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Evalee Hunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:31 AM
I found him dead in his bed when I went to get him up for Christmas. We don't know what happened. THe medical examiner has taken his body. The police have been here and left. His birthday was yesterday. He just turned 19.
www.rougelandfarm.com (http://www.rougelandfarm.com) Home of TB stallion Alae Rouge, sire of our filly Rose, ribbon-winner on the line at Dressage at Devon.
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Evalee Hunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:31 AM
I found him dead in his bed when I went to get him up for Christmas. We don't know what happened. THe medical examiner has taken his body. The police have been here and left. His birthday was yesterday. He just turned 19.
www.rougelandfarm.com (http://www.rougelandfarm.com) Home of TB stallion Alae Rouge, sire of our filly Rose, ribbon-winner on the line at Dressage at Devon.
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Lazy Palomino Hunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:33 AM
OMG Evalee... http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/no.gif I am so sorry. Your family will be in my prayers this Christmas. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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ClemsonGraduateRider
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:34 AM
OMG - I cannot even imagine what you are going through right now. I don't pray but my thoughts certainly are with you and your family.
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HelloAgain
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:34 AM
My God, Evalee, what a terrible tragedy. I don't know what to say except that you inh my thoughts. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif seems a bit too mild.
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Cruising
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:35 AM
OMG, Evalee, I am so so incredibly sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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Kels
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:40 AM
I'm so sorry- my prayers are with you and your family.
-Kelsey-
BasqueMom
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:40 AM
Words can't express what you must be feeling.
Sympathy to you and your family.
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CoolMeadows
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:43 AM
Your family's in my prayers. I'm so very sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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Rockin'
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:46 AM
Evalee my heart goes out to you at this devastating time. Words seem so meaningless at a time like this but please know that I wish there was something more I could do to help you ease the pain.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ShowBiz
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:47 AM
Oh my God, Evalee. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
I am so sorry for the great pain that you are feeling, my heart & prayers are with you during this tragedy.
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War Admiral
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:49 AM
OMG Evalee. I am so very, very sorry. I can't ever think what to say at times like this, but please know my heart and my thoughts and my prayers are with you and your family.
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Coreene
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:50 AM
Dearest Evalee, I am so very sorry. You are in my prayers. Godspeed to your son.
hoopoe
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:51 AM
Sending every thought and wish for you, your family and your sons friends.
To find answers and ultimately peace.
To remember and ultimately rejoice in his life and how he left an impression.
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barbaraG
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:51 AM
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Oh, God. How terrible for you and your family.
Thoughts and Prayers.
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JusGallop
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:52 AM
God bless you and your family in getting through this horrible tragedy. I will pray for him.
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Dancing Lawn
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:58 AM
This is terrible. I just can't even imagine what you're going through.
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In The Gate
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:59 AM
OMG, Evalee I'm so sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif My thoughts will be with you and your family.
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Moo
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:02 AM
Oh my god, I'm so sorry.
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Galileo1998
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:04 AM
I am so, so sorry for you and your family. My thoughts are with you. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
breezymeadow
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:05 AM
Oh Evalee. What an awful tragedy. Will keep you in our prayers today.
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slc2
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:06 AM
give me a PT if you need to call and talk. unfortunately i can relate via experience to some of what you may be feeling now.
FifteenOne
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:06 AM
There are no words to console. Deepest sympathy and prayers to your family.
can't re-
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:06 AM
Oh Evalee, I don't know what to say...
I am SO sorry.
Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
Babs
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:06 AM
How weird, how awful. What to do? What to say?
Wishing you comfort, and answers,
Barbara
wanderlust
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:08 AM
Evalee, I am so very, very sorry.
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elizabeth
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:09 AM
Oh dear God.
I am so sorry.
I do not know what to say.
Dear God.
Oh, Evalee.
MistyBlue
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:11 AM
My heart felt condolences to you and your family during this horrifying tragedy. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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lilblackhorse
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:12 AM
I am so very sorry. I hope the ME can find what happened so you can have some closure. My condolences. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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Rocky
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:13 AM
There are no words which are adequate at this time....God bless and keep you and your family at this tragic time....
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nhwr
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:20 AM
I am so, so sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my family's prayers.
onetempies
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:26 AM
OMG... I can't even imagine... http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
You will be in my thoughts as you sort through all of this. We're all here for you when/if you need to vent or talk... or need that virtual (((HUG))).
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Evalee Hunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:28 AM
His name was Alexander Eugene Rawles.
Thank you everyone. The police came right behind the paramedics. Bill & I performed CPR until they got here (only 5 minutes) but we pretty much knew before they got here that it was beyond hope. We don't know what happened but the medical examiner took his body. They have to treat it as a crime because he died under mysterious circumstances.
The police officer said he had investigated many deads & he personally thought from what he saw that Alexander died of natural causes.
Hug your loved ones & horses,
www.rougelandfarm.com (http://www.rougelandfarm.com) Home of TB stallion Alae Rouge, sire of our filly Rose, ribbon-winner on the line at Dressage at Devon.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 11:31 AM
I'm So sorry! That is just horrible.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 11:34 AM
I am SOOOO sorry. I can't imagine how horrible this must be for you. Please accept my condolences!
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Adelita
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:36 AM
Oh Evalee...
I am so sorry.
We love you very much and we are all here for you...
