View Full Version : In Memoriam: For the great ones we lost in 2008
Kim
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:01 PM
It seems that we lost so many great friends in 2008, so I decided to start an "In Memoriam" thread. Feel free to add your own tributes.
I will begin.
In loving memory of Chutney
March 7, 1977 - November 8, 2008
Chutney crossed the Rainbow Bridge at the age of 31 years, 8 months. She was a beautiful, regal Kentucky thoroughbred. She owned me for 23 wonderful years. :)
Some of you may know Chutney from "Chicken Soup for the Horse Lover's Soul" or from my own books. And some of you may have been fortunate enough to have met her. Chutney was a beautiful soul who touched everyone who knew her.
She lived a long and fulfilling life, excelling in hunters, dressage, and eventing...enjoying trail rides through the woods...spending her golden years relishing retirement...and spending her last months pampered at a beautiful farm with her own grass field and an apple tree, enjoying her favorite treat, oatmeal creme pie cakes.
Chutney is now running in endless green fields with her friend Thistle, alongside the likes of her grandfather, Nashua, and the great Barbaro. And I know she will always be with me.
Run free, beautiful friend.
Iron Horse Farm
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:10 PM
This spring we lost our beloved Stella shortly after giving birth to a giant stillborn full term Sagnol filly. Stella was the perfect mare, with never a pushy moment in her life or a lapse in manners. She was the #7 KWPN mare in N America and as beautiful as the rare lily that she was named after.
RIP Stella de Oro and your perfect filly
Stella 1998-2008
filly April 4, 2008- April 4, 2008
asb_own_me
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:22 PM
I'd like to remember two Saddlebred trainers from the Midwest who passed this year.
Tony Ray and Monty Wallen - we will miss you.
FlashGordon
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:24 PM
Oh Dan.
Forever the keeper of my heart.
A gentle giant of epic proportions, Dan The Man was (still hard to say that in past tense) truly the horse of my dreams. He was a stakes winner, a champ in the hunter ring, and then a dressage schoolmaster.
But above all else, he was my friend, my partner, and my guardian.
He loved grass, food of any kind, and pretty young fillies! He loved to hack out and lived for brisk trots and fun canters around the pasture track and through the fields. He was kind enough to tolerate my toddler, and was the first horse my husband truly took a liking too. He was part of our family.
He was a stoic, tough horse who surprised his humans time and again by coming back from the brink of difficult circumstances. Even at the end I selfishly hoped he had one more rally left, and I know he tried his heart out, but it was his time to go. He was the epitome of grace, and confidence.
Dan showed me what it was like to ride a 10 mover, and to jump a horse that could knock me out of the tack. Hands down the nicest horse I've ever sat on, and probably ever will.
He reminded me that it was ok to trust a horse, and that riding could be fun again. He renewed my faith in horses, and in humans.
I am forever grateful to EqT for having shared him with me, and I am blessed, to have been loved by such a truly great horse.
http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2402915250104109739PucpPn
Dan The Man
1993-2008
Big, Red TB gelding.
Bayou Roux
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:24 PM
Specific dates unknown...crossed in late October, 2008.
Kilo was one of those unpapered, plucky lesson barn QH ponies who taught many a rider in his day, and over the years got passed from owner to owner, finally ending up boarded in our barn by his last owner. Every vetting would age him further, and we never really knew how old he was. Finally, arthritis and the effects of multiple founders earlier in his life made it too painful for him to stay with us, and he was humanely euthanized late this fall.
He was loved deeply by his owner, and he's missed greatly by us all.
So if you see a gamer of a little QH zipping around on the other side, send Kilo our love!
redears
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:25 PM
None of my own, but I'd like to recognize Teddy (Theodore O'Conner) he gave all us pony riders everywhere hope.
DLee
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:30 PM
TC, the sweetest, biggest, goofiest Slew grandson probably ever produced. Damn the Shivers and all it's consequences for you, you were far too young.
I miss your big headed hugs, feeding you poptarts, and even worrying about you. I am glad to have been there for you, and you for me.
http://pets.webshots.com/photo/2171930420039485065yNrgGq
Thank you for this thread. :sadsmile:
yellow-horse
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:44 PM
Ebony, my beautiful friend, i met her the day she was born and she was our horse for 20 years, everyone who met her thought she was stunning.
But to me it was her gentle soul, she was a good friend to all horses she met, a benevolent alpha mare who welcomed new horses, showed them the ropes of the pasture politics and cut them a break if they messed up.
Ebony was unsound for riding for most of her life, but her great spirit and even temperment made her invaluable to us.
Over the years, she fought on through several illnesses and calamities, she was stoic and accepted treament with dignity and resiliance, on her last day though she said she had enough, so we ended it for her on a stormy night
this past spring, my husband and i holding her and loving her.
She is missed by all her human and horse friends.
JoZ
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:48 PM
It was a rough year at Off Our Rocker Ranch.
- one horse, Feather, a rescue that we managed to fatten up but could never make comfortable (had foundered many times in the past). Euthanized.
- one dear sweet baby llama, Llama Bean, who was a surprise (we didn't know the mama llama was pregnant when we got her) and a delight in her short time on earth. Died of unknown causes at 5-1/2 months old
- three dogs, Melody, Poppy and Dally... Poppy died of parvo before her full shot sequence was completed. Melody and Dally let's just say misadventure. Too painful and fresh to go into.
- four barn kitties, Simon, Tootsie, Flame Boy and Tux (to predators)
Farm life can be hard for people and critters alike. To a better 2009 for everyone!
Saidapal
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:52 PM
The horse your lucky to find. Contrary, ornery, but always, and I mean always, a lady. Bought her as a 5 year old and kept her with me until she passed this past September at the age of 28. Twenty-three years wasn't enough. I could have done 23 more.
She taught me more about riding, compromising and learning to get along than any horse I ever owned before or will ever own again. Being tossed around before I got her she lost her trust in people early on, but took care of me on more than one occasion and I always got a big whinny of greeting in the anticipation of the carrot/apple/treat I carried. I always knew when she was happy because she would ignore me most of the time unless I had a treat or scrached her in her favorite spots. When she was hurt or had something wrong she would start hrmp, hrmp, hrmping me as soon as I came into sight to tell me her woes and her faith in me to make things better never failed to warm me from the inside out.
When I got the youngsters to replace her as she aged she quickly became the 'perfect horse'. When I needed calm and steadiness I would grab her out of the pasture and just enjoy her quiet and well behaved companionship as I brushed and groomed without a fuss. It would shore me up to go back to dealing with the youngsters whose only crime was that they were young, and that alone made me appreciate her more. She taught them as much as she taught me about being a well behaved horse and I can now rely on them for the same steadiness and calm.
I miss her, will always miss her, and she will never be forgotten.
TheHunterKid90
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:54 PM
-A few barn kitties...Elmo, Feather Duster, and Louise.
-Norad....a horse that one of Team CEO's clients lost this year to a broken leg. She purchased him with some "issues" and worked sooo long and hard to get him to where he was before his death. He was an incredibly sweet horse and would have anything for her.
-My corgi, Roxie, who died of liver cancer.
-And my Daddy, who decided he wanted to go to the greater place in the sky...much too soon.
slpeders
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:56 PM
In memory of the Great Gray Mare, "Katies Jet Chase" -- aka, Katie, Kmart, K, big cow and St Katie.
I know you still regret zigging when you should have zagged, and Blosem is so so sorry to have hurt you beyond repair. I miss your big white face every day. Thanks for sending Largo my way, now you need to send me the courage and confidence to deal with her, and her the patience and restraint to deal with me. Granddaughter Lily misses you too and I deeply regret that I won't see you packing her over her first tiny fences because I know she'd have the nerve to jump that I lack. I will never forget the look on your face that said "You owe me BIG for this" as she dragged the stool over to be able to groom your tall places and you didn't twitch a muscle while she was next to you...just glanced back and forth between her and I, so I would know that you were being oh so careful. I hope you're stuffing yourself with grass and dandelions on the other side and trading stories with Teddy, for you two must have crossed the bridge at nearly the same time of day. More people knew his name than yours, but I'm sure that doesn't matter to you, you'll befriend him anyhow as long as he minds his manners. The barn girls miss you and Pacman points out that he was an excellent boy toting me around after you left, so you should cut him some slack. Namaste' Wind Singer. May your spirit ever guide me.
Hugs to Sasha too, though it's been a year now....and Woody and Trapper. Even Dynamo. Can't believe I'm dogless....
fleur de duc
Dec. 9, 2008, 02:59 PM
i lost my horse of a lifetime in July. everyone here was so supportive through the whole ordeal and I want to thank everyone of you who helped me through it.
Fleur de Duc
July 4, 1988- July 5, 2008
rest in peace momma
her story is written out here..
http://willowswaystable.webs.com/inlovingmemoryofwillow.htm
dressagetraks
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:06 PM
My own Genuine Risk, approximately 1 year old, a calico barn cat with white socks and a "blaze." I named her for the great Derby winner, the first individual horse I ever fell in love with in childhood.
