntie Flaire, Ti Amo needs a double set of grandparents: Robby and I will be sharing ownership of him.
I loved my old mare (Mom) deeply - and she left me with three beautiful babies - Lucy, Cricket and Fred - her lasting legacy. She was a big, beautiful mare, dark, with just a star. With every baby that Lucy, Crick and Fred have, I know that that beautiful mare lives on. She lives on in Ti Amo
and so does Willow.
My husband and I hope Robby will have the comfort and pride we get from our mare's foals (and their foals!) too.
please keep jingling curb chains and thinking positive thoughts for this little boy!
thank you so much for your kindness.
Gail
Spot
Jun. 18, 2002, 06:51 AM
" Robby and I have come to a decision, that in addition to his Auntie Flaire, Ti Amo needs a double set of grandparents: Robby and I will be sharing ownership of him."
What a wonderful and classy decision ...
"Spot"
Tin
Jun. 18, 2002, 06:51 AM
Thank you Gail that made my day /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif I'm so glad Ti Amo is doing great and Flair sounds like one heck of a step- mom, what an amazing mare.
He's a lucky little guy who carries the legacy of some very special horses and is so loved. And it's absolutly wonderful that he now has two "parents", good luck guys!!!!
~ Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once ~
Robby Johnson
Jun. 18, 2002, 06:56 AM
what a beautiful message! (smiling through tears here)
I've not even thought of it this way ... you see a third generation from Mom, and I just see the second from Willow. I didn't make that connection when we spoke of her last night. I guess seeing it in b/w made me think of it. God, that makes him even more special.
My sister, who'd been out of town Thursday - yesterday, called me last night to express her sympathy (sobbing, of course) over her "niece" Willow. Since I don't have human children, my family is VERY accommodating of all of the "grand-dogs" and "grand-horses." We had a great conversation about Willow and I told her about the conversation Gail and I had just had.
Last year when we "sneaked" Willow to Tamarack Lane Farm, Gail hoped that her dark bay color would be camouflaging so her husband wouldn't notice, immediately, that she had another horse there! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif Hey, you horse people know where we're coming from here.
When he discovered Willow, he liked her. Within a month or so, Gail told me he said, "she reminds me of the old girl (Mom)." Gail said this was the highest compliment imaginable ... that God had spoken.
I reflect on this.
Why is it that, of all the people in the world who own horses, Gail and I found each other, and were able to make magic with breeding our horses to each other? Why would my mare, who is so similar to Mom, be the one that was selected to add to the quality that Gail has produced in her program?
I can't question it. Because the answer is obvious. It was meant to happen. (OK, I'm starting to feel like the Anne Rice book "The Witching Hour," ... with each generation the witch got stronger until one could finally give birth to a Taltos ... Gail, are we really ready for 8-foot tall semi-humans to populate the Earth?)
With this in mind, I am very happy that we've at least accomplished getting Ti Amo here. Now we must all keep him and Gail and Garnet in our thoughts. They are working very hard to ensure his survival, and I know their valiant efforts will pay off in dividends.
The image of Ti Amo with a gum wad of grass and alfalfa in his mouth puts a huge grin on my face. I guess I could say it "humanizes" ("horseinizes?") him to me. Gail says he squeals, kicks, bucks ... all the things a normal foal does.
Remember, too, that the only image I have of him (hint hint locals who have digital cameras or, better, video!) is the photo of him and Willow together. It's wonderful to get a mental picture of a horse that I own a part of through this forum.
Each day Ti Amo lives, my Willow lives. I told Gail last week that "for every ending, there is a beginning."
So here's my jingle for Ti Amo! You have so much to bring us, little man! You have taught me so much already.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Everythingbutwings
Jun. 18, 2002, 07:03 AM
But this time with a smile on my face.
Robby and Gail, when I lost my mare, my sister urged me to write down what happened and I am so glad that I did.
Gail, you are fortunate that Ti Amo likes the bucket. Maddie would have nothing to do with it! I am so glad that Willow's companion is mothering the foal, he will need to learn to be a horse.
The thought of your beloved animals existing in this beautiful colt is a wonderful one and I am thrilled that he will belong to both of you. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world, indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead
monstrpony
Jun. 18, 2002, 07:10 AM
My tears of sadness are turning to tears of a wonderful and special kind of joy.
What a class act! I am so proud to know you people, even just by sharing electrons.