(((((((hugs))))))
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Sobriska
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:36 AM
No words to express the depth of sadness for you. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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alabama
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:38 AM
Very, very sorry. You are in my thoughts. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
Raven's Wing
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:40 AM
My deepest condolances. May you find some level of peace and comfort during these difficult times.
jparkes
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:40 AM
Evalee, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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JulieMontgomery
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:44 AM
Oh, bless your heart. I am so sorry. God be with you...
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TrotaLot
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:46 AM
How incredibly devastating. I hope you find some answers and some peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 11:48 AM
Oh my goodness, I am so so sorry for your loss. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif Your family will be in my prayers. I'm 19 myself, and I know how sad my parents would be if something happened to me. I know of so many people who have lost loved ones around the holidays, and I really think that it's b/c God needs good people to go to heaven and become angels to watch over the rest of us. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif
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sprite
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:48 AM
My God, that horrible. I don't know what to say, except that you and your family are in my prayers. i am very, very sorry for your loss.
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o2binca
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:54 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lauruffian
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:57 AM
Oh, no, Evalee.
Oh, no.
Know a vitual stranger (and scores of others) from across the continent has you and your family in their thoughts. If you think to in this time, please keep us updated. But we'll of course more than understand if you're not able to.
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MellowM
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:05 PM
Evalee, OMG I am so sorry. I don't even know what to type. My deepest condolences go out to you. I can't even imagine how you must feel. I am so sorry this happened http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
retreadeventer
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:09 PM
Evalee, I am praying for you and for your family. I will call. To those who know Evalee from this list or elsewhere, please keep in touch. I will try to find out a way we can send condolences and/or remembrances. Holly
PaintedCash
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:11 PM
Evalee, I am so so sorry.. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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LMH
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:15 PM
God's grace on your family Evalee.
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CBoylen
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:18 PM
Evalee,
Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathies.
I am so very, very sorry for your loss.
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Celtic Witch
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:22 PM
Oh Evalee, I am so very sorry. There is nothing worse than the death of youth. My thoughts are with you.
Susie
Frank B
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:31 PM
May God bestow his comforting touch upon you and your family during your sorrow, Evalee.
May young Alexander find his eternal peace.
hunt_jump
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:35 PM
Oh Evalee, I am so so sorry. A sudden loss such as this is always so difficult and at this time of year even more so. He was lucky to be with you during his time here as I am sure that he was deeply loved. My virtual hugs and my thoughts go out to you and your family.
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Woodsperson
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:36 PM
Evalee, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 12:40 PM
Evalee, so very sorry! Condolences and best wishes, and take care!
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relocatedTXjumpr
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:42 PM
Oh My god! Im so sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us up-dated andlet us know if there is anything any of us can do!
Godspeed to your son.
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SpiritInTheSkye
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:43 PM
Evalee, what a terrible terrible tragedy! We are so sorry for you and your family, please accept our most heartfelt sympathies.....no parent should ever have to go through what you are experiencing...my SO has been through this too. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers.
marta
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:44 PM
oh evalee. what a tragedy. i'm so sorry for your loss. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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Rye
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:44 PM
Evalee-
My heart breaks for you! You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Rifter
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:46 PM
Evalee,
I signed on to complain about spending the morning in the ER with the flu. However, my Christmas troubles pale in comparison to yours. After reading your post, I have much more appreciation for the fact that, even though most of my Christmas Day was spent in the ER with a 103 degree fever, at least it was spent with my family. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Though I don't know you, your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I know it will be little consolation, but I hope the medical examiner can shed some light on this tragedy so you are not left forever wondering how. I know the ME can't answer the why, but hopefully the "how" will give you some degree of peace...? God Bless you and yours.
*-Rifter-*
hitchinmygetalong
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:46 PM
What a horrible tragedy. My heart goes out to you and your family. Deepest, deepest condolences.
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larosa90
Dec. 25, 2003, 12:52 PM
Evalee,
More prayers for you and your husband. No words are enough, but we feel your pain. Hugs to you!
The COTH is an amazing place of support and I hope there is a time when you can write to tell us how to remember him -- how special he was. It greatly helped me and my friends when we lost Kennett Square earlier this summer.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 01:00 PM
OMG, Evalee, Im sooo sorry http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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Beau Peep
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:04 PM
Oh my gosh Evalee, what a terrible thing to have happen at such a joyous time. I am so sorry, and am sending many prayers to you and loved ones so that you may still enjoy each other and try and enjoy the rest of the holidays as much as you can. I sincerly hope that he did indeed die of natural causes, and that he died peacefully, and is looking down on you from heaven at this very moment. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif
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Dec. 25, 2003, 01:04 PM
Sorry for your tragedy, my friend just lost her 15 month old baby the day before Thanksgiving. I couldn't imagine how hard that must be. My deepest sympathies.
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SquishTheBunny
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:05 PM
Im so sorry. You must still be in shock, but tell youself that he was in his own bed, in your house, and knowing that his family was with him - the best way possible for him to go.
Hugs and deepest condolences. Everything has its reasons, he must have been needed up in heaven.
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Louise
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:07 PM
Evalee, my prayers and my sympathy join all the others expressed here. Know that I will hold you and yours close to my heart today, and in the days to come.
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Baileybff
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:08 PM
I haven't got the words to say...this is just AWFUL!!! I am SO SORRY for your loss http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif. I don't even want to begin to imagine what you must be going through. You, your husband and your family/friends are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Draygonfyne
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:10 PM
Oh Evalee...I am so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son. Please know that you are in the hearts and thoughts of your extended BB family through this.