Jenny and her black sister Ruffian were rescue kittens late spring 2007. They were sweet and sociable with everyone, utterly beautiful, and Ruffian especially defied her name and never saw a stranger. This was, I think, her downfall. One day, the kittens were gone. They never wandered off and were totally bonded to me and the place, would accompany me on fence walks but never left the region of the house/barn unless following a person. I looked, called, walked the perimeter, walked the road - no kittens. Mom reported that she had heard a car stop that afternoon, which might or might not have been reality. Jenny returned alone 36 hours later absolutely shell shocked. She was exhausted, hungry, thirsty, and footsore. I never saw Ruffian again.
Jenny was never the same after the loss of her sister. Formerly friendly, she now disliked people and would hiss at strangers and arch up at them. She wasn't afraid of the outdoors at all, but people set her off. She still loved me and would stay close, but all her sociability was gone. She never went looking for Ruffian; I actually tried to get her to "lead" me off the property, but she wasn't interested in going anywhere. I moved her into the house to physically recover until she told me some time later that she most definitely wanted back out.
She was a fine hunter and a good barn cat. She always loved the horses, would go into the pasture to admire them while staying carefully out of the way. She would still always accompany me on fence walks. I noted the passing of her namesake this year, but my Jenny was doing progressively better, it seemed. And in the last week, the tension finally left her, she no longer spooked at the sound of every car, and she seemed much more at peace. Her last day, she "helped" me with a bonfire, toasting while never getting too close and supervising.
The next morning, I found her in the front yard, curled up just like she went to sleep. There was not a mark or wound on her. Totally curled and resting. She wasn't more than a year old, but at least I know she was happy her last days, and she finally had found the peace she lost.
To both Genuine Risks, the horse and the barn cat, happy gallops and hunting over the bridge. And maybe, at last, Jenny will be reunited with her inseparable companion, Ruffian.
BeastieSlave
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:09 PM
I haven't really 'talked' about it, but on October 30 I had to put down our wonderpony. Farnley Catena, a.k.a. "Angel" was the the perfect pony in so many ways.
She was exactly the pony you would make for a child if you could. She was kind and gentle, but never pushy. She was tolerant with her kids on the ground and in the saddle. I don't think she ever even had an unpleasant thought, and she certainly didn't have a mean hair on her body. She would do anything her child asked her to do - but they had to ask. She wasn't a robot. She was totally trustworthy in any situation. I've never known a pony that was so close to being a saint. We were so lucky to own her and I was honored to care for her until the end....
R.I.P Farnley Catena 4/30/1983-10/30/2008
Amwrider
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:17 PM
I'd like to remember two Saddlebred trainers from the Midwest who passed this year.
Tony Ray and Monty Wallen - we will miss you.
Let's not also forget Marty Mueller. The saddlebred world lost some great people this year.
I miss my old school horse Magic every day. Registerd as Night Ruler in the saddlebred registry, he was 24 when I put him down in August. he had Cushings which was being managed but he just lost control of his hind end suddenly. He was a grand old boy who never knew how old he was and he left this world as a winner having carried a student to the blues just a few weeks prior to dying.
spookhorse
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:19 PM
My beautiful roan Standardbred mare, Samantha (Broadway Illusion) was released from her pain in June after a long battle with EPM. She joined my old TB gelding Flynn (who passed 10 years ago) to wait at the Bridge for me along with the other pets I have loved and lost in my life.
Sam was a lover and a fighter, having survived abuse and starvation in her early life. She was the gentle "den mom" to me, my kids, and every other horse/pony on the property... and yet the wild geldings wouldn't dare to push her around in their rough play :sadsmile:
The barn is full of horses, with 3 of them in my life, yet there is still such an empty spot left both there and in my heart by Sam's passing.
I just want to say that I really appreciated everyone's support here, far more than I can ever express.
RIP Sam my girl 1/29/92 - 6/10/08 :cry:
Sam's Slideshow (http://s112.photobucket.com/albums/n174/spookhorse01/Samantha/?action=view¤t=b410aec9.pbw)
ETA: I just realized that tomorrow will be 6 months that Sam as been gone... now I'm crying again...
SuperSTB
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:23 PM
Legacy Lady, aka Leah
Standardbred mare age 28. Died after getting hit by a car at her retirement home in Late April. For several years she was a demo horse for the Standardbred Pleasure Horse Org of MA so if you went to EA in Springfield you may have seen her in the breed pavallion, the kids area for a breed spotlight, or the standardbred demo. Other places we performed demos: Saratoga, Plainridge Racetrack, Farm City Festival, to name a few...
She was very loved and her family still cries over her passing. RIP beautiful girl.
Hope
Rescued donkey, unknown age.
Purchased for a measley dollar from a foreclosure auction in terrible condition. She rated a body score of about 1.5. We put her down in Oct a fat and sassy girl but her legs were failing her and she could no longer rise without struggle.
She inspired me to never give up 'Hope'. RIP old wise lady, my rose bushes miss your pruning technique.
HuntJumpSC
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:23 PM
Not forgetting our COTH friend and fellow SC'er, Tory Relic. Also, Natalie Kimball's daughter's first pony, Cookie, who now is peacefully with my Miz Scarlett. :(
Mia412
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:26 PM
2008 was a hard year for us too - we lost 3 horses in 3 months at the beginning of the year.
First we lost a friend's dear hunter Rocky, at the age of 30. He'd lived with us for many, many years. We always joked that he had more lives than a cat - survived a tendon problem, major colic surgery, heat issues . . . only to suddenly go blind (probably from a tumor).
Then we lost Garth. He wasn't mine either, but he meant the world to his owners and so many other people. Garth was my horse Comet's pasture buddy for 2 years before my barn was completed. One morning he couldn't get up in his stall - it was like his hind legs were paralyzed.
The hardest for me was the loss of my beloved Comet after 22 years together. He was the most wonderful, frustrating, talented horse I'd ever ridden. In his prime he carried me over jumps that scared the pants off me. In his old age he'd still run off with me if the mood struck him. I knew he was 28. I knew the time would come. Still I agonized over how I'd know. We fought against his metobolic issues for months. One morning he looked at me, and I knew he was telling me to let him go. Making that call was the hardest thing I've ever done. I'm not sure how I'd have gotten through it without everyone on this forum.
A few nights after I lost Comet I had a dream that he was grazing in a huge field with Rocky & Garth. It's comforting to think of them together.
monstrpony
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:34 PM
Monstrpony, himself. He is missed.
And can't mention him without remembering Debbie Atkinson.
Blinkers On
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:41 PM
Nashoba's Key. I was fortunate never to be bitten by her, but she was a grande mare, and a true loss!
CB/TB
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:44 PM
MY sweet Lacey crossed the Bridge last Thursday at age 30 + -. She was my friend for 20 years and I miss her.
Red Man's Spark,, the Appy of my dreams 1978--1996
Ace High Jack The devil Hackney Pony 1978--1997
They still bringtears to my eyes when I think of them .
Brandy76
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:52 PM
Although I still can't believe he's gone, and am tearing up even typing this.
Tim "The Fenian"
April 27, 1986 - September 4, 2008
20 years just seemed to fly by. I hear your nicker still, my big red horse...
BelladonnaLily
Dec. 9, 2008, 03:54 PM
3/17/06-5/7/08
I lost my beautiful TB filly, Tara, in May of this year. She was out of my beloved old TB mare, Miss Scarlett. My heart still breaks when I think about it. :cry:
DownYonder
Dec. 9, 2008, 04:01 PM
Hanoverian stallion Feiner Stern
1983 – 2008
This well known German stallion was imported to the U.S. in 1999 by Heike Albert of GW Ranch in California. At the time, he had sired more licensed stallion sons than any other warmblood stallion in North America. To this day, his record is surpassed by only one other stallion (Pablo).
Feiner Stern was quite popular with warmblood breeders here, siring several hundred foals over the next few years for several different registries. His daughters are particularly prized in warmblood breeding programs. Feiner Stern was fully retired from breeding in 2007 and euthanized in 2008 due to complications of old age.
RIP, Jonge.
Sugarbrook
Dec. 9, 2008, 04:04 PM
RIP my beloved Mattie (Amomatic) 3/11/88- 10/24/08. The kindest, sweetest red headed thoroughbred mare around!! She lives on in her darling CINDYLOU.
Also RIP Private Collection (Green Valleys April Velvet) 04/75- 3/10/08. The real deal hunter/jumper show mare. Not many ever could beat her in the hack!!! She lived a great life and retired in comfort and style. She lives on in my hunter pony stallion BLUE WHO.
I miss them every day.
SpringOakFarm
Dec. 9, 2008, 04:09 PM
Gone Platinum - our beloved white pony passed away on March 26, 2008
She and my daughter were an amazing team in short stirrup last year, and unfortunately "Lexi" sustained an injury to her front leg that could not be healed, despite every procedure known to mankind. We had surgery on it, shock treatments, months of stall rest, supplements, shots, etc...we tried everything to save her, but the injury was too severe.
My daughter was so looking forward to moving up this year with her pony, and losing her was so incredibly difficult. I wonder if we will ever be able to speak about Lexi without crying. We miss her so much.
