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Nov. 26, 2009, 09:02 AM
Thanks so much to everyone for your wisdom and comfort over Halloween. After BFF and her BF had another blow up on Halloween night, I basically told her straight up that maybe she should cut back on the drinking. She disagreed at the time, but called me three days later to say she was going to quit for a month.

That lasted all of three days. Now, she has a kidney infection so she has to stay off of it for two weeks and I'm not sure if she's going to be able to. We will see.

I am slowly removing myself from the situation as she is starting to become irritable and paranoid that everything I say on facebook/twitter/in person is "hidden advice"

Thanks everyone for your kind words. This is just the suckiest situation. :no:

Nov. 26, 2009, 09:41 AM
I'm sorry AITS. It DOES suck. You can't do the work for her and it may well wreck your friendship but it won't be because you didn't try.