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elizabeth Callahan
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:11 PM
Evalee,
My kida are that age. I cannot imagine your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
inca
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:13 PM
Evalee:
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Julie
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Dec. 25, 2003, 01:16 PM
Evalee - I'm so sorry. {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
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Dec. 25, 2003, 01:17 PM
Oh my god! What a shock. I am so, so sorry.
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Beethoven
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:19 PM
I don't even know what to say!
I am soo sorry!
You snd your family our in my thoughts and prayers!
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Pirateer
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:22 PM
I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.
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Silly Mommy
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:22 PM
I am SOOOO sorry - I can't find any words. You are in my prayers... http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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Bumpkin
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:29 PM
Oh Evalee, how truly tragic.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you today. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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GetSmart
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:33 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss Evalee. You're in my thoughts and prayers. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Libish
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:48 PM
Words are just not adequate. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
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CHJoker
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:49 PM
I am typing through tears. I am so sorry. Please accept my condolences.
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Xanthoria
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:49 PM
How utterly devastating - I am so very, very sorry.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 01:51 PM
I couldn't imagine a more difficult loss. My heart goes out to you, your family, and his friends. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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Zonked
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:51 PM
Im SOO sorry for the pain you must be going through! you and your family are in my prayers!
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NZ Loopy Lu
Dec. 25, 2003, 01:55 PM
I have no words to ease your pain, there are none.
I feel such sadness for a stranger, my thoughts are with you and your family at this tragic time. I hope you have some answers soon. May your beloved child rest in peace.
I send (((HUGS))) from across the seas and the hope that peace will be with you soon.
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Rubs Not Pats
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:01 PM
I am so, so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))
RockinHorse
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:20 PM
Evalee, I am so sorry about the loss of Alexander. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers for quite some time. I wish there was more I could say but words seem so inadequate right now.
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Oakleigh
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:22 PM
Evalee, my heart goes out to you.
I'm thinking of you and praying for God to give you strength to get through this and for the ability to make peace with it. I am so sorry for your loss. It's beyond words...
Sending you a big HUG!
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SLW
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:25 PM
Prayers being sent to you and your family on the unexpected passing of your dear son. I'm so sorry. (((hugs))
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LoriO
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:25 PM
Evalee, You and your family will be in my hearts and thoughts tonight during this terrible time for you.
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desilu
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:29 PM
I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are going through. All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lin
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:40 PM
Evalee, my prayers go out to you and your Family. What a devastating loss.
Dusty
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:41 PM
May His love and strength carry you through this sad time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers...as the mother of 3 children, I cannot even imagine what you are going through.
Godspeed Alexander...
*Ride and let ride...*
near miss
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:42 PM
Oh how horrible!! My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
God Bless!!
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just_me
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:43 PM
Evalee, we don't know each other, but my thoughts are with you and your family. I have a 17 yr. old, and I can't imagine the pain and heartbreak you are going through.
My deepest and most sincere condolences.
Eileen Miller
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:53 PM
My deepest condolences, Evalee, to you and yours during this tragic time.
My daughter is 22, and I cannot begin to grasp your pain, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Eileen
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emcallaway
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:54 PM
http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif What a horrible loss! I'm sure he had a wonderful and loving 19 years! It is important to remember the time you had with each other and remember that one day all shall be one again. It is never easy, but death is the one thing we will all succeed at doing! To have a wonderful life, while we have it, is much harder to come by.
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Gracious
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:54 PM
Oh Evalee...I cannot imagine the pain that you and your family are going through right now. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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Dee
Dec. 25, 2003, 02:55 PM
As a mother of a 19 year old son, I can't even begin to imagine what you're feeling. Please know that we are sending up most heartfelt prayers for your strength and comfort.
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FatAppyRosie
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:07 PM
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Evalee, I am so sorry to hear about your tragedy. Sending lots of prayers and sympathies your way in this time of utter devistation for you and yours.
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All4Ceci
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:09 PM
Oh Evalee,
Words can not express my heartfelt thoughts for you and your family. If it is any comfort, just know that the whole COTH family will be here to support you in any way that you may need.
ladydoctor
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:11 PM
Oh, Evalee, I am so sorry. What a tragedy for you and your family. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. Thank you for sharing your pain with us so we can try to help you with it.
((((((HUGS)))))))
talloaks
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:17 PM
Oh Evalee, I know all too well the pain you are going through, I lost my son, only child, 2 and 1/2 years ago. Trust in the Lord and He will carry you through these days, one day at a time, keep looking Heavenward for that is where your dear Alexander has found his eternal rest. May God be with you and your family and may you find Peace. Our prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
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SillyFilly
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:22 PM
Oh wow, I am so sorry. He was my age.
So many hugs and thoughts to you and your family... nothing can make it better, but yeah.
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Horsaholic
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:26 PM
Oh Avalee, so very sorry to hear this news. So very very sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif My heart goes out to you. Many hugs and prayers to you and your family http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
PaintBy#s
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:27 PM
I'm so sorry Evalee. Did he have other health problems? Sorry. It just must be such a shock and I can't even imagine to begin how you feel. I am 20 myself.
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Sakura
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:29 PM
I'm so sorry you had this devastating tragedy happen to your family. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif I hope they can find the cause as the question "why?" will live many ways in your heart. I pray for peace of mind and your broken heart, may the Lord enter your home and comfort you in this, your time of need.