Our precious pony was laid to rest in a beautiful green pasture, with her show halter on, and a champion ribbon on her temple. She was braided with pink and blue ribbons throughout her mane and tail, and covered with daffodils that we picked around our farm. She looked like a princess pony - a fitting burial for an amazing companion.
My daughter will forever compare every new mount to her first love. And, I will be forever grateful to the precious, snow white, princess mare that taught my daughter to trust horses and how to ride.
Here's a picture of my girls together:
http://s230.photobucket.com/albums/ee86/christyroberson/?action=view¤t=Untitled.jpg
We love you Lexi and miss you. You were the most special horse in the whole world!
Paddys Mom
Dec. 9, 2008, 04:55 PM
Pattys Boy
April 16, 1986 - June 7, 2008
Twenty-three years together, through thick and thin.
I think of him daily still.
http://inlinethumb05.webshots.com/42884/2662770270056982365S600x600Q85.jpg
talkofthetown
Dec. 9, 2008, 05:01 PM
The real Talk Of The Town. Don't know his exact birthday, but he was 19. He trotted over the Bridge on October 1st. That ornery little pony:sadsmile:
http://s114.photobucket.com/albums/n242/bronnybear/?action=view¤t=metro.jpg
Im Natives Last
Dec. 9, 2008, 06:23 PM
Dublin, died Valentine's day 2008. Western trail horse turned fox hunter turned show horse (briefly!) turned trail horse, turned kids horse. It is still hard for me to feed without your bucket to hold and your face to rub. I think of you every day. We all still miss you.
DLee
Dec. 9, 2008, 06:28 PM
I haven't really 'talked' about it, but on October 30 I had to put down our wonderpony. Farnley Catena, a.k.a. "Angel" was the the perfect pony in so many ways.
She was exactly the pony you would make for a child if you could. She was kind and gentle, but never pushy. She was tolerant with her kids on the ground and in the saddle. I don't think she ever even had an unpleasant thought, and she certainly didn't have a mean hair on her body. She would do anything her child asked her to do - but they had to ask. She wasn't a robot. She was totally trustworthy in any situation. I've never known a pony that was so close to being a saint. We were so lucky to own her and I was honored to care for her until the end....
R.I.P Farnley Catena 4/30/1983-10/30/2008
Sending sad hugs, what a darling pony. :(
bludejavu
Dec. 9, 2008, 06:38 PM
Thanks to the OP for starting this thread.
I lost my best friend of 23 years. Named Dartagnon after one of the 3 Musketeers, "Dart" lived to the ripe old age of 33 when Cushings complications forced me to euthanize him in March of this year. I will never find one like him ever - he got me thru heartaches and bad times, won blue ribbons for me, carried me umpteenjillion trail miles, carried family members faithfully, and was as close to a saint as a horse could possibly be. I miss him terribly.
Three weeks ago, I lost my blind broodmare to colic. She and I had a special bond of trust and I still can't think about her without tears coming to my eyes. She suffered more pain than I would ever wish on any horse before I found her in her paddock. I feel like I failed her but I know she's in a place where she will never feel pain again and I find some comfort in that.
Y'all are making me cry.
Sheba, German Shepherd. One of the kindest, most intellegent dogs I've ever known.
Loyality that never wavered, twelve years old.
Johnny Hee Haw, 33 yr. old. My friend for 31 years.
Independant, brave never a servant but a great partner and friend. Loved trails with a passion and never sick a day in his life until the very end.
I really miss them both.
cswoodlandfairy
Dec. 9, 2008, 08:05 PM
Popcorn- RIP little pony. She was teh bestest pony in the world. I got her when I was 5 and she taught me everything she could. We went all over to shows and she took such good care of me. She taught me patiences, love and kindness. She was best friends to my current old man and she will be greatly missed. She came from the Marriott Ranch in Hume, Va. Best suprise I ever got!
I love you litte one, its still hard to think I will not see you in your field happily grazing with your friends. To think she was born around the same time I was.
RIP: 4/1983-12/2008
Also as a non-horse rememberance:
John Conyers may he he rest in peace. He was a great asset to the Sweet Briar Community and was such a wonderful teach to all that was able to meet him. He was one of the happiest people I ever met and you would always see him smiling at the barn and had such a postive outlook on life.
A poem for all of our loved ones:
Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, they go to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hill for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who have been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body begins to quiver. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.....
Drummerboy
Dec. 9, 2008, 09:01 PM
For Kitty, the toughest cat ever, survived cars, racoons, various other incidents for 15 years. Terrorized students mothers, could bite faster than you could move your hand, but gave the best feline hugs...
And Duncan, my heart, my soul. Never will I have another like you. Your grey pony Pixie still looks for you everyday in your stall. Always happy to see me, always talking, always happy, I love you.
shea'smom
Dec. 9, 2008, 09:15 PM
Crochety old Queenie, 30+. I had her for a year and laid her to rest on June 3, 08.
Two kitties, Ameilia the beautiful, who should not have gone when she did and Halloween, my source of comfort through many days and nights.
CA ASB
Dec. 9, 2008, 09:20 PM
Michael B. "Bubba" Ellis, heart of my heart, best friend, fiancee, lover of my horses from our first date, parade buddy, couldn't stand a human hospital, but was always there at the horse hospital.
3/13/51 - 5/7/08. Too young, too soon, too quickly.
Had just won his first blue ribbon 10 days prior and on May 10th we were to discuss moving to North Carolina to pursue my horsey dreams of land and horses.
Still can see him at the barn turning the corner and whistling for the kids. I will forever miss his wit, his warmth, his smile, his eyes that melted when they looked at me or at the horses. He was the real deal.
I love you, darlin' - take care of the kids until we are all together again.
relocatedTXjumpr
Dec. 9, 2008, 09:23 PM
I sent my Rudy over on September 17th of this year.
I still can't believe he is gone, I really can't. I know, in the end, I did the right thing. But, it still hurts like hell to know he's gone.
He had contracted EPM and had continued to go downhill very quickly. He was 18 when he passed and had been my partner for 15 years. The amount of faith and trust I had in that horse was unflappable.
I'll post what I did the day I sent him over, because, I just can't think of anything more fitting than what I have aleady written about this great horse and, well, it still seems like it was yesterday that I typed this out...
He has been my best friend, my partner, and my companion for 15 years, and I cant imagine waking up tomorrow and him not being here. He has taken me through the rigors of re-training a racehorse, and learning the jumpers (and kicking butt doing it!) as a junior all the way to a sucessful re-entry to the show ring just a few short months ago as an adult. He has boosted my confidence in many ways, more times than I can count, and ALWAYS been there...a trusty, fun, goofy competetor. He has also taken the SO and the So's Mom on many trail rides. He has always been the horse I could count on to get the job done, and done correctly.
He went peacefully and quickly.
So, raise your glasses and lets send him over Texas style.
Rudy, I love you with all of my heart, your spirit will always be a part of who I am, and while this was the toughest damn decision I have ever made, I know you are now running like the wind and are free from pain. Your youth has been restored and you are the young vibrant gelding I will always remember you as.
Way Back Texas
"Rudy"
04/20/1990-09/17/08
It sounds like, although we are all heart broken, they were all met with kind faces once they crossed...and are all running and playing together on the other side. I also know he is still here, watching over Lola and I and hopefully, giving her tips on her new career...although I hope he is leaving out the parts about throwing up his heels after a big jump!!
Had I known that show in the summer would be our last, I would have entered that jumper class just for the heck of it!
I miss you big man...I really do.
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b88/beccam86/Rudycrop.jpg?t=1228875962
dani0303
Dec. 9, 2008, 09:38 PM
I lost my barn manger, boss, mentor, and friend Bruce Beresford about a month ago to a long battle with cancer.
The barn will never be the same without you Bruce :(. May you rest in peace.
Skeezix
Dec. 9, 2008, 09:45 PM
Page of Heart
2001-April 2008
My "old lady horse" who I planned to grow old with, who taught me so much and showed me what a true bond with a horse is and who left me way too soon. I file this under the category of $hit happens.
Ellie
My constant companion for 15 years and the dog who helped me raise my children.
I miss you both so much :(
Slewdledo
Dec. 9, 2008, 11:10 PM
TC, Secret, Capey, Romy, Marshy, Clever, Mining, Joy, Heddy, I miss you. I hope Grandma, Grandpa, and Brian are taking good care of you guys up there.
tx3dayeventer
Dec. 9, 2008, 11:11 PM
Kid Gloves (Holly)
Feb 15, 1992- January 18, 2008
CCI*** TB/HANV Mare
Holly was the most amazing horse I have ever ridden. The only horse that I will ever feel confortable and brave galloping up to the Giant's Table on the Red Hills CIC-W*** course!
She was me in a horse. I don't go a day without thinking about her and crying a bit.
Here are some of the pics of my most AMAZING girl who I am sure is bossing Teddy around b/c she can.
http://s27.photobucket.com/albums/c163/tx3dayeventer/HOLLY/
snkstacres
Dec. 9, 2008, 11:39 PM
Two very special horses from Sunkissed Crossed this year.
