DeeThbd
Sep. 21, 2009, 11:40 PM
Last August, a good friend of mine told me that I HAD to go look at a nice gelding at the track....at a time when life was pretty tough - my father was dying of cancer, and the last thing I "needed" was a new horse.
Little did I know that my friend knew me better than I knew myself....I asked the same question to everyone who would give me an honest opinion, and the answer came back the same each time....get him.
So, I did.
And yes, they were right. He gave me something extra to look forward to after my dad slipped away. He's made me start to dream again, of moving forward in my riding and taking up dressage. No, he isn't perfectly put together, but he more than makes up for it in kindness, loyalty and trust. And fun to ride? Oh, baby. When I ride him, it feels so good to focus on building our relationship - and to feel like I used to when I was a teen dreaming of being able to compete. Even if we only do local shows in our future....it feels so good to have that big grin on my face again. I think a lot of you might get what I mean - and sometimes we need to remind ourselves about how much these guys (and especially our OTTBs!) gift to our lives.
Heart, still racing
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/2766251989/in/set-72157606756538513/
racing fit, the day he came home....
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/2767191858/in/set-72157606756538513/
And today, after Mother Nature gave him a bath during turnout...there are dapples under there, honest!!!:D
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/3943593808/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/3943588084/
Now, go hug your horses!
Dee
Little did I know that my friend knew me better than I knew myself....I asked the same question to everyone who would give me an honest opinion, and the answer came back the same each time....get him.
So, I did.
And yes, they were right. He gave me something extra to look forward to after my dad slipped away. He's made me start to dream again, of moving forward in my riding and taking up dressage. No, he isn't perfectly put together, but he more than makes up for it in kindness, loyalty and trust. And fun to ride? Oh, baby. When I ride him, it feels so good to focus on building our relationship - and to feel like I used to when I was a teen dreaming of being able to compete. Even if we only do local shows in our future....it feels so good to have that big grin on my face again. I think a lot of you might get what I mean - and sometimes we need to remind ourselves about how much these guys (and especially our OTTBs!) gift to our lives.
Heart, still racing
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/2766251989/in/set-72157606756538513/
racing fit, the day he came home....
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/2767191858/in/set-72157606756538513/
And today, after Mother Nature gave him a bath during turnout...there are dapples under there, honest!!!:D
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/3943593808/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29582338@N02/3943588084/
Now, go hug your horses!
Dee