Your prayers and jingles are needed for our BB member 'free'

[Fred]

I have taken the liberty of crossposting about this because many of you may not go to the eventing forum.
I don't know how to post a link,
but our dear friend 'free' has suffered a serious stroke.. please send her your strongest healing thoughts, love and best wishes.
If anyone else knows how to post a link to the other thread, I would appreciate it.
Praying for a full recovery for you Mary.
xo
Gail

[Cashela]

jingling

[incentive]

jingling furiously here in VA

[Ethalo2]

Major jingles from MD

[Sobriska]

Sending special prayers and jingles for free. Wishing a complete and speedy recovery.

[LongLeaf]

Georgia jingles for Free and her family.

[Green Acres]

Jingling here for Free!!!

Here is the link to the thread mentioned:

http://chronicleforums.com/groupee/forums/a/tpc/f/2096094911/m/753209557

[Daydream Believer]

Oh no! Sending jingles and best wishes to Free for a speedy and complete recovery!

[OldLadyOnATB]

Major jingles from Hurricane ravaged south Louisiana...aka The Swamp.

Elizabeth

[equinelaundry]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif Healing thoughts coming your way from Ohio Mary. Stay strong.

[shawnee_Acres]

HAve never understood "jingling" But I will keep "free" in my prayers

[Cherry]

Praying and jingling in Pennsylvania! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Bea]

I'm so sorry to hear this news. Major jingles coming from NY for free.

[Linny]

I just got off the phone with a COTHer who told me about Free. I am so sorry and sending prayers and jingles for her.

[2DogsFarm]

Hoosier Jingles and strength for free and her family
I am not normally a praying woman, but an exception will be made - ought shock the bejeebers outta the Lord... http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/winkgrin.gif

[vineyridge]

Dang! She's just gotten a couple of CANTER horses, too.

Jingling that it's a minor stroke and that she'll be back to herself in just a few days or weeks with good PT.

[pooh]

jingling from PA!!! hoping all goes well and she has a great PT!!!!

[Horsaholic]

Lots of jingles from CA for Free!! Will thinking of you!

[HopelessHunter]

Jingling in NC... Get well soon! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Peggy]

Jingling from Southern California.

[Party Rose]

Southern California is jingling as hard & loudly as we can.

[free]

Hi this is Free's son Andy. Thank you all for your wonderful thouhgts and prayers. She is doing as best as we know right now. It is a wiating game right now on how she will responed to her treatment. Thank you.

Andy

[War Admiral]

OMG, I am *so* sorry to hear this. Many MANY jingles from GA for a card-carrying member of the Mighty TB Clique!!

Get well soon, Free.

[blueboo]

Strokes are scary scary things. JINGLES from Utah for Free and her family.

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

If all our thoughts can make it so, she will have a speedy and full recovery. Wishing you the best.

[Jessi P]

JINGLES JINGLES JINGLES from Wild West Virginia.

Free, you and your family are in our thoughts. All the best to you and yours! Stay strong.

[Bugs-n-Frodo]

Oh no Andy, I am so sorry! Sending LOTS of JINGLES your way, for you and your dad, and MANY more for Free!

Please, when you get a chance, please remind her that we are jingling for her and that we are ALL thinking and praying for her.

Thanks for the updates Andy, we all appreciate them.

Thoughts and prayers...

[Fessy's Mom]

Jingling like crazy from MA for free! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif

[caryledee]

Big jingles and positive thoughts for free and her family!

[OakesBrae]

Lots and lots of JINGLES from Indiana!

Free, you are in our thoughts and prayers!

[Quinn]

Jingling, praying and sending positive energy your way. Please keep us posted Andy.

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Elliesmom]

Jingling like crazy here in Michigan!

[Tiffany01]

Originally posted by Cherry:
Praying and jingling in Pennsylvania! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

ditto to that.

[The Fjord Jockey]

Oh NO! Free is such a sweetie and offered SO MUCH help when she found out about my horse....

JINGLE!!!!!!!! Please keep us posted and tell her we all hope she is doing better!!!!

[Laurierace]

Got the whole crew here jingling for a complete recovery.

[happy mouth]

Oh no, I am so sorry to hear this. Sending masses of JINGLES and
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
and not to forget, sending prayers.

[monstrpony]

Lots and lots of jingles for a speedy recovery!

[maxiford812]

Jingles from SC for free and her family

[Arado]

Jingles and prayers for a speedy recovery

[ESG]

Texas-sized jingles from Cypress, plus lots of healing thoughts.

C'mon, free - it's just one more jump to get over. You can do it! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Duffy]

Lots more jingling and positive thoughts from Virginia!!!!

[Scootie]

Good throughts and best hopes for free and her family.

[Boston Chicken]

Thinking good thoughts here in Boston.

[SeaOat]

Wishing a speedy recovery for our very special COTH friend.

[talloaks]

Sending lots of prayers for a full recovery and lots of jingles from Virginia!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[stephjm]

How scary. Lots of jingles and prayers for a full recovery.

[17handtb]

So very sorry to hear this. Hang in there, Free. You've got a lot of people (and horses, no doubt) pulling for you!

[lunatic fringe]

Jingles for free!!!! Don't forget that the horses will be waiting for you and will be good therapy in your recovery!!!

[Pixie Dust]

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope she's doing okay.

