Please pray for free

[NMS]

Andy and family--that is such fantastic news! Jingling here for her speedy recovery!!!

Nancy

[fanfayre]

Thank you for taking the time to give us such wonderful news!

[mbj]

Hurrah, Mary! What a fighter you are!! Thank-you so much, Joe and Andy, for keeping us "in the loop. Holding you all "in the light" as we Quakers say.

[BarbB]

WOW! I've been gone for a few days and come back to great news. Hang in there Mary.

[Spirit_Rider16]

What great news! Life's been so hectic lately; it's incredible to be able to come on COTH finally and see such good news. I'm so happy for you and your family, Andy.

Continued jingles and prayers for Mary from Mass!

[serena]

Still praying for free and what a wonderful update.

[IFG]

I lost the internet when my phone line went down. What terrific news to come back to.

Jingling in New England!

[Fred]

still praying and jingling for continued improvement.
Hang in free - we all miss you here!!
xo
Gail

[cinnabar]

Wonderful news! Still jingling...

[persefne]

Checking in here this morning to say that I hope all is well and praying that free is still on the mend! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Quinn]

Adding my loud clanging as well. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff

[Noctis]

more jingling and prayers from TN!

[bornfreenowexpensive]

more jingling from PA!!

[FairWeather]

any news this morning?

[The Pie]

still jingling!

[cedarboy]

Jingle! Jingle! Jingle!

Go Free!!!!!!!

[BeastieSlave]

Still jingling!

[Luvinfoofy]

Free, we're still all jingling and praying for you- stick in there!!

[canyonoak]

JINGLEJINGLEJINGLEJINGLE

and a few prayers for free's family..

Im just overwhelmed at the courage and heart and sheer will of the human being..

[free]

Latest update on Mary - Andy is very busy at the Florida Horse Park (their first event is November 5th & 6th) so I am giving you the latest news.
Mary continues to make baby step improvements in her recovery. On Saturday & Sunday she was communicating with us with hand movements based on our verbal commands. On Sunday she opened her eyes and saw her son Gene Ray waving to her. She suddenly raised her right arm and waved back! It was great surprise to have her respond to what she saw visually.
Today she gave a thumbs-up to her doctor after he awoke her from a deep sleep.
The weekend activities made her very tired and
she has spent the last 2 days resting very comfortably. This is a very slow healing process and she has both good and bad days. We are very happy to have all of your jingles, prayers, and encouragement. We now think of all of you as Mary's extended family.

Joe

[2Traks]

How wonderful to hear that she is showing signs of improvement! Still jingling like mad!

[LAZ]

Thanks for the update, Joe!

That Mary, she's a tough one. I think about her multiple times every day, and send healing thoughts for her every time.

A friend of mine went to the doctor for a routine pelvic exam and they found stage 4 ovarian cancer. The docs got her in, did surgery, but had to leave a big mass that was so involved with her circulatory system that couldn't get it. They basically stitched her up and sent her home to say her goodbyes. She (like Mary) is a selfless woman that has many people who love and admire her that prayed and thought strong healing thoughts for her--and she beat the cancer and is still cancer free, 5 years later. She credits her recovery with all the (as she puts it) 'Help that she got from her friends'.

So, many jingles coming your way!

[BasqueMom]

Wonderful news! More jingles coming your way.

[flbay]

So excited to hear Joe! I know Andy is crazy busy with the Ocala HT...but many portable jumps will work just fine. (He shouldn't try to stretch himself too thin http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif)

So glad to hear good news and progress, baby, progress! Natural sleep is the brain's best healing mechanism. Mary will be tired and should be encouraged to sleep, even though it is so exciting to have her back and tough to let her sleep when all you want to do is interact. Sleeping most of the time is her main goal. So excited about these amazing steps in her recovery.

[BarnBrat]

Tons of jingles for free!

[Bensmom]

Joe, thank you so much for taking the time to come here and update us. I know the whole crew at the Horse Park is running nuts trying to get it all done in time!

Every baby step of improvement is a wonderful thing!

Still jingling here too,

Libby

[desilu]

How wonderful to get your positive update!

Go Mary!

[dianad]

It's a long road, please be open to accepting help when it is offered, okay? So glad to hear the continued good news http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif .
Best wishes to you all and Mary, who was so supportive of me getting my CANTER guy... Diana

[Luvinfoofy]

Wow, Yay for free! Be sure to let her know how many people are pulling for her on CoTH. I must check this thread 15x a day to see how she's doing! We miss you free, keep fighting!

[La Luz]

Take it day by day, Mary, take it day by day. We're all jingling like mad...*snuggles*

[mbj]

You ALL are amazing! Jingling in PA.

[Pol]

Ho-leee, Joe! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif What wonderful news. Good for you. Mary, you go, Girl!

[BeastieSlave]

Excellent! I know you are thrilled to have Mary responding to what she sees. Baby steps are okay, and there will be bad days to go along with the good ones. That's part of the cruelty of strokes. Just do your best and stay strong.

Thank you for your continued updates. Still jingling!!

[annikak]

Go Mary GO!!!!!

Jingles to all
and heartfelt thanks for keeping us thread-checkers going. Like others, Marys improvement makes my day-week-month, and your dealing with everything makes me jingle harder.
So, curb chains on! Kick on Mary! And how amazing of a woman is she???? WOW!

[Mariequi]

Mary's obviously trying so hard to respond at every level so she needs that sleep! You go, girl! Bless all of the caretakers. I hope you are all sleeping well and ready for the challenges of the next day. I picture you smiling every morning. Mary is, too, maybe internally sometimes though. Teeny, tiny baby steps just fine, Mary. Take your time to come back for your guys. All the two and four legged critters you've cared for are sending the healing vibes back at you!

[jamr75]

still thinking of you guys! I'm so happy that you can report her baby steps to us! Still keeping your family in my thoughts!

[monstrpony]

SO glad to hear of continued improvment, even if it is slow. Slow is good, at least it's forward (or so my lazy QH tells me http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif ).

Thanks for keeping us posted!!

[persefne]

Well, if there is one thing that horse people know for sure, it is that "baby steps" are often anything *but* small. Sometimes, the tiniest changes and improvements are in many ways gigantic, and that's what keeps us all moving forward. Great news for a chilly Wednesday morning! Thanks for keeping your "family" informed, Joe!

[BBowen]

Joe:

Thank you for your wonderful post. I check this thread first each day. Just thrilled to hear that Mary is responding. Any tiny bit of improvement is huge. That means she is headed in the right direction. Horse people are strong willed and it sounds like Mary is using all of that will to recover. Continuing the prayers and jingles for Mary, you and Andy. Hugs.

[fanfayre]

Wonderful! I read for updates first thing every day, and it helps me get going on a dark, windy, wet day on the wet coast.
Hurrah

[Gunnar]

Joe, thanks for the update!

Mary you are one tough lady and I am sending those strong jingles!

Andy, good luck with the Horse Park! Mary will be proud.

[Fred]

yes, Joe, thank you so much for the great update. They may seem like baby steps, but I think that is wonderful. Mary, you go girl!
xo
Gail

[bornfreenowexpensive]

WOOHOOO! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif Those sound like great leaps to me! Thanks for the great up-date! Still sending lots of jingles and positive thoughts for Mary and her crew--you all are all tough cookies!

[Jessi P]

Joe many thanks from all of us for the update - Mary is inspiring to all of us and our whole family is thinking good thoughts for Mary. The kids now ask first thing when they get home from school "How is Mary today?" I have started reading the latest update aloud to the family so they can get every last detail. It is heartwarming for me to see how much my children and family can care about someone they have never met - Mary is a special lady with so many who care about her!

Best of luck with the Horse Park Andy!

Big hugs and jingles,

[ESG]

What wonderful, wonderful news. Go, Mary, go! Still sending out Texas-sized jingles and healing vibes for you all. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

[gillenwaterfarm]

Mary, you are an inspiration to us all.

Prayers and jingles from Alabama.

[q's mom]

Many more jingles from Florida! And well wishes as well.. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Finnegan]

Yay! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

Just checking in to let Mary and her family know we're still jingling, no matter how tired our arms get!