First, Pooh. Unknown origin, unknown age, unknow disease. All I can say is that many a Cother pulled for this boy and helped him to his last year of life. It was a good one. He got much more quality than the vets had dared hope for and he was a happy happy boy.
Marsey. A little rescue who left behind some very good friends, especially her Darlin. It has not been long enough for it not to hurt like hell yet. She left a big void here.
Blinkers On
Dec. 10, 2008, 12:00 AM
Ohhh the most wonderful story of a horse and a girl. The horse's name was Faxaphone aka Roody. They had a once in a lifetime love! He is missed!
Emryss
Dec. 10, 2008, 12:30 AM
My own Antique Mare, Peacock's Shadow, passed this spring of old age. West Nile couldn't get her two years ago, but thirty years on this earth has caught up with her.
Rest sweetly, my friend.
Peacock's Shadow
Tennessee Walking Horse
1978-2008
MEP
Dec. 10, 2008, 01:13 AM
Max Sterling 4-23-96 to 3-26-08. Dear Boy, Maximus, Maximoo, Mr. Moo. Joined my sweet Sydney who was taken 7-14-00. Both lost to colic.
Also Daisy, lovely grey tabby manx, gone, presumably to Coyotes.
RIP All. :cry:
LockeMeadows
Dec. 10, 2008, 04:58 AM
Zultan, your body gave out before your heart did. Cheers ol' man! :sadsmile:
SacreBleu
Dec. 10, 2008, 05:01 AM
RIP Eight Belles
jeano
Dec. 10, 2008, 08:32 AM
Our Angel Dog, Laurel, six years old, collie mix, August 16. She went into liver failure and we euthanized her only 5 days after diagnosis. The last night of her life she refused to sleep in her usual bed beside mine--instead she kept watch for Death in the threshold of our bedroom. We buried her at the top of a hill because she always took the high ground in life to watch and guard over us, her human flock. Two weeks later we buried seven week old colliemix littermates Ethel and Lucy, who succumbed to parvo. We put the pups next to Laurel--she always loved puppies, and we'd thought she'd have plenty of time to train her replacements.
Glad to report our next set of pups, border collie mutts, are hale, hardy, and carrying on the herd dog legacy for us. Laurel, Lucy, and Ethel all loved horses dearly and knew how to behave around them, and Veazey and Liberty are shaping up to be great farm dogs.
Lori T
Dec. 10, 2008, 08:38 AM
Pilgrim. Also known by his previous owner as Macnas. JC name Amarillo Albert.
We lost him August 30, age 20..too young. He started having seizures the year before after recovering from Lyme disease. Recovered from the seizures to be Imp's rehab buddy after her surgery. Unfortunately, TS Fay was his downfall, 8 days of being stall bound were too much for him and he quickly deteriorated.
He was an eventing schoolmaster for my youngest daughter Amanda. He was a gentleman and the barn clown!
We miss you Pilgrim.
ybiaw
Dec. 10, 2008, 09:09 AM
A woman at my barn lost her young mare, Artemis, to a stomach rupture early this fall. Adding to the loss was the fact that she was about 6 months along with a Roc baby. She was a good girl, and had so much to show us...
And I have to just take a second to remember my former trainer who passed on November 9. She was like a 2nd mother to me, and I think about her every day and will miss her terribly for the rest of my life. I came to her farm after 10 years at my previous one, and she taught me how to LOVE riding...and I know that she is up there with pockets full of peppermints for all the great ones that have been lost throughout 2008. :sadsmile:
Iron Horse Farm
Dec. 10, 2008, 09:49 AM
Kid Gloves (Holly)
Feb 15, 1992- January 18, 2008
CCI*** TB/HANV Mare
Holly was the most amazing horse I have ever ridden. The only horse that I will ever feel confortable and brave galloping up to the Giant's Table on the Red Hills CIC-W*** course!
She was me in a horse. I don't go a day without thinking about her and crying a bit.
Here are some of the pics of my most AMAZING girl who I am sure is bossing Teddy around b/c she can.
http://s27.photobucket.com/albums/c163/tx3dayeventer/HOLLY/
I don't know what took this lovely girl from you, but you certainly have some of the most beautiful photos that I have ever seen to remember her by. What a mare!
LarissaL
Dec. 10, 2008, 10:03 AM
I'm so sorry to hear of Pilgrim's passing. I knew him in MD, years and years ago. What a gentleman he was. He's stuck in my mind to this day. He took great care of his owner and she was kind enough to lend him to a few of us here and there to feel what "dressage" was like (we were a little misguided, it was far from true dressage, but he was a saint! :lol:). I'm glad to hear he was loved so in his final years.
Pilgrim. Also known by his previous owner as Macnas. JC name Amarillo Albert.
We lost him August 30, age 20..too young. He started having seizures the year before after recovering from Lyme disease. Recovered from the seizures to be Imp's rehab buddy after her surgery. Unfortunately, TS Fay was his downfall, 8 days of being stall bound were too much for him and he quickly deteriorated.
He was an eventing schoolmaster for my youngest daughter Amanda. He was a gentleman and the barn clown!
We miss you Pilgrim.
Reds-n-Greys
Dec. 10, 2008, 10:10 AM
Johnny. He wasn't mine. I had only met him a couple times, but he was the sweetest little chestnut who was embarking on a new career. He tried his best and could have been great at it, but human decisions robbed him of the opportunity. Godspeed, Johnny :cry:
up-at-5
Dec. 10, 2008, 11:22 AM
We lost our beloved two year old TB, Lucy, on March 11. She died on her second birthday, having had to be euthanized after a tragic pasture accident resulting in broken bones.
My daughter has a lovely portrait of Lucy tattooed on her shoulder, and I have Lucy's name tattooed on the inside of my left wrist, where I can see it and remember her every day.
Kim
Dec. 10, 2008, 12:06 PM
Thanks so much to all for sharing. It brings me comfort to know I am not the only one who lost a special friend this year. :(
It also makes me realize, once again, how fortunate I was to have 23 years with my special girl.
Godspeed to all of our special friends who passed this year.
Donnalynn
Dec. 10, 2008, 12:22 PM
2008 saw the last days on earth for Alejandro, too. Appendix extraordinaire. Only drawback to that horse was that if you were in the irons in the hunter pen, you had to be up to the task because you were darn sure going to get noticed. Oh, and cows. He haaaated cows while he was here, so I sure hope they aren't bugging him up there.
AppJumpr08
Dec. 10, 2008, 12:47 PM
I sent four over the bridge this year.
Digging Roses, a Massbred who came to me after his owner crossed the bridge unexpectedly. He started to go downhill from the first day he set foot in my barn, and I had to make the decision to let him go. To this day I am convinced that he lost his will to live when he lost his beloved owner.
Song Hunter, a lovely little mare who lost a battle with colic with her colt by her side. Tanner lives on, and looks more like his mother every day.
Court Apparition, a 3 year old filly who had been used up by those who trained her at the track. Perfectly bred, and beautifully built with a real love for cuddles and kisses. Her knees were the only part of her that wern't strong enough to survive anything.
Gato del Sur, my grand old stallion who came to me this summer. He taught me that not all stallions have mares on the brain 24/7, and delighted in visiting with every kid that came into the barn. I will remember his kindness and dignity for a long time, and am comforted by the fact that I have several of his babies living on the farm now, and I can see his face in them every day.
RIP Dear ones, and thank you all for teaching me just a little bit more about life.
Equilibrium
Dec. 10, 2008, 01:06 PM
April 10, 2008 - April 21, 2008
Too young and still blame myself for her death as I am the one who put her in a field with with another mare and foal.
At any rate it was too young to go, but she is in good company until we see her again.
Terri
summerhorse
Dec. 10, 2008, 01:13 PM
Kristin Ann our sweet rescue mare, daughter of Secretariat and Mod Princess, our help came too late but she filled our lives while she was here.
1985-2008
MardiGrasTimeStable
Dec. 10, 2008, 01:35 PM
We sent 3 across the Bridge this year....
Praying Dancer (and unborn foal) (1984 - 2008)- you old coot, you were spoiled and loved but time had taken its toll and the decision was made to finally let you go. How sad we were to discover that while we were fighting to save you that you were also carrying a very unexpected foal.
Cadillac Red (1976 - 2008)- Old Miss Red as the kids called you. A SAINT of a mare who was just ornery enough to make them all work hard to ride, but yet safe enough I could turn the smallest beginner loose to ride on her without fear of falling off. You touched the hearts of all who met you, with your sway back you quickly won hearts with that big kind eye who gently asked to be pet but was never pushy. You introduced many kids your finals years to the joys of riding. I wish we could have had you from an ealier time but feel grateful for the 8 years we did have with you.
Shorty (1970s/80s - 2008) - nobody knew how old you were old man, just that when you started to go downhill you went down much too fast. We had our ups and downs the year you were with us. You brought much joy to the little girl who called you her "perfect pony". Even when you soon became unridable you would follow her around, stand to be groomed and braided with little girl braids, and eat treats from her hands. You never offered to bite instead nuzzling her face with kisses back to her.
kari
Dec. 10, 2008, 02:41 PM
I lost my beloved Woody this year, on SuperBowl Sunday at the ripe old age of 33.