[2 tbs]

Originally posted by shawnee_Acres:
HAve never understood "jingling" But I will keep "free" in my prayers

Shawnee_Acres - jingling as in curb chains and any other chain related to horses. It's in the FAQ's section or something but somewhere along the line jingles were started for "good luck" "get well" "healing thoughts" and it just stuck...much like may other CoTH things like fruitbat etc.

Big Jingles from the Pgh area! Hope Free responds well and can return to her normal self in no time!!

[relocatedTXjumpr]

Lots of jingles from me and the beasties.

Hoping for a speedy recovery.

[Janet]

From the thread on the Eventing section" I have really really really good news. The doctors told us today that they are going to take Mary off the ventilator because she is breathing on her own. They are going to try it for four hours and see how she does. This is really good because they thought they might have to put in a restpirator yesterday. I am so proud of her. She is a tough woman and I know she is fighting as hard as she can.

Thanks again,
Andy

[Quinn]

Janet, thanks for relaying that wonderful news!

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Coreene]

Hang in there, Free! We are all with you in thoughts and spirit. Here is Oliver jingling for you.

[BAC]

I will keep her in my prayers.

[Wicky]

More jingles from Boston!

[Irish Momma]

Just checked in and saw this - how terrible ...JINGLES JINGLES JINGLES for you Free.
Keep on fighting to get better.

[Irish Ei's]

Furious double-fisted NY Irish Jingles...Kick On!!!

[Janet]

There is another update on the Eventing forum, from earlier this morning. Thank you everyone for your kind words of in couragement. Mary is doing about the same today. The doctors are going to take her breathing tube out today though. She has been breathing on her own for more than twenty four hours now. She looks incredible for what she has gone through. Now we have to sit and wait and see how the blood clot will drain. The doctors say that it could take up to two months, but we are hoping it won't take that long. I talk to her every day and tell her that her friends on coth are pulling for her. My dad and I printed out all of your replies and we are going to read them to her. I will be baack tonight to update everyone. Thank you very much.

Andy

Also, if you go to the eventing board, you can read about how well one of her horses did in competition this weekend.

[Janet]

Another update Hi everyone. I am happy to say that the doctors are going to try and wake her up today. They are going to take her off most her medication and see if she wil wake up. Please keep her in their thoughts and prayers because this is an important day. I know you all will. Thank youvery much.

Andy

[chai]

jingling from MA. Thanks for the cross post, Janet. I hope the news is good.

[Fessy's Mom]

Jingling and praying for good news about free. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[ChocoMare]

Now, Free darlin', this is not the way to get a vacation. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/winkgrin.gif

Prayers for a speedy and complete recovery. Remember: Nothing is impossible for God!

[jilltx]

Keeping the jingles rockin' along from Texas!!

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Tiramit]

We're pulling for you here in VA, free! Hang in there and we'll be waiting for your next BB post! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Quinn]

Still jingling like crazy here! As it is the Canadian Thanksgiving next Monday, we would love to be extra thankful for a speedy and full recovery. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[jetjocky]

Big Shenandoah Valley jingles for free...Hoping for some good news soon!

[Fred]

still jingling for you free!
ox
Gail

[greycaramel2000]

jingling madly from florida
(((((HUGS)))))
ChEsLeIgH

[Janet]

Oct 6, 8AM
Hi everyone. Mary is doing good. She shows small improvement every day. The doctors did an other ct scan yesterday and the blood clot hasn't gotten bigger so they were happy with that. Thank you very much for the prayers and jingles for her.

Andy

[Draygonfyne]

Adding my jingles for free........

[Irish Ei's]

Hanging a Curbchain on Bob's Halter......It's gonna get noisy 'round here!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_cool.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[SeaOat]

Continuous thoughts and prayers.
XOXOXOXOXO

[Equinetech]

jingle jingle jingle!

Thanks for cross posting the updates!

[Bea]

Jingling continuing in NY for Free!

[Janet]

Another update.
Hi everyone. I am writing to tell you yet again my mom seems to be improving ever so slightly again. Every day she seems to improve. It is hard to see her every day in the hospitial bed, but it is fine if she will return one day to the farm. Thank you very much for the support and prayers.

Andy

[Janet]

Another update- not so good, but apparently not "abnormal". Hang in there.
Hi everyone. I am sorry to damper your spirits today with some bad news. Swelling has set in around Mary's blood clot. We are hoping it will go down. Really that is own only option right now because the surgery is to dangerous. Her blood clot is about ear level and they would have to go from the top of her head to get to the blood clot if they preformed surgery. I hope to inform you with better news soon. Right now all we can do is wait.

Andy

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

oh no!


jingling furiously, you wouldn't believe all thenoise I am making

[Duffy]

Continued prayers and jingling from Virginia!

Thank you for the crosspost updates, Janet.

[Luvinfoofy]

Jingles from Iowa!!!

We miss you!

[Tiffany01]

jingles again !!!!!!!!!

[Merry]

As I haven't been posting much, I am late to this thread.

I sincerely hope that <span class="ev_code_BLUE">Free</span> continues to improve, and that she feels the closeness of her family, her friends and her COTH BB'ers.

When you're in the hospital, just a kind word-- a smile, the mention that people are thinking of you-- means so much.

I am jingling Merry's Very Own, Original #1 Curb Chain for you, Free. Can you hear it? http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Mariposa]

I am late to this thread too. I am adding my jingles... Jingling like crazy for Free!

[KateB]

Jingles for Free from our family. And jingles for Andy and the rest of the family as well.
You're all in our thoughts.

[jilltx]

Time for more ***JINGLES***.