A Splash of Color
Dec. 25, 2003, 03:29 PM
Evalee, you and your family are in my prayers. Please accept my condolences. I'm so very, very sorry to hear this tragic news.
Joan S.
S4zeus
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:05 PM
Evalee- This is such a tragic thing. I hope that you can stay strong through out this. surround yourself with family. I am deep with sorrow. That is such a scary thought to think he was so young. I give my best wishes to you and the rest of your family in this tragic time.
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Tap2Tango
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:07 PM
OH Evalee! My heart just dropped when I read the title!! I am so so sorry. My deepest sympathies to you and Ali and the rest of your family!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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Mary in Area 1
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:07 PM
My lovely 18 year old daughter heard me cry when I read your message. She came and hugged me. I will treasure that hug more than ever, thanks to you Evalee. I am so sorry for your loss, and I pledge to love my children even more to honor your son.
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Evalee Hunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:17 PM
Thank you everyone. Your thoughts & prayers & kind words mean so so much.
Alexander did not have any known health problems. The police did *not* find drug paraphenalis when they search his room & his car, nor did they find drugs or alcohol.
I last saw him about 1:30 AM when his girlfriend left. He escorted her out to her car. She pretty much always met him here, drove herself here, although he was on good terms with her family & her family liked him. He & I spoke for a minute & then he went up to bed & I went to bed. He was as right & normal as a person could be.
We didn't know what to do today so we went & got a load of hay & went to the barn & did what we always do - feed horses, clean stalls, etc. I often get all my hay in the summer but this year I didn't & we are just getting it now. Picking it up one truckload at a time & bringing it to our barn to stack. We just couldn't sit at home looking at each other & crying.
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sketcher
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:18 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can relate to the shock of losing someone so young and so unexpectedly and there just isn't a worse feeling in the world.
Treat Wench
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:20 PM
Evalee, I am so sorry this has happened. I just don't know what to say other than I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
"Horse sense is what a horse has that keeps him from betting on people"
W.C. Fields
1880 - 1948
MissD
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:20 PM
Oh, Evalee, take comfort in the fact that you and your family are in my, and many other BBer's, thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry that this had to happen, please know that we are all here for you. I turn 19 in nine days... Wow...
VTHokie
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:23 PM
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My husband and I were arguing about something petty when I opened up your post. Our argument came to a halt at that moment as I read the post aloud...
We are both very sorry for your loss.
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risingstarfarm
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:30 PM
I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ronda
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Lord Helpus
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:40 PM
Evalee,
My prayers are with you and your family. I hope that you have others who will join you. Grief shared is grief lessened. In the meantime you have us to lean on for support.
My heart goes out to you.
Adelita
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:40 PM
Evalee, I've been thinking about you all day.
Please please please look into a grief support group...I know it sounds like a cliche, but it will help you maintain the strength you need to get through the hours and days and weeks ahead, especially once the shock wears off.
We love you. Be strong.
((((((hugs)))))
>^.,.^<
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saje
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:41 PM
Oh Evalee, I have no words of comfort for you, but I'm so very sorry .... I'm just a lurker here but I'm crying for you, I can't imagine the depth of your sorrow .. such a tragedy, I'm so sorry ....
LaurieB
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:42 PM
Evalee, I am so very sorry for your loss. What a terrible tragedy. My son will be 19 in six weeks. I can barely comprehend how you must be feeling. Please know you have my most sincere condolances.
sixpoundfarm
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:46 PM
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Kathy Johnson
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:47 PM
I have an 18 year old son. I will give him extra hugs tonight.
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War Admiral
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:48 PM
Glad you managed to make it through today. One day at a time. We are all here for you.
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Drummerboy
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:49 PM
You and your family will be in our prayers.
Fessy's Mom
Dec. 25, 2003, 04:51 PM
So very sorry for your loss. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif I can't even imagine what you are going through right now.
Will say a prayer for your son tonight. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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Lisa Cook
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:10 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. I am the mother of an Alexander, also, and I simply can not imagine the grief you must feel.
Please accept my sympathy.
Applesauce
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:16 PM
Evelee, I'm so very very sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies from my family to yours. You will be in my prayers. We will think about you and pray for you to have strength in this very difficult time.
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Daydream Believer
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:17 PM
Oh Evalee,
I just logged on and saw this thread. I am so terribly sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family in your terrible loss. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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canyonoak
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:18 PM
Oh Evalee, there are just no words.
I am so very sorry for such a tragedy.
I have sent you a PT.
You and your family are in my prayers.
tardy
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:22 PM
Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathies.
horsebabe11
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:25 PM
I am so sorry...
Your family will be in my prayers tonight. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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Heineken
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:35 PM
Evalee...I'm so sorry. Hugs and prayers from MD.
HuntJumpSC
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:36 PM
Evalee~ my deepest heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family, I am SO sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to find the words. May God be with you all and give you comfort and peace in the days ahead. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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My Own Barn
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:38 PM
Evalee, I don't know you, but your post brought tears to my eyes. I'm so very sorry. I hope you can take some comfort in knowing he died peacefully in his own house with parents who love him.
lupin
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:45 PM
I really don't know what to say, except that I am so, so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
can't re-
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:46 PM
Evalee,
I just want you to know I have been thinking of you and your family all day.
I can't imagine what you are going through but we are here for you....