He told me it was time, and I let him go. He was the love of my life, my soulmate, my teacher, my knight in shining armor. God, I loved that horse, and not a day goes by that I don't miss him. He was a 16.3 bay Hanoverian with black points, and he looked at me and melted my heart. I have never to this day met such a handsome, dignified, regal horse. He was the horse of a lifetime. I miss my guy every day. His nameplate is still on his stall, I just can't bear to take it down. Here is a picture of my man. http://i219.photobucket.com/albums/cc249/karitee107/woodytish-1.jpg
That's him with my daughter. He taught her everything he could and then some. She is quite the accomplished rider, thanks to him. I can't take any credit, it all belongs to Woody.
http://i219.photobucket.com/albums/cc249/karitee107/woody.jpg.jpg
And this is one of my favorite pictures of him. After he was retired, I would bring him to the lake, and he would splash and roll and swim in the water, and then dig and roll in the sand. It was his favorite thing to do (other than be a teacher) and I loved watching him enjoy his life.
I still miss you my Woodman.... :(
Vandy
Dec. 10, 2008, 03:03 PM
Special Dark (1990-2008), euthanized due to heart failure, the ultimate lesson horse, a quirky old OTTB, who would babysit any beginner around a crossrail couse yet buck off any professional who dared to ask too agressively for a lead change. Although the heart in your physical body may have failed, the heart you gave your riders will always be remembered.
Mama, the best barn cat ever, we all still miss you and your daily gifts of dead rodents.
LouLove
Dec. 10, 2008, 03:04 PM
Patricia Lou
1992 Thoroughbred Mare
Sire: Briartic
Dam: Stage Coach Lady
May 1992 - November 30, 2008.
I have cried and written my thoughts. I secretly whisper to you and smell your tail and forelock clipping. You taught me more than I thought I could learn about patience, respect, love and admiration.
I still groom you everyday, in my mind, so that I don't forget your shiny coat and beautiful legs.
You were one in a million Lou. I miss you so much.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=79316&l=d8793&id=579954368
Your Mom xo
yellow-horse
Dec. 10, 2008, 03:09 PM
I also have to mention Gordan Smith, a horseman and a gentleman. My great memory of him was the day I went out with the hunt on the most unsuitable horse and he gave me words of encouragement and added, "isn't this great fun".
spookhorse
Dec. 10, 2008, 04:42 PM
Hugs to everyone who has lost their beloved friends...
I must also take a moment to tribute a very special mare who I did not own, but who touched me for the years I knew her.
RIP Cometti Slew (http://s112.photobucket.com/albums/n174/spookhorse01/Misc%20Real%20Horses/?action=view¤t=Photo0009.jpg), you were a tough old gal with a good heart. A daughter of Slew O'Gold, you were the class act of the farm even with a huge bum leg souvenier from your racing days.
I remember when you could still canter just a couple of years ago! You made beautiful babies, and you had to be let go before the last one (a gorgeous colt) could make it out. We had hopes that you could hold on until he was born, but fate had other plans for you both.:cry:
To add insult to injury, Cometti's stunning and talented 3 year old filly, Adoradora (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHtBy5_6qv4), was put down after two colic surgeries :( RIP lovely filly, I always loved your big floppy ears and sweet nature...
IronwoodFarm
Dec. 10, 2008, 06:48 PM
Serina crossed on 10/28/2008. She was nearly 29 1/2 years old. She was perfectly healthy until the very end. The weekend before, she was let out to graze at liberty and she went over to flirt with the stallion. She also toted a few beginner kids around that afternoon. The vet examined her for a float the next day and she was fine. The next morning she was dead in the field; it looked like she had a stroke or heart attack.
Serina was a Fjord mare and a real representative of the breed. When she was 28, I took her to her breed evaluation. Not only did she get a good score in conformation, she beat every horse in every one of her performance tests for riding and driving. This past summer I took her back to do her draft test. Once again, she beat everyone. She ended up with a number of high honors in her breed all earned in the last 18 months of her life.
And she was one of those perfect horses. She would carry anyone and tolerate the most rank beginner. But put someone with skills and this mare would perform. She had the softest eye and a prodigious ability to beg for treats.
My sweet mare is buried on the farm in the field where she died. Luckily I have her daughter and grand daughter on the farm. However, as Mr. IF says, we are going to miss Serina for the rest of our lives. She's one we'll never forget.
Bogie
Dec. 10, 2008, 08:19 PM
Sadly, I lost my Trakehner, Kronefurst, in October. He was far too young.
I still get too sad to write about it, but I did post a memorial to him on my blog:
http://equineink.wordpress.com/2008/10/22/my-handsome-and-beloved-kronefurst-crossed-the-rainbow-bridge/
SunnysideJate
Dec. 10, 2008, 09:06 PM
We lost our beloved Rocket 25 +/- yr old dun AQHA gelding on 8/6/2008 to a long battle with IBD. He was opinionated, ornery, and underneath the tough exterior was a sweet, intelligent, sensitive soul. I never expected to fall in love with him but I did and was lucky to have him own me for 5 yrs after my sister had to give him up. He crossed the rainbow bridge with his best friend Danny by his side and his family. He was cremated and is resting in my garden. He is terribly missed by his loved ones.
Beverley
Dec. 10, 2008, 09:40 PM
Well, I'll be putting a special one down soon. But, they are all special, aren't they? So, for all our departed buddies, famous, infamous, and mostly in between, I offer up the following- author unknown, I read it in the 2000 Utah Horse Source.
Where to Bury a Horse
If you bury him in this spot, the secret of which you must already have,
He will come to you when you call- come to you over the far, dim pastures of death, and though you ride other, living horses through life, they shall not shy at him, nor resent his coming, for his is yours and he belongs there.
People may scoff at you, who see no lightest blade of grass bent by his footfall, who hear no nicker pitched too fine for insensitive ears. People who may never really love a horse. Smile at them then, for you shall know some thing that is hidden from them, and which is well worth knowing.
The one place to bury a horse is in the heart of his master.
LavenderFarm
Dec. 10, 2008, 09:49 PM
Theta Chi
3/22/79 - 2/3/08
Zografos x Traffic Snarl (Jet Traffic)
You were a special girl and I miss you.
Thanks to the OP for the thread so we may remember those who are gone.
Tears ...
username
Dec. 11, 2008, 05:03 AM
my dear oldest boy slipped away from us October 24 with all of his usual grace and dignity, gently and calmly as he always was, and he now resides in his favorite place in all the world under his apple tree. sadly he was followed three weeks later by his best friend who apparently did not want to be left behind. we will miss you guys!
hansiska
Dec. 11, 2008, 05:40 AM
Lucy, my beloved Hanoverian broodmare, age 23. She had 12 foals, 2 for me, and loved her job. I bought her open at age 19 and she spent that first summer standing over my pit pull whenever the dog took a nap in the pasture. I miss you, Lucy.
lawndart
Dec. 11, 2008, 06:10 AM
Well, I'll be putting a special one down soon. But, they are all special, aren't they? So, for all our departed buddies, famous, infamous, and mostly in between, I offer up the following- author unknown, I read it in the 2000 Utah Horse Source.
Where to Bury a Horse
If you bury him in this spot, the secret of which you must already have,
He will come to you when you call- come to you over the far, dim pastures of death, and though you ride other, living horses through life, they shall not shy at him, nor resent his coming, for his is yours and he belongs there.
People may scoff at you, who see no lightest blade of grass bent by his footfall, who hear no nicker pitched too fine for insensitive ears. People who may never really love a horse. Smile at them then, for you shall know some thing that is hidden from them, and which is well worth knowing.
The one place to bury a horse is in the heart of his master.
So many good ones gone this year. I lost two retirees, and while I didn't own them, I loved them very much. I miss them both, everyday.
Captain Crunch~Appendix Gelding who we dubbed "The Professor" because of his willingness to teach people, horses, dogs, cats, whatever, the right way to do things. The horse that everyone should have to start with. He was tactful in his teaching, patient and kind. He also had a career in the Jumpers of course, but that did not matter to me as much as his willingness to please. I kissed his nose multiple times a day. If I didn't, he wanted to know why, LOL! Much loved by all who knew him.
Lilly~TB mare who was a very charismatic mare. Not only beautiful, but well behaved as well as dignified. She fought many an illness with stoic patience, and I really, really thought she would beat her last one too, despite tremendous odds against her. She had tremendous heart and will. I will miss beautiful Ms. Lilly so much, she was the focal point of my lower barn. She was greatly loved by Crunch, so they are now buried side by side. Lilly also had many admirers, and of course was well-loved by her owner.
