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Chef Jade
Nov. 25, 2009, 12:22 PM
My BF and I adopted a BIG chocolate lab from a nearby shelter a few weeks ago. In general, he is a very good dog, but get SO excited when he sees other dogs. He gets way too aggressive with them, barks, yelps, bites, etc. that eventually the meeting turns into a fight. Also when he sees another dog he gets tunnel vision and will barely recognize the fact I am trying to get him under cotnrol and make him sit. I took him to the dog park last week and after a few scuffles I left. He also jumped up at a jogger and tried to nip at her playfully (thankfully he missed).
Any ideas with how to get him more socialized/better behaved when there is outside stimuli?
AppJumpr08
Nov. 25, 2009, 12:26 PM
Are there any obedience classes in the area? I think if it were me, I'd want the advice of a professional...and he could also be socialized in a controlled environment with knowledgeable supervision. But I also don't fancy myself a dog trainer, and would need someone's advice for sure!
Good luck!
AnotherRound
Nov. 25, 2009, 12:32 PM
Yes, he can, but you will need a professional. He's not seeing you as anywhere near being the one who says yea or nay in the duo, and he doesn't see you as alpha over him. He needs to get the command "leave it" and you aren't very close to being able to get his attention. I had a dog like that I was able to train by literally walking away from whatever I didn't want hmi to do, but it was only after I had bonded and become the big cheese in his mind, so you have alot of work to do with him. You absolutely need a professional. He will soon nip someone and you'll have to put him down. Every time he nips a dog or at a person, that behaviour is being reinforced, so think about that if you take him anywhere public.
trubandloki
Nov. 25, 2009, 12:40 PM
You need to find a good dob behaviorist and start following their advice. And for the sake of the dog do not take it to the dog park where it can get itself in trouble again until you have lots more control.
Come Shine
Nov. 25, 2009, 12:59 PM
Can the dog be muzzled out in public until you have a better handle on things? Better to be safe than sorry.
Good luck with it.
FatPalomino
Nov. 25, 2009, 01:00 PM
I don't believe in the alpha roll concept. And the socialization period by definition is only up until around 3 months of ago, so there's no chance of "socializing" him now. But, being a lab, you probably have either a strong food or play/ball drive you could exploit :D
I strongly 2nd the dog beaviorist suggestion. Or, pick up some of the GOOD dog behavior books (by authors Pyror, Donaldson, McConnell). Here's recommendation on good behavior books:
http://www.avsabonline.org/avsabonline/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=131&Itemid=345
Read through here and the related articles at the bottom, esp. operant and classical conditioning, as a start:
http://www.4pawsu.com/dogpsychology.htm
Rubyfree
Nov. 25, 2009, 01:00 PM
First things first, do NOT take him to the dog park again.
This is absolutely something that can be worked on, but it is going to take professional assistance and lots of time and patience. Part of that is going to be careful planned meetings with very stable dogs in neutral environments. The dog park fits none of those bills, and in a situation like this will only reinforce his aggressive/neurotic behavior.
Start looking for a behaviorist in your area. You can try contacting groups that offer obedience classes, but before you sign up for one talk to whoever is running it and explain the situation. If he is as bad as you say, you will probably be best off finding someone who will work with you one on one for a while. Don't go to petsmart- I know there are some that have decent trainers but it's a real crapshoot. Find an individual with a track record working with difficult dogs. Local obedience, tracking or agility clubs can give you a hotline to people like that.
In the meantime, you can start working on some basic commands at home- sit, down, come, leave it- to begin to build a rapport with him. Google NILIF- Nothing In Life Is Free- and begin to incorporate that into your daily life with him. Just another thing that will help establish you as the go-to girl in his mind. I don't tend to use terms like Alpha or Dominant, but you want to set up a relationship where he looks to you for guidance on how to react in a situation. NILIF will help with that.