[Irish Ei's]

No Backwards !!! Forward only, Free.....Prayers and more (still) Jingling

[sprucie]

More major jingles from NY!

[cgn38]

Thoughts and prayers from NY.

[Janet]

Very sad update.
Hi everyone. I am really sadden to tell you that last night we had to make a terrible decision. We had to follow my mother's wishes and there isn't any hope that she is going to recover from the blood clot to have a sort of normal life. She would be hooked to tubes the rest of her life and wouldn't be coherent to anything. She had told me, my father, and bother if this would ever happen to her to let her go. So last night our family let the doctors know of her wishes and they are going to remove the drain from her head. I am really sad inform you of this. But it was time to follow her wishes because we gave her every chance possible. Thank you very much for the support and incouragment you have given our family.

Andy

[goobs]

oh no! I am so sorry Andy - what a horrible decision your family had to make. It's good knowing that that was what your mom wanted - hopefully that will be some comfort. I can't believe it, my deepest most profound sympathy goes out to you. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/no.gif

[17handtb]

Oh, I am so, so sorry - :*( - I only "knew" Free through various BB chats and PTs, but she was such a kind, warm-spirited woman. That shone through her messages. I applaud her wonderful family for following her wishes and taking such good care of her. My heart goes out to you all.

Free will never be forgotten.

[vxf111]

I am so so sorry. I didn't notice this thread earlier, but Free was a fixture on COTH and always a positive influence. She will be missed. RIP.

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

my deepest sympathy to you and your family

[BasqueMom]

Andy,

Deepest sympathies on your loss. We will miss her here on the BB as well.

[houndsRus]

Andy,

All my prayers for you and your family. Please look for sustenance in the deep love and abiding courage you all have shown in respecting your mother’s dignity and honoring the meaningfulness of the life she shared with you.

Ol'hound

[Tiffany01]

omg that gave me a chill and teary eyed....im sooo sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif "free" is now free. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

[Spirit_Rider16]

Major jingles from Massachusetts for Free! Hoping and praying that she'll recover quickly.

[Jessi P]

Big big big hugs to Mary's family to help get through this difficult time. Mary is indeed now "free," as I am sure she would have wanted.

So sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

[J Swan]

My deepest condolences.

[jilltx]

I wish a swift and painless passing for Free.

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family, Andy. Thanks for keeping us posted at this difficult time. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif

[Instant Karma]

Oh my... how horrible. That brings tears to my eyes. What a selfless decision you made... I am so so so very sorry. I know no words can explain what you are feeling right now, nor can they comfort you.

But rest assured she is watching over you now, thankful for the decision you made for her.

What a tremendous loss http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/no.gif

Godspeed Free http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif

[Abbey_Normal]

my condolences and jingles for your family and the friends.

Ana

[SeaOat]

Dear Andy,

I'm so sorry to hear Mary isn't recovering as we'd all prayed. You are in our thoughts with hopes your family finds peace in this sad time.

Jordan (Fjordjock, who is not near a computer) was moved to tears by Mary's generosity and will be deeply saddened by this news. She spoke of your kind e-mail recently and was urgently trying to recover Marys photos before she left the equipment. (Please PT me your address when you've time as I'll be sure they get to you.)

Mary's kindness reminded this 19 year old, very distraught girl, that treasured events often come from surprising places. She was truly grateful to have met Mary and felt blessed that she gained a new friend because of that horse. We hope that would have pleased Mary.

[Sobriska]

Godspeed Free.

[Daydream Believer]

Oh I am so sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif My condolences to you and your family. Free will be missed here on COTH.

[relocatedTXjumpr]

God Speed Mary.

I am sure she was greeted by those who crossed the bridge before her, human and horse.

[JulieMontgomery]

So very sorry ......

[cgray0983]

**Jingling**

[Cashela]

I'm so sorry .

[Noctis]

Andy,

My thoughts, my prayers are with you and your family. I am relatively new to the forums, but Free was an inspiration to me. As others have said, now she is truly free. May your family have some comfort in that. Thank you for sharing your mother with all of us at CoTH that loved her also. She will be missed greatly.

Prayers,

Marisa

[BelladonnaLily]

I'm so sorry. My sincere condolences to the family. Godspeed, free.

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif

[Janet]

Latest news
HI everyone. Thank you everyone for the wonderful support. The doctors moved Mary to a new room so we can be with her at all times now. So we have a family member with her twenty four seven now. She has had a temp for the last two days. We just have bee with her as much as possible. I would like to thank the people who posted about how they had to go through that same situation as we are going through. I know how hard it is to believe it is accutally happening to you. Sometimes I think it is just a bad dream and it will go a way but I never wake up. Thanks very much for being by our side during this crisis.

Andy

SHE ISN'T DEAD.

BTW, I know Andy reads the thread in Eventing, but I don't know if he reads this one.

[snkstacres]

I have many many reasons to believe in miracles and will just ask for another. Bless you all.

[luvmytbs]

Praying for a huge miracle here too!

[ESG]

Still jingling and praying. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

I misunderstood - so still jingling furiously that she will recover.

And change my donation from "in memory" to "in honor."

[Fessy's Mom]

I'm so sorry for this turn of events. I also didn't really know free, but she was kind and generous enough to help with Abe's vet bills and I will be forever grateful to her for that. She truly had a passion for the love and care of TB's. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

Prayers for free and her family and loved ones. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

[Linny]

I'll keep praying that somehow Free will recover. Andy, you and the rest of your family are in my prayers.