They take a piece of my heart with them.
didgery
Dec. 11, 2008, 03:42 PM
My mom's lovely TB mare, Isis, died this June at the age of . . . I want to say 28. She was a grand old girl, full of class and fire. She had lost some weight over the previous winter despite my mom's best efforts to feed, blanket and keep her in good condition. She gained it all back in the spring. My mom was contemplating the difficult question of whether to put her down before another rough winter, but the choice was taken from her. Isis slipped and fell in the grass on a beautiful morning, in perfect flesh and in a fit of exuberant galloping, and shattered a hind leg above the hock. She never arose and was euthanized while resting, in apparent peace, at the scene of the accident. My mom still has the mare's lovely 10 year old daughter, and a 12 year old gelding son is delighting his amateur dressage rider owner, according to a recent update. The legacy lives on.
WendellsGirl
Dec. 11, 2008, 04:39 PM
Lost a wonderful kind soul, Lincoln, a rescued buggy horse that was too far gone to help from Day 1.
http://i258.photobucket.com/albums/hh265/lillyhalv/LincolnFaceAgain7-08.jpg
Also lost a great little Shetland, Eureka.
http://i258.photobucket.com/albums/hh265/lillyhalv/GraceReka.jpg
http://i258.photobucket.com/albums/hh265/lillyhalv/GraceRekaC-mas06.jpg
Finally, we lost our little barn buddy goat, Marge. She was older than the hills and died very peacefully in a way totally fitting of her - head on a large pile of her favorite orchard grass hay.
Warm wishes to everyone else who had to say 'goodbye' to friends this year.
SimplyRed
Dec. 11, 2008, 04:59 PM
Aw, I looked at Lincoln and all I saw was his bright curious expression, then slowly my eyes wandered over his abused body and I started tearing up. It's never right for a horse to be in that condition! Atleast he can rest in peace knowing you tried your best.
The lesson horse I started out on passed away this year.
His name was Poco, he was about 28 nobody knew for certain, I rode him when he was 20 years old. Poco was the sweetest kindest horse with the best personality. He tried his best no matter what through arthritis and other illnesses. He could also be the orneriest old man you have ever met. He was the first horse I ever rode, the first horse I ever experienced the greatness of flying over jumps on, though soon afterwards he was retired from jumping as his joints couldn't take it any longer. He spent his last couple of years in a beautiful retirement home eating all the green grass he could ever want. He passed away peacefully during the night of "old age" as we were told. I can't help but wish someone was with him, atleast we know he didn't suffer. Rip Poco, we miss you.
We also lost our Boston Terrier, Pudge, my beloved friend who crawled to my bed the night before he died. He got so sick that we sat him on a towel in my parents room for the night, instead of his cage as usual. When I awoke the next morning he was laying next to my bed, despite the fact that he hadn't been able to walk the previous two days. He passed away about noon that day and was buried in the sunshine of my papaw's land, his favorite place to be. I miss you buddy boy.
DiscoMom
Dec. 11, 2008, 07:05 PM
Well, this has definitely been a hard year (looking forward to 2009)!
I lost my beautiful boy, Disco (Waterdance), on April 1 of this year. He was far too young (not quite 8). I remember a year ago this past Sunday cantering for the first (and it turns out the last) time on him. It was pure magic!!! If I knew that was going to be my last ride on him, I would have enjoyed it a little longer. I miss his curiosity of new things and the way he would just nuzzle and smell me whenever I wore my down vests. He could turn a bad day into a good one. I still miss him and think about him every day!
My mom lost her mare, Charade, on February 12 of this year. Her baby, Eclipse, was weaned early for his safety and although she put up a fight to get better, she just couldn't overcome her ailment. She was 20 and definitely the "grand mare" of the farm. Charade had two beautiful babies: Styles and Eclipse. Charade, you boys are doing wonderfully. Mom misses you every day!!!
My mom's lesson horse, Blackie (A Look at Broadway), was lost to colic October 3 of this year at the age of 24. He was such a good boy - took care of his riders whether they were young or old (or anywhere in between), but knew when they were ready for a "test" (with a little "crow hop" or stubbornness). He could instill confidence in his riders that had been lost due to falls, injury, etc. He even helped a blind woman learn to ride and be "independent" - he really was amazing and is missed by all.
coloredhorse
Dec. 11, 2008, 07:13 PM
My dear friend and sister-in-heart Tory Relic. We first met here. :sadsmile: Gallop on, TR. May we meet again in the Summerland ... on horseback, of course.
My grandmother, who was non-horsey in the extreme, but must have had the horsey genes in there somewhere, as she managed to produce a daughter with the bug (my aunt) and a grandaughter, as well. She always tried really hard to "get" the horse thing.
My great-uncle, who I am sure was just waiting for his sister to lead the way.
And stoic Rudy, the most beautiful Belgian Tervuren. Just as he was beginning to appreciate life as a farm dog, he was diagnosed with cancer. He loved to run; I like to imagine him racing alongside as Tory Relic gallops one of her beloved TBs.
Vale, all. You are missed.
pony4me
Dec. 11, 2008, 09:07 PM
We lost Bambi in March of this year. She was a Christmas pony for my son in 1991. She was old then, but had the patience of a saint. What a girl!
BasqueMom
Dec. 12, 2008, 09:12 AM
Hope I didn't miss it, but doesn't War Admirals HRH Avery need to be added to this list?
He, too, was another one of the greats!
War Admiral
Dec. 12, 2008, 09:17 AM
Hope I didn't miss it, but doesn't War Admirals HRH Avery need to be added to this list?
He, too, was another one of the greats!
Thank you. I thought about adding him but I rather thought enough had already been said.
While I'm here, though, I'd like to add WC CH Caramac (http://thumb5.webshots.net/t/50/750/5/86/41/2037586410094062045IQqxvi_th.jpg), a great American Saddlebred stallion who died the same weekend HRH Avery did. God must be putting together quite a show string this year! :sadsmile:
DLee
Dec. 12, 2008, 10:55 AM
April 10, 2008 - April 21, 2008
Too young and still blame myself for her death as I am the one who put her in a field with with another mare and foal.
At any rate it was too young to go, but she is in good company until we see her again.
Terri
I have never forgotten your post about that... sending hugs to you and your husband. It was just heartbreaking. :(
magnum
Dec. 14, 2008, 01:04 PM
To my dearest Ahzzie Man -- always sweet and loving ... yet, too, the bratty little brother :) ..... You spoke quietly and constantly without words, gifting me with a greater understanding of ALL horses.
Thank you for continuing to visit me .... in that dreamy state somewhere between awake and asleep. At least then, I can still snuggle in to your soft neck.
Magnum
FindersKeepers
Dec. 14, 2008, 07:39 PM
She wasn't a great, but is missed nonetheless.
Trixie passed away in an accident January 6, 2008.
You were loved, and I thank you for teaching me some of the most important equine lessons I have ever learned. It gives me peace to know you are now free from all the pain in your life, just wish we could have met that place a different way.
Chef Jade
Dec. 14, 2008, 08:19 PM
My very first horse, Donald passed away this fall. He was 27. I had him for 22 years. He was stubborn, ornery, and smarter than most people I knew. I could tell funny stories about him forever. He passed away with his head in my trainer/friend's lap (she cared for him and trained him for 21 of those 22 years!). :sadsmile:
chai
Dec. 14, 2008, 08:51 PM
So many wonderful stories here. We've all been blessed to know so many great horses. I'll add Delilah to the list. Our beautiful Highland pony who succumbed to Metabolic Disease and Laminitis. She was My Little Pony come to life: sweet, beautiful and loved by everyone who met her. Known also as pone-pone, love-pony and ponito. She was one in a million. Godspeed, my dear girl.
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y97/eastmeadowfarm/delilah.png
pintopiaffe
Dec. 14, 2008, 08:57 PM
Forgive me, but I'm compelled to add a small, but well loved 'special' farm dog who joined the herd over the bridge this year. He adored the horses, most especially foals. (this photo is him looking in on a newborn...http://tinyurl.com/6eeewv
Augustine Donegan had the canine version of MS... He reminded me very much of some of the special students I work with. He had no muscle tone at all, though for most other intents and purposes he was close to 'normal.' Except, there was NEVER a sad day in Gus' world, and he was with me for almost five years to remind me of that.
I still look for him, and miss him. More than I ever imagined, since from the beginning I knew his life would not be as long as the others. He had no need to learn about love and life, he *was* love and life, in it's purest form.
If you had told me he would live five long, full, grand years, I would have told you you were insane. I admit with guilt life is a little easier without him--carrying him up stairs when needed... incontinent much of the time... but it is also a bit... less... without him.
The greatest gift he gave me was an incredibly sudden and swift end. He died so very peacefully in my arms, rolling on his back for a belly rub mere moments before slipping away... It sounds morbid, but I treasure that. He died in my bed, curled up next to me, in my arms, KNOWING love. What more can one ask? :cry:
Old Equine Lady
Dec. 14, 2008, 10:10 PM
Farewell dear Atlas, you were my horse world. You carried me up and downs hills, though the creeks and around in the ring. I miss your smell, I miss you whinny. You had such a funny whinny for such a big horse, more like a donkey.
When you passed at a ripe old age, one we will never know, I was just glad I was there to hold your head and kiss you goodbye, love you Atlas.