<<<(((HUGS)))>>> and I offer you a shoulder to cry on, or punch, or whatever you need.....
~Barbara
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scotchdun
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:47 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by talloaks:
Oh Evalee, I know all too well the pain you are going through, I lost my son, only child, 2 and 1/2 years ago. Trust in the Lord and He will carry you through these days, one day at a time, keep looking Heavenward for that is where your dear Alexander has found his eternal rest. May God be with you and your family and may you find Peace. Our prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
TallOaks,
I am in the same boat as you. Lost my only child, a son, age 24, 8 years ago - sometimes it seems as if it was only last year. My prayers are with you and with everyone who has lost someone dear to them - this time of the year is especially hard, no matter what time of year your loss occurred. Hope you are doing okay - it sounds as if your trust in the Lord has seen you through - it helps me a lot, too. *hugs*
Tin
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:48 PM
my god, I'm so sorry- I can't even imagine, devistation would be too light of a word...... My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and every person who had the pleasure of knowing your son.
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June
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:49 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Evalee Hunter:
Thank you everyone. Your thoughts & prayers & kind words mean so so much.
Alexander did not have any known health problems. The police did *not* find drug paraphenalis when they search his room & his car, nor did they find drugs or alcohol.
I last saw him about 1:30 AM when his girlfriend left. He escorted her out to her car. She pretty much always met him here, drove herself here, although he was on good terms with her family & her family liked him. He & I spoke for a minute & then he went up to bed & I went to bed. He was as right & normal as a person could be.
We didn't know what to do today so we went & got a load of hay & went to the barn & did what we always do - feed horses, clean stalls, etc. I often get all my hay in the summer but this year I didn't & we are just getting it now. Picking it up one truckload at a time & bringing it to our barn to stack. We just couldn't sit at home looking at each other & crying.
http://www.rougelandfarm.com Home of TB stallion Alae Rouge, sire of our filly Rose, ribbon-winner on the line at Dressage at Devon. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
June's Mom and I would like to come to your memorial service for your son. If you feel comfortable with that, would you let us know where and when. If not, please know we respect that and prayers continue.
June and June's Mom
"The world's greatest achievements often happen on the edge of chaos"
M.K.Smith
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:50 PM
Evalee,
I'm so terribly sorry...I don't even know what to say other than I send my condolences to you and your family.
MKB...
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northcountry
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:51 PM
Dear Evalee,
I've been an avid reader of your posts over the last few months, and I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. Any words that I am able to give are pretty much inadequate at such a time, but that is all I am able to offer. From the other posts I've read in this thread, I'm not the only one who feels this way. Take care.
Allyn M
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:53 PM
Evalee , I am so sorry that this tragedy happened to your boy who was just getting started in life . We all know that we are going to die ,but when it happens to someone so young it makes that fact more difficult to understand. That is why it is so important to feel the joy of each day that we can share with our loved ones. I am hoping that working with your horses can help you to ease your way through the pain of the days ahead. We will all be thinking of you .
Allyn McCracken
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scotchdun
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:54 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Evalee Hunter:
Thank you everyone. Your thoughts & prayers & kind words mean so so much.
Alexander did not have any known health problems. The police did *not* find drug paraphenalis when they search his room & his car, nor did they find drugs or alcohol.
I last saw him about 1:30 AM when his girlfriend left. He escorted her out to her car. She pretty much always met him here, drove herself here, although he was on good terms with her family & her family liked him. He & I spoke for a minute & then he went up to bed & I went to bed. He was as right & normal as a person could be.
We didn't know what to do today so we went & got a load of hay & went to the barn & did what we always do - feed horses, clean stalls, etc. I often get all my hay in the summer but this year I didn't & we are just getting it now. Picking it up one truckload at a time & bringing it to our barn to stack. We just couldn't sit at home looking at each other & crying.
http://www.rougelandfarm.com Home of TB stallion Alae Rouge, sire of our filly Rose, ribbon-winner on the line at Dressage at Devon. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Evalee,
I know what you're going through, unfortunately. Please e-mail me privately at jbaraquarters@aol.com if you would like to talk to someone who has experienced a similar tragedy. There is a group for people like us called "The Compassionate Friends." They have a website at compassionatefriends.com if you would care to go there. I know that at this point, it's all too shocking to even wrap your mind around - and the next days and weeks will be trying and draining. I'll try to help and be there for you in any way I can.
Anne
HossShoer
Dec. 25, 2003, 05:57 PM
So sorry about your son.
J.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 06:10 PM
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FLF
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:10 PM
I am so sorry for your loss, as a mother of a young son, it is beyond my comprehension and my greatest fear. I wish you and your husband strength and hopefully peace. My prayers will be for Alexander this Christmas.
Mariequi
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:18 PM
Evalee, I reread your post many times thinking and hoping I wasn't reading it right. I do hope you have comfort from prompt ME results. Reading the post about the knowledge that he was at home in his bed with you there sounded very comforting. I picture him going directly from your arms to God's. I will keep him and your family in my prayers and will reiterate that we are here for you. This board comforted me recently and I could never thank them enough. Thinking of you.
AAJumper
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:19 PM
I am so sorry. I cannot imagine what it would be like to lose a child.