[Row Wisco, Row!]

Keep on kicking!!

I'm thinking of you http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[The Pie]

me too, just checking in and sending more jingles for Mary.

[knowonder]

I just had a chance to get back to this thread and what thrilling updates!!! Hang in there free, we are all pulling SO HARD for you....jingling everything I own!

Sara

[colliemom]

Great news!!! And good luck to Andy at the Florida Horse Park!!

Jingles from PA!

[BeastieSlave]

I'm checking in for my daily jingle. I hope all's well with Mary and family.

[mbj]

Jingling away for Mary.

[free]

Hi everyone. This Andy writing tonight telling you that Mary is doing great. She opened both eyes today. She even is breathing well and coughing less and less. Now we just wait and see how well mentally she comes back. I want to thank you for all the wonderful posts that you have writen. The Horse Park is moving along quite nicely. I am excited to see some of you at the show.

[Xctrygirl]

Great to hear from you Andy. Hope that the Fl Horse park enjoys its inaugural event.

Great news on your mom!!! She is constantly in my daily thoughts. I hope she continues these steady improvements.

As for you, stay well and have fun with work. And give your dad my best too.

~Emily

[LoriO]

WOW< this is just incredbile how things are turning around. Come on Mary, we are waiting for you to come back and play with us!!!

[Luvinfoofy]

Yay, Mary!!!

We're jingling for you - and jingling, and jingling!! It's so great to hear that you are coming along, one <baby> step at a time is all you need. You're on your way!

[vineyridge]

Still praying and jingling for free to keep kicking on to recovery.

Y'all keep with her and after her, so she doesn't give up. With your support and her determination, she'll make it back to the barn. Which is what the free who posts here would want for herself, I think.

Lots of hugs to all from Mississippi.

[deltawave]

Mary, I hope you have a great day!

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Rockin']

Great news Andy,give Mary our best and tell her we are sending extra special jingles from NZ!!!

[annikak]

Great News!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Thinking about all of you and jingling (and doing a happy-dance!) like mad in MI-

Keep Kicking Mary!

[Elliesmom]

Yaayyy!! That's great news! We're still jingling away here in Michigan!

[BeastieSlave]

Thanks again Andy! Good news is a great way to start a Friday http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Please tell Mary we're still jingling!

[FlightCheck]

Bensmom has GENEROUSLY offered to donate the cup for the Ocala Horse Trials for the best final score by an OTTB in honor of Mary.

So, every year we'll be able to award it at the November Horse Trials...maybe next year Mary can award it herself!

[NMS]

Andy and family...due to the generosity of people here at the COTH, we were able to save a horse yesterday in honor of Free! I posted a thread on the Off Course board so everyone could see his photo.

Her strength and her support by her family and friends is truly inspirational.

Nancy

[frugalannie]

Atta girl, Free. Still praying and jingling here.

Thank you for taking the time to update us, Andy and Joe.

[riverpup]

Mary, hope you have a great weekend. You are amazing!

[q's mom]

Glad to hear the good news!!! Have a great weekend !!

[BBowen]

Checking in the morning. Sending prayers and jingles to Mary and her wonderful supportive family.

[persefne]

Thanks so much Bensmom and Flightcheck! I think that is wonderful and I also hope that Free will present it there next November.

Lots of good news about Free this morning (NMS: that is really terrific)! I'll go into the weekend feeling positive and hopeful that she'll be back here amongst us to check in herself oneday soon. Andy, good luck with the event and thanks for the update!

[fooler]

Wonderful news!

[Mariequi]

Oh, Andy. I thought I was having such a lousy personal day. You really put everything in perspective and I'm lifting my eyes up to heaven and giggling and tearing up. Just giddy! Thanks so much. Way to go, Mary. Take the time you need. You've go wonderful people at home and out here pulling for you. You're so special!

[serena]

Just checking in and soooo glad to hear that things are going well. Way to go!!

[free]

MORE GREAT NEWS ABOUT MARY!!! She had a wonderful day and is communicating with us. She can open her eyes and will look around the room. I asked her if she knew she was in the hospital and she nodded yes. We play music for her and she also nodded yes to liking it. Mary has had a tremondous week of recovery thanks to her strong spirit and all of your wonderful support on COTH. We read many of your posts to her and she seems to still know some of your COTH "handles". When I ask her if she knew who "Fred" was, she nodded yes! Thanks Gail for the CD that arrived today - I played "Small Victories" for Mary tonight. I am writing this with tears of joy in my eyes tonight. Thank you all you COTH'ERS for your strong support during this very difficult time.
Note to FlightCheck & Bensmom - thanks for your generous support of the special award in Mary's honor at the Florida Horse Park. Mary would be both embarrassed and honored. I hope she can present it to the winner next year.
Note to LAZ - Mary, I now believe, will be there next year to walk the back side of the track with you in September.
Note to everyone involved - Thanks for the Pal Joey & Red River Red efforts.

Joe

[Peggy]

Yeah! Great news! Thanks for the update.

[flypony74]

Wow, what incredible news! She is a miracle woman! Continued jingles for a speedy recovery.

[War Admiral]

That is just awesome. Kick on, Free!!!

[The Pie]

just came on to check if there was any news on Mary, and read this GREAT news. Keep on fighting Mary. Fantastic news to start our weekends!

[MissFit]

wahoo! great news! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[frugalannie]

Does anyone remember the celebration we had for Connie when she walked again? It involved 4 inch spike heels, rhinestone sunglasses and I can't remember what else.

What kind of celebration shall we have for Mary?

So thrilled that the positive baby steps are mixed in with great big positive paces. Keep up the good work, Mary, Joe and Andy!

[BBowen]

What a wonderful way to start my morning!!!! You go, girl. Mary, keep moving forward and making progress.

Thank you for the continued update. It means a lot to know how she is doing. Prayers, jingles and hugs.

[Equinetech]

Jingling my arms off and praying as hard as I can.

You go Mary!

Xctrygirl-I'm sure Mary enjoys hearing your stories. Please keep sharing for her!

[dianad]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif!!!!

Mary, you go girl! What a woman! Diana



"When you're going through hell, keep going".

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

This is simply wonderful.

Free probably doesn't even know me, I had just started posting consistently when she became ill...but I knew of her support of OTTBs, a cause very dear to me as well. So this is by way of saying how Mary touched people she doesn't even know.

[Lori T]

Oh, that is such wonderful news! Mary, you go girl!!
Lori
http://www.calypsofarm.piczo.com
edited because I can't spell!

[mademoiselle]

Happy dance here in Michigan ...

Keep on bringing the good news http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Pol]

Holy *SMOKES*!!!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif Covered with goose bumps and doing a dance!
Mary, you are a rock. Keep coming, we're all waiting for you!
This is reminding me of the day my sister opened her eyes after 3+ months in a coma. WAHOOOOOOOOOOO!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_eek.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_razz.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[cinnabar]

Wahoo! Such fabulous news!

[jetsmom]

Wonderful news! Have a great recuperative weekend , Free!

[mbj]

Whoohoo Mary! Way to go! I am so glad for all of you and will keep jingling on.

[Noctis]

Oh andy, thanks for sharing the news! Free, you just keep healing up! Still jingling like mad for continued healing.

[Luvinfoofy]

Yay, free!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Fred]

I'm sitting here, laughing, crying, choking on my coffee.. and so, so happy. Thank you Joe and Andy for the wonderful updates. Bensmom, what a lovely, generous thoughtful thing to do! and NMS - how wonderful is that!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif
Mary you go girl!! See how important you are to all of us?? http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif
xoxo
Gail

[Lord Helpus]

Oh Andy -- I am in tears hearing such good news. I have been involved in family problems of my own, but they pale beside yours and I am SO HAPPY that Mary is back with us!!!

Our last communication was about you guys making some money by releasing the name "Stevie Wonderful" as a Jockey Club registered name since he will never race again, so that someone else could use it -- for a fee. Of course, you could still use it as his name in the eventing world; just not as a racehorse.

This came about because a good 2 year old named Stevie Wonderboy owned by Merv Griffin by Steven Got Even was beginning to win out in California.

I bet Mary that Merv must have tried to get "Stevie Wonderful" first since it is a much better name.