[Instant Karma]

Ohh I misunderstoodhttp://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif

Well let's all jingle for a miracle then, stranger things have happened.

JINGLE JINGLE JINGLE

[Fred]

Still hoping for a miracle, and sending you love, strength and courage.
In honour of free,and her love for Thoroughbreds, a number of people are making donations to Canter - there is a thread on this page about "Pal Joey" that has that info.
xo
Gail

[M.K.Smith]

I don't know that there are right words in a time like this. I offer my condolences to Free's family and friends. If a miracle can't take place then we can only hope that soon she'll be meeting her friends at the rainbow bridge. <<hugs>>

[Janet]

Better news! Hi everyone. I am glad to bring some good news to you tonight. I am sorry for this rollercoaster ride of news, but my mom opened her left eye today. She also moved both hands. She put her tumb up a little and my bother asked her to play the piano and she did with her right fingers. When she opened her eyes we asked her if she could see her and she even nodded yes. I couldn't believe my eyes when she did that. We told her that we loved her and I told her that everyone is pulling for her on coth. She even gave two small smiles when we tol her this. The doctors are going to do another ct scan soon. I think this took them by a big surprise. I hope this is the start of a wonderful miracle. Thank you for all the support you have given us.

Andy

[horsesourcetexas]

YAY!!! Great news! I am jingling every curb chain I picked up today (no small feat considering I cleaned all 37 bridles this afternoon). I hope she can hear them from here. Best wishes.

[RoyalTRider]

Praying for a miracle... it can happen. God bless you and your family, Free.

[JulieMontgomery]

Great news .....

God bless you all.

[Fessy's Mom]

What wonderful news! How wonderful to hear that she's doing so well.

More prayers for her continued recovery!

[M.K.Smith]

<<jingles>> & prayers for a miracle. What great news!

[summerhill]

Jingling from Canada!! The power of prayer is a very powerful tool - praying here too!!!

[sprucie]

Continuous major jingles from NY!

[hijumpin1]

Jingles from Indiana!!!

[Fancy]

Jingles from Michigan. Go, Free!!!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

How wonderful!!! The Board Mojo is very powerful.

Be sure that Free knows about the horse(s) from CANTER she is "sponsoring..."

[Linny]

I've never met her in person but "Free" is a thoroughbred girl so she's a friend of mine. She comes highly recommended by Xctrygirl as a great person.

She's in my prayers every day. It sure does seem that she's not ready to leave this life.

Prayers, jingles, good wishes and LOFF to Mary and her family.

[Lazydacres]

Was very happy to read the update and sending continued well wishes and prayers for Free!

[caryledee]

That is awesome news!! Tell her she must recover so she can meet the horse being adopted in her honor!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Big Jingles for Free!

[Instant Karma]

Unbelievable, go Freehttp://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

We are all pulling for you and your family.

[Duffy]

Yeah! More jingles from Virginia! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[millwrightmomma]

fantastic

This is great news.
jingling madly from our farm.

maureen and family

[BlackWatchLady]

Prayers and good thoughts for a continued improvement!

[Louise]

Continued jimgles from my neck of the woods for free. I can't imagine better news!

[Fred]

jingling here in cold and rainy Ontario, and so happy for good news! kick on free!

[jilltx]

Behold the power of the **jingle**...and lots of thoughts and prayers!!

Sending more your way!

[Horsaholic]

HUGE JINGLES from CA for Free!! We are praying for you..

[Quinn]

Andy, my Monday morning is now so much brighter. Thanks for sharing the fabulous news! To echo Fred, "kick on Free."

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Sandbarhorse]

Well, glad I'm among those who misunderstood the post on Eventing and even happier to hear the great news!! Jingling and praying for Free/Mary and hoping to hear only good news from here on out!!

[SeaOat]

Whoo-hoo!!!! We're completely overwhelmed with this great news!!!! My grandmother did the same thing, beat the odds, and at a very mature age to boot. Can't wait to tell the kiddo the good news, she asks everyday.

I'm looking forward to Free tickling her keyboard here soon.
XOXOXOXO & a rapid recovery!!

[EBO]

That's wonderful news!

More and stronger jingles from California.

[Salar]

Free has been in my thoughts and prayers too. Any updates would be appreciated!!!

[beameup]

adding major jingles and a prayer from NY, for a miraculous recovery .

[relocatedTXjumpr]

Just read this. What GREAT news!

Jingling away here in the GA mountains!

[Susie Q]

As I perpetual lurker on these boards, I've been keeping track of this thread since it began!

**Jingle's** from Canada!

[Janet]

Another good update!
Latest update on Mary - Andy is very busy at the Florida Horse Park (their first event is November 5th & 6th) so I am giving you the latest news.
Mary continues to make baby step improvements in her recovery. On Saturday & Sunday she was communicating with us with hand movements based on our verbal commands. On Sunday she opened her eyes and saw her son Gene Ray waving to her. She suddenly raised her right arm and waved back! It was great surprise to have her respond to what she saw visually.
Today she gave a thumbs-up to her doctor after he awoke her from a deep sleep.
The weekend activities made her very tired and
she has spent the last 2 days resting very comfortably. This is a very slow healing process and she has both good and bad days. We are very happy to have all of your jingles, prayers, and encouragement. We now think of all of you as Mary's extended family.

Joe

[Instant Karma]

Oh. My. God. I can't believe what you all must be feeling right now. What an extreme rollercoaster of emotions. From such grim circumstances only a couple of days ago, to consistant positive progress in such a short time.