Our three year old dane is extremely aggressive. He was well socialized as a pup but a switch flipped at some point. It's taken years of work, but I can now walk him without tremendous drama. He's fine with certain dogs in controlled environments, but he will never be a dog we can just take to the store or the dog park. It's fine- he fits our life perfectly, we don't feel any great desire to take him to dog parks anyway- but we do have to be vigilant about the situations he is exposed to. Because of his size, one slip up could very easily result in tremendous injury to another dog or person, and that is a risk we cannot take. Other people don't care that he's an excellent pet 99% of the time if that 1% is what they see. Please be careful and seek out a professional to help you immediately. Good luck.
ETA: One thing that helped us tremendously during the period where we were working on this was a halti. I know they aren't very popular on here, but being able to control his head was extremely helpful when he got that 'tunnel vision' thing going on. Use one with a short leash, never a retractable or a loose long one, and plan to work your way back to a buckle collar eventually.
FatPalomino
Nov. 25, 2009, 01:02 PM
ETA: One thing that helped us tremendously during the period where we were working on this was a halti. I know they aren't very popular on here, but being able to control his head was extremely helpful when he got that 'tunnel vision' thing going on. Use one with a short leash, never a retractable or a loose long one, and plan to work your way back to a buckle collar eventually.
Those and gentle leaders are VERY popular with behaviorists, for exactly the reason you explain, being able to control the head on an aggressive dog.
Basket muzzles are also very popular :D
deacon's mom
Nov. 25, 2009, 01:03 PM
I have a huge dog with the attention span of a flea. He was spoiled when I got him at 7 months. I tried to train him (and am experienced) but I didn't have the time to spend with him. I sent him to professional trainer for 3 weeks. He still has some issues but he doesn't chase the horses anymore and, when I call, he stops in midair and runs straight for me and sits immediately. It was worth the money.
Twigster
Nov. 25, 2009, 01:24 PM
A Gentle Leader and a good trainer are your best friend!
Obedience schools can be a great way to start socializing in a controlled environment after the ground work is laid with a trainer. Lots of dogs also benefit from having a "job" to do, and obediance or agility training is often very helpful.
I would stay far away from dog parks, and stick with long, on-leash walks. I volunteer with rescue dobermans, and IMO it just isn't worth the risk. Even if you trust your dog, there could always be someone there who has no business letting their dog off-leash. When I'm looking for off leash fun, we go to the barn after the horses are brought in and run in the pastures.
trubandloki
Nov. 25, 2009, 01:52 PM
Another vote for Nothing in Life is Free! Great idea!
FlashGordon
Nov. 25, 2009, 02:00 PM
I agree on the gentle leader and/or a basket muzzle.
Definitely get a professional involved ASAP.
This will require dedication on your part and the dog may never be 100% reliable. Some people are fine with that. The trick is being realistic about the dog and its limitations.
As a vet assistant there is nothing I love more than an owner who gets that their dog has issues and is proactive about it. Nothing worse than an owner who thinks little fluffy wuffy cutie pie is as sweet as can be despite the fact that it chewed my arm off and tried to fight every dog it saw in the clinic....
Clearly you are aware of the problem and kudos to you for doing something about it! Lucky dog to have found you...
llsc
Nov. 25, 2009, 02:11 PM
Ceasar Milan, the Dog Whisperer is a great resource, but use his advice/show along with a professional trainer in your area. I too would skip the dog park. If your dog is agressive and he meets up with another agressive dog, or worse, someone's tiny morsel of a dog, you'll have big problems.
goeslikestink
Nov. 25, 2009, 03:04 PM
My BF and I adopted a BIG chocolate lab from a nearby shelter a few weeks ago. In general, he is a very good dog, but get SO excited when he sees other dogs. He gets way too aggressive with them, barks, yelps, bites, etc. that eventually the meeting turns into a fight. Also when he sees another dog he gets tunnel vision and will barely recognize the fact I am trying to get him under cotnrol and make him sit. I took him to the dog park last week and after a few scuffles I left. He also jumped up at a jogger and tried to nip at her playfully (thankfully he missed).