Mary thought that was a great idea and was willing to do it for $100.

Well, you tell your Mom that, yesterday, Stevie Wonderboy won the Breeders Cup Juvenile and will (most likely) be voted 2 year old champion. So now you guys can make some really decent bucks by selling Stevie's name to the highest bidder. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/winkgrin.gif

See if that doesn't bring a smile to her face. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Mariequi]

Merv Griffin owns the world! Or produces it!

It's a beautiful day here. Beautiful day wherever you are even if it's raining, Mary.

[free]

To Lord Helpus and others on COTH and CANTER:

Thank you for the post Lord Helpus, we saw the win by Stevie Wonderboy on the TV in Mary's hospital room yesterday. What an exciting win! I "wonder" if our Stevie is related to the winner? I am sure Mary would know or could find out. I have no way to look it up since she took care of the breeding info.

Since the "Stevie" names are now so popular and our situation has changed, we would propose the following in honor of Mary:
Help us to sell the name "Stevie Wonderful" to the highest bidder and put the money in the special fund already established to save other horses off the track through the CANTER
organizations. Any other suggestions or comments are welcome.

Joe Sparks

[Xctrygirl]

All I can say is WOW!

I go away for one day to breeder's cup and everyone and Mary kick it into high gear.

Bensmom and the canter folks... thank you. The world needs far more people like yourselves.

Andy and Joe.. with a little luck you all will be receiving a package in the mail by the end of the week to give to Mary. I just have some more teeth to pull~!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Mary: I went to Breeder's Cup! Scrappy ran in an undercard stakes race and was a very good 2nd to a horse of Todd Pletcher's. But the cool part was that since we were in the 2nd of 10 I was able to go back and watch. I saw Lost in the Fog, sadly he lost. I watched and enjoyed an afternoon that was cold but so beautiful. The sun shone, the trees were changing their leaves and I kept having moments where I would stop walking make myself look around and remember these things. I wished I could share every sight, sound, smell. Oh and in the morning I got to give a little bay horse some peppermints. You might know him well. Lord knows Scrappy should too. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

Anyway the best part was that I had a paddock pass for the Classic so I was inches away from the best horses in the country and watched them all stride by and thought of you.

Keep on kicking and enjoy the music. Your care package is "in progress" but then so are you. Smile for all of us and be well.

All my best,

~Emily

[BeastieSlave]

I left for the weekend too and was really glad to come back to such good news. Way to go everyone!! Good things are happening on so many fronts http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
Jingles from GA!

[jamr75]

WOW http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif That is wonderful news. This is my first time on the internet this weekend and it is nice to hear some good news. I'm sure that you guys being there is helping her through this all. Stay strong Mary! You need to get better to keep Andy in his place! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[LAZ]

Yay Mary!

Keep kickin' forward, we're pulling for you.

You have to help us make notes on another 74 horses at the paddock sale again next year!

Lee Ann

[Bensmom]

Joe, that is a wondeful idea! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif Mary is someone that always comes to mind when I think of successful re-careering of OTTBs -- I can remember talking to her and Crystal after the debut of one of the CANTER cuties and how proud she was! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

And, I want to thank you guys for saying nice things about me, but I haven't done anything special -- just stepped in to help Flightcheck bring to fruition the idea that the COTH eventing forum had in the first place. (Mostly I've been busy with the silver polish! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif ) The folks that are so special and should be honored with a perpetual trophy are Mary, the CANTER and Exceller volunteers, and others like Lord Helpus who step in when a terrific OTTB needs them the most. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

I believe that I should have the go-ahead to announce the Equine Spirit Award, given in honor of Mary Sparks. This award will be given to the OTTB with the best score at the inaugural Ocala HT and thereafter. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif Maybe by next November my darling OTTB will be ready to compete there and see if we have a stab at winning it! (hey, we took a couple more steps forward this weekend by going on *two* outings and lived to tell! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif )

I will plan get a photo of the award and its presentation next weekend so that you guys can all see the idea that you had here come to completion!

In the meantime, we are still jingling madly here in Tallahassee! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Libby

[free]

Libby, I love the award's name. The name says it all. Thank you for all your help. I hope to meet you next weekend at the show. Crystal and I will be bringing 2 trailers with 5 horses to compete.

Joe

[Fred]

just checking in to let you know we are thinking of you here in Ontario. Glad the cd arrived... Small Victory is the obvious song (about an OTTB mare) but another is King of Rome - it is about a racing pigeon (!) - but mostly both songs are about love, faith, courage and determination - all things Mary and her loving family have in spades..
Hoping for another good day today!
xo
Gail

[persefne]

I was away at an event this weekend and missed the second BIG update!!! Yay...what fabulous news to come home to!!! My OTTB was doing a happy dance in the pasture this morning (or, maybe that was just because it was a bit frosty out http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif). Keep up the great progress, Mary! Have a great week Andy and Joe. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Bensmom, thanks again for your efforts (for the millionth time!) and I can't wait to see the picture from next weekend.

[Pol]

Originally posted by Bensmom:
Joe, that is a wondeful idea! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif Mary is someone that always comes to mind when I think of successful re-careering of OTTBs -- I can remember talking to her and Crystal after the debut of one of the CANTER cuties and how proud she was! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

And, I want to thank you guys for saying nice things about me, but I haven't done anything special -- just stepped in to help Flightcheck bring to fruition the idea that the COTH eventing forum had in the first place. (Mostly I've been busy with the silver polish! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif ) The folks that are so special and should be honored with a perpetual trophy are Mary, the CANTER and Exceller volunteers, and others like Lord Helpus who step in when a terrific OTTB needs them the most. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif

I believe that I should have the go-ahead to announce the Equine Spirit Award, given in honor of Mary Sparks. This award will be given to the OTTB with the best score at the inaugural Ocala HT and thereafter. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif Maybe by next November my darling OTTB will be ready to compete there and see if we have a stab at winning it! (hey, we took a couple more steps forward this weekend by going on *two* outings and lived to tell! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif )

I will plan get a photo of the award and its presentation next weekend so that you guys can all see the idea that you had here come to completion!

In the meantime, we are still jingling madly here in Tallahassee! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Libby
Libby, this is FAB. I wish I could come compete there, too. Be sure to have the announcer (Flightcheck?) say a few things about Mary and her devotion to OTTBs during the awards ceremony. All during the event too...'for those of you just joining us, we have an award here at the Ocala HT in honor of...' Jeekers. There will not be a dry eye in the house. How cool. You guys rock. Hoping for some more earth-shakin' reports from Joe and Andy.

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

Am still jingling here on Halloween for Mary...

[Robby Johnson]

This is excellent, excellent news. Please tell Mary how much I admire her strength and fight. She has given me a lot of courage and "guts" the past few days. I thought of what Emily said in a post related to my move-up event about "free is still fighting" and it gave me the brass to kick on! Just like Mary is doing. Keep kicking girl!

Robby

[maxxtrot]

i will be on an ottb at the ocala event and we will see if we can make a bid at that wonderful new award. what a wonderful idea bensmom. i think mary would love the idea of an award being given in her honor, maybe a bit embarressed too. we hope to see you all there this weekend, good luck to everyone, and have fun.

[BeastieSlave]

Happy Halloween guys. Still jingling in GA!

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Sending more little kisses on the forehead to Free, Andy and Joe!!

[Xctrygirl]

Hi guys,

I had a funny (true) Halloween story to pass on to Mary.

So I am lying here in bed, working on the laptop at placing 2 Tb's that need retirement from Del. Park. (See thread on Off Course.. See what you have started!!! Like I don't have enough work to do already. No just kidding this is fun) and evening is setting in. And there are a lot of kids in the neighborhood so I start hearing them as they're trick or treating. Well I am thinking nasty thoughts about the little heathens who shaving creamed my car and added a few gummy bears to my windshield last night, when all of a sudden I hear screams. Now anytime I hear screaming I am surprised but then I hear an odd noise I can't place. I stop typing but no more noise.

So I go back to work. 10 mins later...MORE and higher pitched screams and now the second noise faintly records as being some kind of motor. Well I wait and sure enough a few mins later it comes again...