Unreal! Let's keep JINGLING for some more miracles here... come on Free, we are all routing for you!!!

[LoriO]

rollercoaster ride is right!!! Still jingleing here in CT!!!!!!!!!

[jetsmom]

What fantastic news!!!! Come on Free...keep getting better! We're all pulling for you!

Big jingles from Texas!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

From one oTTB lover to another, Mary....jingling furiously! And that's my boy Ted waving that bag of mellowcreme pumpkins at you!

[Janet]

Latest update (from Thursday evening)Hi everyone. This Andy writing tonight telling you that Mary is doing great. She opened both eyes today. She even is breathing well and coughing less and less. Now we just wait and see how well mentally she comes back. I want to thank you for all the wonderful posts that you have writen. The Horse Park is moving along quite nicely. I am excited to see some of you at the show.

[blueboo]

Multiple Jingles still coming in from Utah! (even the cats are in on the act!) WONDERFUL news!

[Daydream Believer]

OMG! I just checked back in with this thread! What wonderful news! Sending prayers and jingles to Free and her family. Keep on hanging in there!

[Janet]

Another good update, from late Friday night MORE GREAT NEWS ABOUT MARY!!! She had a wonderful day and is communicating with us. She can open her eyes and will look around the room. I asked her if she knew she was in the hospital and she nodded yes. We play music for her and she also nodded yes to liking it. Mary has had a tremondous week of recovery thanks to her strong spirit and all of your wonderful support on COTH. We read many of your posts to her and she seems to still know some of your COTH "handles". When I ask her if she knew who "Fred" was, she nodded yes! Thanks Gail for the CD that arrived today - I played "Small Victories" for Mary tonight. I am writing this with tears of joy in my eyes tonight. Thank you all you COTH'ERS for your strong support during this very difficult time.
Note to FlightCheck & Bensmom - thanks for your generous support of the special award in Mary's honor at the Florida Horse Park. Mary would be both embarrassed and honored. I hope she can present it to the winner next year.
Note to LAZ - Mary, I now believe, will be there next year to walk the back side of the track with you in September.
Note to everyone involved - Thanks for the Pal Joey & Red River Red efforts.

Joe

[M.K.Smith]

Absolutely wonderful news... miracles do happen!

[Sannois]

What wonderful news! We are all pulling for her! Please keep us updated! Jingles still coming!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Vandy]

Best wishes for continued miracles! Go Mary!

[Linny]

I am thrilled and amazed. This is wonderful knews.

Poor Xcntrygirl had a tough two days, THIS will turn her mood right around!!!

To "Free," You keep fighting, we'll keep praying!!

[The Fjord Jockey]

I am thrilled to hear that Mary is doing so well.

I can honestly say that she is THE nicest person I have met on this forum, and has been so helpful to me in so many ways.

If anybody deserves good news and happy days, it's Mary and those closest to her. I am so happy that she is doing better.

[Fred]

great, great, great news!!!
xo
Gail

[snkstacres]

Even with such wonderful news, I cry when I catch up on these posts. Not tears of sadness, tears of joy, never have I met such a wonderful group of caring people as I have on here. No darn wonder people think of this as extended family. While we appear to be simply screen names, reading some of these posts, we know better. I am so proud to be a part of this family.

[ESG]

What fabulous news! Go, Mary, go! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

I'm not sure I believe in God, less on some days than others. But I do believe that the power of a collective consciousness can work miracles. I think we have a sterling example of it, right here. Whatever bless all of you. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

With all of us pulling for her...maybe we can work miracles.

[SeaOat]

That's about the best news we could have imagined! XOXOXO

[vxf111]

AMAZING NEWS! Gogogogogo!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Janet]

Another good update. Hi everyone, thanks again for your strong support.

Update on Mary - Halloween is one of Mary's favorite holidays. Last night she listened to the eerie haunted house she bought in August. She also is wearing very colorful halloween socks with pumpkins, black cats, etc.
Mary's continues to improve. It's always a treat to see what she can do new every day. Last night she moved her right arm up to her chest and was moving her fingers trying to scratch. Later when I asked her if she was okay, she SAID very softly "uh-uh". What a wonderful surprise!

Note to FlightCheck - You better be practicing the "Equine Spriit Award" presentation because many of Mary's close family will be there and we have 3 OTTB's entered in the show with Crystal riding. If one of Mary's horses wins the award, there won't be a dry eye anywhere.
Good luck to all riders and horses. Here's to a great weekend and successful show.

Joe You need to go over to the eventing thread to learn about the "Equine Spirit Award" to be awarded (in honor of Mary) to the best scoring OTTB at the upcoming Florida Horse Park competition.

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

just so thrilled she continues to improve!!!

[Tiffany01]

yay for free !!!!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[lynntelaak]

This needs to be back on page one. I have been away a couple of days and had to search too far to find out how Free is doing. God Bless.

[17handtb]

Free, you are a true warrior woman. We're all pulling hard for you and your family...

[Skeezix]

Wow, what WONDERFUL news!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[CSSporthorses]

Just checking in to see how she's doing, jingles from DE ...

[Janet]

This update is from the "Happy News" thread on the eventing forum This my first time posting here. I have checked this thread many times in the last month and have been tempted to post good news. This time I must post our great news! 5 weeks ago tonight at 9pm "free" had a severe stroke and was not expected to recover. Tonight she is doing very well in the hospital and is showing strong progress toward a "good" recovery. She is doing well physically and is starting to communicate with us. She answers questions by shaking her head yes or no. She also squeezes our hand or gives a "thumbs up" gesture to questions. We have witnessed a Miracle in her recovery!