Hunter_Rider
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:20 PM
Evalee I am soooo sorry for your loss. I lost my mother 2 years ago at X-mas and I know exactly what you are feeling. We are all here to support you in any way we can. You will be in my prayers tonight.
myrna
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:26 PM
Evalee,i am so sorry for your loss.our condolences
to you and your family.We are right in the process
of dealing with the first anniversary of the loss of our daughter last new years to meningitis, i don't know when it gets better.she is still with us in so many ways.
mm
bucksnort
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:30 PM
So sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
luckyduck
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:32 PM
I can't even begin to express my feelings for you at this moment.
My heart is just aching for you and your family and you will be held so closly in my prayers.
{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGE hugs}}}}}}}}}}}
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LBlue
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:32 PM
Evalee- I am so incredibly sorry, you and your family are in my thoughts. I really do not know what to say as words cannot express how you must feel, and I cannot imagine what you are going through.
flex
Dec. 25, 2003, 06:53 PM
Oh, My Dear,
My heart breaks for you. I lost my brother only a few months ago. He also was found dead. I know the whole process very well. I am so sorry for your loss and I am going to keep you in my thoughts. Please feel free to contact me and we can talk.
Love and Understanding,
Mare and Jasper
horsegirl33
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:03 PM
Evalee,
I could barely grasp what I read earlier. I am so incredibly sad and sorry for your loss. Please know that you'll always have your COTH family here for support if you ever need it. I'll be thinking about you and your family in my prayers.
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appymare
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:07 PM
I am so very very sorry for your loss http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
BelladonnaLily
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:07 PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I cannot express how truly sorry I am. As a mother, I can only imagine how devastated you must be, but I pray God's presence will give you peace. Please know that I am thinking of you.
laurie
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:09 PM
evalee,
I am so sorry for your loss, My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family
Merlin
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:10 PM
Evalee, my most sincere condolences to you and your family.... you are in my prayers. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
Sonesta
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:20 PM
OH, Evalee, I just don't know what to say....I am so very sorry.
{{{{{HUGE HUG}}}}}
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cedarboy
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:20 PM
Evalee, words just can't express the depth of my sorrow for you. What a shocking and tragic thing. Trust in the goodness of the world and know that someday your pain will wane.
I'm so sorry.
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Bensmom
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:23 PM
More thoughts and prayers to you from us.
Hugs,
Libby
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goodymar1188
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:24 PM
Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling for you at this time. May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you some peace during this time in your life. You will be in my prayers. God Bless.
pintofoal
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:25 PM
I hardly know what to say my very deepest condolences, I am so very sorry.
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Spot
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:25 PM
I am so, so sorry EH. My God - words totally fail me right now.
Huge {{{HUGS}}}.
Take care of yourself and I pray that you get the answers that you need as to what happened to him
"Spot"
trademark
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:27 PM
I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you in this heartbreaking time. I could not imagine losing my brother who is the same age.
Nix
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:36 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paige
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:39 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say, but my thoughts are with you.
Paige
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Houdini
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:43 PM
I am deeply sorry for your loss
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agedbayhunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:43 PM
I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers tonight and in the difficult days ahead.
dcm
Dec. 25, 2003, 07:45 PM
Oh Evalee. Words just don't seem enough. Please know that we all are hear for you at all times.
My thoughts and prayers to you and yours. <cyber-HUGS>
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Jennasis
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:00 PM
I feel so stupid right now. I have been wallowing in self-pity all day long because this is my first Christmas without my family (I'm in NC and they are in NY). My MIL and SO are both sick as dogs today and basically Christmas consisted of them sleeping while I moped. I should be thankful for all that I have and those that I have. I am SO sorry for your loss, and my prayers will be for your family tonight. Cherish those you have today.
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Soar like a weasle my friend.
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Dec. 25, 2003, 08:00 PM
I can't even express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
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UNCeventer
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:08 PM
I am so sorry.
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Kimberlee
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:09 PM
You and your family are in my prayers. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif
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JustaLurker
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:13 PM
Oh Evalee, I send you my heart felt condolences and deepest sympathy. How shocked I was to read the topic title and the news it contained. I can only imagine how you and Bill must be grieving.
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With much sorrow,
Maggi
fivebyfive
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:25 PM
I know there is nothing I can say that hasn't already been said, but please know that your family and your son are in my prayers tonight.
God must have needed another angel.
faraway46
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:35 PM
Evalee,
I am speechless...speechless. Please let us know how us BBers can be there for you.
Hugs for you and your family.
Viv
DiZzyLiZzy
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:41 PM
My heart is in my throat right now. I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. You and your son will be in my prayers.
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LawnOrnamentLuvr
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:41 PM
Evalee http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif {{{{hugs}}}}
Lawny
Dream Away
Dec. 25, 2003, 08:43 PM
I am so sorry for you and your family. I have sympathy for his girlfriend too, my Boyfriend and I are only 19, but I would be devastated if anything happened. My thoughts are with you all.
~Tonya
Madison
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:02 PM
So sorry for your loss - you have my deepest sympathies. That is so shocking and tragic.
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free
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:10 PM
Oh Evalee...if only I could help bear some of your pain. I cannot imagine anything worse. Please share parts of Alexander's life with us when you feel up to it.
From posts that you have written, I know enough about you to be able to say that you were a good mother and must have made him feel secure and loved.
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mrgan182
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:29 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.you and your family will be in my thoughts during this tragic time. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
~M~
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RodeoHunter
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:37 PM
I cannot even grasp this. I am so sorry Evalee Hunter, you are in our prayers.