Any ideas with how to get him more socialized/better behaved when there is outside stimuli?
you need to go to working classes or obdediant classes and perhaps dog agility
these dog liek to be doing something other than sitting around all day
they are working dogs give him something to keep his mind active
FatPalomino
Nov. 25, 2009, 03:39 PM
Ceasar Milan, the Dog Whisperer is a great resource
I definatly disagree. A peer-reviewed, published, scientific study showed that 40% of owner who did his "alpha roll" got bit by their own dogs... that's only the tip of the iceberg....
trubandloki
Nov. 25, 2009, 03:45 PM
I definatly disagree. A peer-reviewed, published, scientific study showed that 40% of owner who did his "alpha roll" got bit by their own dogs... that's only the tip of the iceberg....
I second this.
Chester's Mom
Nov. 25, 2009, 03:52 PM
I definatly disagree. A peer-reviewed, published, scientific study showed that 40% of owner who did his "alpha roll" got bit by their own dogs... that's only the tip of the iceberg....
Can I disagree with your disagreement? :lol: As a rescuer AND a constant Cesar watcher... if you as the owner are doing alpha rolls on your own dogs you didn't pay attention to what he is telling you. He is NOT an instruction manual, he is showing you how he personally handled a situation you only saw the tip of. And how many more times could NGEO channel post the "there are many methods available to work with your dog. consult a professional in YOUR area, etc, etc"?
He's fantastic in my book, but I learn from everyone I read/watch and incorporate bits and pieces into my training based on my own experience and the needs of my dogs.
cloudyandcallie
Nov. 25, 2009, 03:57 PM
Hire a very good and highly recommended dog trainer and let him/her keep the dog for a month of training. Then he/she will have either trained the dog (and will have to train you too in obedience school) or will tell you that the dog is incorrigible (yes there are some of those).
I went to obedience school years ago because of my first hyperactive aussie because I am not a trainer and I knew my limiitations so I sent Kippy to school first, then I went to school with Kippy and my other aussie Ashley and my mix Chadwick, so I'd know how to keep Kippy as well trained as she was when she came home from school. No more yelling, no more frustration for either of us, and her named changed from "DammitKippy" to Kippy.
TuxWink
Nov. 25, 2009, 04:03 PM
I have an adopted lab that's now 7 but who I found when he was 6-9 months old. He is a really good dog, but his exuberance and lack of social skills with other dogs was definitely a challenge. Luckily we already had an older dog that we let be "alpha" so he learned some manners quickly from him. (Except for eating the lights off our Christmas tree, destroying our phone and internet box - but I digress! :)
Even now, he's a lot to handle on a leash. We still walk him with a harness, but used the gentle leader for about two years, which helped tremendously. He still gets "tunnel vision" when he sees a squirrel or another dog, but he responds to voice commands now so he is controllable.
My husband followed the "Monks of New Skete" when training our first dog, who was really easy, and applied the same principles to the lab. (http://www.newsketemonks.com/dogs.htm) The biggest thing was learning that "SIT" and "STAY" and "LEAVE IT" were serious commands that need to be heeded immediately. Now, when we see another dog coming or him fixating on a squirrel, we immediately make him sit and stay and put his attention back on us. Admittedly my husband did most of the training, and at times I thought he was rather strict, but it really worked and both dogs listen to me and can be taken anywhere and kept under control.
He's still socially awkward and tends to incite dogs to want to beat him up, so I tend to let him do a couple quick sniffs and then we move along. I would also veto the dog park idea. Go for a hike or a long walk instead. One important thing I learned is that labs need a LOT of exercise. My older dog is content tooling around the block, but the lab needs at least an hour walk to really settle in.