Joe Sparks, free's husband

[Janet]

And another one Hello, everyone. Joe has asked me to do the update on Mary tonight since I am the one that saw it. I have been sick for a week and haven’t
been able to go stay with her. I, like everyone else, have been checking on the forum to get updates from Joe and Andy. I got to the hospital about 5:30 this afternoon. When I got there, Mary was lying in the bed holding her head up with both eyes open looking around the room. She did so many things I don’t where to begin. Two nurses came in and I told them that Joe didn’t tell me about her being able to hold her head up. They said they hadn’t seen it either and were just as surprised as me. I asked her many questions and she would shake
her head yes and no. Let me tell you. When you talk about those horses and Andy, she really goes to nodding and both eyes are wide open.

Mary helped Crystal find Mario’s Moon and Storm Counter, an OTTB. When I told her the mare won the Best Score Award at Canterbury’s Derby last weekend, she nodded a lot. Her horse, Formosa Strait, has the same personality
as Storm Counter. She nodded in agreement with me.

As I talked on about the horses, she reached up and scratched her nose with her right hand. I started crying, amazed over the progress she has made since I stayed with her last week. I want to thank everyone one for the prayers and
jingles, as they are bringing us a MIRACLE.

Sincerely, Trina
FOR JOE AND ANDY

[Flipper K.]

AWESOME update!

What a thrill.

Keep it up, Free!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

so very very happy to hear this news

[vxf111]

This is a miracle!

[The Pie]

what fantastic news!!!

[shiloh]

Came late to this thread but jingling for free and hoping her recovery continues to speed along!!!

[Fessy's Mom]

Fabulous news! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif Still praying for more good news. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Quinn]

Absolutely wonderful news. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif So very, very happy.

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[CSSporthorses]

YaY !!! Hey guys, here's a thought, anyone interested? If anyone would like to chip in, I'm sure Mary would love some flowers and a cards from all her friends @ on COTH. I'm sure we could get her a huge bouquet and baloons ... I'm heading back out to finish delivering pups and will check on the thread whenever I'm able to get back in, if other's are willing, I'd love to contribute to send her something ...

[Sannois]

OMG Thrilling news! Prayers and the will to live! Never ceases to amaze me! GO FREE!!! We are all praying and jingling like crazy! This board does have some awesome MoJo!!!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Ghazzu]

I've been reading this all along, but just wanted to say, I'm thrilled to pieces ta things are turning around for the better.

Kick on, Free!

[Janet]

Hey everyone, Trina, again. Joe called me last nite and asked me to let you know Mary had a great weekend. Two of her sons and her daughter-in-law stayed most of the weekend with her while Joe was going back in forth from the farm, feed stores, to the show and then to the hospital. What a busy man. He said Mary is staying awake more frequently and for longer periods of time. By the time he got to the hospital last nite she was very tired but awake
long enough to hear how the show went. He also
told her that Alice won the award presented in her honor. Then Andy called and her eyes came wide open again so Joe put the phone to her ears so she could get Andy's update on the show. Joe said there was a lot of nodding and
smiling going on.

One of her doctors talked to Joe last nite and
he is going to have a PT call Joe today. That
is very encouraging news. I can't express to
you enough what everyone's good thought's and prayers have done for this family. Please keep
them coming has the MIRACLE still continues.

Sincerely, Trina
FOR JOE AND ANDY

[Quinn]

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That pretty much sums up my feelings on that Janet.

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Tiffany01]

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[caryledee]

Wow, I've got chills going down my spine...that is just so cool! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Little Indian]

wow, i cannot believe the progress!!! still jingling here in CA!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

woo hooo!!!!!

[Amwrider]

Thank you for keeping us all updated, the news is just getting better and better!

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[Janet]

Even better news Mary had another great day yesterday. She is getting stronger and more alert each day. I have been giving her little kisses on the forehead every day for the past 3 weeks per BarbaraG's suggestion. Last night she did two special things that touched my heart.

First, she surprised me by SPEAKING the word YES to a question. The doctor's had put a cap on the tube in her throat. It made it possible for her to breathe normally and TALK. It was on about 6 hours and was removed about 10 PM to help her rest.
At 11 PM the nurses came in to re-position her from her back to the left side. All that activity awakened her and she opened both eyes wide open. I was holding her left hand with my hand and she started moving the hands to her chin. With my fingers next to her lips, she began kissing the back of my fingers. Then she indicated she wanted more kisses on the forehead, which I immediately did for her.
She was sleeping very peacefully when I left at midnight.
I needed to share this happy news with our COTH family.

Joe

[ESG]

Oh, man. That just brought tears to my eyes.

GO, MARY, GO! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

oh, this is wonderful.

I will kiss Ted's muzzle for her tonight. Bet she needs some horse kisses too.

[Janet]

Another good update Update on Mary - It will be 6 weeks ago tonight that tragedy stuck our family. The next day we were given very little hope for Mary's recovery. It has been a very difficult emotional rollercoaster ride of lows and highs as she went from intensive care to immediate care to general care at Shands hospital.
I am very happy to tell you today that Mary is well on her way to recovery. She's had another 2 good days and her strength & will to survive continue to give us all hope. Last night she was answering questions with head shakes, arm waves, and VOICE responses. Trina put some lip gloss on Mary's lips and Mary helped to spread it around. Later when facial cream was put on her face, Mary also used her fingers to apply it like makeup. When asked if she had an itch, she raised 2 fingers and proceeded to scratch in 2 different places. She sometimes gives a big smile when we discuss her favorite subjects - Andy, family, COTH, OTTBs, our horses, and our dogs. The nurses think she is now ready for physical therapy and we are trying to get PT started soon.
I can hardly wait to see her again each day to find out about her new activities and surprises.