Catalina
Jun. 18, 2002, 07:28 AM
How wonderful that this dark cloud has such a fabulous silver lining /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif . Ti Amo is very lucky to have you two as his 'parents'.
Portia
Jun. 18, 2002, 09:27 AM
I really got to stop this crying at work.
Gail, you are a wonderful person and a wonderful horsewoman. I don't need to meet you in person to know that, though I hope someday I will have that honor. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
******
"I hold it that a little rebellion, now and then, is a good thing..." [I]Thomas Jefferson
Heineken
Jun. 18, 2002, 09:46 AM
Robby and Gail:
What a beautiful addition to an unhappy story. Ti Amo sounds like he is hanging in there!
I'm trying REALLY hard not to cry, again, this week at work...
Founding member AQHA clique
PaulaM
Jun. 18, 2002, 09:47 AM
What a beautiful gesture Fred.
You both must know how sorry I was to hear of Willow's passing. She was truly a grand lady but I am also glad that she did leave a legacy in this colt.
Kafue
Jun. 18, 2002, 10:02 AM
I feel so sorry for both Robby and Fred how awful when such a happy occasion turns our so badly. Thank God for a beautiful foal, he truly is exceptional. I hope Robby gets to visit soon and the pain of such an unexpected loss eases. My deepest sympathies.
Bethe Mounce
Jun. 18, 2002, 11:22 AM
rises the phoenix of hope. Such a cliche' but so appropriate.
We're all horse people here and we can all relate to those special bonds of friendship we have developed over the years as we go on in our lives.
However, the story of A Fine Romance, Willow, Ti Amo, Gail and Robby has brought out the best in people. Gail and Robby's relationship and deep friendship is cemented for life. Both people I am priviledged to know and yes, it is an honor and a priviledge to know you two. Despite the grief and sadness, these two people rose above their pain to make a dream come true for each of them. Can't get any classier than that......
I don't meet folks like Gail and Robby often....they are the unsung hero's in our sport.
Bethe Mounce
Jun. 18, 2002, 11:28 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Robby Johnson:
Why is it that, of all the people in the world who own horses, Gail and I found each other, and were able to make magic with breeding our horses to each other? Why would my mare, who is so similar to Mom, be the one that was selected to add to the quality that Gail has produced in her program?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Because it was meant to be and the stars lined up so perfectly for Willow to be the Mom. And besides, this could only happen to you two people for your feelings demonstrated throughout this tragic ordeal have been a direct reflection of the kind of people both of you are. My hat is off to you both.
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Each day Ti Amo lives, my Willow lives. I told Gail last week that "for every ending, there is a beginning."<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
And Ti Amo is going to enjoy a very long and happy life.....as Willow did.....Ti Amo can become "Prince" as his Mom was such a "Princess."
Robby Johnson
Jun. 18, 2002, 11:49 AM
Prince William, not Prince Harry. I want the taller, pretty prince. Not the impish, pot-smoker.
Gail can have that side of him. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Portia
Jun. 18, 2002, 12:14 PM
he could become the balding but cute, Olympic bobsledding, playboy Prince Albert. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
******
"I hold it that a little rebellion, now and then, is a good thing..." Thomas Jefferson
Robby Johnson
Jun. 18, 2002, 12:23 PM
He's a hottie!
R.
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
crystalacresponies
Jun. 18, 2002, 12:55 PM
I have been praying that Robby would be part of this foal's life. Good for you Fred. You really have CLASS. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif Continued curb chains jingling for the little one.
Silly Mommy
Jun. 18, 2002, 01:14 PM
Where Robby was going to fit into this now. Gail, you are the GREATEST!
My parents once had a foal-sharing agreement (one of their stakes-producing broodmares) with one of the syndicate owners of Spectacular Bid (when he first went to stud and his fee was out of this world). The mare only had one foal (not her last--we bred her to Mandarin in a last ditch effort to see if she "could" still get pregnant) by Bid. It was sold at the Saratoga Select sales as a yearling, and they split the difference. When you see something like that in a contract, you never think it could happen... Uggg, I'm rambling.
Give that little boy another smooch for me!
You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
Gubgub
Jun. 18, 2002, 01:16 PM
Keep us posted on the little guy's progress.
And if you need ANYTHING at all, Fred, remember that you have my number. I'd be more than happy to take one of those "personal days" that I keep accumulating. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
hoopoe
Jun. 18, 2002, 02:22 PM
With all the /infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_mad.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif over USAE vs USET vs HITS vs blah blah blah
This is the real deal...