All that said, I LOVE my lab, he just took some getting used to after having a very calm, easy to train first dog. He is so loyal and sweet, he's just not that smart and needs me to be black and white in all directions. :)
Good luck!
threedogpack
Nov. 25, 2009, 04:39 PM
My BF and I adopted a BIG chocolate lab from a nearby shelter a few weeks ago. In general, he is a very good dog, but get SO excited when he sees other dogs. He gets way too aggressive with them, barks, yelps, bites, etc. that eventually the meeting turns into a fight. Also when he sees another dog he gets tunnel vision and will barely recognize the fact I am trying to get him under cotnrol and make him sit. I took him to the dog park last week and after a few scuffles I left. He also jumped up at a jogger and tried to nip at her playfully (thankfully he missed).
Any ideas with how to get him more socialized/better behaved when there is outside stimuli?
I agree with the posters who say stay away from the dominance theory. In general, what those practioners do is squash behavior. Rather than do that, I prefer to give the dog a behavior to do in place of the one that is inappropriate, one that s/he cannot do and also do the inappropriate one. Patricia McConnell just had 2 posts up on her blog regarding aggression and there was a REALLY good post in answer to hers of what one person did with their dog aggressive pitX.
What the poster did was Dr. Karen Overalls Relaxation Protocol. You can view it here:
http://www.k9aggression.com/Aggression-Treatment/behaviorMod.html
Dr. Overall had an Aussie that had a history of biting, you can read the story of Flash here....he was a very special dog who had some serious behavior issues.
http://www.stevedalepetworld.com/print-archive/assorted-pet-picks/52-all/320-this-dog-changed-a-person-changing-the-world
llsc
Nov. 25, 2009, 05:01 PM
I definatly disagree. A peer-reviewed, published, scientific study showed that 40% of owner who did his "alpha roll" got bit by their own dogs... that's only the tip of the iceberg....
Of course they got bit. I'm sure they were getting bit before they tried to dominate the dog too. I am appaled at the behavior of dogs on his program and of the owners who let the dog act this way in the first place. His methods do work and quite well, if you are a sensible and intelligent person in the first place, which I am quite sure Chef is. Has anyone done a study of other training methods on the same type of dogs?
It's kind of like the study that was quoted all over billboards in NJ a few years ago. It said that some percentage, (I forget the number) of kids who had fathers in their lives stayed in school. Well, I'm sure that they forgot to mention that kids with two parents generally had higher incomes and were from more educated parents and too many other factors that went into this statistic to even count. It wasn't just the fact that dad was around.
FatPalomino
Nov. 26, 2009, 12:54 AM
Of course they got bit. I'm sure they were getting bit before they tried to dominate the dog too.
The folks I saw all said, their dog never bite them, "except for the time we alpha rolled him." The dog they claimed to be dominant, meanwhile, was shaking in the corner of the exam room, ears back, tail tucked. He quivered when you went to pet him. And he was biting more and more, despite the constant use of the alpha roll....
Besides that, biting people is a big public health issue and not a good thing for dogs that want to live long lives. Not something to be proud of or encourage.
Don't take my word on it. Here's what the experts have to say:
http://www.4pawsu.com/dogpsychology.htm
"Power struggles with dogs communicate no more leadership than an adult human in a physical struggle with a small child or an armed bank robber and his hostages.
Here's the reality, through a stroke of evolutionary luck, we were blessed with opposable thumbs which give us priority access to most, if not all, of the resources that dogs want. By maintaining control of those assets, including food, access and attention, and not giving them away for free or on demand, it is not necessary to get into power struggles with our dogs. We already have everything the dog wants. We are already "dominant.""
http://askdryin.com/blog/tag/aggression-dog-dominance-alpha-cesar-millan-behavior-training/
"“Studies on canine aggression in the last decade have shown that canine aggression and other behavior problems are not a result of dominant behavior or the lack of the owner’s ‘alpha’ status, but rather a result of fear (self-defense) or underlying anxiety problems. "
"According to a new veterinary study published in The Journal of Applied Animal Behavior (2009), if you’re aggressive to your dog, your dog will be aggressive, too."
http://www.dolittler.com/2009/03/16/Why-veterinary-behaviorists-cant-stand-Cesar-Millan.html
"“Nationwide, the number-one reason why dog owners take their dog to a veterinary behaviorist is to manage aggressive behavior. Our study demonstrated that many confrontational training methods, whether staring down dogs, striking them, or intimidating them with physical manipulation, do little to correct improper behavior and can elicit aggressive responses.”"