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Release First
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:40 PM
May Alexander rest in peace,surrounded by all the loving thoughts being sent his way. I'm sending my prayers of support and strength to your family in this painful time.
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Scootie
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:47 PM
I just logged on and saw this...
What a terrible, sad shock! There are no words sufficient to express my condolences to you and your family.
I have a daughter who is one month shy of her 20th birthday. I don't know what I would do if something happened to her.
We should cherish our loved ones every day because we never know if we will get another chance.
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doubletake
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:48 PM
I am so sorry, I don't even know what to say. Words can't describe your loss, and my heart and thoughts go out to you, your family, and your friends... http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif You have my deepest sympathy.
caryledee
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:58 PM
I just logged on after Christmas with the family and saw this...its so unfair for someone so young and healthy to be taken so quickly, without warning.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
LoriO
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:59 PM
Evalee, just checking in again tonight to let you know that I've been thinking of you and your family all day.
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starlady
Dec. 25, 2003, 09:59 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you,
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Lcsd114
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:08 PM
Evalee, you don't know me I'm sure but I first read your post this afternoon and I just had to come back tonight to send my heartfelt sympathies. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif I can't stop thinking about you and your family, it certainly puts today in perspective. Gifts are nice but family is the one gift that is free and one you should never take for granted.
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Saddith
Dec. 25, 2003, 10:34 PM
I am stunned. How could this be?
I truly am saddened and shocked to hear this news... you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am truly sorry that this has happened to you and yours.
cyber hugs through tears are in order... http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
Finnegan
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:36 PM
OMG How sorry I am for you!! But I must say if anything ever tragic happens in my life I would want your sense of composure & your ability to cope. I can't imagine what your life is like right now, but you are handling yourself in such a dignified manner. You and your husband hold each other & support one another. You will get through this.
~Bev
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Plumcreek
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:45 PM
I am so sorry. What a horrible thing to happen.
CoconutGrrl
Dec. 25, 2003, 11:53 PM
I am so sorry for your loss, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Kestrel
Dec. 26, 2003, 12:04 AM
You have my deepest sympathies on the tragic loss of Alexander. Please feel free to PT me if you would like someone to talk to about your son. I am available in the wee small hours of the night if you need an ear or shoulder.
DarkRiver
Dec. 26, 2003, 12:11 AM
I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
Judy
ErinB
Dec. 26, 2003, 12:37 AM
Oh, god... http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif there are so many words and none of them are even close to adequate. We love you and I know everyone will continue to support you throughout this. Many hugs to you.
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FlightCheck
Dec. 26, 2003, 03:23 AM
I cannot even imagine your pain...sending lots of loff and hugs your way............
Cyndi
Weatherford
Dec. 26, 2003, 03:57 AM
Oh, Evalee, you have my prayers. thoughts, and tears. If I could be there to hold you, I would!
It does sound like he died peacefully, which is more than most of us can wish, and rest assured that he is over the Rainbow Bridge where Willem, DD, Cactuskate, and the others will welcome him with warm and loving arms.
Take care of your self - sending Leprechauns and a buge cyber hug - {{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}
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stegall
Dec. 26, 2003, 03:59 AM
Just wanted to add my thoughts and prayers. How very very sad. Wish there was more I could do or say, but this is just so tragic..........
let us know if there is anything you need EH, we are here for you.
okggo
Dec. 26, 2003, 04:05 AM
I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers, god bless.
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RegalBeagle
Dec. 26, 2003, 04:54 AM
Evalee, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
situpandride
Dec. 26, 2003, 05:08 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss, it is heartbeaking and gut wrenching.
jumpforjoy
Dec. 26, 2003, 05:12 AM
No words can express the sorrow we feel for you and your family. You have our thoughts and prayers. You also have our faith that you will make it through this with the love and support of your family and friends.
--Laurie
ESG
Dec. 26, 2003, 05:25 AM
Evalee, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Eretria
Dec. 26, 2003, 05:27 AM
I'm still in shock from reading this. My deepest heartfelt condolences.
Hold tight to each other and know we love and care for you.
Sincerely,
Ere
baileygreyhorse
Dec. 26, 2003, 05:33 AM
I am in complete shock to read this. How terrible for you guys. We will be home Monday evening; please let us know if you need ANY help with anything. We are so truly sorry for such a sudden tragedy. Jeremy and I will be thinking about you. Hang in there!
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harvestmoon
Dec. 26, 2003, 05:51 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif What a horribly sad thing. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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Pixie Dust
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:10 AM
Oh my God. I am so sorry. Words cannot describe. I don't know what to say, but that I am sorry. You are in my prayers. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
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babegrrl89
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:16 AM
Im am so sorry my family you will be in our thoughts.
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FionaJ
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:20 AM
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. You are in our prayers.
IsitKismit
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:25 AM
Evalee,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
God Bless
Freebird!