Bethe's quote
I don't meet folks like Gail and Robby often....they are the unsung hero's in our sport.
Give me these horsepeople any day over self important medal chasers, show manager$ and so called elete.
The "gails and robbies" of the horse world are the heart and soul of our sport. They are the ones I cheer for and they are the ones I want to be identified with.
They are the ones worth taking on the big "boys" for.
Pure love for the pure animal. ahhh sigh
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-- * > hoopoe
The ancient Greeks did not write obituaries. They only wanted to know if you had a passion.
BoldChance
Jun. 18, 2002, 02:44 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by hoopoe:
Pure love for the pure animal. ahhh sigh
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Exactly.
My heart lifted to hear of the arrangements for ownership of Ti Amo.
BC
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Lindsay & Chance
"Plus �a change, plus c'est la m�me chose."
--Samuel Johnson
^^^^Proud member of the DCSC!^^^^
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canadian eh?
Jun. 18, 2002, 03:30 PM
Fred/Gail, what an amazing thing for you to do, to share this special boy with Robby. I'm sure he will make you both very proud. You are a very special person, Robby was right to send Willow to be with you.
* jingle *
* jangle *
Wishing you long restful naps, in between your feedings. Good Luck, Ti Amo is lucky to have you. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
pintofoal
Jun. 18, 2002, 03:40 PM
I am so sorry to read about Willow, I had no idea. I peeked in at the beginning of the thread and saw your lovely photo of her and her foal. Then when I saw the length of this thread I was curious what was up and was sorry to see. Still have not read it all, but wanted to add my belated condolences, I am so sorry . /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Liz Hall
Silverwood Farm
http://www.silverwoodfarm.com Standing at stud: Art Deco, Hall of Fame, State of the Art, Spectrum and in 2003 Sempatico and Apollon (way tooo many stallions! for any sane person)
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sprite
Jun. 18, 2002, 04:46 PM
You two, Willow and Ti Amo, have been in my thoughts all week, keeping me locked to this BB, waiting for some good news...can I just say what a pair of class acts I think you both are? And what wonderful "grandparents" you will make for the foal. He will surely not be lacking for love!
As a side note, I have had the unfortunate priviledge of raising several orphan foals in the past. None of mine learned to drink out of the bucket. Willow's foal is one SMART baby. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif
Looks like he's got brains as well as good looks!
Indecision may or may not be my problem.
Mary in Area 1
Jun. 18, 2002, 08:46 PM
I am overwhelmed with grief. I was so thrilled to read about Willow and her foal, and see the lovely picture. I've been so busy, and I just got around to checking back. I feel I've known Robby for years, and Gail and I exchanged a number of emails last year. I considered sending my mare to her as well...
How could this happen to such loving people, and to such a well-cared for mare? Makes me so depressed. I am so lucky to have bred my mare once, and have a healthy 2 year old filly. I wish it wasn't so late right now, I'd like to go out and hug her for awhile.
I am very glad Robby and Gail will be sharing the ownership of Ti Amo. What a lovely and fitting tribute to a wonderful mare.
My heartfelt condolences to you both. I wish I was nearby to help Gail with those late night feedings!
Helen
Jun. 18, 2002, 09:39 PM
...simultaneously. With all those icons, you'd never expect to not be able to find exactly the right one. :*-)
It's lovely seeing hope blooming in Ti Amo's paddock... I've been depressed all week, since I read about Willow's passing, but Gail's post has heartened me. If I didn't live halfway across the continent, I'd be over there in a second adding to the adorable little guy's photo gallery!
Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.
Jair
Jun. 19, 2002, 10:37 AM
I am absolutley heart-wrenched by what has happened - I am so sorry Robby /infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif Willow Bay was such a special girl.
But my heart is touched again, but happily this time, knowing that you will always be a part of her foal's life, and that your beloved mare will live on through him. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif He is well named!!
Thinking of you.
aereal
Jun. 19, 2002, 12:00 PM
Thankfully, Willow and Ti Amo have the good fortune to be loved by two such wonderful people.
Thank You for sharing your lives and theirs with us.
All my love and best wishes to all.