Here is the article:
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6T48-4VFJS1D-2&_user=10&_rdoc=1&_fmt=&_orig=search&_sort=d&_docanchor=&view=c&_searchStrId=1110399012&_rerunOrigin=google&_acct=C000050221&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=10&md5=13a7dc70cc1b6f78a0987028aab9ba3e
Dogs presenting for aggression to familiar people were more likely to respond aggressively to the confrontational techniques “alpha roll” and yelling “no” compared to dogs with other presenting complaints (P < 0.001). In conclusion, confrontational methods applied by dog owners before their pets were presented for a behavior consultation were associated with aggressive responses in many cases.
Rubyfree
Nov. 26, 2009, 01:58 AM
Can I disagree with your disagreement? :lol: As a rescuer AND a constant Cesar watcher... if you as the owner are doing alpha rolls on your own dogs you didn't pay attention to what he is telling you. He is NOT an instruction manual, he is showing you how he personally handled a situation you only saw the tip of. And how many more times could NGEO channel post the "there are many methods available to work with your dog. consult a professional in YOUR area, etc, etc"?
He's fantastic in my book, but I learn from everyone I read/watch and incorporate bits and pieces into my training based on my own experience and the needs of my dogs.
Well, therein lies the problem. The show itself focuses so much on extreme situations that most folks aren't going to be able to separate their personal situation from what they perceive to be 'normal' on the TV. Perceived normality = replication and exemplification. No number of warnings will dissuade people who perceive their situations to be 'normal' and 'controllable' from utilizing methods they have learned on TV to be 'normal'.
This has nothing to do with the OP, but encouraging people to utilize the methods of a man who has made a name for himself by publicizing extreme behavior and extreme responses is foolish. The average dog owner does not require and should not utilize his publicized methods. What is valuable in his teachings- maintaining a calm & assertive presence, recognizing small changes in body language- is also available in the teachings of individuals who do not encourage or preach such extreme or potentially dangerous methods. No one loses by offering an alternative source for that sort of information.
cheval convert
Nov. 26, 2009, 08:54 AM
Hire a very good and highly recommended dog trainer and let him/her keep the dog for a month of training. Then he/she will have either trained the dog (and will have to train you too in obedience school) or will tell you that the dog is incorrigible (yes there are some of those).
I went to obedience school years ago because of my first hyperactive aussie because I am not a trainer and I knew my limiitations so I sent Kippy to school first, then I went to school with Kippy and my other aussie Ashley and my mix Chadwick, so I'd know how to keep Kippy as well trained as she was when she came home from school. No more yelling, no more frustration for either of us, and her named changed from "DammitKippy" to Kippy.
Oh those hyperactive aussies do teach us the value of a good trainer. My third aussie, who is also the current dog, was the one that sent me running to a trainer. He also lived with the trainer for a month. He is still a work in progress but for the most part he has become a good canine citizen. I thank the trainer often for saving this dog's life.
BostonBanker
Nov. 26, 2009, 11:34 AM
It blows my mind that on a board where rollkur is evil and kills the spirit of the horse, training methods like CM are considered acceptable. The worst behaviors I've seen on that show have been from the man himself. After watching him chase a terrified sheltie around the house with a toaster, I was completely done with him.
To the original poster, I would suggest looking into a book and training method called "Control Unleashed". I've trained dogs as a career, and am still highly active in dog sports. I've seen it work wonders on dogs who have issued with everything from people and other dogs, to totally random phobias. My own dog, who, when adopted, hated any dog walking into her space can now navigate large crowds of dogs at agility trials with full confidence.
threedogpack
Nov. 26, 2009, 12:58 PM
It blows my mind that on a board where rollkur is evil and kills the spirit of the horse, training methods like CM are considered acceptable
just because I don't respond to the person who believes in CM (would like to ignore the bad behavior etc), does not mean I find his methods acceptable.