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:31 AM
Evalee,
There is nothing I can say to make you feel better, or to fill the emptiness that must be in your heart right now, only God can do that. I know talking about God on a public message board may not be the smartest thing, but He is the only way we can ever get through times like this. He is there for you, and always will be. I hope you are able to find some comfort knowing that there are so many out there praying for you and your family. I leave you with His words:
Our bodies are like tents that we live in here on earth. But when these tents are destroyed , we know that God will give each of us a place to live . These homes will not be buildings that someone has made , but they are in heaven and they will last forever. While we are here on earth , we sigh because we want to live in that heavenly home . We want to put it on like clothes, and not be naked. These tents we now live in are like a heavy burden, and we groan. But we don't do this just because we want to leave these bodies that will die. It is because we want to change them for bodies that will never die . God is the one who makes all this possible . He has given us His Spirit to make us certain that He will do it .2 Corinthians 5:1-5
As long as we are in these bodies , we are away from the Lord. But we live by faith , not by what we see . We should be cheerful , because we would rather leave these bodies and be at home with the Lord. 2 Corinthians 5:6-8
These bodies we now have are weak and can die . But they will be changed into bodies that are eternal . Then the Scriptures will come true , "Death has lost the battle ! Where is your victory ? Where is its sting?"1 Corinthians 15:54-55
Blessed are they that 1mourn: for they shall be comforted Mathew 5:4
Jesus then said ," Iam the one who raises the death to life ! Everyone who has faith in me will live , even if they die. And everyone who lives becuase of faith in me will never die."John 11:25-26
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mighty mite
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:34 AM
I'm so sorry.
Your heart must be breaking, but I truly believe that some people are too good for this world and that's why their stay here is so short.
Ethan & Ella's Mom
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:38 AM
As a mother, I can't even begin to imagine your pain. I am truly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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VivaBaby
Dec. 26, 2003, 06:49 AM
My deepest sympathy.
Janie
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:06 AM
I've been thinking of you since I read the post this morning. My thoughts, like those of so many others, are with you during this time of trial.
accidental buckaroo
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:07 AM
Evalee,
I cannot imagine what you are going through. I have a 19 year old daughter myself. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
jumpsalot
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:07 AM
Oh, Evalee, I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot pretend to understand the grief you and yours are going through, but if I could, I would, so that you would not have to.
You are in my prayers.
Small Change
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:11 AM
I am so very, very sorry for your family's loss...
JulieMontgomery
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:17 AM
Freebird put it beautifully.............
Thinking of you today.
"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of his devotion."
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nycjumper
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:19 AM
Deepest regrets http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Flash44
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:20 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
tirnanog
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:21 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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lawndart
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:23 AM
Rest in Peace Alexander. Thinking of you EH.
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AHC
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:34 AM
So sorry for your loss....
LH
Dec. 26, 2003, 07:43 AM
Evalee,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
khobstetter
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:00 AM
OH EVALEE..... http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/no.gif
I am so sorry!!!! There is just nothing we can say to help, BUT we can be here with tons of cyber hugs for you and your family.
I lost my granddaughter a couple of years ago at Christmas and it was sooooooooo helpful to be able to know there were people "out there" who would hug and hold me through cyber space...
From you entire COTH family, we are all praying for you and your son, just know that for whatever reason, he is in a better place now than this old world.
If any of us can help...just post here...
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carosello
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:07 AM
Im so sorry http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Barnfairy
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:10 AM
You are in our thoughts.
There really are no words.
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Velvet
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:22 AM
I'm so sorry.
May the Lord comfort you and ease the pain of your loss.
I can only conclude that I'm paying off karma at a vastly accelerated rate.
reefy!
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:24 AM
I'm so sorry for you and your family.
God be with you and comfort you in the days ahead.
Prayers,
Jennifer
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All points
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:28 AM
Oh Evalee, there are just no words. I am so very very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. Our deepest condolences. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif
CathyKb
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:28 AM
I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.
Fairview Horse Center
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:29 AM
I am so sorry.
He must be very special to need to be called home on Christmas Day.
Darlyn
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Fairview Horse Center
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:36 AM
We grieve for our loss of companionship, but he has not lost. He is in a wonderful place. He can still hear you, and if you listen very closely, you can still hear him.
Darlyn
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Wicky
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:50 AM
I am so sorry about Alexander. Some years ago, my brother died suddenly, at age 27. He was at the wheel of his car, stopped at a red light. He just never drove on. We never found a "real" cause of death.
This is a very painful time, I know, for you and your family. It took us all, especially my mother, years to be able to speak about him without tears. But, this peace will come to you too, in its own time, and you will remember him with joy as well as sadness.
{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} and condolences - my thoughts are with you.
PaulaM
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:53 AM
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.
May God be with you and yours at this time.
Finzean
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:58 AM
Evalee, I am just totally without words. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. If I could offer you my shoulder to cry upon.... http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif
Fine I give up, do it your way: heels up, eyes down!!
Perfect Pony
Dec. 26, 2003, 08:59 AM
So very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hexel
Dec. 26, 2003, 09:09 AM
Evalee, I'm so sorry, there are no words to express the pain and heartache of you, your family and friends are now feeling. My thoughts are with you .
cinnabar
Dec. 26, 2003, 09:09 AM
Oh Evalee, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Against The Wind
Dec. 26, 2003, 09:13 AM
Evalee, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I prayed for you all yesterday and last night, and will continue to do so. God Bless.
sid
Dec. 26, 2003, 09:25 AM
Dear Evalee,
Words just cannot adequately express my deepest condolences to you and your family....you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Susan
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BelleBoyd
Dec. 26, 2003, 09:49 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hope you will feel peace soon.
Zetra
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ClipClop
Dec. 26, 2003, 10:01 AM
Evalee Hunter, I am so sorry. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/cry.gif You are in my prayers.
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Barn Dirt
Dec. 26, 2003, 10:13 AM
{{{{Evalee}}}} I can't express how truly saddened and sorry I am for your loss.
My thoughts are with you.
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