So here's whats been going on. The kids are trick or treating. They knock on the door of the house across the st. Friendly people dole out candy, someone inside says, "Hey did you hear something out back?" Kids and homeowners all look around. Wherein father or elder brother comes flying out from behind the house revving a chainsaw dressed as Jason!!!!! I am not making this up.

Only once did I hear a child so upset that it was crying and screaming in a shrill manner. Now I would have been scared out of my wits. But most people were heard laughing after the "attack."

Man....even in Delaware we get attacked in the suburbs. Can't wait to go back to Belmont.

Hope you're improving today. Keep squeezing and blinking. We all miss you. Oh and Lad was a bad boy Friday. He dumped me!!!! But it wasn't all bad. He got some nice green grass in his tummy before I caught up and made him work. Oh the poor life of Lad. And before you ask, yes I'm perfectly fine. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

~Emily

[FlightCheck]

I am going to have to practice this award a zillion times before Sunday - I was choking up ENOUGH at Rocking Horse just announcing Crystal on Mary's ponies....

[free]

Reply
Hi everyone, thanks again for your strong support.

Update on Mary - Halloween is one of Mary's favorite holidays. Last night she listened to the eerie haunted house she bought in August. She also is wearing very colorful halloween socks with pumpkins, black cats, etc.
Mary's continues to improve. It's always a treat to see what she can do new every day. Last night she moved her right arm up to her chest and was moving her fingers trying to scratch. Later when I asked her if she was okay, she SAID very softly "uh-uh". What a wonderful surprise!

Note to FlightCheck - You better be practicing the "Equine Spriit Award" presentation because many of Mary's close family will be there and we have 3 OTTB's entered in the show with Crystal riding. If one of Mary's horses wins the award, there won't be a dry eye anywhere.
Good luck to all riders and horses. Here's to a great weekend and successful show.

Joe

[persefne]

Originally posted by free:
Later when I asked her if she was okay, she SAID very softly "uh-uh". What a wonderful surprise!


Wonderful, wonderful news!!! I think it would be beautiful if Crystal and one of free's OTTBs receives the award. I feel for Flightcheck, Bensmom, and others who are there, if one of them does win. It's making me teary-eyed just *thinking* about that kind of poetic conclusion, much less to see it if it were to come to fruition. Here's to a wonderful event and go OTTBs!!!

[BBowen]

Joe:

Thank you again for your and Andy's regular updates. Each day when I check this thread, it just lifts my spirits. Please let Mary know that her daily improvement truly brings a light into all of our lives. I will continue to send prayers and jingles.

[Gunnar]

Gosh, every day I check in with my Jingles and it is so nice to hear Mary is improving.

Jingle...........

Wish I could be there for the Equine Spirit Award. It will be great!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

cross posting...so thrilled that Mary continues to improve.

[Mariequi]

Joe, these are so much better than baby steps! Go Mary! Go Mary!

[bornfreenowexpensive]

What great news! I hope more great news keeps coming! Good luck to all those at the event next weekend, what a great award!

[LAZ]

Thinking of you on a glorious fall morning. We're really late this year, the trees are just turning here in the midwest, Mary. This morning I took the dogs out and the fog was lingering close to the ground, backlit by the rising sun.

[frugalannie]

I'm not terribly good at tooting my own horn, but I thought Mary would like to know that a contribution has been made in her honor and Fred's to CANTER New England to help save a worthy mare at Suffolk Downs.

Hoping to hear lots more great news on this crisp and beautiful fall day.

[Mariequi]

Just thinking of Mary this evening. Mary, in Lexington, KY we're having a few 60's and 70's days, really lovely. Fog in the a.m. Frost earlier in the week and to come again over the weekend. We'll take as many of these as we can and cherish them - as we cherish you and yours. Hope your day was a day in progress!

[BeastieSlave]

I'm thinking of ya'll too, and still jingling for good things!

[sm]

responding to the post about awards for Mary, for example, Equine Spirit Award:

Am honored to offer to host the web space at http://www.hellohorse.com, also include a bio on Mary. (You'll see the bios, they are fun and informative and celebrate the thoroughbred.)

We'll be putting up a bio and info on an OTTB Grant in Education offered by an individual in about three weeks, so Mary would be in good company.

I don't know Mary at all. But I believe I recognize her heart and courage, looks to be the heart of a thoroughbred.



Anita
North American Thoroughbred Society

[ESG]

What a great way to start the day! Mary, you keep on kicking. Joe and Andy, y'all are in my thoughts and prayers along with Mary. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

And I'm so looking forward to finding out who won "Mary's award" this weekend. Makes me wish I was still eventing and still in Florida. Best of luck to those who are, and keep the updates coming! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

I would love to see this story on the NATBS website - the more people who hear about this, the better. I think it is a great way to publicize the award and Mary's efforts (and the COTH and CANTER efforts as well!).

Jingling still. Ted is shaking all the lead ropes he can get his mouth on.

[Fred]

just checking in and still jingling for positive steps forward!
frugalannie, thank you so much for your generosity - I am honoured to be mentioned in the same breath as Mary.
What frugalannie didn't say is that Canter has been able to save another OTTB mare due to her generous donation! thank you, thank you.

[Noctis]

just checking in, continued jingles and prayers for Mary, and hoping that the baby steps are continuing on this lovely evening!

[Leaping Lily]

Hello, everyone. Joe has asked me to do the update on Mary tonight since I am the one that saw it. I have been sick for a week and haven’t
been able to go stay with her. I, like everyone else, have been checking on the forum to get updates from Joe and Andy. I got to the hospital about 5:30 this afternoon. When I got there, Mary was lying in the bed holding her head up with both eyes open looking around the room. She did so many things I don’t where to begin. Two nurses came in and I told them that Joe didn’t tell me about her being able to hold her head up. They said they hadn’t seen it either and were just as surprised as me. I asked her many questions and she would shake
her head yes and no. Let me tell you. When you talk about those horses and Andy, she really goes to nodding and both eyes are wide open.

Mary helped Crystal find Mario’s Moon and Storm Counter, an OTTB. When I told her the mare won the Best Score Award at Canterbury’s Derby last weekend, she nodded a lot. Her horse, Formosa Strait, has the same personality
as Storm Counter. She nodded in agreement with me.

As I talked on about the horses, she reached up and scratched her nose with her right hand. I started crying, amazed over the progress she has made since I stayed with her last week. I want to thank everyone one for the prayers and
jingles, as they are bringing us a MIRACLE.

Sincerely, Trina
FOR JOE AND ANDY

[Mariequi]

Trina,

Thanks so much for getting this good news out to us. This is crazy, nutty, wonderful news! Major steps. Your kind of stimulation is helping to continue to bring Mary back to being Mary!

Just chilling! Good chills!

[Rockin']

So wonderful of you to share your visit with us,it is great to hear that Mary is making progress every day.I enjoy reading everyone's posts about their experiences with Mary,even though I have never met her I feel I know her through you all.Sending all the positive vibes we can from NZ to Joe ,Mary and Andy.

[LoriO]

OMG, these updates just keep getting better and better. WHOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[eventable]

Still jingling madly for Mary and ecstatic to hear the latest good news http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif.

[Fred]

thank you Leaping Lilly for the great update, please let Mary know we are all thinking of her and miss her!
sm, I tried the link to the NATS and it didn't work for me. I would like to know more!

[persefne]

Another week, and another wonderful update upon which to go into the weekend! And, what an exciting weekend this will be for the Sparks. It's amazing to hear of her continued progress. Thanks for sharing the update with us.

[Pol]

HO-LEEEEEEEEEE!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_eek.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_eek.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif
Where's the "I've got the shivers!!" icon

[BBowen]

Trina:

Thank you, thank you, thank you for such fabulous news on Mary. That had to be so exciting for you to be there with her. Please let her know that she is in our thoughts every day and we continue the prayers and jingles. Hugs to you, Joe and Andy.

[Jessi P]

Whoooo hooooo Trina! Way to go Mary! Keep up the good work. More W Va hugs and jingles on their way! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[bambam]

GO MARY!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is fantastic! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[mbj]

Trina, Thanks so much for the update. WONDERFUL NEWS!!
I'll just keep on happily jingling!