Joe

[fargo]

Oh that IS really good news. That's wonderful. Way to go and hope the recovery will continue now in a good pace!

[Quinn]

Janet thanks so much for the fabulous update. What a miraculous recovery Mary is making. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[millwrightmomma]

hi Janet
Thamks for the great updates.
Has anyone told her about the "Free Fund" for purchasing horses?
I bet that would put a smile on.
Waiting for more great updates.
The human soul is very resiliant, Jingles daily.

Maureen

[BAC]

Thanks so much Janet for continuing to keep us posted - sounds as though Free's recovery is truly miraculous.

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

doing happy dance here!

Bet I look pretty silly dancing and jingling those curb chains...but so happy for Mary and her family.

[bumknees]

not sure how I managed to miss this thread..
jingles for continual recovery. Mary sure has strong will to go through that rollercoaster ride her body has gone through.

[Janet]

Another update Thanks again everyone for your love and support for Mary. She continues to improve and surprise us all. Thursday night she indicated a need for an ink pen and paper to write us a note. She wrote several "words" that we could not read. We tried again Friday night with the same result. Saturday we bought her a white eraseable board and felt markers to use. The writing was better but still not readable. We will continue trying until she can write us good messages. I am sure she has many questions and commments bottled up that she is anixous to write.
Saturday night several of us were gathered in her hospital room telling funny stories about Mary over the past 20 years. We were all laughing and having a good time. Mary would give a big smile and chuckle as she remembered those times. She displays good long and short term memory capabilities.

I am going to meet with Mary's doctors early this morning to discuss getting physical therapy for her.

Joe

[Freebird!]

If anyone knows her address, coudl you please PM it to me? I would like to add her to our COTH Christmas Card list. (of course just wanting to send HER cards, not wanting her to do a thing - except get well)

[Janet]

I think there is an address posted on the Eventing thread.

[Janet]

And ANOTHER! I am very teary eyed (happy tears) as I tell you the great news about Mary - I saw her at 6:30 AM this morning as she was starting to wake up. She wanted to brush her teeth again like she did yesterday. I gave her a new tooth brush (one of those children's brushes that lights up and flashes for a minute as a brushing timer) and she used it to clean her teeth.
Then she wanted to write a note. After several attempts, she printed with a large red felt maker the words "THANK YOU BA??????". I asked her who she wanted to thank and SHE SAID "BARBARA" in a very clear voice! Many thanks to BarbaraG for all the little kisses on the forehead - Mary gets many every day and she really likes them.
The doctor arrived about 7 AM doing his rounds. When he asked her for a thumbs-up, she raised her arm, waved her hand, and put a thumb up! The doctor is very happy with her progress and is going to have PT started this week. The plan is to build her strength doing rehab 3 times a week until she is strong enough to be move to the Shands ReHab Hospital which is nearer to our farm.

Please keep up your prayers and jingles - they are working wonders for Mary!

[SeaOat]

This is always the best news, we look forward to reading about her quick-step recovery. Really makes our day http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif All so very exciting too! XOXOXO

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

Way to go, Mary!!!

[TBsRgr8]

I wonder if the rehab will let them trailer in one of Free's horses to hang out with her some in the parking lot. I bet even just smelling her horse or seeing it out the window will do wonders to keep those spirits soaring.

[Janet]

Another good update Hey everyone. Talked to Joe today and he wanted me to give you the update on Mary.
Crystal and I went to see her last night. She just keeps on surprising us. I had come
with the intent of giving her a manicure. When I asked her if I could do her nails instead of squeezing our hands to reply, she said, “If you want too.” I squealed with
joy and she laughed at me. Crystal asked her if she was ready for some real food and she shook her head yes. I mean a big, yes! We all started laughing and she laughed with us. They have had the trek capped off since yesterday and if she continues to do well. They are going to take it out in the next couple of days. They are going to start some PT in her room 3 times a week in order to get her ready for the rehab center. He is supposed to be checking out the Shands rehab center today.

I cannot stress to everyone enough, how much your continued support and prayers mean to this family, as their Miracle continues, Thank you.

Sincerely, Trina
FOR JOE AND ANDY

[Faithfulrider]

I have been lurking on this thread since the beginning but the "kisses" update got me! Ack!

It's so uplifting to come and read the posts from her amazing family and friends! I pray her recovery continues at this miraculous rate. God bless you Free. It sounds like he already has. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[SweatySaddlepad]

Ohhhhhh What great news! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[incentive]

I was afraid to read this topic as I was sure it was going to be very depressing. Instead, there is fabulous news about Free's recovery. WOW!!! What a strong lady!!! Big hugs from Virginia to all those involved in making this happen. Mary, you go girl!!!

[Lamb]

I get happy tears every time I read this thread, and I've been jingling all along! Thank you Janet for continuing to move the updates onto this thread, and to Free's family and friends for keeping us up to date. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Duffy]

OMG - I've got goosebumps and tears at the same time. What a miracle! Rock on, Free! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Bea]

IT'S SO GOOD TO READ GOOD NEWS. Jingles continuing in NY for great recovery for free. And best thoughts to her family.