Jealoushe
Dec. 15, 2008, 09:17 AM
My best friend Zoe...a really amazing dog
And to all the brave eventers who died trying to bring their riders home safely.
RIP everyone, you are missed.
Mtn trails
Dec. 15, 2008, 09:43 AM
I'm posting this for a friend of mine. I just found out that she had her horse Tommy, an appy of unknown breeding, put down at the ripe old age of 40. I really loved that horse, he was funny, smart, and had the cutest jump. Didn't jump so much as "sproinged". RIP Tommy, you will be missed.
LD1129
Dec. 15, 2008, 10:10 AM
End of May I lost my guy due to severe navicular. He was only nine but I gave him the best 3 years of his life, and mine....
Rest in Peace.........See you at the rainbow bridge someday!
Forbidden Love aka Romeo
1999-2008
First horse, horse of a lifetime, I will never forget you :sadsmile::sadsmile:
jeca
Dec. 15, 2008, 11:43 AM
We lost our beloved pony Toby this summer to a horrific broken leg in the paddock, a truly terrible tragedy. He taught both my girls to ride, my husband to drive, and everyone how to build fencing that would keep him where he was supposed to be. We miss him every single day. He was the best cheeky pony, and has left a huge hole in our family.
Toby (aka The Flying Sausage)
1986-2008
BeastieSlave
Dec. 15, 2008, 12:21 PM
She wasn't mine, but I cared for her in her retirement and loved her. The good pony Vaughn's Princess was put down earlier this fall. She was GHJA large pony champ one year for her owner and the champion of many lesson kids' hearts after that.
Santpoort
Dec. 15, 2008, 12:50 PM
I am compelled to add Doc Nissin to this list. A great horseman and veterinarian so beloved on the CA show circuit. His family and friends continue to miss him, especially this Holiday season, and have fond memories of last Holiday season he spent with them. His family also continues his wonderful work with horses in many different ways. I am forever grateful to have known him and to continue knowing and working with his family.
Debbie
equineartworks
Dec. 15, 2008, 01:00 PM
My Ralphy, while not a horse in the true sense was the size of a mini and there wasn't a child he met that didn't say "Can I ride Ralph?"
He was huge, beautiful and the most gentle soul. I miss him desperately.
We have a Christmas story because of Ralph. We know Santa is real because Ralph saw him. Yes Ralphy saw Santa! About 4 years ago Ralphy refused to come upstairs on Christmas Eve. Now this is a dog that slept with us EVERY night. But no, not that night. When we woke up in the morning he was besides himself with excitement! He was rummaging through presents and just beyond wiggly and happy. He them proceeded to open EVERY present. Something he had never done before. After all was said and done he curled up in the chair (not a small feat for a 150+ pound dog!) resting his head on the arm and spent the rest of the day staring at the tree. He stayed downstairs every Christmas Eve after that.
Yes, There IS a Santa and I know Ralphy saw him.
There is photo of him here (http://farmatnanticokecreek.com/?p=157)...bye dear friend. I miss you and love you.
oppsie2
Dec. 15, 2008, 02:37 PM
To add the loss of Trip Harting, who died of Liver Cancer on August 21, 2008.
toowoomba2
Dec. 15, 2008, 04:08 PM
In memory of my friends pets who passed this year:
>Matlock, 18, OTTB, a great friend to his owner for 14 years.
>Romeo, 20?, TB cross, a great trail buddy to his owner for 8 years.
>Summer, Tennessee Walker, great fuzzy old man who still thought he had it in him with the mares up to the last day:-)
>Sasha, 12, American Eskimo, cute little white furball my friend dressed up for the holidays.
Neighland
Dec. 15, 2008, 08:54 PM
Great thread!!!
Thank you to everyone who has shared the stories of all the much loved best friends and companions.
I must add my best teacher "Squire" aka Exuberant, he was my best friend and teacher for 20 years, my first horse, after coming off the most stubborn pony...to have been so fortunate to have such a dedicated teacher, friend, and always faithful snuggler....perhaps with the occasional nip for fun!!:lol::lol::lol: He instilled my love of the OTTB!!! He always was such a tough nut, after 8 years of racing, I know his legs weren't in the best of shape....hell you could look at them and see the year of wear and tear....I never did films on him and can count the days he was unsound on one hand in the 20 year I owned him. I actually would have given a nickel to see what was there........We started battling what was assumed to be EPM this time last year.....he put up a great fight for over 10 months (October 1, 2008) but finally his body gave in, while his heart didn't want to end.
Here are a couple of photos from last summer of my beloved boy!!
Giveitwellie
Dec. 15, 2008, 09:43 PM
Mookie
May 2000-May 2008
http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a208/VictoriaChloe76/marvinlook2.jpg
I'm sorry I couldn't save you. You were my whole world.
Miss you, had hoped for 20 more years of you stealing my granola bars. Best friend, confidence giver, roaming nose, drinker of gatorade and eater of publix deli iced cookies ;)
http://s12.photobucket.com/albums/a208/VictoriaChloe76/?action=view¤t=marvin3.jpg
JohnDeere
Dec. 15, 2008, 09:55 PM
Dobbin, you will be missed for a long time to come.
The pain is too fresh to allow much remembering, black hoss. Enjoy the grass and know that you were loved while you were here.
Kim
Dec. 16, 2008, 08:48 AM
Neighland, your boy was GORGEOUS! I am sure my Chutney is chasing him all around over the Bridge! ;-) She always liked the handsome boys!
Quinn
Dec. 16, 2008, 10:12 AM
This is Max. He was an OTTB by the name of "Obviously Not." I bought him as an 8 year old from the meat dealer and although he had a big left knee, he had an even bigger heart. His show name became "Mr. Nice Guy" and he went on to do very well. He showed Childrens Hunter, did a few events, did some pole bending because he could do a lead change with each stride and when Rosie was weaned from Meredith, he became Uncle Max the babysitter. He did that job very very well.
It was getting more and more difficult to have his feet done and his right knee blew as well. I made the decision to put him down in June knowing at 29 he couldn't do another cold SW Ontario winter. While I do miss him, I celebrate his life. He truly was one in a million.
http://s132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/Ballyduff/?action=view¤t=Maxpassportpic.jpg
Quinn
Dec. 16, 2008, 10:14 AM
This was Max in June just before he left us.
http://s132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/Ballyduff/?action=view¤t=Max-June20082.jpg
Quinn
Dec. 16, 2008, 10:43 AM
This is my beautiful Lily (mother to Quinn and Paris) who left us one week ago yesterday. Fabulous mother. This is with Paris in 2004
http://s132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/Ballyduff/?action=view¤t=Parisnursing.jpg
Quinn
Dec. 16, 2008, 10:46 AM
And with baby Quinn in 1999.
http://s132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/Ballyduff/?action=view¤t=QuinnLilly-1.jpg
Neighland
Dec. 16, 2008, 12:17 PM
Thanks Kim,
He was always a ladies man, and LOVED to prance and be "the man", so I'm sure he's driving everyone nuts up at the bridge!!
here are a couple more pics of the boy, one in his "glory days"! The other two are some of my favorite head shots...one when I first got him 20 years ago, and one just last fall!!
Neighland
Dec. 16, 2008, 12:18 PM
Quinn, my deepest condolences on such a recent loss!!! :(:(:(:sadsmile::sadsmile::sadsmile:
Quinn
Dec. 16, 2008, 12:35 PM
Thank you Neighland. She was a good good mare.
http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff
Bogie
Dec. 18, 2008, 09:47 AM
I found out just yesterday -- 7 weeks after he died -- what caused Kroni's death: a blood clot (vascular accident, to use the vet's terminology) near his poll.
I am glad to have the closure. I know now that there was nothing we could have done to save him.
smid2
Dec. 18, 2008, 12:13 PM
Roman Twist aka Binks June 8, 2008.
We think she was somewhere around 22 or 23 yrs of age when she left us. A smallish black TB mare, she had fire and kindness in her eyes. Always ready to go and willing to jump anything. We don't know much of her history, but the two years she was in our lives were amazing to just sit back and watch. I found her down in the pasture that afternoon and after a couple of hours of walking and fighting to help her, it became apparent there was something more going on then we could fix. Each mare came over one at a time and looked into the indoor arena just once, as if saying goodbye to their friend. We let her go peacefully out behind the barn, next to the pasture where her mares were grazing. It was a beautiful afternoon, hardly a cloud in the sky. She left us quietly, already looking over the bridge as she slipped away. Run free beautiful girl. You are still loved and missed. See you at the bridge.
Alexie
Dec. 18, 2008, 05:25 PM
Sandy, 1979 - 2008
Hope you're up there with your bestest ever girlfriend Bianca, galloping across sandy beaches and paddling in warm surf.
Still missing you (and Bianca) far too much, you'll always be in my heart.