[Badger]

What a wonderful development. Thank you for the good news update.

[barbaraG]

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Sending more little kisses on the forehead!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

BarbaraG

[Fred]

just checking in and sending warm wishes on this blustery, kind of scarey, afternoon!

[Mariequi]

Hmm, scary and blustery here too, Fred. Picking up the lawn furniture and watching the horses introduce themselves to every new leaf!

Hi, Mary and family! Thinking of you and smiling today! Hugs. Hope things are a little (or lot) better every day.

[Bensmom]

Hi guys!

Mary is continuing to do better, and all the COTH jingles, good thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated!!

I will do a full report tomorrow morning, when I can upload the pictures and tell the full story, but the Equine Spirit Award went to a very dear person who is close to Mary and her family -- if it wasn't going to be one of her horses, it was the next best thing!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

I've just gotten in from the show, so I can't hold my eyes open long enough to put the pics up now, but I'll do it from the office tomorrow, along with a full report on the very successful new Ocala Horse Trials and the wonders of the Florida Horse Park! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Libby

[Mariequi]

Thanks, Libby. Looking forward to the report!

[Leaping Lily]

Hey everyone, Trina, again. Joe called me last nite and asked me to let you know Mary had a great weekend. Two of her sons and her daughter-in-law stayed most of the weekend with her while Joe was going back in forth from the farm, feed stores, to the show and then to the hospital. What a busy man. He said Mary is staying awake more frequently and for longer periods of time. By the time he got to the hospital last nite she was very tired but awake
long enough to hear how the show went. He also
told her that Alice won the award presented in her honor. Then Andy called and her eyes came wide open again so Joe put the phone to her ears so she could get Andy's update on the show. Joe said there was a lot of nodding and
smiling going on.

One of her doctors talked to Joe last nite and
he is going to have a PT call Joe today. That
is very encouraging news. I can't express to
you enough what everyone's good thought's and prayers have done for this family. Please keep
them coming has the MIRACLE still continues.

Sincerely, Trina
FOR JOE AND ANDY

[frugalannie]

What wonderful news! And I'm glad everyone had a great weekend.

C'mon, Mary!

[Miss Maddie]

So wonderful to hear how Mary is doing! I haven't said much here but I do check this thread almost every day to hear the updates.

I was at the Ocala HT for a few hours yesterday and it was really moving to hear the frequent announcements about the award in Mary's honor, and I have to say there seemed to be a lot of buzz and excitement about it! What a wonderful thing that award is. So glad to hear that Alice won it in the end.

[Mariequi]

Mary, you and your family are quite an inspiration. Wonderful news about the PT. Great big step! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[annikak]

So very very wonderful! I am glad for everyone!

Keep at it Mary, and hope everyone recovers from the Show.

Continued crazy jingle dance from MI....

[maxxtrot]

i am so glad that mary is doing so much better. and that alice won the award, that is just wonderful! slick and i had a great weekend too, he was really good, a wonderful cross country run and 2 rails and time on stadium. but that is ok. it was a blast and i cannot wait to go back in jan. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[BeastieSlave]

Wow!! I have been away for a few days. It is just wonderful to hear how well Mary is doing http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif I'm so happy everything went so well at the Ocala HT too. Thanks everyone for all the updates.
Still jingling in GA!

[Bensmom]

Thank you to everyone for the jingles and good thoughts, and please, let's keep it up! It means a lot to those guys that Mary's friends are all pulling for her! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[Luvinfoofy]

Go Mary! Can't wait to have you back over here! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

[free]

Originally posted by barbaraG:
http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Sending more little kisses on the forehead!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

BarbaraG

http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif Mary had another great day yesterday. She is getting stronger and more alert each day. I have been giving her little kisses on the forehead every day for the past 3 weeks per BarbaraG's suggestion. Last night she did two special things that touched my heart.

First, she surprised me by SPEAKING the word YES to a question. The doctor's had put a cap on the tube in her throat. It made it possible for her to breathe normally and TALK. It was on about 6 hours and was removed about 10 PM to help her rest.
At 11 PM the nurses came in to re-position her from her back to the left side. All that activity awakened her and she opened both eyes wide open. I was holding her left hand with my hand and she started moving the hands to her chin. With my fingers next to her lips, she began kissing the back of my fingers. Then she indicated she wanted more kisses on the forehead, which I immediately did for her.
She was sleeping very peacefully when I left at midnight.
I needed to share this happy news with our COTH family. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

Joe

[Holly Jeanne]

That is so very wonderful!!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[persefne]

Joe, that is fantastic! Your continued efforts to keep us all informed of these amazing developments is very touching and much-appreciated. It must be so miraculous to see her continuing to fight to make her way back to you all every single day...one step at a time. God bless, and thanks again for the great news! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Seal Harbor]

I’ve been following this thread since the beginning. I don’t know Mary, she doesn’t know me, I don’t even event, but any one who champions the OTTB is a hero to me.

This last post from Joe got me all teary. This is WONDERFUL news.

Keep giving her those little forehead kisses Joe, apparently they are good medicine! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Thinking of all of you and keeping you in the light.

Lynda

[BBowen]

Okay, I am crying too after reading Joe's post. I am so amazed at this woman's strength and courage, and what a blessing to have such a wonderful family and friends. Mary's thread is the first I check each day hoping for a tidbit of good news. It is thrilling to find that she is progressing every day. Hugs, kisses, prayers and jingles. Whatever works, keep it coming. Thank you again Joe for your updates.

[JDufort]

all I can say is...

WOW!

Mary - you share the heart of the courageous thoroughbreds you love so much.

[Lori T]

Oh this is such wonderful news! Thanks for the updates and please keep them coming!
Lori
http://www.calypsofarm.piczo.com

[Mariequi]

Oh, Joe. I'm just bawling here. Potential PT new employer insists I work (housesitting) through Thanksgiving and I always take that week off from my FT job to go home. I need the $ badly, but now I'm really missing family even more. Mary (and you) really touched me.

[cinnabar]

Amazing news! Go Mary go!!

[eks]

Joe, Andy and family,

This is the best news! Like everyone else, this thread is the one I come to everyday hoping to hear good news about Mary's condition. Your continued love and support and being there with her is what is making her recover. She is a very lucky woman to have such a wonderful family. Thanks for taking the time to update us all. Still praying for all of you...

[Pocket Pony]

Awww, Joe, your post put tears in my eyes. Three cheers for Mary, and lots of little kisses, too! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[JER]

free, joe and andy,

I want to let you know just how much this thread means to me right now.

Yesterday, a friend had a terrible riding accident. She was on an older, quiet horse walking on a paved road and she wasn't wearing a helmet. Something happened -- very quickly, in about the time it takes to turn around -- and she was on the street, unconscious, with serious head trauma.

Fortunately, paramedics were on the scene within minutes and she was in the trauma unit minutes after that. Surgeons removed a large blood clot and now she's stable but still in precarious condition.

Last night at the hospital, free's story helped keep me going. My last visit to this particular hospital's trauma unit did not have a happy ending and being there again was really difficult. I had to constantly remind myself that every case is different and thinking about free and the rollercoaster of her progress helped keep me on an optimistic track.

I certainly don't mean to take this thread to faraway places. But I do want you all to know that right now, free's recovery is a source of strength and hope for me at a time when I really need it.

And please, everybody, as much as I hate to say this -- make yesterday the last time you ever sat on a horse without a helmet. You're not just wearing that helmet for yourself but also for the people who care about you.

[vineyridge]

Amen about the helmets whenever you sit on a horse.

I got on my new mare while she was haltered and being held, and she exploded. Threw me 12 in the air, and when I came down, my rotator cuff exploded. I wasn't wearing a helmet, and it was a miracle that I didn't land on my head or break my neck.

I'll never GET ON a horse again without a helmet, no matter how old, how quiet, or even if it's being held.

Still jingling in Mississippi that free is back in the barn in just a few months from now.

[frugalannie]

Joe, thank you for your touching post and for sharing the bond that you and Mary have with us.

And thank you Barbara for prescribing that excellent medicine: kisses on the forehead.