XO
Anne FS
Jun. 19, 2002, 01:27 PM
Just found this thread. I'm so sorry, Robby & Gail, for Willow's passing. God bless you both and your Ti Amo, too. This is just heartbreaking. I wish all the best for you both and for Ti Amo in the future.
If you are ever able to talk about it, was Willow's impaction just a horrible coincidence that it happened after foaling, or is it somehow one of those things that can somehow be more likely to happen after foaling (impactions can happen anytime, I know), like uterine tears and retained placentas? The reason I ask is because there was some debate at our barn about breeding a mare who had once had colic surgery. One person did successfully breed several years after this surgery (the surgery was the only time (knock wood) in her life the mare had colic), while others said that mares are more likely to colic after foaling, while others said no, that wasn't true. Any thoughts?
mbp
Jun. 19, 2002, 04:20 PM
late to this thread, but I am so sorry for Robby and everyone. It isn't easy for anyone to look at such a beautiful animal as Willow and watch her leave us.
I lost my beautiful Wendy too, in post foaling trauma. It kills me to this day. People by and large have no idea how much heartache there is in breeding. I told my vet from the beginning - I can stand losing a foal, but not my girls. And the first thing that happened was I lost my girl. My heart is with you Robby. (and you too Gail - a very classy act)
mountain girl
Jun. 19, 2002, 04:56 PM
We all care so much for these large and generous horsepeople whom most of us have never laid eyes on, but with whom we are so connected. I am so glad they are to be coparents. This whole week I have not been able to stop thinking over and over, "Gail, save Ti Amo for Robby!" Now the silver lining that is Ti Amo may carry on the legacy of the great mares that they have loved. My tears are slowing down...Is the little guy eligible for dual citizenship?
from coastal Maine, where boatlovers rule, and horselovers ride.
Spot
Jun. 19, 2002, 05:03 PM
I'm not sure about Robby since I have only seen pictures of him, but having seen Gail LOTS of times, I can vouch that your comment isnt 100% accurate:
"We all care so much for these large and generous horsepeople whom most of us have never laid eyes on,"
Generous - YES! Large - nope! And I think she's a little old to be in the "family way" herself, so dont think THAT's it either!
(just kidding of course - I know what you meant and I couldnt agree more!)
Hey Gail and Robby - I hope that this beyond outpouring of support is helping somewhat, and Gail - guess Ive gotta come out and help with bucket chores real soon!
Give me directions off 2/53 and I'll be out to see you - let me know ...
"Spot"
Robby Johnson
Jun. 20, 2002, 04:42 AM
Spot, this thread has been such a comfort to me this week. You all will never know how much your kind emails and posts have meant to me, and how much they have helped.
I am now the child Gail and Garnet never had. I'm going to begin whining about needing to move back home very soon. /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Gubgub
Jun. 20, 2002, 05:46 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Robby Johnson:
I am now the child Gail and Garnet never had.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
I don't know, Robby, you don't look much like "Dad!"
Robby Johnson
Jun. 20, 2002, 06:44 AM
at that comment! I was delivered on a bed of rose petals, and immediately wrapped in Gail's vintage Hermes scarf. She is Grace Kelly. I am Prince Albert.
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Gubgub
Jun. 20, 2002, 07:50 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Robby Johnson: I was delivered on a bed of rose petals, and immediately wrapped in Gail's vintage Hermes scarf. _ <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
And tucked gently in betwixt the Stratocaster and the Ukelele?!? /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
So glad Ti Amo is doing well so far. Must be all that positive energy (and Gail's hard work, of course!)
Chaser
Jun. 20, 2002, 08:47 AM
I read this thread first of all when you posted that super picture of Willow and her beautiful colt. I was so shocked to find out what had happened when I returned to it.
I am so sorry Robby.
I have followed your stories about Willow for some time and was surprised how upset I was, testimony to her character and your writing.
Ti Amo is a wonderful legacy and from the sound of it already shows a huge character himself. I hope you and Gail have lots of fun with him.
Fred
Jun. 22, 2002, 05:55 PM
It's hard to believe that the little guy is 15 days old today.
It's been a very sad and exhausting time, but I am optimistic.
Ti Amo is a very confident and self assured fellow.The young woman who helps with me my barn chores commented, "he walks proud". Indeed he does.
Flaire is still earning a row of gold stars (as if she needed them) and the two graze side by side. In his stall he always sleeps near the wall closest to her. I cram alfala hay between the bars of their stalls so that they can 'share', and he is nibbling hay as well as a few foal milk pellets.