I don't.
I think CM is a dangerous, dangerous man and I think there will be plenty of business for those dog trainers who have to pick up after him. That is, if the fallout doesn't include euthing a dog who has been through his "program".
Though I am not a totally +R trainer, I try hard to limit my use of +P and flooding (CM's tools of choice).
IdahoRider
Nov. 26, 2009, 06:01 PM
To the original poster, I would suggest looking into a book and training method called "Control Unleashed". I've trained dogs as a career, and am still highly active in dog sports. I've seen it work wonders on dogs who have issued with everything from people and other dogs, to totally random phobias. My own dog, who, when adopted, hated any dog walking into her space can now navigate large crowds of dogs at agility trials with full confidence.
Yes! I second this recommendation. I have a fearfully reactive German Shepherd Dog and the methods outlined in the book, "Control Unleashed", helped us a great deal.
Above and beyond getting a book, or watching a t.v. show, is getting hooked up with an experienced dog trainer who is also a behaviorist. Your average trainer at Petsmart is NOT going to be much help in a situation like the OP's (where doing the wrong thing can actually make the problem worse). Go to www.apdt.com and do a trainer search for a referral.
Sheilah
Bluey
Nov. 26, 2009, 06:31 PM
Ceasar Milan, the Dog Whisperer is a great resource, but use his advice/show along with a professional trainer in your area. I too would skip the dog park. If your dog is agressive and he meets up with another agressive dog, or worse, someone's tiny morsel of a dog, you'll have big problems.
Cesar Milan puts on a good show, but he will tell you himself he is not a dog trainer, just a fellow that gets along with dogs and gets them to mind for him and maybe can tell a dog owner or two what to do.
Some of his training is rather unconventional and has backfired enough to not be valid as training methods:
http://www.drsophiayin.com/dominance.php
Chef Jade
Nov. 27, 2009, 12:09 PM
THANK YOU! There is a lot of resource info on here, which I intend to study up on and see what works best for my dog.
I tried the Alpha Roll thing (before I even posted about this) and it seriously back fired. The best method thus far seems to be to make him sit and either get his attention back on me, or if we are at home, I try to redirect his attention to "proper" aggression outlets (squeaky toys!) :)
I took him to my parents house for Thanksgiving, and they have 4 dogs, one a rescue that came with (and still has) some similar aggression issues as my dog. My mom and I had a full "introduction" plan where we would meet in nuetral territory off the leash. My dad refused to go along with the plan, and let's jsut say the beginning was less than pleasant. We ended up putting my dog in the side yard and let the dogs meet through the fence. After an hour, we let me guy out into the backyard, and introduced the other dogs one by one. Wow! That worked GREAT. My boy was perfect the rest of the day, and was a big hit with the adults and little kiddies. He even played nicely with the little corgi (the only female dog in the house). He also was constantly looking to me for instruction/reassurance and followed me around quite a bit... so I think he is getting who is his pack leader.
There is a really great dog in there, and I can't wait to read up and learn how to bring out the best in him!
TuxWink
Nov. 27, 2009, 12:53 PM
I'm glad to hear things are improving. It hasn't been that long and it sounds like you've already made a lot of progress. It just takes time. We were a little overwhelmed by our lab at first as he was so different from our first dog, who we got as a puppy and never had any "issues" with. However, the lab is such a great dog now I have a hard time remembering how AWFUL he was those first few weeks.
One more thing - we did the alpha roll thing with the first dog as he was introduced to it slowly as a puppy, but it did not work at all with the lab. He was definitely abused in his previous life and it only scared him beyond remembering what it was he was doing wrong in the first place. He is very submissive anyway, so just a stern tone to our voice and a loud "down" is plenty to get the point across.
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