Tying curb chains to my helmet so I can jingle and ride simultaneously.

[annikak]

Joe-
That is positivly the best news I have heard in a very very long time- and moved me to tears-
http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif
How is it that someone (and someones family) that I have never met mean so much to me? You are all an example of love and faith, both in each other and in the power of prayer (and of course jingles....)
Cyber hugs to you all and I plan on meeting you all at some point. Thank you for your updates http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif
Happy dancing, and jingles from MI,
This will be a very thankful thanksgiving....

[Jessi P]

Originally posted by annikak:

How is it that someone (and someones family) that I have never met mean so much to me?

What Annikak said!

I feel as tho I know you guys, Mary, Joe and Andy. You have a family of friends here on COTH that are pulling for you. And you have a friend in WVa (by Mountaineer Park racetrack) if you guys are ever in the area. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Still jingling from W Va!!

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/winkgrin.gif

Little kisses on the forehead are my Mom's secret rememdy for Everything! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

G'night, Everyone...especially, Andy, Joe and Free!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

Past my bedtime...but I wanted to sneak in and check http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

[can't re-]

Awwwww, what a great update!

[Fred]

dear Joe, thank you so much for your wonderful update, and for taking the time to keep us all informed. Your post has me all teary too.
JER - big hugs to you, and most positive healing thoughts for your friend. These are all constant reminders (as if we needed them) that life is indeed fragile, and things can change in a minute.
Since my accident last year, I have not been riding - and have only just started back in the last month or so. I am ashamed to say that I have not been wearing my helmet.. can't seem to find it ( I know that is no excuse - but we all do it - ) I will take your kind advice and get a new one today.
Sending healing thoughts on a blustery and wet November morning to your friend JER, and also of course to our dear Mary.
xo
Gail

[KarenC]

Like many following this thread, I don't know free personally, but I'm thrilled to see the great turn this story has taken, and I will continue to jingle for further progress. Free, and her family, are an inspiration.

[BeastieSlave]

I love to come here after such a wonderful update! Like so many others here, I can't really claim a 'real world' relationship with Mary or anyone in your family, but you are now in my thoughts daily. Keep up the good work!

Jingling in GA!!

[Elliesmom]

Wow!!! What wonderful news! Like many others on this thread, I've never met Mary, but I know she must be a strong, well-loved woman, and both of those things will help her in her recovery.

About the helmet thing... I've been lazy about wearing mine, too. Fortunately was smart enough to have it on when I was bucked off twice (yup...quite the little rodeo) last week. Ended up with a hip pointer and damaged tendons in my shoulder. But, a kick to the helmet (thank you helmet) instead of my head saved what's left of my brain (can't be too "brainy" if I got back on for a second round, right).

And Fred...go find that helmet NOW!!

[barbaraG]

More little kisses coming your way!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Everyone, let's keep praying for Free and her Family. Then turn to someone you love and remind them you love them with little kisses on the forehead!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

I realize this might be a bit difficult if you have to telephone them, http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif but let them know anyway!!

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif G'night http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

BarbaraG
GWV http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

[mbj]

Happy dance with jingles on (picture Morris Dancers on horseback) for Mary, Trina, Joe and Andy!!

[DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"]

sneaking away from my usual forums to say I'm still jingling! and thrilled with Mary's progress.

[free]

Update on Mary - It will be 6 weeks ago tonight that tragedy stuck our family. The next day we were given very little hope for Mary's recovery. It has been a very difficult emotional rollercoaster ride of lows and highs as she went from intensive care to immediate care to general care at Shands hospital.
I am very happy to tell you today that Mary is well on her way to recovery. She's had another 2 good days and her strength & will to survive continue to give us all hope. Last night she was answering questions with head shakes, arm waves, and VOICE responses. Trina put some lip gloss on Mary's lips and Mary helped to spread it around. Later when facial cream was put on her face, Mary also used her fingers to apply it like makeup. When asked if she had an itch, she raised 2 fingers and proceeded to scratch in 2 different places. She sometimes gives a big smile when we discuss her favorite subjects - Andy, family, COTH, OTTBs, our horses, and our dogs. The nurses think she is now ready for physical therapy and we are trying to get PT started soon.
I can hardly wait to see her again each day to find out about her new activities and surprises.

Joe

[q's mom]

Wonderful news!! BIG congrats and lots of jingles still from Florida!!

[suniday]

Thank you so much for taking the time to update us on free's progress. I check almost daily (sometimes twice a day) to see the updates. This thread reminds me of how precious our loved ones and time with them are.

Thank you for allowing free and your family into our lives. Continued jingles from me and all three of my OTTB's. The most recent acquisition just had his last race in September at the age of 10! He is a gem! LOVE those OTTB's!

Good luck with the Physical Therapy!

[Bensmom]

Joe, thank you so much for the update!

I've been communicating today with a couple of publications about the Equine Spirit Award that was given in Mary's honor. Not only was it won by Alice Andrews, of Rocking Horse, but Honest Truth, her OTTB is a Florida bred! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Please tell Mary that she must keep getting better -- her award is raising awareness in our state of the OTTB and the great possibilities and if this keeps gathering momentum, I'm gonna need her help!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Jingling away in Tallahassee!

Libby

[Luvinfoofy]

Yay for Mary!!

Be sure to let her know that there are TONS of us checking in several times a day, waiting for updates and rooting her on! We're all so excited to hear about her progress!

[persefne]

Also adding my dancing jingles and my deepest thanks to Joe and friends/family for keeping us in-the-know. This has been an incredible time for you all, obviously, but hopefully the odyssey has been made more unique by allowing us to make the journey with you. My OTTB is doing a happy jig, since I told him we are planning to make it to Ocala to put our names in the ring for the Equine Spirit Award. Bensmom, we need to make a pact that come all manner of horse injuries/illnesses/adversity, that we will both be there with our guys to give it a shot! Ocala 2006, here we come! Have a great weekend, Sparks family. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[frugalannie]

Please let Mary know how delighted we are at her progress. And in case you or she think that there are only a few of us checking in on her progress, look at the number of views this thread has had: 39,333 (including mine) and another 9600 on Off Course.

Look at it this way: every one of them has been a hug, jingle or a prayer for you, Andy and Mary. And it seems they're working!

JER, I'm so sorry about your friend. Hugs and jingles her way, too.

[Mariequi]

Hard to believe 6 weeks. Very hard. But such a lesson to us all how things aren't always as bad as they seem - and what love and support can do - everything!

[bornfreenowexpensive]

more WOOOOHOOOOs and lots of positive thoughts! Tell Mary we are all still pulling for her. The road to recovery may be long but we know she has the strength to make it!!

[hiddenlake]

Originally posted by free:

I can hardly wait to see her again each day to find out about her new activities and surprises.




Joe, I've been lurking on this thread since it started and I've read every single post, and cried at so many of them. But nothing touched me like this last post of yours. I don't know your family at all, but my guess is you're every bit as amazing as Mary. What a wonderful thing you said---your love comes through in every way.

Add me to the jingles, and congratulations on such incredible progress.

[BeastieSlave]

Thank you so much Joe! It has been a long day for me, but I got such a lift from your update. The perserverance and loving commitment you, Andy, and (I'm sure) the rest of your family have demonstated is an amazing thing to witness - even from a distant computer. Of course, Mary's strength and determination are fine examples for us all, both in her dealings with horses and in overcoming her current obstacles.

Jingles from GA!

[Marli]

Like the many others, I have also been following this thread, and always, with tears in my eyes - the love for Mary, the strength of your family, and the continued support from everyone this has touched is deeply, deeply felt.

Many prayers for her continued progress!!

[LAZ]

Thanks for the update! Tell Mary I'm moving to a bigger barn with nicer facilities and more turnout. I figure once I'm moved in and settled I can foster a CANTER horse or two to help them on their way--maybe it can do R & R while Mary is doing the same!

Lee Ann

[B Street Tango]

Amazing. Simply amazing. Thank you so much for the continued updates. Just like so many OTTBs, she's now getting a second chance, too, it seems! What a fabulous woman she must be.