He is very fast, and loves to race around his paddock at a 45% angle, leaping, bucking and rearing. I, of course, have reached all-new record high levels of neurosis. (hard to imagine for those who know me).
Presently, I am doing an impromtu study on the aphrodisiac properties of the scent of foal lac...
at least the barn cats love me...
I have some more pictures, which I will email to Robby, and which I hope he will post.
thanks everyone, for your kind words. Your support has meant a great deal.
time to go feed the Little Prince - and then to bed for a couple of hours. g'night
Silly Mommy
Jun. 22, 2002, 06:06 PM
Thanks for the update!
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> Presently, I am doing an impromtu study on the aphrodisiac properties of the scent of foal lac...
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
OMG I am ROLLING, then I read further -
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>at least the barn cats love me...
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Now peeing my pants!!!
Thanks for the laughter as well! Get some sleep girlie!!! g'night.
You have to be smarter than the horse, and since that will never happen, pretend you are.
"See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time."
Robin Williams /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
eventamy
Jun. 22, 2002, 06:11 PM
I can't wait to see new pictures! Please post Robby when you get them!
bucksnort
Jun. 22, 2002, 08:13 PM
Thanks for the update /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif I really wish I lived nearer so I could come help you out, it sounds like you need a vacation! /infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif Glad to hear the little guy is doing alright. You are my hero!!
Robby Johnson
Jun. 23, 2002, 04:20 AM
but I'm also going to get to see him live and in person on July 18!!! I'm so excited!
Robby
p.s. Gail, ROFL re: your study on the aphrodisiac qualities of foal-lac. As you know, I can't cough or laugh too hard since Friday morning's surgery ... so this is really tough!
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Bethe Mounce
Jun. 23, 2002, 06:36 AM
to see laughter coming from this particular thread; laughter is such good medicine for those whose hearts are heavy. So good to hear Ti Amo is thriving and growing like a weed......his Auntie next door is such a good girl.
The aphrodesiac thing has me snorting all over my keyboard! /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Spot
Jun. 23, 2002, 01:03 PM
I'll see if I can come by and meet you on the 18th - now that I have directions to the "Fred Estate", I promised I'd come by and help out beforehand, but would love to meet the infamous Robby in person as well! (then I can answer any enquiries about you in an unbiased manner!)
Do you need any post op care that perhaps Gail and I can offer to you?! /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif
"Spot"
Robby Johnson
Jun. 23, 2002, 01:59 PM
To meet the infamous Spot. I should be fine by the 18th re: post-op care, but, still, some homemade fried chicken would be great! LOL! (What is good Canadian food? Canadian bacon?)
Also, we must involve Heidi in this too!
Robby
You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
Nikita
Jun. 23, 2002, 02:52 PM
I'm another one that read the beginning of this thread and just came back to it to see why it was getting so long.
/infopop/emoticons/icon_frown.gif I'm so very sorry and absolutely in shock. Robby, I'm just happy that you're getting to meet Fred and Ti Amo in person!
But are you sure you want to meet Spot at the same time? Trust me, she can be scary and you've all been through so much already. /infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif
....aka Radar
Spot
Jun. 23, 2002, 04:38 PM
Gail already knows me REAL well and Robby has heard nothing but the nicest of things about me, so I KNOW he is REALLY looking forward to meeting me as well!
So - you can try as you may to spread your evil gossip, it wont work ...
Plus - if you're not nice to me, I wont bring Sato by any more for a drive-by breeding of your mare ... wasnt THAT fun this morning in 100F + temperatures!
So remember - no nice things said about your sister - no little spermies any more ...
"Spot"
Nikita
Jun. 24, 2002, 08:50 AM
Hi Robby
You'll really enjoy meeting Spot. /infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
She's truly lovely in every way.
She's a good cook
a wonderful mother
a truly talented horsewoman
excellent in business
and the best looking one in our family.
She really didn't beat me senseless on a daily basis when we were children; she was always a nice, kind older sister that I looked up to and admired. Her sense of humour kept many people not only entertained, but in awe of her creativity. Even when it involved pigs hearts (don't ask) and her sister making "You don't remember me? We had such a good time last weekend. But how did your socks get in my purse?" phone calls to her boss after he was away at a convention.
Yes Spot is truly a gem. You are one lucky individual to be meeting Spot. Have fun!
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