[luvmytbs]

Originally posted by TBsRgr8:
I wonder if the rehab will let them trailer in one of Free's horses to hang out with her some in the parking lot. I bet even just smelling her horse or seeing it out the window will do wonders to keep those spirits soaring.

I absolutely love that idea.
If nothing else, just let her see it through the window.

Jingles from Kentucky!

[The Pie]

a while back, someone had suggested sending Christmas cards to Free, did anything ever come of that? I would love to drop a card in the mail to her.

[LoneWolf13]

If you go to the Card Swap thread, everyone thought it was a great idea and all who are participating will be sending cards to Free...including me!!!

[Instant Karma]

This is really and truly EXCELLENThttp://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[M.K.Smith]

AWESOME news... continued jingles for a successful recovery!

[17handtb]

Free is one truly remarkable lady. Proof positive of the power of the human spirit. Continued prayers for a continued recovery!

[LSM1212]

Yay Yay Yay... guess all the jingling helped!!! Glad she is doing so well.

[Lord Helpus]

Ohhhh, Mary.

Kisses and food. She has her priorities straight. She is definitely on the road to recovery if she wants more of both of the above.

You Go, girl!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Quinn]

Back up to the top for Thursday morning. Had snow driving in this morning. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_eek.gif Hope we have more wonderful *Mary* news today. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Horsaholic]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif Wonderful news!! Reading this thread just makes me cry! So happy for her!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Janet]

Another update- mostly good The Miracle of Mary's recovery continues. There are so many things to tell you since the last update. After Trina and Crystal were there Monday night, our vet, Susan T. visited Mary and brought her a stuffed toy horse. Mary immediately named "him" Coddles and later gave him a second name of Mr. Softly.
When I asked his name Tuesday night, she held up 2 fingers and said he had 2 names. She hugs Coddles when she sleeps.

Mary is such a teaser. When she wanted to brush her teeth, I got the nurse in to help her. When she was finished brushing, the nurse was leaving and asked Mary if she knew I was and she shook her head NO! I know Mary is getting much better when she starts teasing.

They gave her PT Wednesday & Thursday. They worked her legs and arms and got her sitting up on the side of her bed. These sessions really made her tired. She was sleeping a lot both evenings.
Wednesday morning I was talking to her and she said "How's the coffee coming?". I said "what coffee?". She said "Aren't you making me some coffee?". I told her she could not have any coffee yet so she settled for just smelling some in a cup.
This morning she put her hand up to her ear and asked for a telephone. She wanted to call Marti, our daughter-in-law. I dialed the cell phone and Mary held the phone while she talked to Marti for several minutes.
Mary really enjoys the little kisses on her forehead - today she returned some to my forehead!
She has been off oxygen for 3 days and breathing well on her own. They are looking at removing the trachea tube soon if she continues to breathe okay. They also scheduled her for a swallowing test today.

Everything was looking good when I left her this morning - now comes a bump in the road. The nurse called about 2 hours ago to say Mary was having some problem breathing and they were going to run some tests. When I called back just an hour ago, Mary was breathing better but now has a fever. I'm heading to the hospital and will update you later today.

Joe

[Duffy]

Jingles that this is only a minor setback for Mary!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

ditto - these things can happen when someone can't move around much. Hoping all resolves quickly!

[newt*trak]

Jingle...Jingles...Jingles

Come on Mary, stay strong!

[Quinn]

Come on Mary. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Janet]

Better I just returned home from the hospital. Mary is breathing better and they are treating her for an infection. They also did a CT Scan around 11 PM to try ruling out any other problems.
Mary was resting comfortably when I left tonight. I will update you again tomorrow.

Joe

[Horsaholic]

Still jingling for Maryhttp://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif Glad to hear she is breathing better tonight!!

[gpbound]

bumping back to page 1.

JINGLE, JINGLE

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

any updates?

[free]

Mary has been struggling a little with her breathing and the infection the last 2 days. She is looking a better today. I will update you some more this evening.

Joe

[M.K.Smith]

Jingles!

[Cinnybren]

Jingling and sending positive vibes from Texas. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Tha Ridge]

Jingles!

[free]

Thanks again for all your prayers, jingles, and good wishes for Mary. Please keep them up as they continue to help her recover.

She had a good but tiring day today. They re-scheduled the swallowing test from last Friday to this morning, and she had PT this afternoon. Because she had a difficult Sunday, I spent last night in her room to help her calm down and rest. I left to feed our horses & do farm chores and returned at 4:00 PM. By that time Mary had SUCCESSFULLY completed the swallow test and had finished the physical therapy session. One of the doctors gave her some ice shavings to eat and later I slipped her 2 small pieces of her favorite Popsicle. Mary loved that! The PT really wears her out, but she is getting stronger each day. The left side is weak and the PT should help her gain strength there.

She was resting very comfortably when I left again at 7:30 PM. I will also spend tonight with her. She has been talking a lot today and we have shared many kisses on the forehead. Her mind is really sharp - she has ALWAYS answered our questions correctly.

If they can get the trachea tube removed this week, we plan to get her moved soon to a really good re-hab hospital closer to our farm.

Thanks again for all your support and personal notes.

Joe

[Horsaholic]

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[Quinn]

Joe thanks very much for the update on Mary. So pleased to hear she is continuing to progress. She is at the forefront in our thoughts. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Tha Ridge]

Yay! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[slave4tucker]

bumping back up as this needs to stay on the 1st page. jingles from jacksonville, fl

[Horsaholic]

Hope Mary is doing great today!