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

Joe, Andy, and Free,

More little kisses on the forehead coming your way. If you ever come to Area I, I'll be here to deliver them in Person!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

BarbaraG
GWV http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[BBowen]

Joe:

Another cyber friend saying thank you for the updates. I don't know Mary, but through this roller coaster ride and your kindness to let us hear of her progess, I feel close to each of you. The news just gets better with each of your posts. Mary is truly a miracle. I continue to send prayers and jingles for her. Much love to Mary, you and Andy. You are so blessed to have each other. Each of you are an inspiration.

[maxxtrot]

joe,andy and the sparks family- i am so glad to hear of mary's new progress. she is such a wonderful woman, like someone said before, she is now getting the second chance she works so hard to give to all the ottb's that cross her path! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif, thanks to youfor keeping us all updated on everything that she does, good and bad. keep up the good work mary and soon we will have you in person to thanks again for all the work that you do.god bless!

[BeastieSlave]

I hope Mary had a good day!
Jingles from GA!!

[Fred]

Joe, thank you so much for the wonderful update, and for keeping us informed about Mary's progress. Please keep on letting her know we are out here, thinking of her and keeping her in our hearts!
xo
Gail

[annikak]

Just back from our drive from Dallas with our new truck- and ran to the computer to get my Mary/Free update!
And I get to do another Happy dance! Jingles galore! I am so happy for all of you!

It is amazing that its been 6 weeks- and like the famous 40 days and 40 nights- you have made it thru all the trials. Mary is indeed a miracle.

Thanks for the updates- and know we are thinking about all of you!

[Gunnar]

Joe, thanks for the great update. Wow 6 weeks! I am so happy that Mary is progressing so well. My faith in the power of jingles grows each day.

Mary, Hugs and jingles from a stranger. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif But I do feel I know you now after all the nice things that have been said about you. AS usual you are always in my thoughts!

[free]

Thanks again everyone for your love and support for Mary. She continues to improve and surprise us all. Thursday night she indicated a need for an ink pen and paper to write us a note. She wrote several "words" that we could not read. We tried again Friday night with the same result. Saturday we bought her a white eraseable board and felt markers to use. The writing was better but still not readable. We will continue trying until she can write us good messages. I am sure she has many questions and commments bottled up that she is anixous to write.
Saturday night several of us were gathered in her hospital room telling funny stories about Mary over the past 20 years. We were all laughing and having a good time. Mary would give a big smile and chuckle as she remembered those times. She displays good long and short term memory capabilities.

I am going to meet with Mary's doctors early this morning to discuss getting physical therapy for her.

Joe

[Rockin']

It is wonderful and so encouraging to hear the progress that Mary is making. Thank you for taking the time to keep us updated,this is one thread I check on everyday.Tell her we send lots of jingles from NZ and hope to see her down here one day in the future!!!

[Finnegan]

Originally posted by free:
With my fingers next to her lips, she began kissing the back of my fingers. Then she indicated she wanted more kisses on the forehead, which I immediately did for her.
She was sleeping very peacefully when I left at midnight.



Oh, soooooo sweet. Just brought happy tears to my eyes.

~Bev

[Mariequi]

That's great news, Joe. I know this isn't the same thing since Mary will get stronger and stronger, but my Mom had tremors (not Parkinson's) and I always could see her good and bad days in the crossword puzzles every day. Sometimes I could read them perfectly; sometimes not at all. This is just great progress!

[eks]

Joe, Andy and family,

I am so thrilled to hear that Mary is making such good progress everyday. Thanks for keeping us updated.

[BBowen]

Joe:

What wonderful news and each time you give us an update, I am amazed each time. It is so good to hear that Mary steadily improves each day. I am sure her writing ability will strengthen as well as she exercises those brain waves.

Again, than you so much for keep us updated. So many times, we hear of a situation and never know how things turn out. All of us are just thrilled each time we read the latest news. Sending more prayers and jingles for Mary. Hugs to all of you.

[BeastieSlave]

We do sound like broken records, but thanks for the update. I'm hoping that PT will begin soon, as I'm sure you all want a more 'active' recovery for Mary. It will probably help her spirits to have something specific to do too.

How nice that Mary is trying to write. Hopefully she will conquer the marker and make her thoughts and feelings known to you soon.

Ya'll hang in there and keep doing what you're doing - it sounds like it's working!! Jingles from GA!

[free]

Originally posted by barbaraG:
http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

Joe, Andy, and Free,

More little kisses on the forehead coming your way. If you ever come to Area I, I'll be here to deliver them in Person!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

BarbaraG
GWV http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

I am very teary eyed (happy tears) as I tell you the great news about Mary - I saw her at 6:30 AM this morning as she was starting to wake up. She wanted to brush her teeth again like she did yesterday. I gave her a new tooth brush (one of those children's brushes that lights up and flashes for a minute as a brushing timer) and she used it to clean her teeth.
Then she wanted to write a note. After several attempts, she printed with a large red felt maker the words "THANK YOU BA??????". I asked her who she wanted to thank and SHE SAID "BARBARA" in a very clear voice! Many thanks to BarbaraG for all the little kisses on the forehead - Mary gets many every day and she really likes them.
The doctor arrived about 7 AM doing his rounds. When he asked her for a thumbs-up, she raised her arm, waved her hand, and put a thumb up! The doctor is very happy with her progress and is going to have PT started this week. The plan is to build her strength doing rehab 3 times a week until she is strong enough to be move to the Shands ReHab Hospital which is nearer to our farm.

Please keep up your prayers and jingles - they are working wonders for Mary!

Joe

[Bensmom]

Joe -- that is FANTASTIC news!!

I put the pictures of her award up here:

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/benandbubba/album?.dir=9b...enandbubba/my_photos (http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/benandbubba/album?.dir=9b9c&.src=ph&store=&prodid=&.done=http%3a//pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/benandbubba/my_photos) in case you want to print out any more of them.

I am so encouraged by this improvement and can now go happily into my Monday http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Libby

[annikak]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif
You guys are amazing! jingling like mad!!

[persefne]

Joe, It seems like such a short time ago you were excitedly telling us about Mary opening her eyes and scratching her nose, when now she is smiling, nodding, writing (the "readability" cannot be far behind, now), brushing her teeth, and applying her own moisturizer/make-up! All of these things over the past few weeks are miles from where things were a week or so into your experience. I'm confident that once you get some physical therapy set up for her, that you will be able to regale us all with the really joyful improvements that I know she will make very soon. Continue to keep us all informed of her remarkable recovery and enjoy your time with her and the rest of your family. That seems to be the ticket to her many wonderful leaps and bounds in the right direction. Thanks for the early Monday update, Joe, and have a great week, Mary!

[cinnabar]

Mary continues to amaze! Such thrilling updates! Thanks for keeping us in the loop.

[Mariequi]

Joe, just better and better! And think of all the extra jingles with jingle bells soon! I'm going to hang them from my curb chain!

[Robby Johnson]

I am so excited to read this news! Mary, those fillies do need you, girl! I knew you wouldn't let them down!

Robby

[Seal Harbor]

I get any posts to this thread emailed to me, this is the only thread I read daily, if not more. Now there are more happy tears in Washington state. Joe and Andy and the rest of the family, you all must be beside yourselves with joy! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif I know I am.

Thank you Joe for taking the time to keep us all updated.

This Thanksgiving we all have much to be thankful for. Go Mary!!

Lynda

[bornfreenowexpensive]

Made me cry happy tears. What great news!!! Woohooo! way to go Mary!!

[frugalannie]

I know Barbara will be deeply touched to read your post, Joe. I certainly was!

You keep pushing, Mary, and we'll enjoy every minute of your progress, whether it be a giant step or a little baby step.

Maybe you can plan to do a nationwide tour of all the areas as a celebration of your ongoing recovery?

[Fred]

what great news!! Our love to Mary, and to her wonderful family.
xxx (more little kisses!)
Gail

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif Joe, Andy, Free, Everyone.