Beverley
Dec. 19, 2008, 10:17 AM
Add Leo, registered name Buck Bar Man, to the list. It was time, late yesterday, and I hope I die as well as he did. Super foxhunter, could pack a kid in the field or anybody whipping in, won the only event I entered him in, did some 25 mile endurance rides, won state pleasure (English, and 3rd statewide in western) championships here in Utah as well as hunter u/s and o/f, competitive trail rides, did Pony Express, and other stuff to keep us entertained in the absence of hunting. Last hunted 5 years ago at age 22. Old enough to have been merely a great-grandson of THE Leo. And most of all, a sweetheart. RIP old man.
JMurray
Dec. 19, 2008, 02:18 PM
Saybrook's Legacy
1974 - 2008
He defined the honest horse.
Ibex
Dec. 19, 2008, 02:58 PM
Dutch Fox 1989 - 2008
Not mine, but this grand old mare taught me more than I could ever thank her for, and took me places I never thought I could go. :sadsmile:
http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v77/156/61/586826204/n586826204_85283_5811.jpg
matryoshka
Dec. 19, 2008, 03:36 PM
StayRite (Standardbred) and Sam (Belgian) from Equihab. Both were very old. Both had wonderful last years thanks to the dedicated foster homes who help us.
lcw579
Dec. 30, 2008, 08:40 PM
Resurrecting this thread to honor my friend's horse who passed today. Her boy was found dead in his stall this afternoon. He'd been ridden the day before and had been turned out in the morning and was fine. He was only about 15 so the news really came as a shock. He looked peaceful so it was quick, whatever took him. :sadsmile:
Steppin was a sweet horse and a barn favorite. He was the perfect first horse for his mother. A gentle boy but quite the character too. He'd do just about anything for a treat and was always proud when he learned a new trick.
He was the horse that you brought the small children over to pet and give treats to. Steppin could bring a smile to your face just by looking at him. He had a piece of all our hearts and will be missed by everyone.
092556
Dec. 30, 2008, 10:06 PM
I can't wait for this year to be history, I lost 3 ponies this year.
Buzzy (welsh x tb colt) was a few months shy of 3, he was misdiagnosed by the vet.
http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa170/hacooke/buzzy1.jpg
Bucky (welsh x arab colt) was hit by lightning, he was 18 months
http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa170/hacooke/BUCKEY1.jpg
Crystal (welsh x Anglo Tk.) died a week after foaling. Vets said the foal must of kick when being delivered and displaced her small intestines. This was the first foaling I have missed in years.
http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa170/hacooke/IMG_0037.jpg
On the bright side,I bred Buzzy to a mare the week before he got sick, it's a liver chestnut colt named Harry
http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa170/hacooke/HARRY1.jpg
And the orphan filly of Crystals is doing great.
http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa170/hacooke/IMG_0215.jpg
SimplyRed
Dec. 31, 2008, 01:56 AM
Just thought I'd add our two recent losses.
Gus, a 5 year old 16 hh chestnut quarter horse. He was being trained to be a reiner and was already kicking some of the more experienced boys butts. We all watched him develop from a leggy colt to a big handsome guy. He was ridden one morning and found dead in his stall a couple of hours later. Completely took everyone by surprise. The vet determined that he had a bad heart and had a heart attack in the cold whether. Poor Gus, he must be doing well over the rainbow bridge. He had already captured a couple of hearts in his short time, including Carolyn the girl that trained him the most. Godspeed I'm glad we could make your short life wonderful.
And Dolly, 32ish year old small paint lesson horse. We found her peacefully passed away during the night as if sleeping just last saturday. The lovely sweet mare was the owner of many young girls and boys hearts and taught many people how to ride. She was the sweetest most patient little mare ever and is dearly missed around the barn. I can't tell you the number of people who have came in asking where she is,as she was on the pasture right at the entrance to the barn and greeted everyone to come and go. Rest in peace dear one, and know you were cherished.
Rider in Training
Dec. 31, 2008, 07:45 AM
Benja was born in Argentina and raised as a polo pony. From his rough up-bringing he kept a stand-offish attitude but a very brave heart and would not hurt a living soul.
He came to North America and played polo for over 20 years- I didn't know him then, but I have been told that he was a player's favorite as he would always win the chucker.
I met him once he was retired and part-boarded him. We were hacking in the forest- he was the first horse that I really connected with and I promised him that I would make sure he was OK until the end. To make a long story short, after ups and downs I managed to take ownership to keep my promise.
I miss my Benja boy every day- he was such a gentleman and a sweet horse. In the end he knew that he was safe and had 100% trust in me, so when his time came he went very peacefully.
DeeThbd
Dec. 31, 2008, 08:45 AM
My dad, who I lost at the beginning of the fall of this year. He is the person who gave me my love for animals, bought me my first horse, and taught me what courage was.
I miss you, Daddy.
Warmest wishes to all the other COTHers who are missing those we have lost...we must rejoice in what they have given us and appreciate what we still have.
Dee
Gallop~on~Grant
Jan. 19, 2009, 05:31 PM
I miss you every day. I knew who I was when I was with you. You had my heart for 29 years and it was still not enough time. You went to sleep under the stars on July 4th and you looked so peaceful. Good night sweet Prince! Until we meet again....
3Dogs
Jan. 19, 2009, 05:49 PM
I didn't see this till today.
RIP to one of the great ones: Corlando, daddy of my sweet PJ - thanks to Talley Ruhle who gave this fine man a great home!
And much love to my Stanley, JR extraordinaire, age 17, featured in "Old Dogs are the Best Dogs" - RIP July 31, 2008.
Heart out to all of you who have lost dear friends!
horsenround
Apr. 28, 2009, 06:34 PM
I just found this thread too. It's never too late to pay your respects :sadsmile:
Cole was my very first horse that I ever bought with my own money and paid for all of his bills. I wasn't even looking for a horse and he just seemed to fall into my lap; it was fate. I bought him as a not-quite 2 year old and trained him myself. Just after he turned 4 he had a very severe and quick colic and died on the way to the clinic.
He was my baby, my partner and my best friend. I miss him and think about him every day. He was the best horse I ever had the pleasure to know. He was my gentle giant and I will always miss him. Rest in Peace, baby boy.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=34702529&l=f71005d0eb&id=38403792
nachohorse
Apr. 28, 2009, 08:48 PM
I lost the best horse I will ever own Admiral Sparks memorial day weekend '08. I never had a single bad ride on him the 18 years I had the pleasure of owning him. He was still giving my 2 yr old a run for his money the week before he left us.
equinelaundry
Apr. 28, 2009, 09:40 PM
I wanted to add to this thread. We'll never know his true age but late 20's at least. He crossed over on Jan. 6, 2008 and changed my life.
In memory & honor of a sweet little pony that brought this board together during Christmas time. Tiny Tim served man well, covered in open wounds from harnesses and blessed us all with the biggest eyes. I can still think of him and choke up. :sadsmile: It's taken 2 mini mules and a dog to fill the void of that one little pony. I only had him for 2.5 weeks but I do believe he changed a little part of so many of our worlds.
chai
Apr. 28, 2009, 10:27 PM
I am sorry for the losses everyone has experienced this past year. Every story is special. I'll add my own:
Delilah, aka 'the love pony,' 'pone-pone,' 'pudgeroo' very sadly missed by our entire family after years of trying to manage her insulin resistance/metabolic disease. She foundered and sunk last summer. Here she is on her last day on heavy duty pain meds, out with her boyfriend, eating grass and treats...everything she had missed while we tried to manage her metabolic disease before we said goodbye to our sweet girl.
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y97/eastmeadowfarm/DSCI0012.jpg
And Molly. My shadow, constant companion and farm protector with such a gentle soul. She found us when I went to a shelter in Maine to make a donation, returning the next day because I saw a sad, old hound that I thought I would take home. The shelter representatives told me they could not let that dog go to a home with small children, but they had another dog we might like. Molly came bounding out of their holding pen, smiling a big doggie smile and frolicing around my children like we had known her forever. It was love at first sight. http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y97/eastmeadowfarm/Copyofmollyandlola-1-1.jpg
I keep waiting for the touch of her nose on my hand when I am between turnouts because she would always appear beside me and find my hand, just to let me know she was there, keeping an eye on me. We lost her at the age of 15 to cancer this past winter. What a loss.
It hurts to let them go, but we are so very fortunate to have these animals in our lives, even if the time is too short.
ProzacPuppy
Apr. 29, 2009, 08:05 AM
Not a horse but my Standard Poodle, Chloe, who crossed the bridge July 10th at the age of 7.
We had come home from a week at the beach during which all the dogs were boarded. Didn't get to pick her up until 6 pm due to being groomed. By 7 pm it was obvious that she was bloating. Rushed her to the emergency vet, paid my $1500 for surgery and went home to await news. At quarter past midnight the vet called. Pre surgery x-rays showed 2 large masses in her lungs consistent with metatastic lung cancer. We made the decision to euthanize her rather than make her suffer through the surgery and recovery only to subject her to cancer treatments if she survived.
Making the trip back to the clinic to hold her one last time was one of the hardest trips I've made.
I've had to say goodbye to quite a few dogs but this one seems to have hit me the hardest. I still find it hard to believe she is gone. She was the dog I thought would be with us for many years and I miss her every day.
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