Oh, Gosh. Not sure whether to laugh or cry. I'm just so glad and happy to be able to give back some of the kindness I have received on this COTH BB. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif Did I start a New Tradition?? http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif

My Mom died some time ago. I'm sure she is in heaven sending prayers and little kisses on the forehead for Free and Andy and Joe tonight! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

g'night http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

BarbaraG
GWVhttp://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

[BBowen]

What wonderful news. BarbaraG knew just what was needed. That's the kind of person she is - a real sweetheart. So happy that those little kisses made such a difference. Thanks Joe. You have a lot of us teary-eyed with joy. More prayers and jingles, all the little kisses you can pass along to Mary.

[lyrical]

The doctor is very happy with her progress and is going to have PT started this week.

Now we're talking!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif Every thing that you describe, Joe, is more significant for a good recovery than you can ever know. If Mary had been a patient of mine, I would have been very excited about working with her. After 30 plus years of working with neurologically damaged individuals, I got pretty good at predicting those who would have the most success in rehab. I feel strongly that Mary will continue to astound you with her recovery. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[Leaping Lily]

Hey everyone. Talked to Joe today and he wanted me to give you the update on Mary.
Crystal and I went to see her last night. She just keeps on surprising us. I had come
with the intent of giving her a manicure. When I asked her if I could do her nails instead of squeezing our hands to reply, she said, “If you want too.” I squealed with
joy and she laughed at me. Crystal asked her if she was ready for some real food and she shook her head yes. I mean a big, yes! We all started laughing and she laughed with us. They have had the trek capped off since yesterday and if she continues to do well. They are going to take it out in the next couple of days. They are going to start some PT in her room 3 times a week in order to get her ready for the rehab center. He is supposed to be checking out the Shands rehab center today.

I cannot stress to everyone enough, how much your continued support and prayers mean to this family, as their Miracle continues, Thank you.

Sincerely, Trina
FOR JOE AND ANDY

[Luvinfoofy]

Yay, things keep getting better and better! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif We miss you a lot Mary, can't wait to have you back and at 'em! Still sending thoughts, prayers and jingles your way!

On another note, I was wondering if free's family is going to need any help after or during all of this. Andy and Joe: I want you to know that the COTHers here are capable of doing some pretty amazing things. If you guys ever need help with anything, whether it means having someone feed the horses for a couple of weeks or raising some moola to help with hospital costs - let us know! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

Eyes up and kick on, Mary! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

[bambam]

that is such wonderful news!!!!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif
That is just amazing. Thank you for keeping us updated.

[wanderlust]

Joe, I check in on this thread every day or two, and all I can think every time I read it is how very blessed you and Mary are to have eachother.

My continued jingles for a full recovery. http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

Just saying g'night with more little kisses on the forehead and little hugs too!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif

BarbaraG
GWV/http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif Love you, http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sadsmile.gif Free!!

[Pol]

Joe-
What exciting news.
If you go to Toys R Us, you can find magnetic letters which Mary can use to 'write' for you. Also, in fancy little card and stationary shops, you can find magnetic phrases and words used to write poetry on the fridge. These could also help her communicate.
Keep the good news coming! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[MissFit]

wahoo! More jingles from SoCal! Go Mary!

[BeastieSlave]

Sounds like things just keep getting better and better http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif You go Mary!! Jingles from GA!

[Gunnar]

I am so amazed and happy for free and her family. Wow i guess our jingles really do work or at least add that extra bit of help we all need from time to time!

Go Mary!!

[BBowen]

I am just thrilled with Mary's progress each time I check this thread. She has such a strong spirit and a lot of folks sending healing vibes to her. I think back how grave things looked for a while and it truly brings tears to my eyes to think how far she has come. More prayers and jingles coming your way.

[FairWeather]

night. She just keeps on surprising us. I had come
with the intent of giving her a manicure. When I asked her if I could do her nails instead of squeezing our hands to reply, she said, “If you want too.” I squealed with
joy and she laughed at me. Crystal asked her if she was ready for some real food and she shook her head yes. I mean a big, yes! We all started laugh

absolutely great news! i'm so glad to hear this.

[LAZ]

Yay Mary! You're a tough bird, we're all pulling for you!

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/winkgrin.gif

Here comes the nighty dose of little kisses on the forehead. for Free, Andy and Joe http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif xxxx

BarbaraG
GWV/ http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif Off to bed now http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/sleepy.gif g'night.

[Mariequi]

'night, Mary. I'm watching Lost first.

78 here in KY yesterday; in 40's today and 20's and some teens tonight. Breeeeesk! Excited mares!

Anxious to hear of your PT plans!

Night!

[riverpup]

Wonderful!!!! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Luvinfoofy]

Mary, my dear...

We're still thinking of you!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

[mbj]

Mary, you area true Champion in showing us all how to live life. Thank-you!
Would a laptop computer make writing easier? If so, I bet I can find an older freebie if the hospital or you guys don't have one available.

[frugalannie]

Mary, we're heading into the holiday week, and you know what that means! I hope I can get on the 'net to check on your progress, but if not, I want to know that I wish you and your family a wonderful Thanksgiving.

We will be giving thanks for so many things, large and small: a horse's nicker, being surrounded by loved ones, your continued recovery, and, of course, many little kisses on the forehead.

[NoGreatMischief]

Been checking in almost daily, but not writing, but today filled with the urge to say....

GO MARY! GO MARY! GO,GO GO MARY!!!

What an inspiration, keep on kickin'! http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

[barbaraG]

http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/winkgrin.gif Free, Andy and Joe

Mid-Day little kisses on the forehead coming your way!! http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/yes.gif

BarbaraG
GWV/ http://chronicleforums.com/images/custom_smilies/lol.gif

[fooler]

Teary eyed jingles & forehead kisses from the Carolinas - Go Mary!

[free]

The Miracle of Mary's recovery continues. There are so many things to tell you since the last update. After Trina and Crystal were there Monday night, our vet, Susan T. visited Mary and brought her a stuffed toy horse. Mary immediately named "him" Coddles and later gave him a second name of Mr. Softly.
When I asked his name Tuesday night, she held up 2 fingers and said he had 2 names. She hugs Coddles when she sleeps.

Mary is such a teaser. When she wanted to brush her teeth, I got the nurse in to help her. When she was finished brushing, the nurse was leaving and asked Mary if she knew I was and she shook her head NO! I know Mary is getting much better when she starts teasing.

They gave her PT Wednesday & Thursday. They worked her legs and arms and got her sitting up on the side of her bed. These sessions really made her tired. She was sleeping a lot both evenings.
Wednesday morning I was talking to her and she said "How's the coffee coming?". I said "what coffee?". She said "Aren't you making me some coffee?". I told her she could not have any coffee yet so she settled for just smelling some in a cup.
This morning she put her hand up to her ear and asked for a telephone. She wanted to call Marti, our daughter-in-law. I dialed the cell phone and Mary held the phone while she talked to Marti for several minutes.
Mary really enjoys the little kisses on her forehead - today she returned some to my forehead!
She has been off oxygen for 3 days and breathing well on her own. They are looking at removing the trachea tube soon if she continues to breathe okay. They also scheduled her for a swallowing test today.

Everything was looking good when I left her this morning - now comes a bump in the road. The nurse called about 2 hours ago to say Mary was having some problem breathing and they were going to run some tests. When I called back just an hour ago, Mary was breathing better but now has a fever. I'm heading to the hospital and will update you later today.

Joe

[Lori T]

Thanks for such a wonderful update, Joe! I am so looking forward to meeting Mary at an event! We do have a connection..my daughter and I know Crystal and Trina from pony club. They are great people!
Keep the good news coming!
Lori
http://www.calypsofarm.piczo.com

[persefne]

Joe -- thank you for the full update! If you could only imagine how we all hang on every word, every small/tiny/infitessimal detail of your posts! Things sound fabulous with Mary's continued strengthening and her lovely, positive attitude. I will keep you all in my prayers this weekend that the fever is just a small side-affect and doesn't cause any more serious problems. Cuddles to Coddles and lots of happy thoughts as you and your family start the pre-holiday-week-weekend. http://chronicleforums.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

[Mariequi]

Joe, she's come so far, maybe it's just a bit fast, so here's hoping for a teeny speed 'bump'. Hoping for a great next report.

[Tux61096]

Here to add my jingles & prayers to help Mary over the "bump".

You are all a wonderful, inspirational family!